SKY Mag Issue 20 by SKY Girls Zed

ISSUE #20

For Teen Girls Only!

DEC JAN 2023

Thrifters paradise

SKY's guide

The ultimate playlist

by DJ Milkyway

to your first job Letter to my 25 year old self by

thing OUR Good sleep, Positivity, Thrifting

Susy Thomas

OUR thing Shisha, Bullies, Overthinking

I pledge to be true

to myself and what

I believe in.

I �il� rise Success,

I will trust my choices, and I will not

let anyone else

determine who I am.

to m eet m y

making friends and dancing?

That’s

my THING. Jealousy,

gossip and

Take THE

pledge

SMOKING

That’s not

my thing.

To take the pledge, visit the SKY Hub Point at Arcades or our Facebook Page.

I will

make choices

according

to my character.

13 - 7 FUN-TASTIC Habits that can Transform Your Life Today 14 - Leona’s Top 10 Binge Worthy Shows 15 - Back To School Confidence 16 - My Goals My Way 18 - Your Path To a Bright Future

ISSUE #20

CONTENTS 4 - Hey Lovies!

Meet the SKY Cover Girl

5 - This Issue’s Contributors 6 - The Trendometer 7 - 10 Alternatives to a New Years Resolution

22 - Creating a Timeless Look 24 - Elevate Your Gift Giving Techniques 25 - Thrifters Paradise

Get The Look: Prom Dresses

10 - Body Beautiful: Say Bye Bye To Body Odours

Letter to my 25 Year Old Self by Susy Thomas

26 - SKY’s Guide To Your First Job

The Ultimate SKY Playlist

28 - SKY Spotted 30 - SKY Advice 31 - Reflection Section

What's uppp

SKY Babes We have just begun our holidays and I know we are super excited as we are also heading into the New Year. Buckle up! This issue has a lot of interesting articles in store for you, get ready to be motivated for your boss babe type of vibe.

This issue with the theme future niyanga outlines so many ways, tips, and motivation for a bright and planned future. Being future-focused to me simply means doing the very best to make sure your future goes as planned, by also thinking of the outcomes and sticking to the plan. It is important to be future-focused because there's no future without a proper plan elo plus you know the future is in your hands ka ni yanu guys! Being future focused also means knowing what’s for you, and what’s not for you and making decisions based on what you want for your future. For example, if you want to be a top athlete like Barbara Banda, or Mia Phiri, you’ll know that smoking is not your thing and will choose not to smoke so as to not ruin your future success. With this issue, I am certain we will be able to remain future-focused and motivated. #futureniyanga Well besties, you know we're all about that baddie life, right? But let's be real, keeping up the baddie vibes with cool outfits can cost a pretty penny. Well, guess what? We've got you covered in our Thrifters Paradise article! This pick right here will turn you into a budget-friendly baddie. Don't sleep on the options we have shared in the article, babes. It’s time to shop and slay on a budget for the holidays! We are screaming the future in this issue and the letter to my 25-year-old self is just in sync with it. Our SKY sistah Susy Thomas in her letter writes about how proud she is of her achievements as of now and also reminds herself to continue staying true to herself to get past all the peer pressure and challenges coming her way. This letter is another way to visualise what the future has in store for us, and how we make decisions based on what our future self needs. I would advise you to do the same. Setting a goal or goals is very important because it helps you stay focused and organized and also gives you a sense of direction towards your future. You can read an article on how to set goals to help you do the same, and there’s a pull out for you to write down your goals for 2024. Well, babes, this issue has so many articles to boost your confidence, motivate you, and make you feel good. I enjoyed reading each and every article in it. All the great stuff made me want to read more and more! I know you will enjoy reading it as much as I did and remember - you own your future, just like the name of this issue - future ni yanga (the future belongs to me).

Compliments of the season!

o x o x

Natasha Chipasha

The Trendometer Hello, SKY babes! We're excited to present this issue’s exclusive list of Our Thing and Not Our Thing, courtesy of our amazing community of SKY Girls, just like you. As we end the year with a bang and start the year with excitement, here’s what SKY girls are saying are Our Thing and Not our Thing!

NOTOUR

THING

OUR

Fake friends

Self-confidence

Negativity

Good vibes

Laziness

THING Hard work

Happiness

Good grades 6

Smoking

Doubting myself We're also eager to hear from you! What's making the cut and what's getting the boot as we approach the end of the year? What are you taking with you into 2024, and what are you bidding farewell to? Share your My Things/Not My Things in the socials so we can feature them too! Share your thoughts and tag us on social media to join the conversation.

TO A NEW YEARS

RESOLUTION

By Rosaria Kapya

ALTERNATIVES

We are already going into a new year and we definitely need to prepare for the upcoming year, and it’s long been said that New Year’s resolutions don’t work, so here are 10 alternatives for setting your New Year’s resolutions babes!

Monthly Challenges:

Instead of setting a single New Year's resolution, consider setting monthly challenges for yourself, each month, focus on a specific goal or habit. This approach keeps things fresh and exciting.

Vision Board:

One Word Theme:

Skill Development:

Set out to learn a new skill or hobby in the coming year. It could be anything from playing a musical instrument to cooking.

Create a vision board that represents your goals and aspirations for the year. Visualizing your dreams can be a powerful motivator.

Start by visualizing your end goal and then work backwards to identify the steps required to reach it. This technique helps you break down larger goals into manageable tasks.

Choose a single word to guide your year. This word should encapsulate your intentions and remind you of your priorities.

