Poetry Planet International magazine June 2023 edition

Bernadith De La Cruz Featured Artist

TABLE OF CONTENTS

CONTRIBUTORS

Bernadith De La Cruz

Bill Norton

Bimby Macbs Compio

Ana Rita Reyes

Sudha Dixit

Anjana Prasad

Kishor Kumar Mishra

Deluke Muwanigwa

Lord Lanre

Okoi Amadiowei Jacob

Madhuri Kulkarni

Rosie Licudo

Daniel Miltz

Priyanka Sengupta

Tha Ono

Jeffrey Pangibitan

Lilibeth C. Calanoga

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BERNADITH BERNADITH BERNADITH

DE LA CRUZ DE LA CRUZ DE LA CRUZ

A Nipa hut (small house made of bamboo). Do you think it is strong? Do you think it is enough to protect and shelter a family?

My father is a carpenter. He is good at it. That’s his craft. He built houses in our place. Nice and strong-wall houses. People trust him to do that because of course, they saw his ability to do so People felt secured upon hiring him to do the job Until today, my father still, within his 68 years of existence, continuously being hired to build houses His kindness, genuineness, loyalty, down to earth personality gained trust from people who know him better and also from people afar who heard his story.

Alberto B. De La Cruz is not a perfect father and husband. He hasn’t gained any professional degree. He has a lot of flaws you can not imagine. His knowledge is not from secular standard but from daily experiences in life. The pressure of being in the lowest class in the society due to poverty and illiteracy, mocked, degraded, affects his way of thinking. Honestly, he can be brutally bad, an effect from consuming too much alcoholic drinks and smoking cigarettes The only two vices that stresses out the family The family struggles financially, emotionally, even spiritually My mother is a battered wife for how many years but salute to her, she is a tough woman, indeed a real true lamp that shines and gives light to us. Inside the Nipa Hut is the literal “survival of the fittest” mode. His addiction to alcohol and smoking cigarettes not only creates psychological problems but ruined our trust and security and even our respect. To make the story short, we are all doomed. Until I got my own family, got pregnant after I graduated in college to a wonderful daughter. Learned a lot from life under pressure. Supported the family as an eldest (Filipino culture), the breadwinner Strive hard to survive and put my family first above all else second to God Then my father took a U-Turn from the road of life All of a sudden, positivity resides in our Nipa Hut and that was a great miracle “To God nothing is impossible if we trust and obey”. He finally chooses to be free from alcohol and smoking. Though from time to time (occasionally) he still drinks a few shots. Gaining strength from each other.

Though we can’t avoid negativities that hinders success but we managed to fulfill our goals as a family. Within our home resides the YIN and YANG energy that our family only understands, creates balance.

Now you see I can say, my father without knowing, build a wall of trust and security within the family We started to gain our trust to him once more My father became the perfect head and example, a role model out from his own imperfections

And I proved to myself, 43 years of my life, that everything in this world tend to change Either change to become better and be the best versions of ourselves or become the worst person and it all depends to our own choices. Hold on! Ha! Ha! Ha! You’ve learned my fathers’ unacceptable manners. But wait! He is the kindest, genuine person I’ve ever known, not because he’s my father but I’m talking as an ordinary person not related to his blood. Try him…he can even give you his last grains of rice if you will go to him asking for help. The most helpful person I’ve ever known without asking for any return Sincere and loyal If I were given a chance in this world to choose a father, I will still choose my “Tatay Bert” from all choices given to be my father His way of motivating us to reach our goals in life in his own way might be different from the given social norm but I realized, he’s got the point, it might be harsh to some but it creates a fortification inside our hearts nobody can destroy. His legacy lives within me, my mindset, my personality. I am the proudest daughter of the third-grade man who loves me dearly, loves my mother genuinely, loves my siblings. He is the living testament of the Bible verse

Bill Norton

Father's Selfless Love

As a father with a son diagnosed with autism, my life has carried an untried path It's no longer about me but about my son's interest Watching him flourish and thrive has been a blessing and I've had to concentrate on his physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual essentials

My son is 19 years old and was diagnosed with autism when he was very young. Over the years, we've maintained adjustments to put up his condition. One thing that has hung around constantly is my love for him. Watching him prosper and evolve has been a privilege, and I've had to figure out how to show him protection and love.

Besides being there for him in his day-today life, I've reckoned an attraction in his hobbies, and carpentry is one of them I've been preparing him how to make things, and he's been getting better with each passing day Watching his advancement has conveyed immense joy, and I'm delighted I can be a part of his life in this way.

Add a littlAs a father, I'm satisfied that I can be there for my son's school activities. Whether it's going to parent-teacher conferences, watching him play sports, or performing in plays, I make sure I'm there. These events are a great way for me to learn about his headway in school and what he's been up to.

