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And Another Year Comes to a Close Well, here we are with another year behind us. I don’t know about you, but that was one of the fastest moving years I can recall. I’m writing this just before Thanksgiving, and we’ve gone through our first blast of winter air, and while they’re calling for a “bad” winter, I”ll keep my fingers crossed for the idays and look forward to “seeing” you all in 2015. Wow. rest of the year. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all of you from all 2015! Who would have ever thought … — Gary P. Joyce; Ed. of the staff here at 50+ LifeStyles. We hope you enjoy the hol-
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On November 6, 2014, Legislator Kate Browning presented Gail Winsper with a proclamation in recognition of Gail’s many years of work to help make our children safer while being transported to and from school. Gale Winsper has led the transportation department at Longwood Central School District for the past 12 years and recently received an award from the New York Association for Pupil Transportation.
(Left to right) Suffolk County Legislator Robert Trotta, NYS Senator Carl Marcellino, Suffolk County Legislator Steve Stern and U.S. Rep. Steve Israel at a Senior Citizens Exposition at the Huntington Senior Center October 24, 2014.
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Legislator Tom Muratore is partnering with Toys for Tots this holiday season, and has designated his district office in Selden as a donation drop-off center. The drop off location is 325 Middle Country Road, Suite 3 in Selden (intersection of County Road 83 in the Selden Plaza Shopping Center), Monday through Friday from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Toys will be accepted through Friday, December 5, 2014.
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Village of Islandia Mayor Allan M. Dorman speaks to the attendees at the Veterans Day ceremony at the Veterans Memorial Triangle as members of the Central Long Island chapter of the Korean War Veterans Association look on.
Town of Oyster Bay Councilman Chris J. Coschignano (left) recently presented a citation and a recognition award to former Oyster Bay Town Councilman Louis G. Savinetti (right) for his development of Marine Education Day in the Town of Oyster Bay more than 20 years ago.
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Isn’t it Time to Earn the Benefits of Credit Union Membership? Better than a bank? You betcha’. See yourself receiving the benefits you really want from your financial institution? Imagine being valued as a person, and not just an account number? At Suffolk Federal, we see it too. Now may be the perfect time to learn about the many benefits of credit union membership. More than 200 million people, from 56,000 credit unions, in 101 countries join together as credit union members. Globally, this cooperative effort has led to life-changing opportunities in the form of small business start-ups, home ownership, and education. In some countries, members encounter their first taste of dem-
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The Group Activities Program (GAP) is a social and therapeutic recreation program developed to meet the needs of Town of Oyster Bay residents who are mentally challenged, developmentally disabled, learning disabled or autistic. For residents who would like more information about this program, the Town has available an informative brochure, according to Town Councilwoman Michele M. Johnson. “The primary aim of GAP, which is under the auspices of the Town’s Department of Community and Youth Services, is to provide residents with quality social and recreational experiences in a well supervised setting,” Councilwoman John-
son stated. “This is accomplished by offering a variety of recreational experiences in an atmosphere of acceptance and friendship.” The brochure explains the goals of the GAP, as well as eligibility requirements, the application process, the programs and services offered, and the benefits of this Town program. The focus of the GAP is group interaction. Between October and May, GAP offers after-school and Saturday programs for youngsters ages five to 21. Evening programs are available for those 16 and older, and there is a special evening program for those 21 and older. These programs are offered at both north and south shore locations in the Town. During the summer, the GAP provides a special sixweek day camp experience for children ages five to 21. This program is offered at Town community parks on weekdays from 10:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.
“This is a unique Town program which helps mentally challenged, developmentally disabled, learning disabled and autistic children and young adults reach their full potential,” Councilwoman Johnson said. “Through GAP, their quality of life is greatly enhanced. Many GAP participants have formed friendships that extend beyond the program.” Councilwoman Johnson noted that any resident or organization interested in obtaining a free brochure can pick up one at the Town Halls North (Oyster Bay) and South (Massapequa), the Department of Public Works (Syosset) and at major park facilities. They can also call or write to the Town of Oyster Bay Public Department of Community and Youth Services, Handicapped Services Division, 977 Hicksville Road, Massapequa, N.Y. 11758 (516-797-7947), or can visit the Town’s website, www.oysterbaytown.com.
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AG Schneiderman Issues Consumer Alert on State Tax Scams Scammers Impersonating Debt Collectors, Pocketing Debt Payments
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New York State Attorney General Eric Schneiderman has issued a consumer alert following recent reports of bogus tax debt collection scams. The New York State Taxpayer Rights Advocate has reported recent fraudulent activity by scammers posing as debt collectors seeking to settle alleged outstanding state tax debts. The scammers are pressuring consumers into sending payments via money order to satisfy debts that the consumers may not actually owe. “Middle class families across New York State work hard to support their families and we don’t want them to get ripped off by scammers,” said Attorney General Schneiderman. “Consumers should be wary of any telephone solicitation
asking them to send money and should always request appropriate documentation in writing.” Schneiderman has received a variety of complaints about tax-related consumer scams. This latest scheme involves scammers telling consumers they owe a tax debt to the state, which may not actually exist, and then promising to settle the alleged debt for a fraction of the cost that they claim is owed. Some of the calls have been reported as coming from the number 305507-8505. Scammers are reportedly using high-pressure tactics to intimidate consumers into purchasing money orders to satisf y debts and then instructing them to call back for instructions on how to submit
the payment. Both federal and state tax authorities send notifications in writing. Consumers should be wary of demands for tax payment via phone, especially if the caller suggests the use of a money order to remit payment. Schneiderman is urging New Yorkers to be vigilant consumers and to report instances of fraud to his office. Consumers who believe they have been victims of any tax scams are urged to file complaints by visiting the Office’s website www.ag.ny.gov or calling 1-800-771-7755. In an effort to help New Yorkers avoid various taxthemed scams, the Attorney General’s Office offered the following tips: The IRS and legitimate government agencies never de-
mand payment by phone; If you owe money, you will receive a legitimate notice in writing that identifies the agency and the reason you owe money; Do not give out personal information, including your Social Security number or bank account information, to telephone callers; Legitimate government organizations will never threaten arrest or deportation for failure to pay a debt. Some additional websites with helpful information include those of the Internal Revenue Service, the New York State Taxpayer Rights Advocate, the NYS Consumer Bill of Rights Regarding Tax Preparers, and the NYC Department of Consumer Affairs.