Bucket List:

Gratitude Journal:

Start a gratitude journal to record the positive moments and things you're thankful for each day. This practice can boost your happiness and perspective on how you see things.

Mind Mapping:

Create a visual representation of your goals and their interconnections using a mind map. This can help you see the bigger picture and identify key steps.

Create a teen-friendly bucket list with activities and experiences you want to have during the year. It's a fun way to stay motivated sis.

Backwards Goal Setting:

Accountability Partners:

Another goal-setting technique would be to partner up with someone who shares similar goals; this could be your best friend or sister, and hold each other accountable for progress. Regular check-ins and support can boost motivation and commitment throughout the period.

10 WOOP

(Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan):

For this goal-setting technique you will have to define your desired outcome, visualize the benefits of achieving the goal, identify potential obstacles or challenges, and create a detailed plan to overcome obstacles and achieve your goal.

Remember, the key is to set achievable and realistic goals that are tailored to your interests and needs. Flexibility is essential, and it's okay to adapt your goals as the year progresses. Combining techniques can also be effective in different situations. Remember to regularly review and adjust your goals as needed to stay on track 7 and achieve success.

PROM DRESSES Prom is as big as the Met gala in high school, and it can be stressful to prep for it. That’s why your big sis Wawu That’s My Dress Zambia host and Makofi S3 head wardrobe stylist Mulenga Chileshe has laid out some tips for you.

BALL GOWN Eating before going to prom should never be a problem girlfriends because that’s why ball gowns were invented! Lol A ball gown will make you look and feel like a princess without stressing If it’s long enough you can wear sneakers and nobody is gonna know!

GLOSSY

A silk dress is a classy and timeless choice that will make your prom pictures look iconic in future. Apart from making you look glossy, it is also very comfortable on the skin. Because it’s shiny, any color whether vibrant or dull will make you glow. To elevate your look even further, add minimalistic jewelry.

ROYAL BLUE Channel your Queen Charlotte energy and show up in a royal blue dress. If you’re going for a more elegant and astonishing look, a body-fitting mermaid dress with a slit is the perfect choice.

Your ears are not pierced? Worry not! Just make sure the neckline of your dress has crystals to brighten up your beautiful face and accentuate your look. Slide into a pair of silver shoes and voilà! You’re ready to go.

SEQUEEN Shine bright like a diamond all evening in a short sequin dress! This prom look is comfy for the dance floor and will make you look cool and elegant like a queen. Since the dress has a loud sparkle, a pair of earrings with smaller crystals would be perfect for this look.

Whatever you choose to wear, let it reflect who you are and what you are comfortable in - no one can tell you what to wear, as you need to wear what you want. Have fun at your prom and share your pics queens!

By Wendy Mvula

SAY BYE-BYE

TO BODY ODOURS Hey bestie! It’s time to say "adios" to those funky smells. Body odour happens when bacteria on your skin comes in contact with sweat. Fear not, bacteria on our skin is normal, we are naturally covered with bacteria. When we sweat though, the water, salt and fat mix with the bacteria and it can cause odour. So get ready to learn some fresh tips and tricks to keep you smelling great all day long.

1 BANISHING BODY ODOURS

Nobody likes to be known as the "stinky" kid, right? Well, fear not! We've got some awesome tricks up our sleeves to help you stay fresh as a daisy. Remember that body odour is caused by sweat mixing with bacteria on our skin. But don't worry, a good shower with soap and water can wash away those smelly bacteria. And don't forget to use deodorant or antiperspirant to keep those armpits smelling fantastic all day long, or try using natural remedies like baking soda or lemon juice to neutralize odours. Just apply a small amount to your underarms and let it work its magic!

THE POWER OF CLEAN CLOTHES

Did you know that the clothes we wear can also contribute to body odours? It's true! Wearing clean clothes made from breathable fabrics like cotton can help prevent those unpleasant smells. So make sure to toss those dirty socks and clothes into the laundry basket regularly and put on fresh, clean clothes every day. Your nose will thank you!

3 YOUR FEET DON'T FORGET

Feet can be a major source of odour, especially after a long day of running and practically being in shoes the whole day. Make sure to wash your feet thoroughly with soap and water, and don't forget to dry them completely, especially between your toes. Wearing clean socks and shoes made of breathable materials can also help keep your feet fresh.

5 4

PRACTICE GOOD HYGIENE ALL OVER

Remember to clean all the nooks and crannies of your body, including behind your ears, your belly button, and your private areas (don’t use soaps here though, just clean water will do the trick). These areas can harbour bacteria that contributes to body odour, so keeping them clean is essential.

HEALTHY HABITS FOR A FRESH YOU

Maintaining good hygiene goes beyond just washing up and wearing clean clothes. It's important to adopt healthy habits that keep you feeling and smelling fresh. Watch your diet bestie! Believe it or not, but what you eat can affect how you smell. Foods like garlic, onions, and spicy dishes can seep through your pores and cause body odour. Opt for a balanced diet with plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables to help keep your body smelling fresh. Drinking plenty of water helps flush out toxins from your body and don't forget to brush your teeth and floss regularly to keep your breath minty fresh!

6 Smoke-free Did you know that smoking not only smells bad, gives you bad breath as well as make your sweat smell hideous? Don’t get fooled by shisha and its ‘flavours’, it’s still tobacco. So, stay smoke-free, you'll be doing yourself and your body a huge favor. Besides as a SKY baddie you already know smoking is not our thing bane!

HERE ARE SOME NATURAL REMEDIES TO HELP KICK OUT BODY ODORS.

LEMON JUICE The citric acid in lemon juice helps kill odour causing bacteria. Apply it to your underarms and let it sit for a few minutes before rinsing off.