Taking care of my son's physical and emotional needs has been vital to me. From guaranteeing he has a balanced meal to taking him to the doctor, I make sure he's alright. I understand that his emotional needs are just as essential as his physical ones. Therapies have helped him improve his social and communication skills, and we continue to work on his social behavior and functioning

My son's situation has made me relish life more. I've realized to hold dear every moment with him and appreciate the time we spend together. Whether it's watching TV or taking off to the park, we are invariably accomplishing something together. Even when things get formidable, I have to acknowledge that everything transpires for a reason, and maybe my son's autism has a loftier purpose.

Being a dad to an offspring who has autism hasn't been easy, but it's been a voyage of discovery. I've got by heart patience, empathy, and unconditional love. I've also unearthed to be understanding, primarily when he's going through an inflexible time. Being his father, I commit to be his protector and guardian. I will continually aim to do right by him and secure his needs are taken care of.

Being a father to a son with autism has existed as a gift. It's made me a better person and taught me the significance of unquestioning love. I will persist to sustain my son in every way I can, and I will treasure every moment we expend together

Bill Norton

Father's Leadership And The Fate Of Family

Father is a wall of trust and security. The leadership of a father can bring salvation and damnation to the family. If he is idle he can destroy the future of the family, if he is a strong, kind, and firm leader he can restore the wholeness of the family.

Fatherhood is a fundamental facet of family life, and fathers play a crucial role in instilling trust and safety within their families. The existence of a buoyant dad figure has been correlated to improve emotional and behavioral developments for children, as well as robust connections between parents Enthusiastic involvement in child-rearing, such as playing and spending moments with children, enables fostering this trust This theme will dig through the integral function of fatherhood in establishing trust and safety in the family It will also examine the favorable outcomes of a father's involvement in child-rearing and the importance of a positive father figure in a child's life.

Fathers play a vital function in building a sense of protection and trust within the family. The role of a father is not just to deliver monetary support for the family but also to supply emotional backing. A father's existence in the family allows to build a sense of resilience and stability for offspring. Youngsters who prosper with favorable father supervision are more likely to experience a stable and better awareness of self-worth

Fathers must be kind and firm in delivering discipline to kids It should be more of love and discipline The proportion of discipline and love unfurls a likelihood to convey to kids an understanding of respect, responsibility, and accountability in their grown-up life. As a beacon of security and safety for the family, fathers must usher children toward God. When a father is a prayerful man he can lead his kids to the way of righteousness and make her wife secure and assured.

Bimby Macbs

To be a father is a life of bravery because you require to seek the goodness of family by having the courage to put forward discipline and forgiveness

A dad must also compensate for his professional duties with family life. He must make certain to foster his children and help them grow in faith. This means making time to take his children to church, instructing them on the word of God, and supporting them with the spiritual direction required to steer a spiritual life. With his wife, he must ascertain a loving, supporting relationship. He must exercise forbearance and supply her with the solace that comes from learning that her husband is vigorously leading their family on a just path By being a beacon of security and safety for his family, a dad can guarantee that his children thrive in faith and that his wife can rest secure in the wisdom that her husband will hand over the necessary love and support.

As we can see that there is a new normal scenario after the global pandemic and some fathers are working at home, with their wives, they must indicate an affectionate, corroborative relationship despite the distinctive forces of working from home. He must develop temperance and patience as his wife adjusts to this new normal and nourish her with the convenience that comes from learning that her husband is energetically leading their family in the right direction By taking the period to produce a sense of symmetry and configuration in the home

When the father assumes leadership, he will direct his family toward goodness and joy. He will bring peace and sustain a culture of love, discipline, and affirmation. The ultimate rule of a father is to provide not only the temporal aspect but also the facet of sculpting the souls of his kids while the wife is reinforcing the values of the family.

Bimby Macbs

Father's Big Role In The Family

Fathers play an indispensable function in the family and marital life They are the footing of the family, nourishing emotional and economic support, and functioning as a wall of safety and protection for their loved ones. A father's commitment lengthens beyond simply fitting out for his family's basic needs. He must also be a role model, a leader, and a cheerful influence on his children and spouse. It is essential to discuss the vital role of fathers in the family and marital life and their obligation as a wall of safety and security to support and strengthen the family unit

One of the primary functions of a father in family and marital life is to hand over their family's basic needs This incorporates toiling to acquire money to subsidize the household, expending bills, and management of finances Nevertheless, being a father is not just about economic provision. It is also about emotional reinforcement and direction. Fathers are trustworthy for delivering emotional support to their children and spouse, assisting them to navigate the challenges of life, and being a source of soundness and strength when needed.