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The veterans' organization Disabled American Veterans recently released a report on women veterans. The research reveals that America's nearly 300,000 women veterans are put at risk by a system designed for and dominated by male veterans. The report paints a compelling picture of federal agencies and community ser vice providers that consistently fail to understand that women are impacted by military ser vice and deployment differently than men. The report is available on the Disabled American Veterans (DAV) website at www.dav. org/women-veterans-study.
VA Telehealth Services The Department of Veterans Affairs has announced that its national telehealth programs served more than 690,000 veterans during fiscal 2014. That total represents approximately 12 percent of the overall veteran population enrolled for VA healthcare, and accounted for more than two million tele-
Hospital System Focuses on Hiring Veterans The North Shore-LIJ Health System’s ongoing commitment to helping veterans transition back into civilian life included the hiring of nearly 200 veterans so far this year. The health system’s talent acquisition and workforce readiness divisions have been hosting workshops to help veterans better translate their military experience into a civilian career path. North Shore-LIJ has also created a guide called From Barracks to Business: Translating Military Skills to Career Success to help veterans better navigate the job market. North Shore-LIJ has also been holding recruitment sessions specifically for veterans. Last year, the workforce readiness division also created the Veteran College Network, which includes several Long Island and New York City colleges, to help those returning veterans find jobs. For North Shore-LIJ employees who are active ser vice members, the health system pays them the difference between their military and health system salaries while they are on military leave. In addition, North Shore-LIJ’s office of diversity, inclusion and health literacy created a business employee resource group last year so that veterans, military service members, their families
and those interested in veterans’ affairs could gain more of a sense of community. This group is called Veterans and Allies: Liaisons of Reintegration (VALOR). To learn more about veteran hiring opportunities within the North Shore-LIJ Health System, contact the Office of Military and Veterans’ Ser vices at 516562-3235.
Surfing Can Prevent Suicidal Feelings in Combat Vets with PTSD Surfing can help improve well-being in combat veterans experiencing post-traumatic stress disorder and even avert suicidal feelings, according to a Loughborough University (UK) researcher. Nick Caddick said some of the veterans from Northern Ire-
land, Iraq and Afghanistan, who took part in his study, revealed that surfing in Cornwall (a popular UK surfing beach) had not only improved their health and quality of life but saved their lives. It is the first time research has been conducted into a 'Blue Gym' — the sea — therapy that is becoming increasingly popular in Britain and America and is being seen as an alternative to the traditional medical option which can involve drugs. The huge benefits of surfing for combat veterans suffering from PTSD are revealed in a study called, The effects of surfing and the natural environment on the well-being of combat veterans, which will shortly be published in the journal Qualitative Health Research.
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Editor Gary Joyce after a surf at Vung Tau, Viet Nam, circa 1969.
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health visits. Of that number, approximately 55 percent were veterans living in rural areas with limited access to VA healthcare. Currently, there are more than 44 clinical specialties offered to veterans through VA’s telehealth programs. TeleAudiology program helps veterans with hearing loss. For more information about VA's telehealth program, visit the VA Telehealth Ser vices website at www.telehealth. va.gov.
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Stocking Stuffers For The Holidays Babbel is an award-winning online language system offering 14 different languages and up to 1200 lessons, all contained in a diverse range of courses. Babbel gives you everything you need to speak, write and understand a new language. Babbel is cloud based, so users can use their computer, smartphone or tablet and the lessons are saved so they can pick up right where they left off. Pricing structure varies from $12.95 per month. At www.babbel.com.
Travel Buddies lightweight luggage sets for children; as well as lightweight Tr ave l Ko o l travel gear for tweens; and the TotSeat portable h i g h c h a i r. TrendyKid items may be found online at www.TrendyKid.com and eBags.com. Contact process so they can concoct TrendyKid for stores in your their own blends to fit their crav- area at www.Facebook.com/ ings. Perfect for the tea perfec- TrendyKidUSA. tionist who needs just the right balance. In the $30 range. From www.davidsonstea.com.
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ate touchscreen devices without having to take their gloves off in the cold weather. Various prices, colors and styles starting at $32. They can be found at www.180s.com and at leading department stores and sporting goods retailers.
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Do you really believe the packaging on sheets? ‘Fit’s from 10 to 20 inches.” I don’t think so! Want to give some quality — custom — sheets at a decent price? That actually fit your bed? Check out the product line at Cozytown Linens, www.cozytownlinens.com. I guarantee that this Pelzer, South Carolina, company has quality sheets that actually fit … because you send them the measurements of your giftee’s mattress! None of that one-size-(doesn’t)-fits-all stuff. This writer swears by them (read my review at: lrrpsworld.blog spot.com/2014/07/out-of-myc o m fo r t - z on e - ad ve nt u r e s in.html). Toll-free number is 864-236-4968.
If you have a handyman around who has a shop that’s anything but handy to work in, you may want to take a look at the RoboReel, a motorized extension cord holder. The retracxt button is at the end of the cord (where you are), it rotates 360degrees, auto shuts off if the cord is cut, you’ll never have to coil extension cords again, and …well a whole lot more. MSRP is $299 from RoboReel at www.roboreel.com. Snowbirding the grandkids this winter? Then check out TrendyKid, a Washington, D.C. Need a stocking stuffer for the based children’s luggage and travel gear company. The cur- man who has everything? Well, rent collections includes the we don’t think he has a Haywire
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lifetime. It includes a personalized puppy towel ($44.99); and the BFF Pack with toys and treats to ensure a fun-filled day with your BFF, including a personalized fleece blanket ($39.99). Find them at shop.woofipedia.com.
and it has to hold, this is the tool that does it. Incredibly simple and clever, it’s for the tool box, the car, boat or survivalists backpack The only limit to what it can fasten is your imagination and need. From $24.95 from www.haywireklamper.com.