BAKING SODA This natural deodorant can help absorb moisture and neutralize odours. Mix it with water to create a paste and apply it to your underarms.

APPLE CIDER VINEGAR Its acidic properties can help balance the pH level of your skin and eliminate odour-causing bacteria. Dilute it with water and use it as a natural deodorant.

TEA TREE OIL Known for its antibacterial properties, tea tree oil can help fight odour-causing bacteria. Mix a few drops with water and apply it to your underarms.

Remember, everyone's body is different, so it's important to find what works best for you. Give these natural remedies a try and see which ones help you stay fresh and odour-free!

So there you have it, my adventurous sis!

Armed with these fresh tips and a commitment to a tobacco-free lifestyle, you're ready to conquer body odour and embrace a scent-sational journey. Remember, staying fresh is always in style.

Susy Thomas Dear older Susy, Before anything, I just wanted to remind you that you should be proud of yourself. You managed to achieve almost all your dreams at the age of 15! Gurl. Despite all the pressure, the stress, disappointments, losing friends, family issues, and your health issues you still managed to overcome all the obstacles that came your way, that's some super SHEro typa thing. Susy, even as you grow. Please remember to Stay True to Yourself, just like I do now. Because growing up, you’ll come across many temptations and people may peer pressure you into doing the wrong thing but with the values mommy instilled in you. I know for sure that you’ll resist and find your way out of it. Present Susy has been through it. A whole roller coaster. I hope future Susy remembers it all. Fainting at school and being carried by your best friend, losing your great aunt, losing friends because of how “Christian” you were, and also failing to balance everything that you do with school work. But also remember the good times. You passing your tests, getting closer to God, achieving all you wanted even if you weren’t strong or ready enough, being able to eat and drink water, meeting people you love and look up to and just loving yourself. All these things and more, but you’re still doing what you love. And that makes me happy. You’re making Mommy, Pappa, Chilufya and everyone around you super proud. You’re making ME proud. I hope you've become Miss Universe like you always wanted, and I hope you bought Mamma and Pappa the house I promised at 15! I hope you've stopped crying and panicking in the bathroom before a show and learnt to calm your nerves. I hope you got to travel to Paris and got to work with our favorite brand. I hope you’re now President, working with the United Nations too, ‘cause girl you really wanted to get in! I am putting in every work and effort for you to get there. I know you're living your best life because I have put in the work today. I have gone through all these trials for you to be who you are, who WE are, so I hope you're happy, in fact I know you've achieved it all and more because every day I have dreamed about what my life will become, who you will be and how every single tear, sweat and sleepless night has been worth it... Continue making a positive impact, continue loving, and continue striving for greatness. Don’t stop fighting. Keep on keeping on gurl! Remember YOU ARE DESTINED FOR GREATNESS!!!

Witehalroveo, ld Susy

15 y

FUN-TASTIC HABITS THAT CAN TRANSFORM

YOUR LIFE TODAY

1 with a smile Start the day

Starting your day with a smile is a simple but powerful habit. Each morning, put on your biggest smile and start your day with a positive mindset. It’s like a superpower that can help you overcome any challenges that come your way.

Create

Create a dream journal

3Money management/saving

Understanding how to manage money is a power-up. Learn how to budget, save, invest, and plan for the future. You could start a savings jar or something special. Financial literacy is a skill you will treasure forever.

5self-care

Set priorities, create schedules, and make the most of each day. Be proactive and organized. It’s important to take time for yourself to recharge, reflect, and relax. Well-being is essential for pursuing your dreams and maintaining a calm mindset.

Practice

You know what they say! ‘Healthy habits, happy you.’ Take care of your physical and mental health, take regular exercise, and have a balanced diet. This will boost your energy and focus, and helps you reduce stress.

Learn something

Develop a habit of learning something new each and every day. Read and explore, it could be a fun fact, a new word, or skill out of curiosity.

by Mumba Malama

Dare to dream and dream big! Picture your dream future and create a vision board. You can include pictures and quotes that inspire you. Start small and then aim for bigger goals, breaking them down into achievable steps. You could also keep a journal of your wins, funny moments and challenges you’ve overcome. It’s like collecting treasures of memories and life lessons for your future self.

“Me-Time”

6 new every day

What’s up SKY babes! It’s time to equip yourselves with some seriously cool skills that will transform your life by helping you conquer your dreams and own your future. Get ready to level up your life!

Learn to embrace failure

& develop a gratitude atTitude

Do not fear failure. See it as a valuable lesson. In fact, each failure is simply a step closer to your goals. Simply learn from your mistakes, adapt, and keep moving. Also, develop a gratitude attitude. You can write down at least three things you are grateful for. This habit will help you see the bright side of life, no matter what challenges you face.

So SKY babes I hope this guide helps you in transforming and adopting new habits. Let us know on our socials which habits you’re going to be trying out. And if you have habits you want to share with the community, share on any of our social media platforms, we’d love to hear them!

LEONA’S TOP 10

BINGE WORTHY SHOWS

Hey SKY fam! It's Leona Rignanese, also known as Nandi from Tikula, so you already know that TV is my thing! So I'm excited to share my top ten binge-worthy shows that you can binge this holiday.

Here they are, in no particular order: 1 - Tikula

SKY’s Tikula follows the lives of fictional high school characters, Nandile and her friends. It’s all about friendship and staying true to yourself.

2 - Friends

Join Ross, Rachel, Monica, Chandler, Joey, and Phoebe on their hilarious and heartwarming adventures. This iconic group proves that friendship is the ultimate treasure.

