Winter issue 2012

in Rememberance of the wonderful and talented

Francisco “Azucar� Gomez

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Features In every issue

Love Note

Style me Chic

Happy Medium

Featured Weddings 40

Jessica & Eli

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Sandi & Justin

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Stacy & William

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Denise & Gary

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Photographer: David & Tania Photography

Photographer: White Box Weddings

Photographer: Lash to Lens

Photographer: Damon Tucci Photography

Photography by: Kruise Link Photography * Model: Delerice * Dress and accessories: Francisco Azucar

Planning

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Departments 20

Big Day Beauty

Mane Event 21

What Women Want

Details

29 Be Inspired...

34 Have your Cake and eat it too

Fashion 9 22

From the Runway with Love Francisco Azucar

58 From His Heart When a man changes 57

What Men Want

62 Finance Check Please 63

Recipes

Travel

Destination FIJI 64

Features 18 One-on One Sarafina Dreams 39

Bibi’s Invitations

60 One-on One Lorigan Respres

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Contributors Kenny Pugh Kenny Pugh is the founder of Kenny Pugh, L.L.C., the platform on which Kenny exercises a versatile professional life as a speaker, an author, and a coach. Kenny Pugh, L.L.C. is sponsoring the company for Chat Kafe, where Kenny offers relationship advice, writes inspirational blogs, and hosts his weekly radio program, The Chat Kafe Show with Kenny Pugh.

Kenny believes in presenting information in a manner that is simple, practical, and easy to understand.

His mission is to encourage, empower, and equip people to reach their God-given potential through public speaking and personal coaching. www.kennypugh.com

Making the Cover

These beautiful models, Actresses and pageant winners Delpha & Delerice better known as the Barbi Twins were shot

by Photographer Kruise of K. Link Photography at the beautiful La Jolla Ballroom in Coral Gables. These lovely ladies are wearing pieces by the late Francisco Azucar. We hope that he is looking down on us proud of what we have done. Check out their feature on page

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Verinia Galloway (Fashion Editor) Graduating Magna Cum Laude from AIU with a BA in Fashion Design and Marketing, Verinia is a wife, mother,and lover of all things fashion. The owner of Beautistic LLC, a Fashion/Marketing and Beauty Consulting Firm, she keeps her finger on the pulse of what’s trending in today’s fashion business.

In addition to being a business owner she is the Fashion Editor for Shades Wedding Magazine and sits on the board of the Makeva Harold Foundation, a charity based out of West Palm Beach, FL that strives to gives better opportunities to the less fortunate. Family, successful business ventures and opportunities to give back,Verinia believes she can have it all! Check out her insights on everything fashion in Street Fashions and Accessories on shadesmag.net.

Kobe Ellis (Beauty Editor) In 2003, in effort to support her two young sons as a single mother, Kobe Ellis conceived the business idea to share her unique technique for applying Eyelash Extensions with the Jacksonville, Florida community while completing her college education at the University of North Florida.

She named the company Eyes By Kobe.

Since its inception, the company has continued to flourish and Miss Ellis has herself become internationally known as an Eyelash Extension and Brow Shaping Guru in the beauty industry. Kobe is now an international speaker and has amounted a rather discerning clientele. Kobe has since opened a EBK Beauty LifeSTYLE Salon & Demi Spa which is noted for its array of “Look Great, Feel Great” services focusing on Lash Extensions, Brow Sculpting (Threading & Waxing), High Quality hair sales, Hair Replacements and Expert Hair Extension techniques.