Fathers must also be role models and set good inspirations for their children to heed. They must instruct their children on the significance of truthfulness, goodness, and hard work, and instill in them a sense of obligation and responsibility This will allow their children to be reliable adults who can pitch in completely to the community

Another influential function of fathers in the family and marital life is to behave as a wall of security and guard for their loved ones. This means constructing an unassailable and defensible setting for their family to live in and safeguarding them from detriment. Fathers must be ready to position themselves in harm's way to defend their families and be the foremost line of stronghold when it comes to maintaining their families unassailable.

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Reinforcing the family unit is another essential duty of fathers in the family and marital life. They must operate to create healthy connections with their spouse and children, producing a set of love, care, and trust. This will benefit their family components to distinguish value and care, which is fundamental for constructing powerful bonds that can resist the trial of time

In the acquisition of the above duties, fathers must also be concerned about their kids' lives This involves spending quality moments with them, partaking in their stakes and pursuits, and being present for important junctures such as birthdays, graduations, and other meaningful events. This will assist in producing a bond between father and youngster that can endure a lifetime and provides an insight into strength and safety for the child.

Ultimately, fathers must be generous to convey openly and truthfully to their partners and offspring. This means being inclined to give attention to their troubles, offering help and advice when needed, and being available for feedback and objection Communication is key to building substantial affinities and assembling a sense of conformity within the family

In determination, fathers play an indispensable function in the family and marital life. They are accountable for delivering expressive and monetary support, working as role embodiment, and being a border of protection and security for their loved ones. Fathers must operate to assemble robust relationships with their spouses and children.

Fathers should put up their function earnestly and work strongly to produce an optimistic and nurturing atmosphere for the families to thrive.

In the acquisition of the above duties, fathers must also be concerned about their kids' lives This involves spending quality moments with them, partaking in their stakes and pursuits, and being present for important junctures such as birthdays, graduations, and other meaningful events.

This will assist in producing a bond between father and youngster that can endure a lifetime and provides an insight into strength and safety for the child.

Ultimately, fathers must be generous to convey openly and truthfully to their partners and offspring This means being inclined to give attention to their troubles, offering help and advice when needed, and being available for feedback and objection Communication is key to building substantial affinities and assembling a sense of conformity within the family.

n determination, fathers play an indispensable function in the family and marital life. They are accountable for delivering expressive and monetary support, working as role embodiment, and being a border of protection and security for their loved ones. Fathers must operate to assemble robust relationships with their spouses and children Fathers should put up their function earnestly and work strongly to produce an optimistic and nurturing atmosphere for the families to thrive

Mother Muse Lord lanre THEARTOFWRITING

At the beginning of my literary odyssey, I decided to move to a beautiful village to mold myself into a writer. I felt I would be in touch with nature in the village The humdrum of the city had so filled my ears that I wasn't hearing the silent tunes of nature So for three weeks, I stayed in a cottage made of mud bricks and a palm-thatched roof. The place was run by a sweet old lady whom everyone called Duchess Mother

The night I arrived, there was no electric power. The air was still and hot So all the other guests were lying on mats in the middle of the compound I sat in a corner studying by a desk lamp under the open sky. The Duchess' Mother lay on a mat close to the entrance I noticed that she was uncomfortable and restless. I thought she couldn't sleep because of the hot weather.

She stood up abruptly and flashed her torch along the wall from one end to the other, staring intently. I paused in my study and watched as she peered into the guest rooms, the shower room, and the kitchenette.

I resumed my study as she went back to lie on her mat Suddenly, she sprang up, torch in hand, and walked toward me. " There is something dangerous lurking somewhere in the dark " she said half to herself Then she flashed the torch at the wall behind me and on the ground around my desk. Gleaming in the glow of the torchlight under the table was a black scorpion!

I was amazed at the motherly instinct of the Duchess Motherand stared at her in wonderment. "That's the way a mother is " She said in response to my question " A mothercannot sleep until she is sure that her children are safe. I don't think men understand that a woman is a savior." She said.

I befriended the Duchess Mother and was wrapped up in the supreme power of mother's love. For this little old woman, love is above everything Whether she was in the best of moods or the worst, everything she did was always in the spirit of love.

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efore leaving the village, I resolved to be feminine in my writing. Not to be effeminate or unmanly. I just didn't want to be this onedimensional writer, unable to reflect feminine energy. I wanted my work to always be motivated by love.

I am convinced that the influenceof a mother can contribute to making one a great artist. A mother has the extraordinary gift of pure love whichcan transform the world.