6 - The Good Doctor

Dr. Shaun Murphy, a surgical resident with autism and savant syndrome, showcases remarkable surgical skills at San Jose St. Bonaventure Hospital. It’s also a great show about acceptance and what you can overcome despite your challenges.

7 - Men in Black

This sci-fi comedy film follows the secret organization MIB, tasked with monitoring and regulating extraterrestrial activity on Earth. Agents J and K use high-tech gadgets to protect the planet from alien threats while keeping everything under wraps.

3 - Young Sheldon

Dive into the childhood of Sheldon Cooper from "The Big Bang Theory." Follow this pint-sized genius as he navigates the challenges of being a pre-teen with brilliance and social awkwardness.

4 - The Big Bang Theory

This sitcom revolves around four socially awkward scientists—Leonard, Sheldon, Howard, and Raj, as they navigate friendship, love, and the intersection of science and pop culture. It's a comedic take on the complexities of personal growth.

5 - Loki

Follow the God of Mischief, Loki, as he creates chaos by escaping with the Tesseract, resulting in a multiverse threat. The Time Variance Authority (TVA) intervenes, exploring themes of identity, free will, and the consequences of tampering with time.

8 - Bridgerton

Immerse yourself in a dazzling Regency-era London filled with scandal, romance, and the tantalizing gossip of Lady Whistledown. It's a captivating world of high society and intrigue.

9 - Modern Family

Experience the comedic chaos of a family with a dad trying to be cool, a mom juggling work and family, a child-at-heart grandfather, and three kids with distinct personalities. The awkward and hilarious moments are captured by a documentary-style camera crew.

10 - Jane the Virgin

Jane, a determined virgin, accidentally gets artificially inseminated, setting off a chain of family drama, unexpected plot twists, and a delightful sprinkle of humor. It's a unique blend of Telenovela drama and laughter that takes you on a wild ride you never knew you needed! Great! Now you have shows to watch during the holiday! And trust me SKY babes, these shows are my favorite for a reason.

What are your top binge worthy shows? Share with us on our socials! 14

Get Organized!

Hey SKY fam! It’s a new year, a new grade and a new you! Having confidence in the

Procrastination is NOT our thing. We’re no longer rushing to do the homework we forgot about. Draw up a study timetable and stick to it. Use a planner to keep track of all your important dates and deadlines, this will save space in your mind for all the things you actually have to remember. Try to do your assignments as soon as possible. If you do all of your difficult tasks first, the rest of your day will be a piece of cake.

classroom is super important because it helps us beat stress and achieve our goals. If you are looking to boost your self-esteem before school starts, this article is for you.

Don’t Compare

Yourself to other people

Participate

in Class

Comparison is the thief of joy sis. You are your only competition, and your journey is just as unique as you are! Everyone is the main character of their own story and what works for someone else might not work for you. Try to focus your energy on the things you can control. What is meant for you will come your way.

Answer questions and participate in class discussions. If you do not understand something, do not be afraid to ask your teacher or fellow classmate to clarify. When you have a group project, do your part. Ask your classmates if they need help with something you are good at, explaining things to your friends is a great way to bond and get some extra studying at the same time.

Know what you want, and what you don’t want

You know the famous saying, Be Yourself; everyone else is already taken? Yup. You have your own unique talents and qualities, these make you valuable. You don’t have to follow the crowd. In fact the more you stand for what you believe in, and say no to things that are not your thing, the more confident you become, and that attracts people to you. Be authentically you sis.

Set Goals

Setting clear goals gives you a better understanding of what you want to achieve and how to achieve it. You can set your goals using the SMART method. Your goals should be: Specific (what do I want to achieve?) Measurable (how will I keep track of my progress?) Achievable (Can I do this?) Relevant (why is achieving my goal important to me?) Time-bound (what is the deadline for my goal?)

By Precious Mubanga

Bring Love and Light Let’s face it: school drama is sooo overrated. It distracts you from your goals and ruins your friendships. Gossiping, spreading rumors and hanging out with negative people can leave you feeling stressed and insecure. Don’t encourage or participate in drama. It’s simply not worth it. Instead, treat other people the way you want to be treated. If you are feeling a little jealous, try and turn those feelings into motivation to do better. Walk into school ready to spread kindness and positivity. Bring the vibes, not the drama.

If you are staying out of drama and focusing on yourself and your goals, you are more than ready to walk into class with your new calculator and your killer confidence!

WhY ArE GoAlS ImPoRtAnT? Setting goals is like creating a roadmap for your life. Goals help you stay focused, motivated, and organised. They give you a sense of purpose and direction. Whether it's acing an exam, pursuing a passion, or achieving a personal milestone, having goals is essential for your growth and success.

ThE RoLe oF AcTiOn PlAnS While goals provide the destination, action plans are your GPS, guiding you on the journey to your dreams. They break your goals into manageable steps, making the path to success less overwhelming and more achievable. Action plans keep you organised, ensure you stay on track, and help you measure your progress.

Here is a template for your action plan for 2024! Use it to guide you to what you want to achieve.

GoAl AcTiOn PlAn fOr YoU

Goal

[State your specific goal here]

Why is this goal important to me? [Explain the significance and motivation behind your goal]

StEpS tO AcHiEvE My GoAl 1. Define My Goal

2. Break It Down

3. Set a Deadline

4. Make a To-Do List:

Be clear and specific about what you want to achieve.

Determine a realistic timeframe for achieving your goal.

Divide your goal into smaller, manageable tasks.

List the tasks you need to complete, and by when.