Do you have an inveterate traveler you’re looking to make happy for the holidays? Well, we have a great suggestion for you. Why not get them a travel gift certificate from Prime Time Travel? You can order one for any amount Lest we forget our best friend. and they can use it for any Prime The American Kennel Club has Time be it by sea land or air. Simply call 631-286-7329, or write them at Prime Time Travel, 146 South Country Road, Bellport, NY 11713, and tell them what you want the gift certificate to read.
put together three “WOOFipedia Packs” – three unique, personalized bundles full of toys and treats perfect for dogs this holiday season. The Holiday Pack has holiday-themed toys and treats, and a personalized stocking ($49.99); The Puppy Pack has all the essentials you’ll need as a new puppy owner, including fun toys, treats and literature hand selected to get you and your dog on the road to a
Here’s a stocking stuffer for anyone who uses their feet! Called the 360 Foot, it’s a selfmassage platform for your foot. Simple and quite effective. Available from Moji for $30. Ahhhhhhhh! From www.gomoji.com.
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Klamper. This unusual tool uses a clever one-hand shaper to twist baling wire into an almostunbreakable fastener. If you need to attach esse nt i a l l y any thing to something else,
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8 Tips for Making it Through the Holidays… With Your Relatives Diane Gottsman is a national modern manners and etiquette expert, accomplished speaker, author and the owner of The Protocol School of Texas. Here are some of Diane’s tips to help you make the most of your time with your in-laws: Create a flexible itinerary. Offer a few ideas on different activities to consider. Having planned events during their stay allows little time for sitting around. Last minute planning may also make them feel unimportant. Go to the movies or a sports event. If conversation with your in-laws isn’t your strong suit, opt for entertainment options that don’t require a great deal of personal interaction. By choosing to attend a local play, or attend an art exhibit, you are spending time and creating memories with your in-laws, while successfully avoiding awkward lulls in conversation. Set up a special afternoon … without you. Buy tickets to a city tour or a local wine tasting. Give them suggestions for favorite delis, walking trails and small coffee shops, providing them the opportunity to explore the city by themselves. Offer to meet up for dinner later at one of your favorite restaurants. Have a backup plan to recharge. If you know you can become overwhelmed at times by visitors, have a pre-planned errand, chore or phone call to make, allowing yourself some breathing room. Discuss this beforehand with
your spouse so you don’t leave him or her guessing as to the reason for the sudden departure. Host a gathering in your in-laws’ honor. Invite friends with similar interests to meet your in-laws. Your friends will create lively conversation over dinner and help the evening go smoothly, creating a buffer so you don’t have to entertain alone. Allow your in-laws to get involved. While we all want to be host of the century, don’t forget your in-laws are family. More often than not they will want to help out when it comes to dinners or children. Allow your in-laws to pick up the kids from school and take them to their after school activities. Ask if they would like a special night with the grandkids, so that you and your spouse can go out for dinner. It’s a win-win for both parties. Retire to your room early. Make your end of the day routine well known, even if it means retiring to the comfort of your own bed with a glass of wine. Simply say, “Today has been great, I am going to start winding down. Feel free to stay up as late as you would like. See you all in the morning!” This will allow you to reclaim your evening, by relaxing in your room. Worst Case Scenario. Pay for a hotel, or point them in the direction of modestly priced lodging. If you have consistently had bad experiences with hosting your in-laws, it may be worth the expense
to offer to pay for comfortable accommodations close to your home. Say, “Our home is so small, and the kids really need their own space. We’d like to make your stay as pleasurable as possible.” If money is tight, you might say, “We look forward to your upcoming visit. I’m happy to research hotels close by if you give me a price point to stay within? We’d also like to offer the use of our car while you are here.” Bottom line, weigh your risk of hurting the relationship versus hurting your marriage. “Though a one week stay with your in-laws may seem overwhelming, it’s in everyone’s best interest to maintain a healthy relationship,” Gottsman says. Diane specializes in executive leadership and etiquette training, with clients ranging from university students to Fortune 500 companies. Visit: dianegottsman.com/ and www.protocolschooloftexas.com/.
Millie Marrazo: 100 and Counting By Vivian Mingino
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Assemblyman-elect Dean Murray presented Millie Marrazzo with a proclamation of an annual “Millie Marrazzo Day” at her 100th birthday celebration. Over 220 family members and close friends gathered to honor Millie’s life. Millie is the eighth of nine children born in Brooklyn to parents who emigrated from Italy. The first president of the 17 she has seen elected was Woodrow Wilson. She remembers the devastation of the depression, and then World War II’s air raid drills, ration coupons and black outs. During the war, she knitted for the Red Cross — hats, sweaters, scarves, gloves and socks to keep our servicemen comfortable and warm. She married Tom Marrazzo in 1934, was wed for 56 years when he passed, leaving three children, eight grandchildren, 19 great
grandchildren and a great-greatgreat grandchild. Millie worked as a meat packer in a supermarket, then at St. Joseph the Worker Parish, taking care of the priests for over 30 years. She was a member of the parish’s Rosary Altar Society for over 50 years. She still makes cakes, and knits and crochets items for fundraisers for the church and other organizations. She made dozens of Afghan blankets for Stony Brook Hospital’s child patients to cuddle with as they received chemo treatments and received many notes of appreciation. The party in her honor was a tribute to a wonderful, loving, compassionate lady who was a “Queen for a Day” and a gift to anyone who knows her.