A FATHER

A father is the rock upon whom a mother builds a home and the children find refuge during times of stress. A rock stands stoic, observing without saying much. It just towers above, you can do all the rock painting you love and future generations will know their family history, the tribal history in the mystery stored by the rock.

Many fathers have looked after children foisted upon them by their wives, for it is only a mother, short of a DNA test, who really knows who sired a child, but the father has labored for all his children without favour and therefore contributed to the growth of a village, a nation. For, at the national level, a country is made of people in their diversity....issues of paternity are neither here nor there. Children born in any circumstance can make a positive contribution to society. As Jesus did and is still doing.

The man who fathered a child becomes just a father, but, obviously without the immense contribution of the father, whether the child is from his loins or not, the child would not flourish. People always want to know their origins,

their ethnicity, and it is only when you know who your father is or was, that such nagging questions are settled.

I remember my own father, may his soul rest in eternal peace, as a strict man. When I was young I felt that he punished me for some minor misdemeanors, but now that I have come of age, I understand what my father was trying to do: molding me into another father, another rock upon whom a mother builds a home and the children find refuge during times of calamity He molded me into a rock that would withstand the shocks of life and stand strong for the sake of the children and the wife. And I assure you, I have been tested by life and because of the strong foundation that my father laid in my life, I stood like the rock of Gibraltar, like the ruins of Great Zimbabwe, upon which my country begets its name.

So truly, a father is a rock upon whom a mother builds a home and the children find refuge during times of calamity (Zimbabwe means the large house of stone)

MostImportantManinMyLife

In India’s sacred language, there is a slogan – “Vandey Mataram”, meaning ‘I worship mother’ We Indians love and revere our mother and all mother figures At the same time, we do not undermine our fathers; on the contrary, we have the utmost respect for him A mother brings us into this world. She looks after us throughout our lives. She is our emotional strength. Yet, no one can deny that Father gives us physical and material support. He is the head of the family. He fulfills all our worldly needs. While the mother carries us in her womb, the father nurtures us in his heart. Our emotional anchor is our mom but our father takes care of the harsh realities of our lives. He fights for us, defends us, and keeps us safe. Our mothers are the soft and dulcet element of the family. Our fathers are the citadel for the family

Every child is emotionally vulnerable Mother gives him an asylum of love Father is the head of the household He provides a stronghold for the family It is not a division of work or responsibility It is a divine arrangement A male, normally, being physically stronger, automatically becomes the protector of those he cares for. He provides a roof over their heads. He caters for food for them. He is the wall that wards off harsh elements like sun, rain, storm, and all other exposures. At the same time, he is the window, allowing them to enjoy the breeze, to see the world outside from their safe dwelling. Faced by any threat to his physical being, a child runs to his father for safety. The child has full faith in his father’s capability to save him. This trust compels the father to prove himself worthy of such trust. It is not only the sense of responsibility or compulsion of proving himself but the feeling of love the father has for his child Even though he did not keep the baby in his womb, he is the one who provided the seed As I said earlier, a father keeps his child in his heart for nine months Let me give an example my father was only 43 years of age when my mother died He was a senior Government officer. He was flooded with marriage proposals. But he refused them all. Many of our family friends insisted that he should get married again as he was so young. But my father told them that he cannot thrust a step mother on his children.

Sudha Dixit

He was a judge He had seen many cases where stepmothers have wreaked havoc on stepchildren He refused to take any risk about the argument that the concerned lady might be a good human being. What if she proved to be the ‘bad stepmother’?

I was in my teens. I wanted my father to get married. He was lonely. Children cannot compensate for the loss of a spouse. He did not agree. He raised us as a single parent. He used to be shorttempered but after my mother’s death, he became very sensitive towards our physical and emotional needs I was a tom boy If any of our relatives commented on my dress or behaviour, my father told them that all his children were very responsible and they could take care of themselves.

He had complete trust in us It is so heart warming and reassuring when parents have faith in children It boosts their confidence

There are small things which are more important than big events. I saw a girl getting nervous about her examination’s result. Her father asked her why she was so jittery. She told him about her worry regarding the results. The father laughed and asked if she would at least get pass marks. The girl, who was aiming for first division, relaxed and burst into laughter. She got first division, but it was the way her father handled the situation, is commendable. Children seek to hold their mothers’ cloak when they need a sentimental asylum They look up to their father for approval Father is their role model in the practical world He is their mentor, guide and philosopher Whichever activity they involve in, they want their father’s support and appreciation in it An appreciating glance, a pat on the back from father, is the best reward a child craves for. I remember, I went to my mother to complain when someone bullied me or criticised me. When I sensed some danger that would hurt me physically, I ran to my father for protection. I knew that as long as I had my father to support me, nobody can harm me. A very common phrase, everyone must have heard, is – “I will tell my papa”. The child has firm faith that by threatening someone with this sentence he can scare his/her adversary.