Founder and Editorial Director Lakeisha Griffin Executive Editor Lisa Church Fashion Editor Verinia Galloway Beauty Editor

Kobe Ellis

Contributing Writers Nicole Ronczyk Shankie Williams Contributing Photographer Kruise Link Photography Special Contributors Enitan Bereola, II Franciaco Azucar La Jolla Ballroom For more information contact (954) 734-2689 Info@shadesmag.net sales@shadesmag.net www.shadesmag.net

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Photography by: David Watkins Photography * Decor: Ala Flowers & Exquisite Affaires Remembered

Publishers Note

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eing married means more than just wearing a diamond ring and having a beautiful wedding. Remember there is life after the wedding! Before you say “YES” you need to make sure this is the person YOU want to spend the rest of your life with. Now I am very aware of the tribulations that can occur that can shake up a marriage down the road. Sometimes situations can cause people to change then you must do what’s best for you. But I’m not talking about those situations, take Kim Kardashian for instance. She had doubts before she walked down the aisle but she went ahead with it because “She didn’t want to disappoint anyone”. What about because I can’t party like I used to or s/he has gained weight. Now I’m not trying to steer anyone from getting married. I love weddings and everything they represent. Just be certain that you marry for LOVE and not for fashion. Everyday won’t be fun but with love you can weather the storm together. In the vows it says“To have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health” to me this is the most important part.

So when he gets on one knee and asks you to marry him and you say yes, your journey begins. It’s a beautiful thing to find Love but once you find it hold on to it. While you’re dancing the night away at your reception with all your family and friends, glance across the room and find your husband/wife and whisper, “I will love you from this day forward!”

Congratulations on your Big Day! Welcome to Shades Wedding Magazine Winter Issue. Every issue that we’ve produced has been full of inspiration on decor, menus, venues, and everything else that is wedding related. We have made it our mission to provide education regarding finances, be it individual credit reports, financing your wedding, or buying your dream home. All this and everything in between has been brought forth “with sophistication and style’.

We intend to continue in that vein, however we realize that we have a charge to keep. We challenge you to fortify your relationship!

“It’s the falling in love that’s making me high. It’s the being in love that makes me cry.” These lyrics from the amazing Michael Jackson (I’m biased of course) ring true in all relationships. With that being said we encourage you to make those tears of joy. Keep those ‘rose colored glasses’ in your back pocket and rock them with killer heels and a smile the next time he wants to go to the sports bar for date night. Continue to provide affirmation to one another that they are still desirable, funny, brilliant, and whatever else drew them into your heart.

Cherish the time that is shared with one another. Pray with and for one another. Above all be thankful! Your mate is a gift, a blessing! Being grateful is both painless and free.

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Editors Note

Fashion

From the Runway with Love We’ve loosely organized our favorites, but as always, we recommend trying on the dress you could never imagine wearing. Sometimes it’s the perfect fit.

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Vera

Wang

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Lazaro

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Monique

Lhuillier

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Carolina Herrera

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Kenneth

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Pool

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Trend Spotter

A trend that is popping up more and more is mismatched bridesmaids gowns. This trend is designed to show each bridesmaid personal style while ensuring the bride still feels that her special day will be all she ever dreamed

Kate Middleton Copy Royal Wedding CZ Encrusted Open Teardrop Earrings 79.99 overstockjeweler.com

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Badgley Mischka Randall d'Orsay Pump $102.87 - $200.00 amazon.com

Style me Chic

Traditional

The strapless gown will always be a staple for a traditional bride looking for a timeless look. Along with a vintage brooch pin to dress the gown up at the waist and a satin bow embellished platform pump, this look is guaranteed to always be a hit.

Art Deco Vintage CZ Diamond Wedding Brooch Pin $29.99Â OverstockJeweler.com

STYLE: 657 visit site for pricing barijay.com

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Nina Women's Elke1 Platform Pump $89.95 - $99.00 amazon.com

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Style me Chic

Elegance

This high fashion gown from Pronovias is the epitome of elegance.

Paired with a sparkle pump and a over sized cocktail ring, this look Is sure to make any brides day memorable.

Badgley Mischka Humbie II Pump $147.05 - $214.99 amazon.com

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Brielle's Designer Style Cocktail Ring - Gold Tone $55.00 fine-jewelry-shop.com

One-on-One with

Sarafina Dreams By: Verinia Galloway

If you love lingerie that makes you feel pretty then Sarafina Dreams is must have! Featuring everything from sexy loungewear to sensually romantic bridal nighties,designer Janet Mastaler is the perfect choice to make any bride feel pretty. Originating from Hollywood, FL Janet has been involved with lingerie since before she made her dream of being a designer a reality. Her vegetarian lifestyle and love for the environment is translated into her work giving her pieces a very organic and fluid feel. I had a chance to ask this up and coming designer a few questions and here’s what she had to say.