5. Prioritise

6. Set Milestones

7. Resources Needed

8. Overcoming Challenges

9. Stay Motivated

10. Tracking Progress

Identify the most important and urgent tasks.

List the tools, information, or support you require.

TiPs aNd

AdViCe

Outline how you'll keep your motivation high.

Determine smaller achievements along the way.

Identify potential obstacles and plan to overcome them.

How will you measure your progress and adjust your plan if needed?

- Stay Committed: Keep your goal in mind and stay committed to the process. - Seek Support: Don't hesitate to ask for help or guidance from trusted individuals. - Flexibility is Key: Be open to adjusting your plan if circumstances change. - Celebrate Achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate your milestones along the way. - Self-Care: Prioritise self-care to stay energised and focused. - Stay Positive: Maintain a positive attitude, even in the face of challenges. - Learn and Adapt: Use setbacks as opportunities to learn and grow. - Visualise Success: Imagine yourself achieving your goal; it can boost motivation. - Track Your Progress: Keep a journal or use a goal-tracking app to monitor your achievements. - Review and Reflect: Regularly review your plan and adjust as needed.

Remember, your journey is unique, and these tools are here to help you achieve your goals and dreams. Use them as a guideline, and feel free to customise them to fit your aspirations and circumstances. Your goals are within reach, and with determination, hard work, and a well-thought-out action plan, you can achieve anything you set your mind to!

Contact details: Bwalya Penza info@innersafariquest.com www.innersafariquest.com Instagram: innersafariquest_ISQ FaceBook: InnnerSafriQuestISQ Twitter: @innersafari_ISQ

Your Path to a

Bright Future

Feeling overwhelmed when someone asks, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" You're not alone! Your future isn't set in stone. Life's got tons of choices and opportunities waiting for you. Your career could align with your favourite subject, talent, sport, or hobby. Love art? Maybe you'll be an illustrator, graphic designer, or a painter. Crazy about science? Imagine becoming an environmental scientist or a doctor. It’s never too early to start thinking about your future. And if you change your mind along the way, that’s totally ok too!

Crafting Your Path through Subject Choices If you're entering Grade 10, your subject choices can shape your future. But no stress, here are some tips to help you:

Follow Your Passions Pick subjects that excite you.

Connect with

Career Interests Match subjects with your

dream career. Maybe you want to be a lawyer? English can help you with that.

Balance

is Key

Mix subjects to keep your options open.

Seek Help

Talk to teachers, professionals, and explore SKY’s Career Corner.

Future Pathways after Secondary School After secondary school, you've got a world of paths to explore: University: Opens doors to diverse careers. Technical and Vocational Schools: Hands-on training in specific fields. Online Learning: Accessible courses in various interests. Experience-based Learning: Intern, volunteer or work in your desired field.

The Takeaway Life's about choices, and your future holds endless possibilities. No need to stress about having everything figured out. Explore your passions, stay open to new things, and be flexible.

As you dive into Grade 10 and make subject decisions, remember they shape your future. But don't worry, you can always adjust courses if your interests change. Your journey is unique, and every choice and experience shapes you into an exceptional individual with an exciting path ahead.

Contact details: Bwalya Penza info@innersafariquest.com www.innersafariquest.com Instagram: innersafariquest_ISQ FaceBook: InnnerSafriQuestISQ Twitter: @innersafari_ISQ

MEET OUR

By Asante Chipo Chiiya

AND FIND OUT HOW THEY MADE IT ONTO THE COVER

For each issue of the SKY Magazine, we invite you to participate in a competition to stand a chance to feature on the cover and be profiled in the magazine. You also do some exclusive interviews that feature on our socials. Meet our issue 20 cover girls!

Dorcas

Chinyama

MY thing singing, dancing, and gaming Read Dorcas’s winning entry

my thing

failing, smoking and bad vibes

Dear future self I hope that you're doing okay. I hope that when you look back to this point in your life you know it was worth all this fear to get to a place of true happiness. I hope that you wake up each morning excited and happy to be alive, I hope you ﬁnd a way to spend your days in a way that brings you joy. I hope you speak of the dark days I'm ﬁghting to get through now as a learning experience far behind you and that scholarship you always wanted I hope you got it I hope there's a balance in your life, and that you're taking care of yourself. I hope you are beaming light to others that inspires them to be joyous, present, and exist fully. I absolutely can not wait to be you With so much love Docas #SKYGirlsZed

My name is Dorcas Chinyama. I'm 15 years old and I am in grade 10. I participated in the competition because I wanted to get out of my comfort zone and try something new. When I was told that I won the competition I was shocked because I wasn't expecting to win but I was also very excited about it. What I would tell other girls that want to participate is that they should just be confident and go for it because it could be them as a cover girl. My shoot experience was great, I had so much fun. Working with everyone and meeting new people was awesome. I loved getting my hair and makeup done, the whole experience was awesome.

Wamusheke

Courtney Phiri MY thing baking, helping others, and faith my thing

smoking, people who try to belittle others, and bad energy My name is Wamusheke Courtney Phiri, I am 18 years old and I am in my first year in University. My desire to participate in the competition was driven by a combination of factors such as personal interest, a challenge that appealed to me, the potential for recognition or rewards, and the opportunity to showcase my skills or passion in a competitive environment. Actually winning the competition brought a sense of accomplishment, and excitement to me. What I would tell other girls who would like to participate is that they should remember that different competitions may require different strategies and approaches, so adapt your approach based on the specific competition you're interested in. It was a beautiful experience, I felt welcomed and so grateful.

