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APRIL CALENDAR Images of America. Author and local resident Bill Florio discusses his book. Sponsored by Valley Stream Historical Society, Valley Stream Community Center, Arthur J. Hendrickson Park, 123 Merrick Road, Valley Stream; 7:15 p.m. No fee, guests welcome. Info: 516-8257157 or 516-872-4159.
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Hunter College Alumni – Long Island Chapter. Annual luncheon in Roslyn. Join with your fellow alumni. Meet new friends as well as possibly old ones too. For inApril 11-12 formation, contact Helene: 516Manhasset Spring Festival. 481-0462 (E. Meadow) or Come join us for our annual Rhona: 516-599-2719 (LynManhasset Spring Festival. In brook). the Parks Department Lot, Manhasset Avenue, Manhasset. April 18-19 Info: 201-869-0406; www.show Dog Days: Early Spring tiques.com. Walk Weekend (Two
April 12 Senior Pops Orchestra. Come join us for an afternoon with the Senior Pops Orchestra of Long Island; 2 p.m. At the Brookside School 1260 Meadowbrook Road, Merrick. Info: 516-414-1831; www.seniorpops.org. Admission: Donation of $5.
Legged). Dog Days: Special Early Spring Weekend (Twolegged) Bring your leashed dog for an invigorating walk and healthy exercise in designated garden areas. At Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury. Meet fellow dog lovers in a beautiful environment. Dog must be leashed. Dog exhibitors and vendors 11a.m. to
4 p.m. Suzuki on the Island Concert by students free at 3 p.m. Admission: $10 General; $8 Seniors (over 62), $5 Children 7-17; 6 and under free. 516 333-0048 ext. 333; www.oldwestburygardens.org.
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West Hempstead Street Fair. Come join us for our anA Brush with Cocktails. To nual West Hempstead Street benefit the Society of St. VinFair. Nassau Boulevard, West cent de Paul. You don't have to Hempstead. Info: 201-869be an experienced painter to 0406; www.showtiques.com. participate. There will be wine, food, raffles and lots of laughter as well! Everyone gets to April 27 take home their painting. At 2nd Annual Friedberg JCC Molloy College Atrium, Suffolk Art Show for Individuals Center, in Farmingdale from 7 with Disabilities. Artists will to 9 p.m.; $65 per person be present at the opening to which includes all materials, answer questions about their wine and appetizers. For more projects; 4:30 to 5:30 p.m. At information: www.svdpli.org/ the Friedberg JCC, 15 Neil events/a-brush-with-cocktails Court, Oceanside. Info: Marcy Hallerman, 516-634-4173, or call 516-822-3132. mhallerman@friedbergjcc.org.
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Spring Family Fishing Clinic. Enjoy a day of fishing with the whole family! Event activities include fishing instruction, fish cleaning services, environmental exhibits, an inflatable slide (weather dependent), temporary tattoos, and the “Spring Fling” (children's casting contest). Loaner rods & free bait will be available to participants throughout the day. Belmont Lake State Park. Admission: $8 parking fee, free w/Empire Pass. Info: 631-4440283; www.nysparks.state.ny. us/parks.
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Senate Aging Committee Warns Seniors of Tax Fraud “Hotline” Calls With the tax filing deadline looming, Senate Special Committee on Aging Chairman Susan Collins and Ranking Member Claire McCaskill announced that the Committee’s fraud hotline is experiencing an increased number of reports of scam artists who call seniors pretending to be IRS officials. Through this scam, of which there are reported to be multiple variations, criminals generally demand imme(Editors Note: At least half of the mains April 15, barely two weeks diate payment and threaten people in the office at 50+ LifeStyles from when this April issue hits the retaliation, such as home forehave either themselves received calls, stands, we felt it important to reclosure and even arrest, if payor had relatives who received calls mind any and all of our readers, that ment is not made. threatening arrest, dispossession, etc. these scammers are out there and Chairman Collins and RankWhile the deadline for filing taxes re- working the phones. Beware!) ing Member McCaskill are warning seniors to beware of these calls and are encouraging seniors to continue to report specific instances to the Aging Committee’s toll-free Senior Fraud Hotline: 1-855303-9470. These reports enable the Committee to investigate and help put a stop to scams targeted to seniors. The IRS has released several tips to help taxpayers identify suspicious calls that may be
part of a scam. • The IRS will never call a taxpayer to demand immediate payment, nor will the agency call about taxes owed without first having mailed a bill. • The IRS will never demand that a taxpayer pay taxes without giving him or her the opportunity to question or appeal the amount claimed to be owed. • The IRS will never ask for a credit or debit card number over the phone. • The IRS will never threaten to bring in local police or other law enforcement groups to have a taxpayer arrested for not paying. • The IRS will never require a taxpayer to use a specific payment method for taxes, such as a prepaid debit card. In addition to calling the Aging Committee Fraud Hotline, seniors can report potential instances of scams or fraud to the Treasury Inspector General for Tax Administration (TIGTA) at 1-800-366-4484 or at: www.tigta.gov.
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Councilman Anthony Senft from the Town of Islip attended the Brentwood Chamber “Status of the Town” luncheon on Wednesday 2/25/2015. Along with him is Steve Flotteron and Councilwoman Trish Bergin Weichbrodt.
Assemblyman Andrew Raia (R,I,C-East Northport) recently joined the Art League of Long Island at a celebration of Dan Brown, a local artist who has dedicated his life to the arts. He retired in 1992 to study art at the Art League of Long Island.
Suffolk Legislator Lou D’Amaro (D-Huntington Station) has named Melville resident Jane Barbato as the District 17 Woman of Distinction for 2015. For more than 18 years, Ms. Barbato has been tirelessly committed to the Town of Huntington Animal Shelter. Pictured left to right: Legislator D’Amaro, Ms. Barbato and her husband Paul Barbato.
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Councilman Steve Flotteron, Councilman John Cochrane, Legislator Tom Cilmi, Senator Tom Croci, Councilwoman Trish Bergin Weichbrodt and Councilman Anthony Senft attended the East Islip St. Patrick's Day parade on Sunday, 3/1/2015.