Do you know about metamorphosis? Before becoming full grown butterfly, the moth is enclosed in Pupa It comes out only when it is ready to face the world A father is that wall of trust around the little child, before the child can grow into full fledged adult He cannot confront the practical world while he is in fragile and vulnerable state Presence of a father figure helps the kid to build up his confidence. Parental support gives him strength to be free of inferiority complex and develop a proper and powerful personality. The sense of security, provided by the father makes the child capable of warding off unnecessary fears and problems.

A man/ woman, lucky to have a loving and sensitive father must respect him in his sunset days, simply for being there.

Father remains a wall of trust and security upon which a child's life is built. Unconditional love, guidance, and invaluableinsightaddtoachild'sgrowthanddevelopment. Theselessonstheycarrywiththemfortherestoftheirlives.

TrustandbondbetweenmeandDadgrewstrongerwhenI uttered, "pa pa " stammering for the first time Dad reminiscedlookingatmelovingly.

Myfatherwhogavemelife,becamemyrolemodel.Hewas myeducationist,andmyspiritualguruandbecameapillar oftrustandsecuritywithpassingoftime Theseedsofmywell-beingwereplantedbyhisunwavering supportandunderstanding

The sense of stability and security that fathers provide helps children to grow up with confidence and trust in this world.

SlowlyIdevelopedfaithinmyselfandstartedtrustingDad more He helped me with my school projects Took me for the weekend outings as he strived to bring out the best in me.HeneverscoldedmebutmademerealizewhereIwas wrong.

Withhimbymyside,Ihadnofearofdarkness Icriedonhis shoulderintimesofgrief Hisremarkablestrength,love,and supportwerealwaysasourceofinspiration.

DreamsOf Father AnjanaPrasad

Mylifeseemedasbeautifulasafairytale Ihadaherowho heldmyfingerstowalkthroughhighandlow Hetaughtmewhatkindnessisallabout,andhowitexisted The vortex of goodness blossoms in our hearts that providesasenseofreliabilityandbelonging "Stayawayfrompretensewashissimplelogic Bewhoyou arewhatyouare,strivetobeabetterhumaneachday."A simplemantrainstilledinmygrowingyearsprovedtobea strongfoundationofmylife.

Collect your fallen pieces no matter what and start rebuilding yourself again. Those pieces have survived the testoftime.

Those motivational and inspirational words were full of wisdom that no book can impart. Life lessons provide strengthandsecuritytome,eveninhisabsencetoday. It has helped me construct trust in myself. He loved me whenIwasdumb,hepraisedmewhenIwasweak,liftedme whenIwaslow,andgavemethecouragetofacemundane challenges It's the truth of my life, the values implanted in meunknowingly

Little phases of time I spent with my dad makes me who I amtoday Hisstrengthtofaceanysituationwithanamiable approachhasbeenalifelongpracticeandlesson Hiswordsarestillwithmeguidingmypath.Heembodiedin methevalueofbeingahuman.Heusedtosay,"Ifsomeone mistreatsyouit'stheirreflectionofWhoandWhattheyare! Notwhoyouare!Goahead,youdeservetowin"

Be happy, things will fall into place, believe in yourself and havefaithinFatherofall.

Today I seek him in the stars and the caressing breeze. My dad who held my fingers and walked slowly to match my steps. He lost to make me the winner. He is always in my heart,givingmepower

A pillar of trust and strength he created in me with his wisdom ItwillnevershatteruntilImingletodust

Seldomwasheeverwrong AsimplemanwithfaithinGod who trusted and believed in me in all situations I miss him but I know a time will come when we will meet as life is fragile

Iholdontosilenceandwenttothekitchentobrewcoffee forthetwoofusinhisfavouritepairofporcelainmugs.

FATHER – WALL OF TRUST AND SECURITY

INTRODUCTION

I came out of the fortified walls I looked ahead to see the massive world, where I have to struggle I was terrified I then looked back and saw my father standing strong and observing me. I made a little U-turn, and again turned back. I moved ahead…. I walked, slower, and then faster and finally I ran to face the challenges in the world. My father was still observing me. I gained momentum, and went up the hill, higher and higher to reach the top. As I was climbing, I saw that fortified wall covering me up from behind. That was my father, the mightiest and the most trusted person in my life The most secured wall for me

WHAT IS TRUST?

Trust is defines as “firm belief in the reliability, truth or ability of someone”. ‘Trusting somebody’ gives strength to a person, irrespective of age and gender. It provides a strong bonding between two persons.