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SWM: What made you interested in becoming a designer and why lingerie?

SF: I really didn’t have a choice, it chose me. I’ve always been fascinated with lingerie so it was a natural transition. I was a lingerie buyer for many years and it was living a dream. How much better could it get to be able to shop and buy lingerie every day for a living. Totally awesome.

Couple that with market trips to New York five times a year and it was pure heaven.

SWM: What is your design process?

SF: Something inspires me, it could be literally anything, a leaf, something on tv, a song; then I see it in my minds eye. From there I start to search for fabrics and d sign the body in sketches. The fabric search is my favorite part. I could spend, and often do, 8 hours a day looking at fabrics, on line and in warehouses. I love textiles. There’s something very exciting about fabric. I can’t describe it but it really makes me happy to be around.

SWM: With all your experience in lingerie, what is your favorite piece to design?

SF: The robe has always intrigued me. I think it says something about you. A robe can be ornate and casual at the same time. The fabric denotes everything. I have a closet full and can’t bear to part with any. They have this wonderful history. You can see a robe on everyone, man and woman throughout time. Kings, Queens, Popes, Jesus himself. It’s a standard garment that can speak volumes.

SWM: Compared to a Ready to Wear designer do you think your design process is any different?

SF: I’m not sure. I design to a feeling which is probably what every designer does. I always think about what the piece is saying, the story it is telling. I always want my pieces to be romantic. I don’t know if it’s different or not really. I think all designers feel the piece first. When I’m designing a new piece I see it in the photo shoot before the sample is even made. It already has a purpose.

SWM: Define/describe your personal style for me?

SF: Casual comfort but with a classic dominance. To me classic elegance is timeless and comfort is absolutely necessary. If I put something on and it’s not comfortable it comes right off. If there’s no suitable alternative I stay home. Being from the 60’s I have a bit of that hippie bohemian style that just never goes away.

Blue jeans and t shirts, barefoot and happy.

SWM: Do you have any favorite designers that inspire you?

SF: So many and yes they all inspire me. My forever favorite is John Kloss from the 70’s. He embraced romantic like no other. I adore him. Others include Calvin Klein, Clovis Ruffin and Stephen Burrows. It’s a matter of making simple wonderful which I love. There are so many but I think I get more inspiration from clothing designers than sleepwear/lingerie designers. I like different and I tend to design what I don’t see, what I can’t find for myself.

SWM: Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?

SF: I see the Sarafina Dreams line greatly expanded and I also see having more than one label. I am currently working on another that has me sleepless. When I get an idea I can’t shake it. It’s a very good thing that I don’t require much sleep.

Sleepwear, loungewear, comfort wear. I’ll never leave this area of design. I love it.

You can visit her on her site at www.sarafinadreams.etsy.com

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Big Day Beauty

Mane Event

By: Kobe Ellis

Your big day is fast approaching and you are looking for a classy, creative, traditional, or one of a kind hairstyle for your wedding. Why choose between one style before you know what you truly want and what will go with your overall wedding style and your dress? Your wedding day and wedding photos need to be everything you want them to be and your bridal hairstyle is so important. We at EBK Beauty understand that and we love taking care of brides and their bridal attendants and suggest you make an appointment to find a stylist who feels the same way.

You should take along any designs of wedding dresses you hope to get or a picture of THE dress you have already chosen is suggested. If you feel comfortable taking in your wedding veil it would be extremely helpful when taking into consideration how to build your style around the veil to give you the dream look you want to have on your special day. Your stylist of choice should give you their time and attention to discuss your ideas, suggest a few of their own and then start trying out new styles.