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sands more veterans would gain routine access to government-paid healthcare in the private sector. His challenge is that the changes sought could drive up health care costs for the Department of Veterans AfThe non-profit organization Concerned fairs by billions of dollars annually. Go to militaryadvantage.military.com/ Veterans for America has sponsored a study entitled Fixing Veterans Health Care. 2015/03/isakson-vows-to-soften-40-mileThe report advocates radical changes in limit-on-va-choice-card/ for the full story. the medical system for veterans, including K9 Soldiers a choice to receive subsidized private care Matches Dogs with and conversion of the Veterans Health AdWounded Warriors ministration into a non-profit corporation The nonprofit organization K9 Soldiers, rather than a government agency. For more information, visit the Concerned Vet- Inc., trains service dogs and matches them erans for America website at cv4a.org/con- with wounded warriors. The organization cerned-veterans-america-releases-fixing-ve provides ADA (Americans With Disabilities terans-health-care-taskforce-report/ and Act) compliant dogs to critically injured, download the report at cv4a.org/veterans- returning warriors in need of a canine to help them with everyday challenges. For health-care-report/. more information and to donate, visit the K9 Soldiers, Inc. website at k9soldiers.org. ★★★★★★★★★★
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Sen. Johnny Isakson (R-GA), new chairman of the Senate Veterans Affairs Committee, promised to push for two critical changes to soften a restrictive 40-mile rule on user eligibility under the VA Choice Card program. If Isakson succeeds, thou-
Fairways for Warriors The nonprofit charity Fairways for Warriors in Florida provides golf equipment, instruction, and outings to wounded warriors and their family members. The organization provides golf and golf
instruction for wounded personnel, ranging from beginners to those with prior golf experience, who are adapting their skills to their new abilities. The organization helps combat wounded warriors, anyone who has ser ved in combat, to overcome the obstacles associated with their military service-related disabilities. For more information, visit the Fairways for Warriors website at fairwaysforwarriors.org.
Army Sgt. 1st Class David Cook, from Westchester, Ill., keeps his balance as he swings a six-iron during the "First Swing" Golf Seminar. The event was ponsored by Eastern Amputee Golf Association in conjunction with Disabled Sports USA. Photo by Petty Officer 2nd Class Molly Burgess, USN
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Recently, Gabriel Bristol, president/CEO of Intelicare Direct, a customer service solutions company, was talking to a friend about her struggle to find a new job. Despite her having relevant experience, at 62-years old she believed prospective employers don’t want to give her an interview, let alone a job, because of her age. As Bristol listened, he nodded in sympathy but also in agreement. Bristol believes leaders are afraid to offer these seasoned applicants positions because of stereotypes—fear they will be slow, cranky, out of touch or chronic complainers. Below is what Bristol recommends to anyone that is older trying to get into the workforce. Take time to reflect. When older Americans find themselves navigating the evolving tide of the new digital-centric workplace where the standard rules of engagement no longer apply, the first piece of advice is to take time to evaluate what it is you want in your next job. Why not take the time to think about what truly excites you or sparks your interest? Understand the role you bring. Think about how your life and professional experience will bring value to the job you are applying for and how it will help the business in the long run. The sheer volume of
the experiences you have can support businesses in many ways—identify them. Put aside your own biases. Focus less on others’ biases and put aside any prejudices they may be harboring. Just like younger bosses may have preconceived notions about older employees, older applicants may have preconceived notions and biases against younger bosses. Put aside your preconceived perceptions and plunge into the interview process with an open mind and an accepting attitude. Presentation matters. Freshen up your presentation. This applies to resumes as well as appearance. If you have not updated your resume in the last three or four years (or longer) chances are that it now contains outdated words and phrases that may not resonate with the 20-something or 30something that most likely is screening it for relevancy. Whether you are young, middle aged or older, your physical appearance matters. It is important to give visual cues through your grooming and wardrobe as well as your energy level, confidence and professionalism. Gabriel Bristol is widely recognized as one of today’s most talented call center presidents.
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Advice for Older Americans Looking for Employment
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Financial Checklist for Your 50s By Donald J. McCormick, CFP
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While 50 may be the new 40 in terms of lifestyle, vitality and longevity, it’s important to take a more earnest and pragmatic approach toward your long-term financial health than you may have in your 40s. Here are a few financial tips for people who are in their 50s. 1. Organize your financial priorities. At this point, saving aggressively for retirement should be at the top of your list. You likely still have other financial obligations, but it is critical that you don’t put retirement on the back burner. Try to find a balance between funding your family members’ needs and your personal savings. These decisions are often difficult, and may seem overwhelming, but having a written financial plan with
guidelines for you can help. 2. Kick your savings into high gear. If you’re already saving for retirement but have the ability to increase the amount you’re contributing to your 401(k) or IRA – do it! Know the maximum contribution you’re allowed each year, adjust what you’re saving accordingly and ensure you’re taking full advantage of your company’s matching program. The good news is, after age 50 you can make catch-up contributions to most retirement plans. 3. Calculate what you’ll need for retirement. Set aside some time to determine the expenses you’ll likely incur during retirement. Keep in mind that the financial impact of healthcare costs and longterm care can be sizable – and
that with the average lifespan increasing, you may need to rely on your retirement savings for 30 year or longer. Though they shouldn’t replace the advice of a professional advisor, online resources like a retirement savings calculator can provide a baseline to start. 4. Be realistic. Retirement may be a possibility for you within five or 10 years, or it could be more distant. Regardless, now is the time to evaluate what you will spend once you’ve retired, and to discuss your retirement plans with your family. If you have a spouse or significant other, set goals together and make sure your plans are aligned. If you find that your retirement expenses are largely out of reach, adjust your savings, or make some decisions about how you’ll prioritize your goals. 5. Anticipate bumps in the road. Your role as a parent and a child is never ending, but as your family grows and changes, so should the level of financial support you provide. Have candid conversations with family member you’re supporting financially and set realistic expectations. If your adult children or aging parents need help making healthy money decisions,
provide advice but resist opening your pocketbook if it will put your own financial security in jeopardy. Also, be prepared for changes that may impact your plans, such as an early retirement offer or unexpected illness. While these can be difficult to prepare for, thinking through a variety of scenarios and establishing contingency plans can help ensure you’re financially secure in any situation. There are many milestones you might encounter during your 50s, like becoming an empty-nester, a grandparent or dealing with the death of a parent – and all these things may have an impact on your finances. If you haven’t already started working with a financial advisor, consider doing so. A professional can help you navigate the complexities of estimating what you’ll need in the years to come, and help you organize, plan and save. Donald J. McCormick, CFP and a Private Wealth Advisor with Ameriprise Financial Ser vices, Inc. in Bohemia, NY.