Important changes are coming this fall for what’s become one of the biggest concerns of the era: affording retirement. Those who are saving for retirement and meticulously troubleshooting tax obstacles may want to restructure their plans. The Obama administration is preparing to roll out “myRA” savings accounts – IRA accounts – for those who do not currently have access to one. When the “myRA” account reaches a certain amount, fledgling savers can roll it into a regular IRA account; different states will have their own guidelines. However, some of the benefits of existing savings options could be in peril, says financial advisor Jake Lowrey, president of Lowrey Financial Group, (www.lo wreyfinancial.com). Those include some of the tax advantages of retirement accounts currently enjoyed by higher-income workers. Some Roth IRA owners may also lose their exemption from required minimum distributions, or RMDs, while IRAs totaling less than six figures could see RMDs disappear. “There will be many people who’ll be unhappy about the changes and that’s understandable, but some may help our country avoid an avalanche of retirees facing poverty,” he said. By 2030 the last of the baby boomers will have reached 65. That means one of every five Americans will be of retirement age, according to the Pew Research Center’s population projections. “Most people simply don’t know how to plan for retirement, and that’s made even more challenging with the changing government policies,” said Lowrey. He offers guidance on choosing between a traditional IRA and a Roth IRA for
retirement savings. •Traditional IRAs and Deductibility: For either type IRA, it’s all a matter of how one prefers to be taxed. Generally speaking, the money you deposit in a traditional IRA isn't taxed that year, and whatever earnings you have won't be taxed until you withdraw that money as a retiree. The deposit will grow tax-free through the years. If you withdraw any before age 59½, you’ll face a penalty. After that, you can withdraw and the money will be taxed as earned income. •Roth IRAs, Exemptions and No RMDs: Roth IRA contributions are never deductible. You pay taxes on the money when you earn it, just like any other income. The benefit of a Roth is that when the owners decide to withdraw from it after age 59½, they will not be faced with any taxes. In other words, the Roth offers tax-exempt rather than tax-deferred savings. Also, traditional IRA rules include required minimum distributions (RMDs). With a traditional IRA, you must begin to take RMDs by April 1 of the year following the year you reach age 70.5, but that isn’t the case with a Roth IRA. •The Best of Both Worlds? Naturally, IRA owners want to chart a path in which they’re penalized with taxes the least. It may be possible to cushion one’s retirement savings against future tax increases by converting some of an IRA to a Roth and earn tax-free gains going forward. “Converting to a Roth will make sense for many people, and if you’re eligible to contribute to both types of IRAs, you may divide contributions between a Roth and traditional IRA,” Lowrey says. “But the total contributions to both must not surpass the limit for that tax year.”
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5 Tips for Treating a Family Member with Dementia This Holiday Season By Kerry Mills
Whether it’s Mom, Dad, Grandma or Grandpa —or your spouse — the “holiday quarter” can present special challenges for families with a loved one suffering from dementia. “We have an expectation that loved ones should never change from the person we’ve perceived them to be for years, but everyone changes significantly over an extended period, especially those diagnosed with dementia,” says Kerry Mills, a soughtafter expert in best care practices for people with dementia, which includes Alzheimer’s. November is Alzheimer’s Awareness Month. “Dementia encompasses a wide range of brain diseases, which means it’s not the fault of a Grandma if she has trouble remembering things or gets flustered. Empathy for what she’s experiencing on the level of the brain will help your relationship with her. Do not expect her to meet you halfway to your world; you have to enter her world.” Spouses have a particularly difficult time coping with their partner’s dementia, Mills says. A spousal relationship is a team and is central to the identities of both people. So, while you’re paying special attention to a parent’s or grandparent’s condition, extend it to his or her spouse, she says.
Families tend to have a hard time coping with a loved one’s dementia during holiday gatherings. Mills, coauthor with Jennifer A. Brush of I Care, A Handbook for Care Partners of People with Dementia, (engagingalzheimers.com), offers tips for how to interact with a loved one – say, Grandma – whose brain is deteriorating. • Do not get frustrated. “First, do no harm” – the excellent maxim taught to medical students, is also a great first principle for those interacting with Grandma, who may be experiencing a level of frustration and anxiety you cannot comprehend adequately. She simply doesn’t have access to certain details, but she is still a conscious and feeling person who has plenty to offer. If you get frustrated, she’ll pick up on it.
• Dedicate someone to Grandma during the gathering. Of course, loving families will want to include Grandma in the group, but be careful not to overwhelm her. Her brain, which has trouble processing some information, could use assistance — a liaison to help her process things. Grandpa could probably use a break; her son or daughter may be the best handler during a gathering.
• Give Grandma purpose; give her a task in the kitchen. Keep Grandma, who may’ve been prolific in the kitchen in the past, engaged! Simple tasks, such as mashing potatoes or stirring gravy, may be best. Engage her in conversation about the food. If it’s Grandpa whose suffering dementia, include him in a group. Give him a cigar if the other men are going outside to smoke. Engage him in a conversation about football, which may allow him on his own terms to recall details from the past.
• Use visual imagery and do not ask yes-or-no questions. Again, asking someone with Alzheimer’s to remember a
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specific incident 23 years ago can be like asking someone confined to a wheelchair to run a 40-yard dash — it’s physically impossible. Don’t pigeonhole her. Direct Grandma in conversation; say things to her that may stimulate recollection, but don’t push a memory that may not be there. Pictures are often an excellent tool. • Safety is your biggest priority. Whether during a holiday gathering or in general, Grandma may commit herself to activities she shouldn’t be doing, such as driving. “She’s been driving for decades, and then she develops a memory problem, which not only prevents her from remembering her condition, but also how to drive safely,” Mills says. “This major safety concern applies to any potentially dangerous aspect to life.” “Currently, there’s a stigma with the condition, but I’d like to change the baseline for how we regard dementia,” Mills says. “As with other medical conditions, Alzheimer’s should not be about waiting to die — patients often live 15 years or more after a diagnosis. It should be about living with it.” Kerry Mills, MPA, is an expert in best care practices for persons with dementia both in the home and in out-of-home health care residences and organizations. She is a consultant to numerous hospitals, assisted livings, hospice, home care agencies, senior day care centers and nursing homes.
3 Scientific Breakthroughs In the Fight Against Diabetes By Vicki Fischenich
Chances are you know someone with diabetes. We all do. Thirty million Americans have been diagnosed with diabetes, according to the American Diabetes Association (ADA), and another 86 million have “pre-diabetes” – those who are at risk for developing type 2 diabetes. Together, that’s a third of the entire U.S. population. The ADA estimates the total national cost of diagnosed diabetes in the United States is $245 billion. That figure is sure to grow as a larger percentage of the population develops the condition. So, what can be done about it? A healthy lifestyle is the best way to avoid and treat type 2 diabetes. But there are also exciting technological advances in diabetes treatment that aim to reduce the financial burden of diabetes care while providing relief to those who suffer from the condition.