In my childhood, sometimes during play, when my father used to throw me in the air and then catch me, I used to laugh and enjoy. There was never a fear of falling down. This was the trust… the trust I had on him.

Emile Gaboriau, the French writer and novelist of nineteenth century, said – “A father is the one friend, upon whom we can always rely”.

WHAT IS SECURITY?

Security is ‘a state of being free from danger or threat’. A person feels secured with another person when he does not expect any danger or threat from him and ensures safety for staying with him

During my early childhood, my father made me walk holding my hands Then I walked faster holding his hands There was never a slightest fear in my mind But, while crossing a road, a stream or when climbing a hillock, I see him promptly holding my hand. What may be the reason?

The answer is very clear. My father used to ensure my safety and also to make me feel secured.

FATHER AND CHILD

The relationship between a father and a child is like ‘A Fort and an Insider’ An insider holds greatest sense of security while inside a fort Likewise, a child feels most secured while with father

There are great fathers in various legends and history. In my mind comes the tale of a great father described in Hindu mythology.

After birth in the jail, the life of Lord Krishna was in danger. Demon ‘Kansa’ decided to kill the infant as he had heard that the infant would kill him after few years. Both the parents were in the jail. With the Divine power, the shackles and doors of the jail got unlocked. Basudeva, the father of Lord Krishna, took him in the dead of the night to a safest place entering in to the flooding river ‘Yamuna’ and heavy downpour He dared to enter into the flooding river without caring for his life

Though the legend says that everything happened due to Divine power of Lord Krishna, the actions of Basudeva show that the life of the child was secured by the father.

MY FATHER - THE WALL OF TRUST AND SECURITY FOR ME

Yes, I said - I walked with my father holding his hand. But, he preferred to hold my hands while crossing a road, a stream or when climbing a hillock. Oh, perhaps he felt that my hand might get loose, but his strong clutch would never go loose…

That was the thought of my father for his child, the ultimate care that he took for me

We are eight children of our parents We grew up within his fortified walls I have never felt any discrimination of my father towards any of us - his children. He took care of each of us equally. He tried to help all of us to the best of his capabilities, and also went on helping us till his death. I consider him as one of the great fathers I have ever seen.

Once, I read an anonymous quote which influenced me a lot. I must write down it here.

“A father is neither an anchor to hold us back, nor a sail to take us there, but a guiding light whose love shows us the way”

Yes, a guiding light is always trust worthy and ensures security too

CONCLUSION

A father is like a fortified wall for his children, within whose safety premises, the children grow fearlessly. I would like to conclude with a nice quote on father by Ama H. Vanniarachchy, the Sri Lankan scholar and writer:

“A father’s tears and fears are unseen, his love is unexpressed, but his care and protection remains as a pillar of strength throughout our lives”

THEFATHER OFAFAMILY

Afatherwithoutdoubtistheheadofthefamily in a married home hence is expected to play certain roles as someone who is in charge of a family unit. It doesn't mean a father must be a militarycommanderwithexcessiveexpressionof authorityoverwifeandchildrenbutshouldbea moderator in coordinating affairs of a married home for successful family life. He is inclined to offering greater percent of the family finances whichwillbecomplementedbyagoodwife,and perhapsbysomeindustriouschildrenwhenthey hadgrownuptocertainagesinlife Heisalsoto defendthefamilyfromexternalembarrassment henceisexpectedtomoderatemembersofthe familywhenchoosingfriendsfromotherfamilies in society. No wise father will permit someone whowillbeofathreattomembersofthefamily tobecomeafriendtoanymemberofhisfamily. A father therefore is a counsellor to an extent withregardtomanagingtheaffairsofhishome. A father of a married home is expected to expressadditionallovetomembersofhisfamily. Every good father is committed to expressing specialloveandcaretobothwifeandchildren. Hedisplayshigherlevellovebymakingenviable efforts in providing money for their feeding, clothing,accommodation,healthcare,education and other needs of the family. A father goes all the way by getting involved in strenuous duties, exhaustingevenhislast

strength in energy consuming tasks of drilling, mining, diving, angling, tapping, harvesting and to an extent of getting engagedinslavestatusserviceswiththe aim of raising funds for survival and successofthemembersofhisfamily.He sacrifices in excesses towards the welfare of the members of his family, even to an extent of sleeping in mortuaries as a worker in order to raise funds in feeding his family. He has done everything,andhasgonetoeveryextent in keeping the family together with love and care thereby providing necessary needs for his beloved home. A father thereforeisapermanentproviderforthe needsofhisfamilyaslongasheisalive, strongandhealthy.