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Volunteer Advocates for East End Seniors Needed
li.org. Family Service League, established in 1926, is a Long Island non-profit human service organization providing a safety net for people in need. Touching the lives of 50,000 people annually, addressing some of the most prevalent and pressing human needs facing Long Island communities, FSL delivers tangible help and crisis intervention across a spectrum of service areas including mental illness, drug and alcohol abuse, homelessness, job training, computer literacy, trauma counseling, atrisk youth, family and senior support services. In addition, FSL operates pre-school learning centers, universal pre-K programs and camp. In all, FSL operates over 50 programs at 20 locations throughout Suffolk County. For more information on programs or how you can help, visit www.fsl-li.org or call 631-998-0009.
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Hidin’ Harry Winners from March... Congratulations to the Find Hidin’ Harry winners from our March issue! Carmela Benedict of Holtsville will receive two tickets to the CM Performing Arts Center in Oakdale and Rosemarie Amato of Long Beach will get two tickets to Broadhollow Players in Elmont and West Islip. Once again, here’re the rules.
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We take all the responses received by the 15th of the month — both regular mail and e-mail — and pick two winners of a pair of theater tickets each. S en d y o u r en t r i e s t o editor@50plusny.com, or Hidin’ Harry, 146 So. Country Rd., Bellport, NY 11713. Be sure to INCLUDE YOUR MAILING ADDRESS!
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Eastern Suffolk County, New York – Family Service League (FSL) is looking for volunteers to make a difference in the lives of Long Island Seniors living in Eastern Suffolk County long term care homes. We are seeking volunteers to train as advocates for residents living in nursing homes and adult care homes located on the East End of Long Island. FSL offers initial training classes, ongoing supervision and continuing education for all volunteer candidates. Volunteer ombudspersons visit an assigned long term care home once a week to help seniors and their families understand and exercise their rights to quality care and better quality of life. To find out more about Ombuds volunteer opportunities please call Judy Wirkula, FSL Volunteer Liaison of the Ombudsman Program of Suffolk County 631-470-6756 or jwirkula@fsl-
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How to Pop the Cork on the Good Life 3 Simple Tips in 2015 for Improving Retirement Prospects
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Imagine a bright, golden vista filled with soothing, warm sunshine – perhaps it is California’s Highway 29. You’re driving this scenic route after crossing the Golden Gate Bridge on a Tuesday during working hours. That’s right, you’re going to Napa. Of course, this is precisely the kind of thing you’re getting used to doing on Tuesdays – not only because you’re becoming a wine connoisseur, but also because Tuesdays no longer belong to hours under the glare of fluorescent lights in front of your work computer. Aah, you’re retired. “That’s the dream, and as a native San Franciscan I know it well. I myself have traveled the byways of food and wine in the Bay Area. More Americans could be living their dream during retirement, wherever they go to play,” says Stephen F. Lovell, a nationally recognized retirement expert who emphasizes a comprehensive approach for well-being during one’s golden years. “Many baby boomers will retire in the next few years, and for many of them that dream has a nightmarish tinge — they’re worried they’ll run out of money.” Lovell, president of Lovell Wealth Legacy (www.lovellwealthlegacy.com), says 2015 can and should be the start of that good life. He offers three simple ways to bring your dream into reality. • Revise your budget at the year’s beginning. Ask yourself: How do I spend my money? Many of us believe we have a reasonable idea of where we put our money, but unless you account for your spending, you may miss out by not putting away enough for your happy retirement.
A household’s discretionary spending on nonessential goods and services like a second smart phone case or the premier movie channel is could top 30 percent. And that is often twice what you intended — but you don’t see it until you budget. “Budgeting puts you in the driver’s seat,” Lovell says. “From there you can control where you spend. You’re buying on purpose, and sometimes you get a nice surprise. That alluring vacation is now within reach.” • Be proactive about your financial interests before visiting a professional. Knowing which financial products may work best for your personal needs and how to protect your hardearned money from unnecessary taxation is not what most laypeople excel at. That job is best handled by working with a professional. But, as with your health, you reap the benefits of being aware of your needs and of initiating the process of looking after yourself. “Remember, 40 percent of retirees underestimate their life expectancy, according to an Ernst & Young study,” Lovell says, “so if you don’t want to run out of money, create your financial plan to cover this extended retirement period. Then, you odds for a comfortable retirement are improved.” • Consider alternatives to stocks, bonds and cash. Many new investment types have appeared to solve planning and retirement issues. Yet most investors limit their choices by relying exclusively on stocks, bonds and cash. From 2000 to 2013, the stock market, for all its ups and downs, wound up at roughly the same place, around 1527. At a two-to-three percent investment cost per year, many investors, for all their efforts, lost money! “I educate my clients by bringing to their attention the wide universe of investment types. Results are that more suitable solutions are uncovered and then applied for the client’s benefit.” Stephen F. Lovell is a thoroughly credentialed, nationally recognized
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Wow, I can’t believe I made the cover of 50 Plus Lifestyles. My wife Barbara captured me as I was enjoying our vacation in July of 2014. This was a special vacation. My wife and I were celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary. What was special about this vacation — let’s take a look! Let me start off my saying; I really do not like to travel. As a child in the 50’s and 60’s, our family vacation was something out of National Lampoon’s Vacation. My parents worked hard to take four kids on a yearly vacation to Lake Placid. The station wagon was packed to the gills, luggage was tied on the top of the wagon, the inside of the vehicle, packed by mom, was jammed with games, blankets and pillows, so we could doze off while dad drove eight hours to the Adirondacks. The experience was great, but I was always glad to come home. Like father like son, I did the same thing with my wife and two daughters. Truthfully, the trips were fun for the kids, but a lot of work for Barbara and me. Would I do it again? Of course! However the feeling of “I am glad this trip is over,” was once again a common theme. My daughters used to tease me by saying; “Hey, dad is smiling! We’re on our way home!” So, when my wife surprised me with a trip for our anniversary, I am sure you can picture my face as I was “overjoyed” to celebrate 30 years of being married to the greatest woman in the world on a seven-day adventure. Let me tell you how I ended up visiting one of the most beautiful parts of the United States and how my attitude towards vacations has changed. My wife knows that I was not ready to leave the country for a tour of Europe. I always said that before I would leave the USA, I wanted to tour the place where I live. I had visited the East and West Coasts, but have never visited the rest of our country. With that information, my wife ventured to Prime Time Travel in Bellport, NY. She visited with Frank Trotta, who was the pub-