It may take only one visit or perhaps a few for you to make up your mind as to which style you love and want to choose for your wedding day. You may find that it is very helpful to bring along a camera to your consultation to take photos for you to share with others to help you decide. The upcoming holiday and winter season is a wonderful time to be having a wedding. The hairstyles tend to range from soft romantic curls incorporated with small braids or elaborate upsweeps with incorporated crystals to reflect the magical winter weather.

If you want to make choosing your wedding hairstyle a special event to share with others then we suggest that you book a private appointment for you as well as your bridesmaids, the mother of the bride and mother of the groom, and any others.

You can have the full attention of the salon and receive intimate, memorable, and fun experience to make choosing your wedding day hairstyle special. You can make this the ultimate pampering event from eyebrow threading to unique wedding day nail art, to wedding day makeup; you will get the pampered treatment you deserve and your wedding attendants will forever talk about the pampering you shared with them. If you want this service for the day of your wedding then we suggest you do a pre-wedding day event so you are assured you LOVE everyone’s look BEFORE the big day. Don’t forget to include your mate. Make your man feel special too by making sure your groomsmen are looking and feeling their best too! Make your appointment today to get the personalized attention and quality your deserve!

Photo Courtesy of www.coordinatedforyou.wordpress.com

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Ladies

What Women Want!

Whether your looking for something light and fresh like Vera Wang’s PrincessWith the holiday season upon us men often find it difficult to shop for their partner. Here are a few ideas that would please her no matter what her taste.

Customized Perfume visit site for details scentcrafters.com

Infinity Love Knot Pendant in Sterling Silver $55.00 bluenile.com

Create a romantic scavenger hunt leading her to a night of indulgence.

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Francisco Azucar Photography by:K Link Photography Styled by: Francisco Azucar Hair by: Barbara Orco Makeup by:Nadia Alloul Location: La Jolla Ballroom Model: Delpha Clarke

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Photography by: K Link Photography Styled by: Francisco Azucar Hair by: Barbara Orco Makeup by: Nadia Alloul Model: Delerice Clarke 24 Shades Wedding Magazine | Winter 2012

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Photography by:K Link Photography Styled by: Francisco Azucar Hair by: Barbara Orco Makeup by:Nadia Alloul Model: Delpha Clarke

Photography by:K Link Photography Styled by: Francisco Azucar Hair by: Barbara Orco Makeup by:Nadia Alloul Model: Delerice Clarke 26 Shades Wedding Magazine | Winter 2012

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Photography by: K Link Photography Styled by: Francisco Azucar Hair by: Barbara Orco Makeup by:Nadia Alloul Model: Delpha & Delerice 28

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Details

Be Inspired...

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David Tutera

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Preston Bailey

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Collin Cowe

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Have your cake and eat it too!

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Sylvia Weinstock

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The Cake Guys Dallas , TX

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Charm City Cakes

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Deserts by Dana New Castle, DE

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Bibi Invitations

African/Nigerian Inspired Wedding Invitations Bibi Invitations is a Canadian based online wedding invitation store that creates customizable African themed wedding Invitations Our wedding invitations have foil stamped, die cut or flat printed patterns that draw inspiration from patterns from African fabrics such as Kente and Aso Oke. We started the company after a fruitless search for “African themed wedding invitation� on Google. Our invitations are for the bride who is seeking an invitation that really rises to her special occasion.

If you would like to order Bibi Invitations visit http://www.bibiinvitations.com/

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Jessica & Eli pomona, Ca* June 30th

Photography byDavid and Tania Photography Coco Palm

Vendor Specs Venue: Coco Palm

www.cocopalmrestaurant.com

Florist: The blooming Branch www.thebloomingbranch.com

Photography: David and Tania Photography www.davidandtaniaphotography.com

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Sandi & Justin Leesburg, Va *August 18

Photography by Whitebox Weddings West Belmont Place

Vendor Specs Venue: West Belmont Place www.westbelmontplace.com

Florist: Flower Gallery

www.flowergallerymanassas.com

Photography: whitebox weddings www.whiteboxblog.com

Dress Designer: Kittychen Couture www.kittychencouture.com

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Stacy & William Rye, Ny * September 15