A ‘Smart’ Wound Dressing Chronic skin ulcers affect about 25 percent of all type 2 diabetics, resulting in more than 71,000 amputations each year in the U.S., according to the Centers for Disease Control. Open wounds are a painful and debilitating side affect of diabetes, and wound care is a big part of the financial burden of diabetes. A new “smart” wound dressing, developed by a Silicon Valley startup, could turn the tide in treating these chronic wounds. The company, OSNovative Systems, says advanced materials technology allows its self-adaptive wound dressing (SAWD) to detect and adjust to the changing needs of a wound to create the optimal healing environment. The dressing material is designed to reverse functions as often as needed to provide hydration to dry areas of a wound while draining exuding areas. To date, more than 40,000 patients have been treated with the FDA-approved dressing, which has the product name Enluxtra. Clinical studies and anecdotal evidence show remarkable healing results, even with wounds that remained open after years of conventional treatment. Because a single dressing can be left on for up to 10 days, the wound is able to heal undisturbed, and patients do not have to endure (or pay for) daily dressing changes. SAWDs also promise big benefits to hospitals, nursing homes and wound clinics. Because the dressing can be used at all stages of healing, it replaces dozens of conventional treatment products, drastically reducing inventory costs and simplifying the treatment protocols and training for doctors and nurses. Research analysts at Frost & Sullivan gave Enluxtra the 2014 New Product Innovation Leadership Award for its potential to fundamentally change wound care.
A Pacemaker for Weight Loss What if we could just turn off feelings of hunger? That’s what a device developed by EnteroMedics is designed to do to treat a range of gastrointestinal and metabolic diseases, including diabetes. The Maestro Rechargeable System, which is similar to a pacemaker, is designed to control both hunger and fullness in obese patients. It does so by intermittently blocking the vagus nerve from transmitting the sensations from digestive system to the
brain. The vagus nerve, among its many tasks, is responsible for regulating digestive system. The nerve-blocking therapy may help overweight patients return to a healthy body weight and reduce the risk of diabetes, hypertension and other potentially life-threatening diseases linked to obesity. The Maestro Rechargeable System is available in Europe and is listed on the Australian Register of Therapeutic Goods for supply in Australia. It is currently limited to investigational use in the U.S. A multi-phase clinical trial is underway to determine the safety of the device and its effect on weight loss.
An Injection to Halt Diabetes At the Salk Institute for Biological Studies in La Jolla, Calif., researchers are developing an injection that could essentially halt the effects of diabetes. People suffering from diabetes are affected by hyperglycemia when blood cells become insulin-insensitive and stop absorbing sugar. Prolonged hyperglycemia can lead to poor circulation, increased risk of infection, cardiac arrhythmia, seizures and coma, which is why diabetics most close
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Get your Christmas shopping started at the Christmas Tree Shop, then we will give you a $10 gift card either towards your meal or shopping at the Cracker Barrel, stop at Stew Leonards on your way home for more shopping.
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The Village is beautifully decorated, Victorian-style, with fruit wreaths and greenery. Live entertainment. Enjoy shopping and lunch on your own.
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Tues Dec 9 $99 View the Christmas Tree and display at the Metropolitan Museum, the Cezanne works of art and the “America Today” mural. Lunch at the Marriott Marquis, before going to Bryant Park for their Christkindlmart where you can shop for unique gifts. Pass the Rockefeller Center Christmas tree on our way home.
“HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS” AT THE BROWNSTONE Tues Dec 9 $99
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Dance, sing along and just enjoy some of your favorite Holiday tunes and get into the spirit of Christmas. A great afternoon of dance music and a variety of entertainment from the Jersey Dreamers. Full course luncheon with 2 complimentary drinks included.
ALL STAR CHRISTMAS AT THE STAATEN Wed Dec 17 $96
Enjoy the music of Christmas with the All Star Players and laugh with a great comedian. Includes one hour open bar and dinner with choice of main entrée. One hour open bar. Full course meal with wine and soda.
HOLIDAY SHOWS WITH THE STARS TONY ORLANDO’S GREAT AMERICAN CHRISTMAS SHOW at the Sands Casino
Thurs Dec 4, Sat Dec 6 $109 Join us for a glittering tribute to the holiday season. Hear classic Christmas songs and fan favorites such as “Candida”, “Knock Three Times”, “Tie a Yellow Ribbon”, and “Sweet Gypsy Rose”. Includes buffet and $30 in slot play.
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sions that reflect the opulent era in Newport. On the first evening you will stroll though the magnificently decorated house at the “A Holiday Evening at “The Breakers” and enjoy the live holiday music and elegant refreshments. On day two enjoy “The Elms” a re-creation of an elegant French Christmas in this 1901 Chateau. Afterwards we will tour the “Marble House” of the Gilded Age including the 20 foot poinsettia tree in the Gold Ballroom. Includes: 1 Night, 1 Breakfast, 1 Breakfast, 1 Dinner.
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4 Tips for Anyone Considering Plastic Surgery Dr. John Zannis
Today, thankfully, society’s understanding of plastic surgery has matured as the practice has demonstrated its ability to improve human well-being, says board-certified plastic surgeon Dr. John Zannis. “Decades ago, I think it’s fair to say there was a stigma that plastic surgery was for those with too much money and vanity, but now it’s known to help people who have perfectly healthy reasons to alter their bodies — from breast cancer survivors to people with breathing obstructions,” says Zannis, head of the Zannis Center for Plastic Surgery, (www.zannisplasticsurgery.com). “However, plastic surgery is a multi-billion dollar industry in the United States, and some of the doctors performing these procedures are not certified,” Zannis says. “Their patients are at risk not only of botched surgeries, but of undergoing unnecessary procedures for the wrong reasons.” Zannis, who studied art and art history in Florence, Italy, says context is extremely important in plastic surgery. He offers his
prerequisites for plastic and cosmetic surgery.