lisher of the newspaper I am the editor for — Fire News. Frank introduced Barbara to the staff at Prime Time and together they came up with a trip through Globus Tours that changed my life. Before I knew it, I was being picked up by a limousine and boarding a plane to Arizona to tour Canyon Country. As an avid photographer, I had one mission on this trip and that was to photograph the heck out it. I started taking photographs the minute I landed in Arizona. Yes, I was the typical tourist who never took his camera off of his neck and when I did, I had a second camera in my pocket just in case something of interest popped into view. Our tour, and by the way, I recommend using a tour company when you want to simply sit back and enjoy the scenery, was a well guided excursion that took us from Scottsdale, Arizona, through the Grand Canyon, Lake Powell, Zion National Park, ending in Las Vegas — a Canyon Country Adventure. Throughout our 1100 mile adventure, our Globus Tour Director, Sven, constantly pointed out the highlights of our trip. Knowing I was there to take photographs, he pointed out areas and side trips that he knew would fascinate me. Sven, and our bus driver, made sure this trip was special to everyone on the tour. For me, I fulfilled my dream of celebrating my anniversary with my wife Barbara while still finding the time to take almost 1000 photographs of this beautiful country of ours. Barbara’s cover photo definitely captured the moment that I was realized this was a great trip with great people from around the world. In the end, I am ready to for my next trip. Where will it be? I’ll leave that up to Barbara and the fine folks at Prime Time Travel. To reach Prime Time Travel call 631-286-7329 or visit PrimeTimeTravel.com.
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For Diabetics, Dangerous Foot Trauma Can Be Avoided with Proper Care
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For nearly 30 million Americans with diabetes, there is a debilitating and often preventable foot condit ion that is underdiagnosed and undertreated. A lack of awareness of Charcot foot (pronounced sharkoh) means that many patients undergo painful s u r ge r ie s , a nd e ve n amputations, to correct what can be a highly treatable condition. Charcot foot is the result of peripheral neuropathy, a condition that results in the loss of feeling in the lower extremities, including the feet. An estimated one third of all diabetic patients develop peripheral neuropathy. This lack of feeling can lead to increased blood flow along with nerve problems in the foot, which can result in development of Charcot foot. Without proper care, Charcot foot can lead to permanent deformity, disability and even result in amputation of the leg and foot. According to the American College of Foot and Ankle Surgeons (ACFAS), Charcot is highly treatable when caught early. Doctors and patients agree that early detection is the key. Unfortunately, the condition is often misdiagnosed because its symptoms can be attributed to other problems. Annita Shaw, a retired schoolteacher and diabetic, knows this all too well. Shaw visited the emergency room three times for foot pain over several years, before finding a foot and ankle surgeon who ultimately diagnosed her with Charcot Foot. “Several physicians suggested my foot pain was due to arthritis or that my shoes were too tight. No one x-rayed my feet. Finally I found a physician specializing in foot and ankle care, who determined that Charcot was the cause of my ongoing foot problems,” says Shaw. In the early stages of Charcot, bones of the foot become weak and may fracture. With continued walking the foot changes shape and, as the disorder progresses, joints collapse and the foot takes on an abnormal shape. Because they cannot feel pain, many peo-
ple do not realize they have Charcot foot until this late stage, when severe complications have occurred. “People think they don’t have a problem because they feel no pain, but that isn’t the case,” says Valerie L. Schade, DPM, FACFAS, FACFAOM, a foot and ankle surgeon in Tacoma, Wash. and a Fellow Member of ACFAS, who now treats Shaw. “Anyone at risk for neuropathy, including diabetics, alcoholics and some chemotherapy patients, should see a foot and ankle surgeon early and at least once every year, even if they are considered low risk.” ACFAS surgeons know that monitoring for changes in the foot is the single most important factor in prevention. Dr. Schade continues, “Anyone who notices a difference – discomfort, unexplained swelling or redness, or changes to the shape of the foot – should seek care right away.” As for Shaw, who was able to avoid amputation, she now spends much of her time advocating for greater awareness of Charcot foot, informing and educating at-risk patients and the general public. “If I can save even one person from the pain of surgery or amputation by raising awareness of Charcot foot, I’ll have done my job,” Shaw continues. “People spend so much time and money worrying about aging and maintaining beauty, when really they should spend time caring and worrying about their feet!” For more information on Charcot or other foot and ankle health information, visit the American College of Foot and Ankle Surgeons’ patient education website at FootHealthFacts.org.
Senators Introduce Resolution Calling for a Doubling of Research Funding for Alzheimers Debbie Stabenow (D-MI), and Mark Warner (DVA) are original cosponsors of the resolution. The resolution also calls on the Senate to double the amount of funding the U.S. spends on Alzheimer’s in fiscal year 2016 and develop a plan to meet the target of $2 billion, as recommended by medical science experts, over the next five years. According to the Alzheimer’s Association’s report, if the federal government were to invest this amount, it would recoup its investment within the first three years a treatment or means of prevention becomes available. Senator Collins said, “Alzheimer’s is a devastating disease that takes a tremendous personal and economic toll on both the individual and family and is now the third leading cause of death in the U.S. If we are to prevent Alzheimer’s from becoming the defining disease of the next generation, it is imperative that we dramatically increase our investment in Alzheimer’s research. Doing so will not just save lives, it will save money.” Alzheimer’s is one of the leading causes of death in our country, taking an emotional and financial toll on patients, their families and our health care system,” said Senator Klobuchar. “As cases of this devastating disease increase, we must do more. We must make the fight against Alzheimer’s a top priority by investing in the cutting-edge research that one day may lead to
a cure.” “I believe ‘honor they mother and father’ is not just a good commandment to live by, it is good public policy to govern by,” Senator Mikulski said. “Alzheimer’s is an equal opportunity scourge, affecting millions of families across America and putting a strain on our nation’s health system. I will continue to fight to put America’s biomedical innovation economy to work and bring an end to Alzheimer’s once and for all.” Senator Stabenow said, “There are millions of sons, daughters, and spouses who are supporting loved ones suffering from Alzheimer’s. By investing in research dollars and resources for patients and caregivers, this year can be the year we make a real breakthrough in the fight against this terrible disease.” “Supporting Alzheimer’s research is personal for me,” said Senator Warner. “I lost my mother to Alzheimer’s and I know firsthand the devastating impact this disease has on individuals and families. My mother’s legacy continues to motivate me every day to make finding a cure for Alzheimer’s a national priority.”