Read Wamusheke’s winning entry Dear future Wamusheke, I know you like being called "Wamie" because it's a way cooler name I hope this letter finds you well and full of dreams. First, believe in yourself. You're stronger and more capable than you think. Embrace your uniqueness and don't worry about fitting in; being different is a gift. Work hard in school, not just for grades, but for knowledge. Cherish your friendships and family; they're your support system. Remember, life has its ups and downs. Don't be afraid to fail; it's a stepping stone to success. Pursue your passions and interests relentlessly. Travel when you can; it broadens your horizons. Be kind, for kindness is never wasted. Stay curious and never stop learning. Lastly, time is precious, so use it wisely. Your future is a blank canvas, and you hold the brush. Paint a life that makes you proud. Stay true to your values and never compromise on your dreams. You are capable of amazing things. With love and belief in you.

CREATING

A TIMELESS LOOK!

Hey SKY! It’s your girl Jennifer Chantal. I’m going to

show you how to take jaw-dropping pictures, with some dos and don'ts. These will definitely make your pictures look bombtastic and amazing. Here are some tips that you’ll definitely need to take:

THE OUTFIT! The outfit says it all march in that closet and grab the latest look. Dont know what to wear? Try and look for inspiration like the SKY magazine, Pinterest or your SKY Big Sistahs.

2 THE BACKGROUND

Having a background is the most important thing. Your outfit can help you pick a background.

Blue?Then the sky should have a say in the picture. Red and pink?Go for an area with flowers. Green?I’m sure you know what background can suit green.

THE TAKING PROCESS

Ask a friend to help you take your pictures. That can surely help you achieve a nice baddie look. If no one is there to help you , you can find a secure place to make sure your phone doesn’t move, start taking a video and pose At the end of the video you can screenshot the pose you liked.

4 LIGHTING

5ANGLES

Lighting is important, during the day you can get some good lighting from a flash or the sun outside, but make sure to lower the exposure just a little bit Dark places aren’t a good idea, especially at night. This tends to be a struggle

Find a good angle to take the picture Let's leave those 2016 angles in the past ladies!1/3 ground and 2/3 sky

CONFIDENCE IS KEY! Lastly, just take a breath. You are beautiful just the way you are, and just because a photo doesn’t capture it correctly doesn’t mean you are not beautiful. Sometimes it could be the angle or the lighting or all kinds of things that go into taking a cute photo.

I hope the tips make you feel confident the next time you have to take a photo because that always comes up in capturing memories, which is important.

by Jane Matola

Hey SKY besties! SKYmas is the period when you have to show love through gift giving, and bruh it can be head-scratching to figure out what to give Mu King, Mu Queen, sis, bro, and squad (friends) but this time we gaht you covered so let's elevate your gift giving capability!

Getting a gift for your mum can be so so hectic because they play an important role in our lives so you will be thinking that what you get them won't be appreciated but lemme spill the beans, Mum’s appreciate even the smallest I love you. But let's see what else can make them happy. You know what your mum likes and doesn’t like. But if you can’t decide, then grab a pair of slippers and some accessories e.g necklace, bangles and some earrings that will do the magic sis, you got it.

Oops your gang, what can I get my gang? Chill babes you have it! With your girlies you can get a small box and put some accessories with some lashes and a small makeup kit. They will love it sis, especially that FBI lip gloss ohh lala that does it.

So there you have it, your gift-giving game changer. No need to scratch your head or break your bank to get a gift because all these gifts can be less than K150. So now you know,

now it’s time to act.

Omg the head of the house, the boss himself what do I get for him? Relax sis don't overthink it. Girly you gaht it, start by thinking about what he likes, or what he has been wishing for. If all else fails, grab a pair of socks accompanied with some hankies so that he can wipe out that sweat during the hustle. Girl, that's being thoughtful, your dad will appreciate your efforts. Go for it sis.

Oh my that troublemaker, that music in the ears, but at the end of the day they are your bestie right? Sisters are so precious that you can give them all that you have, but sis let's take a look at what gifts will make them happy and keep those smiles on their face. You can get them a nice sweet body mist to keep them fresh all day. You can find some in Young Phiroz that smell so good, you can also grab her some bubble gums or a bar of chocolate, even a card with a sweet message can seal the deal sis. The joker of the house, always cracking jokes and keeping the laughter flowing, you can grab him a nice graphic T-shirt and some nice snacks like crisps and a pair of socks can get you that thank you sis that you really want to hear so badly.

Thrifters Paradise

Hey beautiful ladies! Who doesn't want to ace the fashion game, am I right? But let's be real, our wallets aren't always on board with our dreams. Don't fret, though! We've got the inside scoop on the top five salaula (that’s thrift for you bad and bougie girls) spots where you can slay your style without breaking the bank!

DAPP

New to thrifting? DAPP is where it's at! Picture it like a treasure hunt, babes. You might not find something right away, but trust me, keep those eyes peeled. Quick tip: Mondays are when they restock, and Wednesdays are like hitting the jackpot! Bonus: The money from these clothes supports development projects in Zambia! Win-win! You get fresh clothes, people get jobs, and the country gets a boost!

Chilenje Market Thrift queens, this is your spot! Chilenje is the go-to for handbags, cute sweatpants, and specific kicks like pumps, Converse, and Vans. It's chill with less crowd traffic, perfect for scoring unique pieces hassle-free.

Kamwala Market

Calling all thrift lovers! Kamwala Market is the jackpot, offering sleek leather jackets, trendy denim, and killer kicks. Safety first, though! Keep your bag safe, stay hydrated, and dress comfy. You'll be a thrift queen in no time!