• Don’t undergo a procedure that makes you unrecognizable, unless you’re correcting disfigurement. Whether you want to gain more confidence because you’ve recently re-entered the dating scene or you’ve decided upon aesthetic improvements for your career, there’s something distinctly American about continued self-improvement throughout one’s life. Recently, actress Renee Zellweger shocked much of the public with her new, post-surgical look. “Zellweger has since stated that she embraces her new look, adding that change is the purpose of her surgery,” Zannis says. “However, many patients prefer to remain recognizable to their friends and family. Make sure to choose a procedure with a surgeon who grasps the idea of undergoing improvements while maintaining a recognizable appearance.”
• Board certification by the American Board of Plastic Surgery is a must! Just like everyone else, doctors want to make money. In many cases, doctors aren’t required to be certified to inject Botox or perform other procedures. We’ve all heard the plastic surgery nightmares, which are often caused by a botched surgery, a surgeon who didn’t explain to the patient the overall change to a face with oversized lips, or a combination of the two.
• Do it for your own reasons and not someone else’s. It’s one thing to seek breast enhancement in order to boast one’s own confidence; it’s another to do so to please a boyfriend. “It’s your body,” Zannis says. “You will have to deal with the consequences of a larger chest for the rest of your life. Be clear that you are the one who wants to change your body.”
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miss the mark of your intended self-improvement. It’s possible to get several excellent procedures done with a result of diminishing returns. “If you think your nose could be better or you’d like help eliminating fat in places that, no matter how much you diet and exercise, simply will not go away, then a procedure may be in order,” Zannis says. “And, you may want multiple procedures done. If this is the case, keep in mind the overall picture of what you’re going for.” Dr. John Zannis is board certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery.
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8 Ways to Prevent the Winter Blues SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) By Diane Lang
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There are several people who experience a change of moods during the winter months, particularly a feeling of depression and sadness. Typically when the weather gets warmer, these feelings will begin to lessen. If you are feeling under the weather during the cold winter months but not sure if you are having seasonal disorder, you can check to see if you are experiencing certain symptoms related to the disorder. Diane Lang, a positive living speaker, author and life coach (www.dlcounseling.com), shares some of the symptoms associated with SAD and eight ways to help prevent the winter blues.
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) Symptoms: 1. Feelings of sadness, hopelessness and anxiety during the winter months. 2. Feeling fatigue, loss of energy, trouble concentrating and unmotivated. 3. The feelings of sadness, fatigue, isolated, etc. that start out mild and become more severe as the winter progresses. 4. Change in appetite and sleeping habits. 5. Social withdrawal - loss of interest in social activities and hobbies. Some people tend to “hibernate” during the winter months. They don’t leave their house very often during the winter months and they stop socializing and enjoying their daily activities. They start feeling isolated, lonely and depressed. Watch out for this pattern. “The cause of SAD is still unknown but we know environmental factors play a big role,” Diane Lang says. “A person who lives in an area near a lake can get ‘the lake effect’ where he gets so much snow and very little sun all winter, resulting in SAD. We also know that SAD can run in the family — genetics play a role. Seasonal affective disorder is more common in women and we usually see symptoms starting in young adulthood.”
months, setting up vacation time in warm, sunny spots can help and give you something to look forward to. 8. Meds — Doctors have prescribed anti-depressants that have worked well for some patients that suffer with more severe SAD symptoms. Diane Lang, Positive Living Expert and life coach, is a nationally recognized speaker, happiness author, educator, therapist and media expert.
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There are different treatment options available for SAD and even ways to help prevent SAD or at least the severity of it. 1. Light Therapy — we know that increased sunlight helps improve the symptoms of seasonal disorder. There are certain lights you can buy called “Light Therapy Box,” which mimic outside light and help you lift your mood and spirits. 2. Psychotherapy — a therapist can help you identify your negative thoughts and behaviors and help change them. A therapist can also help you find good coping skills to feel better. 3. Spend some time outdoors to grab some natural light — take a morning or afternoon walk and take time to sit in the sun to help lift your spirits. Even if the weather is cold and snowy, we do know that being outside in the winter months is beneficial. 4. Exercise — every time we exercise we produce endorphins while reducing stress hormones. This gives us a boost of happiness. 5. Bring the outdoors inside — open up the shades and curtains. Move your desks and chairs near the window to bring the sunlight in doors. 6. Don’t let winter make you feel trapped. Make weekly plans to have fun whether it’s dinner with friends or catching a movie, just make sure to laugh and socialize. Surround yourself with family and friends to give the extra support you need. 7. Plan a vacation where the weather is warm and the sun is shining. If you feel a sense of isolation and loneliness in the winter
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Where All Your Technology Questions Are Answered By Nick Radesca QUESTION: I hate talking on my small, flat, square cellphone. Is it true that there are cordless phone systems that allow users to make and receive cellphone calls on the larger cordless handsets?
ANSWER: It is true. Last year I bought a Panasonic “Link2Cell” Bluetooth cordless phone system similar to the newer model pictured and I love it.
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My wife and I have cellphones but avoided them when home preferring our cordless home phone with its comfortable handsets. However, at times things got crazy when our cellphones and the home phone all rang at once. To ease the situation I bought a Panasonic Link2Cell system. What it does is integrates our wireless cellphones and wired home phone into a single cordless phone system so that the cordless handsets can be used to make or receive calls on any phone line connected to it. In my case, I have three phone lines - one landline and two cellphone lines. For instance, the other day my wife called a friend on the landline using a cordless phone handset. When a call came in on my cellphone, I answered it on one of the other cordless handsets. To work, your cellphone must be fitted with Bluetooth, which allows cellphones to connect to the cordless phone base unit wirelessly using
a method called “pairing”. Pairing is done just once, the same way you would pair a cellphone in your car. Once paired, a cellphone disconnects when taken away and automatically reconnects to the cordless phone base unit when it is back in the house. My Panasonic phone system can connect up to two cellphones and allows access to each cellphone’s phonebook. Get this, when a cellphone call comes in, the cordless system plays that cellphone’s unique ringtone. Newer systems come with text message alerts, a cellphone charging station and who knows what else. At first, I was overwhelmed with the functionality of this phone system. However, when browsing through the operating manual I realized that once a cellphone is paired, the system operates just fine out of the box without much tweaking. The one knock, at least with my older system, is that when my cellphone is too far
from the cordless system base unit, the cellphone sound quality on the cordless handset has some static. Once I became accustomed to the idea of making and receiving cellphone calls with my home cordless handsets, I considered getting rid my landline altogether but haven’t done so yet. If your home cordless phone system is ready for an upgrade, I suggest switching to a Bluetooth system. With Christmas near, it could make a neat gift.