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For further information contact the Long Island Alzheimer’s Foundation (www.liaf.org) or the Long Island Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association (www.alz.org).
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This year, 5.2 million Americans will suffer from the devastating emotional and economic toll caused by Alzheimer’s disease. According to a recent report of the Alzheimer’s Association, unless the current trajectory changes, that number will increase to 13.5 million in 2050. In addition, caring for individuals with Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia will cost our nation $226 billion—with Medicare and Medicaid paying 68 percent of the cost—and unless an effective treatment is developed before 2050, the cost will soar to $1.1 trillion. Yet, our nation currently spends less than three tenths of one percent of the current cost—less than $600 million—on research. Citing the tremendous personal and economic toll the disease takes on our nation, a bipartisan group of Senators led by Susan Collins (R-ME) and Amy Klobuchar (D-MN) have coauthored a Senate Resolution declaring that the goal of preventing and effectively treating Alzheimer’s by 2025 is an “urgent national priority”. Senators Barbara Mikulski (D-MD),
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Pedals for Progress To learn more about Pedals for Progress, visit their web site at www.p4p.org. For information about the May Returned Peace Corps Volunteers of 10th collection, call Bette Bass at 516- 606-1400 or Long Island at a previous bike collection. Kathy Williams-Ging at 631-549-4873. The program is also accepting cash donations from corporate and community sponsors.
Returned Peace Corps Volunteers of Long Island preparing donated bikes for shipment overseas.
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Sewing class in Rivas, Nicaragua with a donated sewing machine.
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Long Islanders can put their old bicycles to good use by donating them to Pedals for Progress, a program that rescues unwanted American bicycles (and sewing machines) and sends them to commuReturned Peace Corps Volunteers of Long Island at a previous bike collection. nities overseas. Pedals for Progress has received, processed and donated over 143,000 bicycles, nearly 3,000 sewing machines and $10.8 million in new spare parts to partner charities in 38 developing world countries. In many countries, having a bicycle can have a critical effect on whether or not you are able to get to a job or school; it has been found that income goes up 14 percent when a family has a bicycle. For many a sewing machine means having the possibility of making a livelihood. Bette Bass who was a Peace Corps Volunteer in Peru and now lives in Massapequa, says, “The donation of one bike or sewing machine can literally help put food on the table and smiles on the faces of a whole family.” Pedals for Progress also promotes bicycle repair businesses in the developing world. A community owned non-profit bike store will get its first containerized cargo shipment for free (about 450 bicycles); that repair store then has to earn enough money selling the repaired bikes to pay for the next shipment. David Schwidenback, the president of Pedals for Progress, says the collection on April 18th will be sent to FIDESMA, a nonprofit, non-political, non-religious development foundation in Chimaltenango Guatemala. Says Schwidenback, “The Long Island Returned Peace Corps volunteers have been integral to the success of Pedals for Progress by effectively recycling the bicycles and sewing machines of Long Island. Of the many organizations that collect bicycles annually, the LIRPCV collections have consistently been the most successful. Their efforts have lifted thousands of people permanently from poverty in Central America, Africa and Eastern Europe.” “We see this as one way to continue to contribute,” says Kathy Williams Ging. “As a volunteer in Peru I saw firsthand what a big difference having a bicycle or sewing machine can make in someone’s life.” Brian Richardson of Middle Island, who served as a Peace Corps Volunteer in Korea, feels that the collection done each year by Returned Peace Corps Volunteers of Long Island fit in well with the philosophy of the Peace Corps. “The Peace Corps is not about doing for people; it’s about helping people to become their own agents of change.” Bikes should be rust free. Bikes with flat tires in need of some repair are accepted. No tricycles. Sewing machines in working condition are also accepted. Each person who donates also will be asked to donate $10 per bike (tax-deductible) to help defray the cost of shipping the bicycles.
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50th Anniversary of the Viet Nam War Commemoration By Gary P. Joyce
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While the commemoration of the 50th Anniversary of the war in Viet Nam will be honored over the course of the next three years, an actual date to attribute the start of the Viet Nam war is questionable. Fifty years would leave us with a period starting in 1965, but the first US troop killed in Viet Nam was Air Force Tech. Sgt. Richard B. Fitzgibbon, Jr., who died on June 8, 1956. The first battlefield fatality was Spec. 4 James T. Davis, who was killed on December 22, 1961. The former would make 2015 the 59th year since an American died, the latter 54 years. This also discounts American pilots, who died while flying supplies and personnel to the embattled French bastion of
Die Bien Phu in 1954. France honored seven American pilots flying for CAT — Civil Air Transport, aka the Flying Tigers; the former a nom de guerre for the CIA’s Air America — in 2005. An OSS officer (the forerunner of the CIA), LTC Peter Dewey, pre-deceased them, when he was killed by Viet Minh, ostensibly in a case of “mistaken identity” in 1945. In 1960 President John F. Kennedy was elected, and things in Viet Nam heated up. The Diem brothers, who ruled Viet Nam, were assassinated on November 2, 1963, 21 days prior to the assassination of JFK. With Lyndon Johnson then President, the Gulf of Tonkin incident — attacks on American ships —occurred on August 2 and August 4; both
incidents now considered questionable if not fictional, but there result was Congress allowing the President to, “take all necessary measures to repel any armed attack against forces of the United States and to prevent further aggression.” The resolution passed in the Senate 82-2, allowing LBJ to wage war in Viet Nam without a formal declaration. And then it started. Operation Rolling Thunder (the bombing of North Vietnam began in 1965, the 9th Marines Expeditionary Force arrived at Da Nang, the first traditional military clash of
“armies” occurred in the Ia Drang Valley, the troop level eventually reached 200,000 and the first protests began. Yes, 1965 is a good year to date the conflict from. The war would eventually claim 58,303 Americans KIA by April 30, 1975 when Saigon fell. Wounded in action were 153,303 and MIAs 1,629 (originally 2,646; figures as of March 9, 2015 ex the US Government). Gary P. Joyce served in Viet Nam from August 1968 to January 1971.