City Market

Ready for a thrifting spree, girls? Comfort is key, so stay hydrated, dress comfy, and bring a sturdy bag. Bring your bestie for the ultimate shopping adventure. City Market has everything from killer outfits to dorm must-haves. It's a paradise for thrifters!

Mtendere Market (Kazi mai Market)

Love graphic tees? Kazi mai Market is your place! Quality graphic tees and shoes heaven. Stay ready with water, a secure bag, and your thrifting partner in crime. Two heads are better than one for finding gems!

Online Thrift Stores

SKY Babes, if hitting the streets isn't your vibe, no worries! Online thrift stores got your back! Check out Instagram or Facebook for stores like @fashion_guru_zm, @gifts_n_thriftstore, or @thrift_awayyyy. Shop from your cozy spot, and let them handle the delivery straight to your door step. Thrift shopping without leaving home – because who needs sunburns or muddy shoes?

Share your fave thrift spots on our socials, and let's plan our next style heist together!

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SKY’S GUIDE TO YOUR

FIRST JOB By Ireen Lwambula

Crafting your first CV can be stressful, especially when aiming for that first job! That job could be a holiday job or a full time job, or even volunteering. But don't fret, SKY babes – we’ve got your back. Here's a quick guide to ace your CV: Step 4

Step 1

Personal Information Include your name, address, phone number, email (keep it professional, baddiexxx@gmail is not the thing!), and any languages you speak.

Skills Highlight technical and soft skills like computer proficiency, communication, leadership, or completed courses. Step 5

Step 2 (Optional)

Extracurricular Activities

Objective Statement

Mention clubs, sports, or organizations with your roles, dates, and achievements.

Share your career goals briefly - what do you want to achieve in life?

Step 3

Step 6

Education

References

List your schools, graduation date, location, and any honors or awards or achievements (eg scholarships).

Note that references are available upon request, including their full name, position, contact number, and email.

Extra Tips Format your CV for easy reading, using a simple font and bullet points. Proofread for errors and ask for someone's feedback. Save your CV as a PDF for universal readability. Remember, your CV showcases your abilities and potential, even if you're just out of high school. Every job, even holiday gigs, adds valuable experience. Best of luck landing your first job! 26

By DJ Milky Way

Hey SKY besties! Groove to the beats of the holiday season with this upbeat and modern Christmas playlist by our very own SKY Big Sistah DJ Milky Way that'll keep your spirits high and with positive vibes, and all these artists have chosen to be smoke-free, just like SKY Girls!

1 All I Want for Christmas My first pick on my ultimate Christmas playlist is Mariah Carey’s old-time holiday hit. She released the song in 1994. This is a jam that never misses on my playlist. It never gets old!

3 Let me be Great Can’t forget our faves Zambia Ku chalo! This is a must-play by our very own Sampa the Great, it reminds me of everything that I am supposed to be proud of.

6 Monaco I bring some Latino Vibes to the playlist! I know you barely understand what the lyrics say but the beat is everything. Vibe to this killer tune by Bad Bunny.

4 I Wanna Dance With You Chanda na Kay never disappoint with bangers to vibe to at Christmas holiday parties. Vibe to this jam and unlock your great dance moves.

5 7

Good Good Usher brings us a killer track as we end the year, featuring Summer Walker, it gets you into the holiday vibes.

Water Make me sweat, make me water! Some ama piano never hurt nobody, and you must never forget to have them on your playlist babes!

2 ENERGY We are ending the year in style with some queen bee type of vibes! I really love to vibe to this song, it gives me big energy.

Mutima Unasanka Kale “Selako ah mutima una sanka kale” The release of this song by Tio Nason was just in time for some holiday vibes!

8 Last Christmas Old is gold! Never forgetting a few classics on the playlist, this is always a show-stopper for my holiday season playlists.

Little Me Big God This jam is to remind me that after all God is big and He is there for me, it reminds me to thank God in all that I do. Plus I love my brothers Tim and Dope G doing some great hip hop music.

There you have it girlies, I put the playlist of my fav picks together for the holidays, and now it’s your turn! Let me know on the SKY Girl's socials (don’t forget to tag me! @milkywaythedj) what some of your favorite songs are that you will be vibing to this holiday season. Happy listening! 27

SKY SPOTTED

People say that I'm ugly and it hurts a lot. I don’t know how to feel better. SKY Girl: Hey sis, don't let people's words change how you feel about yourself. Don't let their words define you. You are a queen and a boss, and nobody can take your crown. You are the essence of beauty. @NorahDaka SKY Girl: Remember not to worry, babe, Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, and us SKY Sisters are the beholders—keep shining! People's opinions about you are not important. What you think and say about yourself is one of the most important things. @Munjepah SKY Girl: Love yourself for who you are because you are beautiful just the way you are! @TasHeni

Hey SKY babes! You guys asked for advice and your SKY sisters with the help of our SKY big sistah definitely came through! We love seeing sisters supporting each other, as the SKY fam we’ve got you no matter what you are going through.