Photography by Lash To Lens El Caribr Country Club Caterers

Vendor Recipe Ceremony

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Reception Site: El Caribe Country Club

www.elcaribecaterers.com

Cake Designer: Carlos Bakery www.carlosbakery.com

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Vendor Recipe Venue: Casa Monica Hotel www.casamonica.com

Florist: Raining Roses productions Inc. www.rainingroses.biz

Planner: Weddings Unique www.weddingsunique.com

Photography: Damon Tucci Photography www.damontucci.com

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Denise & Gary St. Augustine, Fl* November 13th

Photography by Damon Tucci Photography Casa Monica Hotel

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Gentelmen

What Men want...

Having trouble finding something for your better half?

Check out some of our top picks guaranteed to put a smile on his face!

ContourROAM2 Camcorder Full HD and Action HD Fixed-Focus 170° Wide-Angle Lens Lens Rotates 270° Waterproof Down to 3.3’ (1 m) $199.99 bhphotovideo.com

Bluetooth Bracelet

22 sexy coupons guaranteed to bring him mind-blowing pleasure. This is a gift for her to give him, which he will redeem when he wants a sexy treat.

Pair with your cell phone via bluetooth - Vibrate and display the “Caller’s Number” - Can reject, answer and hang up calls directly by the bracelet - Vibrate and display “disconnected” when your mobile is over 10-20 meters from you - Fashionable watch - Can play music from your mobile phone (volume can be adjusted) $34.70 – $50.00 alibaba.com

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From His Heart

Relationship Intangibles Written by: Kenny Pugh It’s hard to believe, but even after you have acquired a Bachelors, Masters or PhD, there is still no guarantee that your relationships will be successful. Many of us have been misled into thinking that a college degree, money in the bank, corporate career and prestigious awards are the foundation of successful relationships. Living here in Atlanta after you have acquired a Bachelors, Masters or PhD, there is still no guarantee that your relationship has allowed me to witness the rise and fall of many relationships based on ‘tangible things’. With the success many women are now experiencing academically and in their careers, there is a sense of expectancy that many of them carry into personal relationships. Newsflash…the intangibles (aka little things) are what make for successful long-term relationships. Intangibles can include, but are not limited to the following: 1) caring, 2) gentleness, 3) selflessness, 4) peace, 5) patience, 6) steadfastness, etc.

How many of you evaluate your potential lifemates based on the above intangible characteristics?

Men with money and women with beauty are easy to find because they come in abundance. Will they be there for you when you are down and out? Will they remain with you after being laid-off from a job? Will they console you when you experience sadness in your life? Will they remain patient with you as you go through your personal growing pains?

These are the questions you need to be able to answer when evaluating a potential mate.

My buddy put it best a long time ago when he recommended that I only accept applications from ‘B-students’ when searching for my wife. You may be asking yourself what is a B-Student? Glad you asked. A B-student is the one who never received an abundance of attention while in school, but always did quality work on every assignment. They are the ones who didn’t receive the top academic awards, but will always be successful in everything they do. What does this mean to you?

For men, A-students are the beautiful women who receive an abundance of attention everywhere they go. Many of them are only sustained by their beauty and have no self-esteem outside of their beauty. Why do men say the pretty girls bring the most drama along with them? Men say this because ‘pretty girls’ are sustained by external accolades and not internal sustained sufficiency.

For women, A-students are the overachieving men who are sustained by accomplishments and public acknowledgment. They lack the sensitive character makeup needed to be successful fathers and good husbands.

A-students are able to provide for you financially and can buy you some pretty awesome gifts, but in the end…many will disappoint you.

The real question that you need to ask yourself is this…

Would I be happy growing old with this person with no money, possessions or public acknowledgments? .

Brought to you by Kenny Pugh – http://www.kennypugh.com

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Mr. 14th Street L R origan

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By: Nicole Ronczyk

Lorigan Respres, the owner of Epic Image Consulting and author of 14th Street Fashion/Life/Legacy has several years’ professional experience working in the fashion/image consulting industry. As a certified member of the Association of Image Consultants International, he does important and effective work on a daily basis to impact the world around him.