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• The youngest Vietnam KIA is believed to be Dan Bullock at 15. • The oldest person on the Viet Nam Memorial Wall is Dwaine McGriff at 63. • At least five men killed in Vietnam were 16. • At least 12 men killed in Vietnam were 17 years old. • More than 17,000 of those killed were married. • Veterans killed on their first day in Vietnam 997 (unconfirmed). • Veterans killed on their last day in Vietnam 1,448 (unconfirmed). • Number of Chaplains on the Wall: 16 (two Medals Of Honor). • Number of Women on the Wall: eight (seven Army, one USAF; 7,484 women served) • The most casualties for a single day was on January 31, 1968; 245 casualties. • The most casualties for a single month was May 1968; 2,415 casualties were incurred.
2008, as recommended by the Berger Commission Report issued by New York State Department of Health in 2006. We have been working collaboratively to provide healthcare services to the South Fork, with services that are complementary in nature. This new, historic affiliation will enable the two hospitals to work even more closely to improve healthcare quality and access, coordination and efficiency for patient care. The Stony Brook University School of Medicine already has many joint clinical and academic programs with Southampton Hospital. Through the affiliation, the 125-bed Southampton facility would join the Stony Brook Medicine healthcare sys-
tem, so that the two hospitals can share resources and manage the flow of patients between the two facilities. The affiliation combines a financially sound community hospital with a highquality tertiary academic medical center to improve healthcare delivery and education in the rapidly changing landscape of healthcare reform. In short, the affiliation creates a comprehensive healthcare delivery system that will better service the needs of Long Islanders, with access to primary and specialty services on the South Fork through an integrated system of care. Under the terms of this affiliation, Southampton Hospital will provide care under Stony Brook University Hospital’s New York State operating license. The Southampton Hospital Association will continue to employ the workforce of Southampton Hospital, who will remain in their current labor agreement.
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Stony Brook Medicine and Southampton Hospital are moving forward with a proposed affiliation agreement following a unanimous vote today by the State University of New York (SUNY) Board of Trustees. The future of medicine on Long Island will change for the better through this affiliation. Not only will it help to expand outstanding healthcare services to the residents of the South Fork of Long Island, but by increasing clinical training sites will serve to enhance the range of experiences of our medical, nursing and health technology learners, as well as strengthening biomedical and healthcare research, increasing the potential sites and participation in our innovative medical research studies. As you may know, Stony Brook University Hospital and Southampton Hospital have a long history of a strong, cooperative working relationship. The two hospitals have been formally affiliated since
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The link between chronic disease and inflammation based on a poor diet and sedentary lifestyle has been made clear by now. “The best medicine to ease the suffering endured by so many today is an active lifestyle and an anti-inflammatory diet,” says nutritionist and juicing pioneer Cherie Calbom, MS. (“The Juice Lady”). Her latest book, The Juice Lady’s Anti-Inflammation Diet, (www.juiceladycherie.com), outlines the causes of inflammation and offers solutions with healthy meals for breakfast, lunch and dinner, as well as robust juicing recipes. Calbom lists just three of her many recipes, with some ingredients that may already be found in your pantry, she says. • Breakfast: Spanish frit-
tata and simple salad with maple orange vinaigrette (serves 4-6). Frittata: 12 large organic eggs; ½ cup coconut milk; ½ tsp. sea salt, or more to taste; 2 tbsp. coconut oil or extra-virgin olive oil; 1 small red onion, small chop; ½ cup sautéed mushrooms or your favorite vegetable; 1 cup spinach or arugula. Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Whisk the eggs and coconut milk with 2 pinches of salt. Set aside. Prepare pan with coconut oil and medium-high heat and sauté onions until translucent, about 3 min. Add mushroom or favorite vegetable and sauté until soft. Toss in spinach and fold into veggie mixture just until wilted. Remove vegetables from pan; set aside. Turn down the heat to low, adding a little more coconut oil if needed.