How can I strengthen a friendship I lost and have been given a second chance at it? SKY Girl: In the first place, apologise and then try to reconcile and Stay true to yourself coz every person wants a friend who is honest and truthful. @gift_.ndhlovu SKY Girl: Remember realizing your mistakes and apologising is a great step you took, second chances are given to those willing to accept them. To strengthen your friendship look back at the mistakes you made and be sure not to repeat them. Understand each other's feelings and emotions talk about your insecurities and how certain things affect you, don't get carried away. @ThelisaZipporah SKY Big Sistah: These are good answers, they recognise that rebuilding a friendship is a delicate process, but it is possible and a great opportunity for growth. Here are some steps to follow to BUILD the friendship: B - Bridge Gaps: Identify the gaps or issues that led to the strain in your friendship. Actively work to bridge these gaps through open and honest communication. U - Understand Each Other: Take the time to understand your friend's perspective and feelings. Empathy plays a crucial role in rebuilding trust and connection. I - Initiate Positive Actions: Initiate positive actions that demonstrate your commitment to rebuilding the friendship. Small gestures, such as reaching out or offering support, can go a long way. L - Listen Actively: Actively listen to your friend's thoughts and concerns. This step is vital for rebuilding trust and showing that you value their feelings. D - Develop Consistency: Consistency is key. Develop a pattern of reliable and positive behaviour. Consistent actions over time help rebuild trust and strengthen the foundation of the friendship.

SKY Big sistah: Dealing with hurtful comments about your appearance can be incredibly challenging and hurtful, especially during the teenage years when self-esteem is still developing. Your value is not determined by how others perceive your physical appearance. Remind yourself of your strengths, talents, and the qualities that make you unique. Create positive affirmations about yourself and repeat them daily. Affirmations can counteract negative thoughts and reinforce a positive self-image. Some affirmations you could use include: I am beautiful inside and out. I am confident in my own skin. I choose to see the good in myself. I am unique, and that is my superpower. Or you can create your own and repeat them regularly to reinforce positive thoughts and beliefs about yourself. Whatever you tell yourself, you are, so remind yourself daily of how beautiful you are!

Hey sis what can I do? I feel like I am not doing anything productive. SKY Girl: Hey girl! Yes we all feel like that sometimes but it takes time for us to discover our talents and what each one of us are good at. Sometimes we just need some time to unwind we can't always be doing something but we also can't do nothing, so write down a list of things you want to complete that day, maybe cook dinner or lunch for your family, maybe do some laundry, read a book, clean your room, fold your clothes or workout. @Salma SKY Girl: Hey sis! Find a hobby you might enjoy and fill your day with some of the tasks but also some challenging ones and always remember to write them down so that you feel more compelled to do them. @Alicesiame SKY Big Sistah: Create a to-do list. Large tasks can feel overwhelming. Break them down into smaller, more manageable steps. This makes it easier to start and provides a sense of accomplishment as you complete each step. Pick a small task and complete it. This can create positive momentum and make it easier to tackle more significant tasks. Identify and minimize distractions, such as turning off notifications on your phone or finding a quiet workspace. This can improve focus and productivity. Finally, celebrate small achievements along the way. This positive reinforcement can boost your motivation. Besties growing up isn’t easy. There’s so many things that we go through but sometimes we have no one to talk to or no one we can trust. But that’s why it’s nice to be part of a community. You guys asked for advice and your fellow SKY babes gave it with the help of our SKY Big Sistah! They helped you out, and we love to see it!

Send your questions through the DMs on our socials.

REFLECTION

In this new section of the SKY mag, we bring you some questions for your personal growth! There are no right or wrong answers, the aim is to help you reflect and to become happier and more fulfilled. It's amazing what good can come out of thinking about your thoughts and feelings and getting to know yourself better. For this SKY babes you might want to think about your answers on your own or pair up with a friend and interview each other to find out your thoughts and feelings. You could also use these as journal entries: pick one question at a time and write the answer in your journal.

SKY MAG QUESTIONS

1 What top 10 songs are you listening to right now?

2 There are so many different types of patterns… floral, checks, African print, stripes, and geometrics. Which do you like and which don’t you like?

3 What is your favorite quote?

4 How easy is it for you to handle problems in your life? 5 What is the confident way to…

A - Tell your friends they are distracting you from your studies? B - Tell a boyfriend to stop pressuring you? C - Refuse a cigarette, shisha, or a vape, if your friend offered it to you? D - Feel less insecure?

6 Who is your number 1 SHEro (female hero) and why? 7 What is the best gift you have ever received? 8 Have you had your first job yet? If yes, what did you learn from that experience? If no, how do you plan to get your first job?

9 Are you going to make any New Year's resolutions and how will you make sure you stick to them?

New Year Questions

2023 Reflection

1 What 3 words describe your 2023 and why? 2 What are you proud of yourself for doing this year? List at least three things.

3 What are you grateful for this past year? List at least three things.

4 Who really made a difference in your life this year? List at least three people.

5 What little thing brought you joy this year? List at least three things.

6 How easy has it been for you to express how you feel ....to other people? What was the situation and how did you express your ....feelings?

2024 Looking Forward 1 What three words would you like to describe your 2024, and why?

2 What are you most looking forward to in 2024? 3 What goals do you have for 2024? List at least three. 4 What are Your Things and Not your Things going into 2024? Have they changed in the last year?

5 How can you treat yourself better in 2024? 6 How can you treat people better? 7 What scares you about the coming year? How can you face that fear?

Get ready to join the ultimate vibe with our awesome SKY hosts, Nthandose, Susy, and Abigail. They're bringing you a brand-new season packed with all the excitement you've been waiting for. From spillin' the tea in Real Talk to diving into Boys and Bants, and crushing it in Game Time – we've got your back! Plus, brace yourselves for the hottest new segments in town. It's gonna be a rollercoaster of fun, and you won't want to miss a single moment!

Catch us on ZNBC TV2 or hit up our YouTube channel From December 9th, 2023 at 16Hrs. Stay tuned, babes! For teen girls only! Magazin e. Socials. Hub. Commun ity.