His main priority is to give his clients confidence and awareness about how and why a well-put together persona is so important in today's world Their packages are designed for the client who wishes to establish a level of personal branding. Valued clients have many options for making over their lives; it’s our "mantra" to guarantee Epic Image and Style.

Epic Image Consulting has become mentors to the distinguished man of style and gentlemen who care about their image when presenting themselves to the world. Their opinions and suggestions are based on their in-depth experiences and understanding about the history of style and the way a man should dress and carry himself.

To order your copy of 14th Street Fashion/Life/Legacy Magazine visit http://www.amazon.com/14th-Street-Lorigan-Respres/ dp/0983169527 60more

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a pocket square. No necktie tho! For those indoor wedding of course a full suit but don't try to out dress the wedding party.

Keep it simple but polished.

SWM: Do you have a favorite designer?

Well,,, Ahhh, wow not really!! Well wait I do like Sean John.

"Diddy" as we call him has really change the face of being a African American designers. His designs are very nice are made for just right.

SWM: What is a tip that you'd like to give grooms, groomsmen, or the women that are buying for suits for these men?

My advice to them would be to take it seriously. This is a huge day for everyone involved and of course the main ingredient to a wedding is the wardrobe. The wardrobe needs to be well thought out and leave room for error. If there was ever a time to take wearing a suit seriously, The wedding day is time. If you get lost, Hire a stylist!!!!

SWM: What is the perfect gift for the dapper gentleman?

Great question! I call them "Goodie Basket" Its more or less a bag full of a man basic accessory needs. IE, A nice watch,necktie,tie pin, with some cuff links and probably some cologne to top it off. I mean who could go wrong with that!

SWM: How did you get involved in the industry?

Well, I'll say it's more of a way of life for me. I've always been a fashion forward person! But having the eye to create a brand for someone image is amazing. Needless to say I took that power and applied it to something and Epic Image Consulting was born. And now the new born 14th Street Fashion/Life/Legacy which is a great read might I add. LOL!!!!

SWM: What staples should a man have in his closet?

Hmmm!!! If I had to put it in order I would say, 2 well tailored suits. A nice metal band watch, a pair of nice casual sneakers and a couple pair of jeans... That's the short answer. LOL SWM: What is a trend that you'd like implemented in formal wear?

I had to think about this one. But this very magazine is what is needed. Your magazine shines the light on how formal is represented from our culture. Not to play down any other magazine but you guys are doing a great job. You implemented what is needed for formal wear be it for men or women.

SWM: What do you suggest that a man wear as a guest at a wedding?

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SWM:. How can you upgrade your man but be subtly?

This is a women best attribute, She can be sooo elusive in her approach. Sorry got lost with the question. LOL Well as you know we (men) do things to impress our lady anyway but if it's something she would like to see him wear or change in the wardrobe department, I would say present it to him in form of a gift wrapped up and all... If that doesn't work, drag that man to the nearest mall and charm your way into putting him into something you like .

SWM: What's next for 14th street?

14th Street has grown so much since it's release back in April 2012, Of course the first issue was geared to the Men of Color, Up next will be 14th Street for women. Being a author has been a thrill, Allows me to show my styling brand and still be a stylist. We're blessed to have the outlet to reach so many people and show them the polished side of Urban America.

Finance

Check Please By: Nicole Ronczyk

What does the new year mean to you? Is it the time of renewal, new diet, new outlook, new honey, or new money? New money... as in tax refund. In 2012, the average tax refund was about $3,000. Most of us have already spent this amount in our head a few times. Before you write that figurative check think about the refunds of tax season past. What do you have to show for it? A car whose ‘check engine’ light stays on, a few outfits that no longer fit, or an electronic gadget or two that is now outdated. Please be advised if you are receiving a large refund check you may wish to review and adjust your federal withholding on your W-4 form.

The reality of the matter is you are giving the government an interest free loan by waiting until the end of the year to get your money back. Would they do that for you? Don’t hold your breath! With that being said, we encourage you to treat this refund with as much frugalness and responsibility as you do with your regular paycheck(that is if you are fiscally responsible). Here are some great ways to put that refund to good use.