Nick Radesca is a volunteer at SeniorNet at FSL L.I., a not-for-profit organization that provides technology training to people 50 years and older. For more information, visit SeniorNet websites at www.seniornetli.org and www.facebook.com/ seniornetli, call 631-427-3700 Ext. 268 or 235 or send e-mails to svero@fsl-li.org or nick2p @yahoo.com.
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Nostalgic Desserts to Celebrate the Season
• Prepare traditional treats such as homemade fudge, cookies or ice cream. Don’t be afraid to mix it up though. • Serve a wide variety of options, from finger food snacks and candies to more elaborate cakes and pies. Blend flavors . • Be sure to stock up on simple ingredients that easily turn ordinary ice cream flavors, like vanilla, into scrumptious treats you can make yourself. Layer on a delicious toppings, such Bosco’s new Fudge Brownie or Sea Salt Caramel syrups.
Elicit fond memories • All desserts have a place if they bring back memories for your family. Dig into grandma’s recipe tin for inspiration, or ask relatives to
Of course the centerpiece of any dessert table is a great pie. These simple recipes feature Bosco syrups, available soon at Walmart stores nationwide. Both make for delicious desserts your family will beg you to make for years to come. For more information, visit www.BoscoWorld.com or www.Facebook.com/BoscoChocolate. — Family Features
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Chocolate Cream Pie 1 pre-made pie crust 2 egg yolks 2 tablespoons flour 6 tablespoons Bosco Chocolate Syrup 1 tablespoon butter 2 cups whole milk 1 teaspoon vanilla extract.
Line 9inch pie plate with pastry. Bake according to directions on package. Beat egg yolks slightly. Add flour and syrup and stir thoroughly. Place in saucepan and cook on medium-low heat. Add butter and milk gradually, stir constantly, and cook for about 10 minutes or until mixture thickens. Stir in
vanilla extract and pour into baked crust. Cool in refrigerator for 2-3 hours to set. Before serving, swirl flavored whipped cream around the edges or cover the pie. Decorate by drizzling Bosco Chocolate Syrup on top or sprinkling on chocolate shavings.
Bosco Whipped Cream 1/2 pint whipping cream 2 teaspoons sugar 2 tablespoons Bosco Original Chocolate or Sea Salt Caramel or Fudge Brownie Syrup.
Combine all ingredients and beat until mixture is the consistency of whipped cream. Spread over pie, fruit, or dollop into coffee. Photo courtesy of Getty Images
Chanukah Holiday Recipes With Chanukah just around the corner (sundown December 16), home cooks, amateur cooks and top chefs alike are looking for new and delicious recipes to make the holidays even more special for family and friends. Here are some Chanukah recipes from Master Chef Rolf Nettesheim, a master chef classically trained at one of Germany’s top culinary schools, and now the head chef at The Palace Coral Gables.
Chanukah Chocolate Clusters
1 box matzo 2 cup dark chocolate pieces 1 cup combined dried diced fruit (Craisins, figs, dates, raisins) 1 cup crushed cashews nuts (optional) ½ cup sweet wine 4 ounces honey Parchment paper Emulsify sweet wine and honey so honey dissolves. Melt dark chocolate over double boiler. Drizzle wine/honey mixture over matzo tak-
ing care to not make the mixture soggy. Mix in fruit-nut mixture. Pour melted chocolate over mixture and gently stir to coat. Using two spoons formed small mounds of the mixture and drop on the parchment paper. Cool and enjoy!
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Honey Chicken
1 whole chicken cut in pieces ½ cup fresh chopped herbs-rosemary, shallot, garlic, ½ cup honey ½ cup sweet wine 1 lemon juiced 1/3 cup extra virgin olive oil ½ cup teriyaki or soy sauce (if you substitute light soy use five tablespoons). Create the marinade with fresh chopped herbs, honey, extra virgin olive oil, lemon juice, sweet wine. Marinate the chicken in for six hours or overnight. Roast covered with the marinade on 300 degrees for approximately one hour. Uncover and continue roasting 10 minutes until golden.
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bring desserts or recipes with special meaning to them. ·Decorate the dessert table with accents that serve up reminders of the past for your guests. Photos of celebrations through the years or a family heirlooms, set the stage for an evening filled with sweet remembrances. · Encourage guests to bring items for the table, showing their memories along with their homemade items.
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Fondly reliving the nostalgic memories of years gone by is an integral aspect of many family gatherings and celebrations. This year, relive history in the sweetest way with a dessert table that pays homage to traditions while also helping your family create delicious new memories to cherish. Here are some tips to bring the best to the table.