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Using the same skillet, add the eggs, shaking to distribute the mixture evenly. Cook over medium-low heat for five minutes using a spatula to spread the eggs from the edges to the center until the edges are no longer runny. Arrange the vegetable mixture over the top evenly. Transfer to a 375-dgree oven and cook for five minutes until set and slightly browned. Remove from oven. Be very aware of the hot handle! To finish, slide partially cooked frittata onto a large plate; wearing oven mitts, place a plate over the pan and, holding the two together, invert them so the frittata drops onto the plate. Slide the frittata back into the pan so partially cooked side is up. Place back in oven to cook 3-4 minutes more. “The simple salad with maple orange vinaigrette is something I dreamed up for a ‘breakfast for dinner’ themed night – a nice complement to the main dish,” she says. • Lunch: tropical quinoa salad with cashews with carrot fries (serves 4). Quinoa: 1 cup dried quinoa, rinsed well; ½ red onion, finely chopped; 1 cup apple or carrot, finely chopped; juice of 1 lime, 2 tbsp. honey or agave; 1 tbsp. extra-virgin olive oil; 1 large mango, chopped (not overly ripe); ¼ cup mint, finely chopped; 1 tsp. seal salt, to taste; freshly ground black pepper, to taste; ½-inch-piece ginger, finely chopped; 1 avocado, chopped or thinly sliced; 1 cup cashews, coarsely chopped; 3 cups Romaine lettuce (or greens of choice), roughly chopped. Cook the quinoa: Bring two cups of water to a boil in a medium saucepan; add the quinoa and simmer, covered 15-20 minutes. Set aside and let cool (spread out for best re-
sults). In a large bowl toss the chopped red onion and apple/carrot. Whisk together the lime juice, honey and olive oil. Add to the bowl. Add the cooked, cooled quinoa and mango to the bowl and toss well. Mix in mint, cilantro, ginger and salt and pepper, to taste. Garnish with sliced avocado and cashews. Scoop mixture over greens and serve chilled or at room temp. “Who doesn’t like French fries? – Carrot fries are a healthy alternative!” Calbom says. • Dinner: grilled salmon and asparagus with stone fruit and lavender chutney (serves 4-6). Chutney: 2 lb. stone fruit, small dice; 1 large onion, finely chopped; zest of 1 lemon or lime; 2 tbsp. garlic, minced; ¼ tsp. chili flakes (optional); 1/3 cup red wine vinegar; ¾ cup raw honey or agave; ¾ tsp. sea salt; 2 tbsp. fresh lavender (or use basil or mint; use 1 tsp. dried lavender if you cannot find it fresh).In a saucepan combine all prepared ingredients except the herbs. Bring to a boil. Continue cooking at a rolling boil, 15 minutes. Stir occasionally. Mix in fresh herbs and/or lavender at the end. “This chutney will get you excited for salmon all over again,” she says. “Of course, buy wild salmon, which is significantly healthier and environmentally friendly.” • Snack: Cherry Chocolate Shake (serves 1). 1 Tbsp. unsweetened, unprocessed cocoa powder; ½ cup frozen dark cherries, pitted; 1 cup coconut; almond or flax milk; ½ tsp. pure vanilla extract; several drops of liquid stevia (suggest Sweet Leaf Vanilla Creme); ice cubes as desired Place all ingredients in a blender and process until smooth.
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Celebrates 900 Episodes and a $40 Million Economic Impact ing impact.” said Trotta. “His programs are timely, but they also have lasting impact. Waldo knows today’s events are tomorrow’s history.” “Do you know that kids
tory, the past five years have also provided difficult challenges. The Great Recession of 2008, was a time of retrenchment, down-sizing and diminished expectations for most, but Verizon tuned-in to a value when they encountered Cabrera and invited the respected programmer to join their FiOS1 News channel roster in 2009. Since going on air in June of 2009, the insightful, informative, often heartwarming narratives produced by MyLITV exposed non-profits and local businesses provide to its over 800,000 TV and streaming viewers. That’s media exposure worth over $40 million. “Waldo is a person of true vision,” says publisher and former Bellport Mayor Frank Trotta. Trotta publishes Fire News and 50+ Lifestyles newspapers. The two became acquainted as Cabrera recorded the Trotta-sponsored “Senior Idol” talent competition and other local happenings. “He brings out the best in people; he helps them feel confident about expressing themselves in their own words, and that’s a key to creating stories of wide and last-
game, ‘Where’s Waldo? Well, this Waldo is everywhere!” says Liza Burby, editor in chief for Anton Media Group, a Mineola-based newspaper pub-
lisher. “He knows his market and it shows in everything he does,” she said. Burby and Cabrera became acquainted during her role as publisher of Long Island Parent magazine. They met frequently while covering local stories. She soon found that linking her readers to MyLITV created another platform. “No other competitor had this advantage,” she said. Cabrera is looking forward to reaching ever-larger audiences with his National Video Journalist Network (NVJN) channel on the “Roku,” video streaming service. Roku has shipped over 10 million devices in the United States. “Through the NVJN I intend to bring Long Island's story to the rest of America, and bring America's stories to Long Island” said Cabrera.
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Does the Golden Arm Exist? Dear Mark: I have read about people who are selling info about how to set dice. Is there anything to someone's ability to set dice and to throw them a certain way to improve their ability to throw desired numbers? On the other hand, are you convinced no matter how you "set" the dice that you will have a completely random roll? I think there must be something to dice setting, as some casinos do not let you set them. Wade J.
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them once they take delivery of the dice from the stickman, so they rotate the dice – set them – until they have their favorite number on top. Then there is the dedicated community of crap players who believe in “controlled shooting” which goes far beyond simply setting the dice to their liking before a roll. These shooters feel
ventional odds of the game? I fly on the side of gaming folklore, and hold that “it ain’t so.” Others in the gaming business disagree. A favorite gambling author of mine, Frank Scoblete, penned a very enjoyable book called, Golden Touch, Dice Control Revolution. I’m not saying “no dice” to his belief, but it’s just
Gambling Wisdom of the Week: “The dice goad like hooks and prick like whips; they deceive and torment. They are coated with honey.” – Better's Lament, Rig Vada Hyme that by gripping and tossing the dice at the correct angle, they can limit the rotational characteristics of the dice. By doing so, they will be able to control the results, hence, the game’s long-term odds in their favor. So, can dice shooters set the dice in a particular way and alter the con-
that after spending 18 years on the inside, umpteen on the out, that I have to see it to believe it. And I haven’t seen it yet – with an officially permitted toss that is. As for a player setting, then sliding the dice across the table to get a specific result, sure, how hard is that? You
can do that on your dining room table all day long. But you can expect to see crap dealers, a boxman, the pit boss or the eye in the sky go bonkers when some dice charlatan tries to illegally manipulate the cubes in a manner where a random outcome won’t occur. Cheating at craps is illegal, and there could be some substantial consequences not if, but when you are caught. Dice must be thrown across the table with some degree of ump. They cannot be pushed, “trickled” or slid across the table by the shooter. My personal take, Wade, is that the chance of affecting the dice after they have bounced off a surface of rubber pyramids on the back wall of a 12-foot crap table are slim to none, no matter how you set them, or what axis the dice were on in flight before they hit. Now playing cup-free, laissez faire Yahtzee with my wife, well, that is a different story.