1.Invest in Yourself - Rita Chand said, “There are only seven days in the week and ‘someday’ is not one of them.” Have you been meaning to take a professional course, hire a career coach, or start your small business? Maybe your esteem is at a low point. Do you want enroll in the gym, get a trainer, or get that much needed dental work done? This is the time to seize those opportunities that will benefit you professionally or make you feel better about yourself.

2.Pay Off Some Debt- When you pay down or eliminate debt you boost your credit rating. By sending your financial institution additional funds on the balance of your mortgage or car loan you can reduce your monthly payments or at least shorten the amount of time that you will need to pay on the loan. This will help you to save money throughout the year which will certainly improve your quality of life!

3.Book a Your Vacation Early- Things come and go but memories, and instagram pictures last forever! When you book vacations in advance you have the opportunity to really research for the very best deals. Many websites and travel agencies also provide addon options for things such as car rentals, excursions, additional days, and upgrades at great price points. By taking advantage of these deals you will to charge as much your | Winter 2012 62 not need Shades Wedding Magazine

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4.Contribute to an IRA- Assuming you want to eventually retire, it may be wise to start planning for that time.

Investment Retirement Accounts (IRA) can be started at just about any financial institution. IRA’s are established so that you can save for your golden years, let’s face it- Social Security is not going to take care of you.

There are three types of Investment Retirement Accounts-Rollover, Roth, and Traditional. Speak to an investment professional about your goals and which type of IRA is best for you.

5.Establish an Emergency Account- It has been said that most families are one emergency away from financial ruin. Don’t let this be said of your family. Loss of job, illness, car troubles, or natural disasters can deplete your bank account quicker than you know it. Visit your local credit union or bank and set up a high interest savings account or CD to provide you additional peace of mind. It is recommended that you have at least 6 months salary put to the side. Remember ‘it’ can happen to you.

Use this new money to develop a new mindset when it comes to your finances. Be fiscally responsible and allow this money to work hard for you so that you don’t have to work as hard.

Recipe

Winter is the time of year in which we cram extra parties, events, and shopping in shorter days. Add to this, skyrocketing to-do lists and thinning pockets it can be a recipe for disaster! Needless to say, the stresses of the season can become quite daunting at times, enough to want to stay in bed! Well we have the perfect meal to usher in that day of leisure for you and your mate!

Eggnog French Toast Ingredients 1 egg, beaten slightly 1/2 cups of eggnog 1 1/2 tablespoon of ground cinnamon 1/4 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice 4 slices French bread

Lobster Scrambled Eggs Ingredients 4 eggs 1/2 teaspoon chopped fresh tarragon 4 ounces cooked lobster (bite size pieces) 2 tablespoons of butter salt and pepper to taste

Directions Whisk the eggs. eggnog, cinnamon, and pumpkin pie spice together in a mixing bowl until well blended. Pour the mixture into a shallow dish.

Preheat an electric skillet to 300 degrees F (150 degrees C).

Lightly grease the skillet.

Dip one slice of bread at a time into the eggnog mixture, being sure to coat each side of the bread thoroughly.

Place the prepared bread slices into the preheated skillet, and cook, turning once, until golden brown on each side.

Place cooked slices on a serving plate and cover with foil to keep warm until all French toast is cooked. Serve immediately.

Beat eggs and tarragon in a small bowl. Set aside.

Sprinkle lobster pieces with cayenne pepper.

Melt butter in nonstick pan over medium-low heat. Add lobster; cook, stirring, until warmed through, 2 to 4 minutes. Stir in egg mixture; increase heat to medium and scramble eggs, stirring constantly, until nearly set, 3 to 4 minutes.

Mimosa

Ingredients 3/4 cup of champagne, chilled 1/4 cup orange juice

Directions Mix three parts of your favorite sparkling white to one part of your favorite orange juice.

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** Add a side of fresh fruit and bask in the presence of your present (IE your mate).