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Dear Mark: Can you explain to me why I no longer get anywhere near the number of top slot jackpots that I once got in the past? — Sandra R. By past, Sandra, I am assuming that your slot play consisted of the “old style” reel machines. Those machines had physical limitations as to the number of reels and stops per reel, which created a limited number of possible outcomes. That total number, often referred to as a slot cycle, can be in the tens of thousands on a three-reel machine. Today’s multi-line slot machines have no physical limitations, creating slot cycles in the tens of millions. What this means is that when playing multi-line games, there is less volatility, which equates to additional smaller jackpots, but the chances of hitting a top-line jackpot are greatly decreased. Dear Mark: On the video poker game Triple Bonus Plus, four aces, when $5 are played, is worth
$1,200. Since this is the threshold for IRS purposes, wouldn’t it make much more sense to reduce it by a dollar and make it $1,199? The people I have talked to about this stand in agreement with me. The game would have fewer delays, and gamblers would have fewer W -2G statements each year. — Bobby F. I stand with you, Bobby. The
W-2G tax forms required by IRS regulations. Better yet, Bobby, based on the value of today’s dollar versus yesteryear, $5,000 - $10,000 would be a more applicable figure to initiate IRS paperwork. Will the IRS make my suggested change to alleviate work for the casino and give the grinding player a break? Don’t bet on it! As for you stating “gamblers hav-
Gambling Wisdom of the Week: “At gambling, the deadly sin is to mistake bad play for bad luck.” – Ian Fleming, Casino Royale (1953) $1,200 threshold needs to be adjusted, considerably upwards. For decades now, it sits pat at $1,200. Dollar players usually have that much invested in a slot machine before they hit anything sizable, and then they have to pay taxes on top of that, which ends up creating a loss on those four Aces you mentioned. Yes, making those jackpot wins at $1,199 would stop those mandatory
ing fewer W2-G’s,” unfortunately, this does not mean they are off the hook from paying taxes on a $1,199 win. Taxes are due on all wins regardless of whether you are issued a W2-G or not. The set point of $1,200 only ensures that at least some gamblers are forced to declare some of their winnings. Mentioning the difference between tax avoidance and tax evasion might
be appropriate here. Tax avoidance is the legal use of tax laws to reduce one’s tax burden. In the eyes of the IRS, failure to report a $1,199 jackpot is escaping payment by illegal means, or better stated, tax evasion. Just sayin’. Your tax liability is between you and the IRS. This columnist is not going to offer up a cavalier, “oh, fuggedaboutit; you won’t get caught,” recommendation. Instead, Bobby, I suggest you should keep an accurate diary of your gambling winnings and losses for income tax reporting purposes. Revenue Procedures 77-29 require that the taxpayer maintain an accurate diary that supports evidence of both wins and losses. Make sure your diary includes the type of gambling activity, location, and a statement of the amount won and lost. As well, Bobby, with slot machine play, be sure to keep the time, date, and a slot machine number.
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Age of Elegance By Ethel Bennett
Stan Millman’s final curtain
Women Must Be 60 Years or Over I would like to compete in the 2015 Ms. New York Senior America Pageant. Name Address Telephone E-mail Address Return to: Marleen Schuss, State Director 80 Banks Avenue - Apt. 2113, Rockville Centre, NY 11570 Or e-mail: marleenschuss@aol.com Phone: 516-678-3242
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The final curtain came down on the life of Stan Millman (lower right), beloved husband of Claire. Ms. New York Senior America has lost one of their most active, devoted and contributing members of the Board of Directors. Stan initiated and created the NY Senior America Web site: newyorksenioramerica.org. He was an outstanding photographer always taking pictures of our many events for publicity purposes. He served as our financial advisor as well as our membership liaison. He shall be missed by all. The National Pageant held at Resorts in Atlantic City last month was well attended by our New York group participants. The Seasoned Steppers performed and were well received by the audience who were excited to see that age has not dampened their enthusiasm. Our Queen, Jane Rubinstein, charmed all who met her. We were indeed proud for her to represent our state. The winner, Patsy Godley, from the state of Virginia won the title and crown. The members of our Cameo Club have been busy participating in many different events. They marched in the New York City Saint Patrick’s Day Parade and performed at the Nassau County Veterans Wall of Honor (see photos). Jane Rubinstein was the featured speaker at the Volunteer Opportunity Day Program for the United Federation of Teachers in downtown Manhattan. Her talk centered around the power of volunteerism. Next month we are looking forward to our Holiday performances at the Huntington Mall for Lord and Taylor. We also will entertain at the Amsterdam at Harborside, in Port Washington. And our annual Holiday/Birthday
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CM Performing Arts Center, Oakdale November 22, 2014 – January 4, 2015
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November 15 – December 27, 2014 “I will honor Christmas in my heart …” Celebrate the season with Long Island’s own holiday tradition. Follow the miser Ebenezer Scrooge on a journey that teaches him the true meaning of Christmas — past, present and future. As described by Newsday— “There could scarcely be a finer tribute to [Dickens’] legend than A Christmas Carol at Theatre Three join us for our for our 31st anniversary production of the immortal classic in all of its thrills, music, joy, and spirit. Wednesday Friday Saturday Sunday Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday Thursday Friday
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Elvis Lives!
200,000 Elvis Lives fans can't be wrong... the King lives on!
At The Patchogue Theatre 71 E Main St.,Patchogue, NY December 31 – January 4, 2015 Elvis Lives is an unforgettable multimedia and live musical journey across Elvis' life. His iconic style, embraced by many of today's artists, continues to intrigue audiences of all generations. Featuring champions and finalists from Elvis Presley Enterprises' worldwide Ultimate Elvis Tribute Artist Contest, audiences "Can't Help Falling In Love"® with this phenomenal theatrical concert experience. Narrated by ‘The King’ himself, this show takes you across Elvis' hit songs of the 1950s, the 1960s and the 1970s, including a spotlight on Elvis’ film career - complete with an Ann-Margaret tribute artist. Additionally, a new exhibit of life-size images of Elvis’ stage-wear from the Graceland archives will be on display before each show. Elvis Lives is the ONLY touring show officially authorized by Elvis Presley Enterprises. Evening and matinee performances available. Special 10:30 New Year’s Eve performance includes beer, wine, champagne toast and ball drop at midnight. Tickets: 631-286-1133 or www.gatewayplayhouse.org
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Mary Poppins is the story of the Banks family who live in a big house in London on Cherry Lane. Things are not going well for the family, the children, Jane and Michael, are out of control and are in need of a new nanny. Jane and Michael have their own ideas about what sort of caretaker they should have, while their parents—and in particular Mr. Banks—are insistent on someone strict for the job. When a mysterious young woman named Mary Poppins appears at their doorstep, the family finds that she’s the answer to their prayers, but in the most peculiar way. Mary Poppins takes the children on many magical and memorable adventures, but Jane and Michael aren’t the only ones she has a profound effect upon. Even grown-ups can learn a lesson or two from the nanny who advises that “anything can happen if you let it.”
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