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Where All Your Technology Questions Are Answered By Nick Radesca • Pictures can be sent with texts. Cons: • Some cell phone companies charge a fee per text message. • Text messages are not always delivered or read right away so the sender cannot be sure the message has been read unless an answering text is sent back. • Typing a message can be difficult especially. Larger smartphones with QWERTY keyboards are better. (Some smartphones allow you dictate messages). • Texts can be misunderstood because emotion is tough to relay in a typed message. To help, texters use devices like capital letters and emoticons, which are those little happy or sad sun faces. In addition, they use agreed upon abbreviations for emphasis such as OMG for “Oh My God” and LOL for “Laughing Out Loud.” • Typing is slower than speaking. To speed things up texters devel-
oped a shorthand language. While I personally use full words, hardened texters shorten practically everything. • When a text arrives, there’s an urgent need to read it. This compulsion is so strong that laws were passed to make texting and driving illegal. The evolution of human communication is interesting. We’ve gone from grunting to speaking to writing to e-mail and now text messaging Texting is not a replacement for anything. It’s just another way of fulfilling our need to easily communicate. Nick Radesca is a volunteer at SeniorNet at FSL L.I. For more information, visit SeniorNet websites at www.seniornetli.org and www.facebook.com/ seniornetli, call 631427-3700 Ext. 268 or 235 or send e-mails to svero@fsl-li.org or nick2p @yahoo.com.
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ANSWER: People seem to be gaga about text messaging. I couldn’t understand why until I made friends with avid “texters”. We all enjoy live music so when someone in the group learns a favorite band is playing nearby, he or she sends a group text message to everyone announcing the time and place. Then texts fly back and forth, as people arrange rides and meeting times. Rather than making numerous phone calls, texting makes group get-togethers a snap. Pros: • Text messages, which are sent between mobile phones, are
stored on your mobile phone for future reference. This is handy should you need to confirm something or settle a dispute. • Phone calls require recipients to stop everything to take the call. Texting allows them to read and reply when convenient. • Texting is quick, precise and best when used to relay short facts like “I’ll be there in five minutes.” •When composing a sensitive text you can keep revising it before sending until it says exactly what you want. • It’s quieter than a phone call so it can be used in places and situations when you don’t want people hearing your conversation. • It works great with groups.
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Legislature Approves Resolution for Funding for Cupsogue County Park The Suffolk County Legislature on March 3, 2015, unanimously supported a resolution co-sponsored by Deputy Presiding Officer Jay Schneiderman (I-Montauk), which amends the 2015 capital budget to include $750,000 for improvements to Cupsogue County Park. Last September, the main facility at Cupsogue Beach was destroyed in a large fire that engulfed nearly the entire park. The fire destroyed the concession stand, showers, seating areas, bathrooms and a first-aid station. The $750,000 includes money for architecture and engineering as well as money to install a temporary concession and restroom facility to serve the public this season and until the main building is constructed. It is estimated that the 5,200 square foot building will take two years and over two million dollars to complete. The access of the building will be improved as well and the sanitary system brought up to code. “The fire last year at this historic and beloved building was tragic,” said Legislator Jay Schneiderman. “The park will reopen this season with temporary facilities providing users the comforts they are accustomed to, and a new facility will rise from the ashes which will accommodate park users for generations to come.” It is anticipated that the county’s fire insurance policy will cover much of the costs of the temporary structures and the reconstruction of the main building. Legislator Schneiderman also serves as Chairman of the Suffolk County Legislature’s Parks and Recreation Committee.
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Age of Elegance By Ethel Bennett
Meet the 2015 Finalists
On March 7, the finalists of the 2015 Ms. New York Senior America Pageant met at the Levittown Library for the audition/orientation. The women displayed their talent, philosophy of life and personality. They were great representatives of their respective hometowns. From the talent displayed, we expect a most entertaining afternoon at Hofstra University on May 3, 2015. Tickets are available on Pageant Day (May 3) at the box office at Hofstra University, but I strongly suggest you order your tickets early for your reserved seats. Call Dolores Meglio for reserved seats at 631-249-0258. Immediately following the Pageant we will be celebrating our annual Queens Ball at the Nassau County Bar Association. Call Enid Merin for your dinner reservations at 516-495-4931. Looking forward to seeing you at both the Pageant and the Queen’s Ball. In anticipation of the New York State 2016 Pageant to be held at
Hofstra University in the spring of 2016, we are seeking possible participants. If you are 60-plus years and have a zest for life and a talent you can display on stage, charm and a positive attitude, we want you. Call Marleen Schuss for your interview and audition date. Her telephone number is 516-678-3242. Complete and return the coupon below or e-mail Marleen Schuss at marleenschuss@aol.com if you are interested. A special thank you to Ed Mangano, Nassau County Executive and Victoria Meyerhoffer of the Office of the Aging for their unparalleled support.
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A New Season of Broadway-quality Musicals at The Gateway
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Tickets are now on sale for the 66th blockbuster season of Broadway-quality entertainment at The Gateway.Based in Bellport, along Long Island’s southern shore, this musical theatre powerhouse proudly presents five Long Island premiere musicals from late May to mid-November. The season’s lineup includes “Rock of Ages,” “Nice Work If You Can Get It,” “Sister Act,” “Billy Elliot” and “Saturday Night Fever.”The 2015 season also includes two special events: “Ballroom with a Twist” – featuring Dancing with the Stars’ Dimtry Chaplin and Chelsie Hightower, as well as “Legends in Concert” – with tributes to The Blues Brothers, Jimmy Buffett, Cher, Aretha Franklin, Dolly Parton and Justin Timberlake.Theatregoers can save up to $15 per ticket on these shows and special events by purchasing a 34-5 Show Discount Plan. It’s easy – you pick the date, you pick the times, and you pick the number of shows.Gateway’s children’s theatre also provides a great summer activity for families and youngsters of all ages. Upcoming shows include: “Curious George,” Dreamworks’ “Shrek the Musical Jr.”, Disney’s “Peter Pan Jr.” and “The Amazing Max.”Call 631-286-1133 or visit www.GatewayPlayhouse.org or a full show schedule, ticket prices and more.
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The Gateway strives to enrich a wide range of communities with quality theatrical experiences through diverse arts, entertainment and educational programs. It endeavors to serve these communities in a fiscally responsible manner, to provide affordable resources to schools and non-profit organizations, and to ensure the future of the theatrical arts in the Long Island region. The Gateway’s 2015 season is sponsored by AARP New York. Funding provided, in part, by the County of Suffolk; and is made possible by the New York State Council on the Arts with the support of Governor Andrew Cuomo and the New York State Legislature.
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