Travel

Destination...

By: Nicole Ronczyk

Bula!

Between planning for the wedding, surviving your the holidays, and navigating LIFE you are pretty much burned out and NEED a getaway! Can’t you just imagine you and your honey cuddling in a hammock surrounded by tropical blooms, lush banyan trees, listening to cascading waterfalls while partaking amazing tropical libations? Well pack your bags and and get your passport ready and meet us at the airport! Where to you ask? Fiji!!

Without a doubt Fiji is one of the most enchanting destinations in the South Pacific. Fiji is comprised of over 300 islands. Suva, located on the southeast shore is it’s capital. Tourism is the county’s key source of revenue due to it’s climate and pristine beaches. When planning your destination wedding, honeymoon , or vacation in Fiji, keep in mind that it is located in the tropical region. Therefore certain times of the year (April -October) it has a dry but windy period. The other months are the rainy season however those months are warmer and less windy. Fiji is the epitome of a tropical island paradise no matter when you decide to travel.

On the off chance that you and your mate wish to leave your honeymoon suite, Fiji has everything you need to make your honeymoon or vacation a memorable experience. For those who are city-slickers through and through, the island of Nadi beckons you! Shopping, exquisite dining, and world class resorts are what make Nadi the perfect locale for the liveliest of couples.

Nadi is known throughout Fiji as the “Jetset Town” due to it’s wide array of bars and nightclubs. Not to be outdone, Suva is certainly a great place to celebrate. It boasts of karaoke bars, trendy bistros, and jazz clubs for those wishing to experience it’s vibrant night life.

For those who wish visit Fiji on the pretense of getting away from the cosmopolitan life, don’t be dismayed. Everywhere you turn there is an opportunity to experience something new. Excur-

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FIJI

sion tours are a must if you want to see how the locals live and play! Adventure seekers... Bula (Fijian term meaning hello, welcome, love)! This is the perfect place to take part in whitewater rafting, snorkeling, rainforest trekking, or mountain biking. Whether you wish to swim with the manta rays or cruise on a bilibili (Fijian name for bamboo raft) your appetite for adventure will be satiated. Speaking of appetite, are you and your mate foodies? Fiji is the exotic melting pot of cultures of native Fijians, Chinese, Indian, and European settlers and it’s cuisine reflects that. Be sure to try Fijian lovo, it is food prepared in an earth oven for an authentic taste of Fiji.

The atmosphere in Fiji is conducive to recharging your mind, body, spirit, and romance (not that you need it)! Fiji’s cobalt blue waters and alabaster beaches, cloudless skies served as the backdrop in hollywood blockbusters such as Castaway and Blue Lagoon. Let it serve as the milieu to your love story as well! Bula!

B rid a l N o o k

Photographers Glessner Photography (North Carolina) 336-891-0808 www.glessnerphotography.com Kesha Lambert Photography (New York) 914-407-4116 www.keshalambert.com Lasting Memories Photography (New York) 917-603-7581 www.lasting-memories.us Rennard Photography (Washington) 206-304-8604 www.rennardphotography.com Civic Photos(Texas) 409-599-9683 weddings.civicphotos.com Michael Anthony Photography (California) 310-906-6210 www.michaelanthonyphotography.com 65 Shades Wedding Magazine | Winter 2012

AJ Shorter Photography (Miami) 310-906-6210 www.ajshorter.com Lucia Belle Photography (Virginia) 804-405-7613 www.jessicamaida.com Event Planner Malasia Weddings and Events 305-303-5110 Esquisite Affaires Remembered 305-396-2732 www.exquisiteaffaires.com Invitations Kerry’s Papery (954) 547-3165 www.kerryspapery.com

Bridal Shops Zayas Bridal 305-887-1380 www.zayasbridals.net J. Del Olmo 305-448-3599 www.jdelolmobridal.com Zayas Fashions 305-823-1433 www.zayasfashions.com Fashion Durga-Kali 646-580-1353 www.durga-kali.com Makeup Artist Krystal Taylor 601-383-0388 krystaltaylormua.com

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