A good father's mind is tick tocking up and down like the striking hand of a clock, from midnight towards the next day in reminiscences of the affairs of his family. When other members of a happy home were sleeping like newly born babies in comfort of their well furnished apartments, the father's mind is quaking up and down in thinking tensely about his commitment to target engagements thatwillenablehimtoraisefundsforthe survival of his home. Thus series of thoughtsofteninvadeshismindinzigzag dimensionsthroughoutthenight.

Okoi Amadiowei Jacob

Okoi Amadiowei Jacob

Strenuous issues such as: 'How much is left in mysavings?WherewillIgetextrafundstosolve the necessary needs of my home? Will my wife understand that I didn't lie to her about my finances? Will tomorrow morning be another decibeldisputebetweenmeandmywifeforher misconception about my financial situation? Where will I get more funds to satisfy the necessaryneedsofmyhome?Whowillhelpme out of these financial frictions? Where will I get enough funds to be feeding my family? Will landlord threaten in the morning? Will I ever be free from pressing financial challenges? These and many more are some unavoidable issues that are rotating round and perhaps even regularlywithintheprismsofafather'smind.

No wise person will undermine the enviable efforts of a feeding father in a married home. That boiling pain in your stomach because of hunger was chased off with money raised from yourfather'sservicestosomeoneinsociety.That tuition fee that was threatening your academic careerwaschasedoffbyfundsraisedfromyour father's services to someone in society Those Christmas costumes that were bought for you were possible due to your father's services to someone in society. That day's fear that was in mama ' s mind when the army robbers were making attempt to break into our home was chased off by bravery of your father who threatened them with supersonic shooting though he had no weapons of war at his disposal.Agoodfatherthereforeislikeaguiding spirit to members of every married home in society.

Itwasthefatherthatwenttotherisingriverfor fishing and brought home some fishes for Mom to prepare that delicious meal you enjoyed last nightyetitwasthemotherwhowasclosetothe souppotinthekitchenthatwascrownedwith

sthecreditofcaringforthefamily.Itwas the father who got engaged in basic battlewithrigorousreptilestoraisefunds for you and me in a married home. Fathers are like the rotating elements of a ceiling fan that usually usher in the required comfort to every member of a marriedhome.

Every good father is an epitome of love, careandunitywhosesincereservicesfor survival and success of his home, keep the family together as an independent unitofexistenceinsociety.Howevermost unfortunately, the sacrifices of fathers in family life are underrated by their children thus the credit always goes to themotherswhoareclosertochildrenin family life. Fathers are a bit detached from children due to their engagements in outside duties yet the underlying sources in funding the family are from the fathers. A father is always a father in expression of love and care to all membersofhisGod'sgivenhome.

A father who is the male parent of a married home was offered headship liability by God thus needs to be encouraged by others for him to be successful as the head of such a social unitinsociety.Heshouldberespectedby all in the discharge of his role in family leadership.

The palanquin of every child is his father's shoulder Every embrace, cuddle or a hug carries a lot of assurance.. saying... Don't worry... I am there..

Mom's womb and father's heart are the wonderful places to reside in.. he weaves numerous dreams for the future of his children.. Though stern looking...heart in heart he worries for their well-being. Every penny earned is spent for them..hiding his problems behind an enchanting smile and masking glasses.. Children feel a father is a miser and doesn't want to spare any money.. But they realise why he did so only when he is gone..

There is a sort of unconditional love between a father and a daughter... He tries to lay the world at her feet... And while giving her away he assures and re-assures himself that she will be fine The daughter too after getting married realises father had a number of dreams for her

ItBoys on the other hand grow up complaining but at the same time.. He stands for them... They can confide in him their teenage problems and other situations they are undergoing. A small open heart tete-a-tete works wonders for them. He assures them that they can go ahead... Whenever they turn back.. they can find him standing behind... Then only they understand that he is a wall of trust and security.

So when a father chides or rebukes you for a mistake.. don't be upset.. Behind the chide lies a heart of gold. No riches in the world is it's worth. All worries and sorrows vanish on seeing his ever smiling face. Father is greater than God.

FATHER...AN EPITOMEOFLOVE

THE STORY BEHIND A GOOD FATHER

RosieLicudo

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Every Fathe success ha behind a go that is hid heart, from love, from success an disappointm showing strengths A family , he shaken but be the source of strength For every father , they can be a father to their child but it takes a lifetime to become a good Dad. Fathers, like a mother, are the pillars in the development of a child well being, and in building their child's inner growth and strength. Father plays an important role in his child's life. It is irreplaceable. His role has a great impact on the child's growth and shaping their kids into the person they become now A father is someone you look up even how tall you may grow

To a daughter, the father is her first love, his baby girl. She depends on him for security and support –physical and emotional He is her wall of trust for everything that she does A gentle, loving and responsible father becomes the model for his daughter when the time comes to choose a mate

At some point, however, even as early as in his prepubescence, the son may start a gradual feeling of detachment from his adoring ways towards his Dad At times, he may exhibit meanness and rebelliousness for no particular reason This is a crucial time for a parent, in particular to a Dad, to be patient and understanding for this behavioral change. It is a situation that a Dad must navigate with care, trying to be supportive and not confrontational, realizing that this is a transitional stage for his son. This is also a time for a Dad to reflect on how he was with his own father, grasping now that he was merely trying to establish his own identity. This identity is unique to each one yet similar in many ways to the pattern that was instilled upon by our own Dads

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It is a Dad’s nurturing ways that become the road map for his son to follow, from the way he chooses his friends and how he treats others to how he sees the world in rose-colored glasses. While he may not follow his Dad’s footsteps, for example, as a Doctor or Engineer, this most fundamental factor that leads to a son’s success in life was established early on by his responsible and caring Dad. Behind a successful child is a good Dad. Behind a fine lady and a responsible man is a good father.

M A Y D A D

DanielMiltz

Anyone can father a child, but being a dad takes a lifetime. Fathers play a role in every child’s life that cannot be filled by others. This role can have a large impact on a child and help shape him or her into the person they become A good dad protects his kids by drawing clear boundaries, considers their best interests, talks to them about things they should be aware of and puts things in place He teaches his kids about consequences of making the wrong choices. Fathers instill character development in kids They're the ones who go above and beyond for their families and are considerate of how other people feel or what they might need They take initiative, and don't give up even if something doesn't work out on the first try Good dads are involved in family life and regularly show their gratitude. They also look to their fathers to provide a feeling of security, both physical and emotional Children want to make their fathers proud, and an involved father promotes inner growth and strength

My father was a source of encouragement to me as a kid Be it a baseball match or a debate competition, his presence at the venue gave me a boost of my overall confidence He was the happiest when I succeeded and his words made a world of difference to me as a child

This is what I would say to my father if he was still with us today. ''Dad, you've always been my hero. I was so lucky to have your love and guidance in my life. Your love to me will always be imprinted on my heart as a son. You've shown me strength and it wasn't all about muscles. I hope one day to be half the man you are. No matter how tall I grow, I still look up to you... and more importantly I would like to say, I wouldn't be the person I am today, I wouldn't be where I am now if it wasn't for your love for me.''

I know you're looking down on me from heaven. I love you, Dad!

THEDIVINESMILE

PriyankaSengupta

The door was half closed from outside Dim light filled the room An elderly man was lying down on the bed His face rested sideways on the pillow and his hands were moving, as if, through the gestures he was trying to communicate something Pamela entered the room Although, a woman in her early 30's, she was far more naïve and unworldly than her contemporaries She gently sat beside him and took his hand onto hers. He looked at her with shining eyes. She smiled, he too. Both of them smiled at each other….

The alarm rang louder. Pamela opened her eyes. As she was trying to snooze off the alarm and get back to her dreams, she saw her father standing and smiling at her. She rubbed her eyes and saw a box in his hand. It was actually her birthday. Being the only child, she was the apple of her parents’ eyes and as far as father is concerned, she’s, his lifeline! Pamela sprang off hurriedly and clung to her father’s Her father patted her hair and gifted her the box It was her tenth birthday Opening the box, she found her favorite doll As she was about to hug her father for the lovely gift, her mother came She told her “I have sorted this gift for you, now hug me please". The three of them burst into laughter. Then a little, innocent Pamela asked her father, “Where’s my special gift?”. Now, although she gets a lot of gifts from her mother, grandparents on her birthdays and on other occasions, getting gifts from her father nonetheless always render a special feeling to her. Her father smiled and told her, “I have lots of blessings for you"….

Time flies away. Little Pamela is 18 years old now. One day while she was returning from school, she saw some men outside her house They were speaking with her father in a very harsh and aggressive tone A curious Pamela ran inside the house to her mother She saw fear in the latter’s eyes Pestering her repeatedly, she came to know the truth Her father had incurred severe losses in his business He was very famous for his honesty and philanthropic work. However, taking advantage of his simplicity and gentle nature, some people cheated him of his hard-earned money.

To tackle the situation and to make his daughter's education run on, he had credited a significant amount from the lenders and now adding to the woes, he was in a complete insolvent state. What surprised her more is that, this financial crunch had slowly taken grip since few years back only, but her father and parents had kept her in complete oblivion so that her studies shouldn’t get affected and not a single birthday of her had gone missed from celebration and father’s special gift! She immediately ran to her father, who was standing alone now Those men had gone, keeping him panicked Seeing her teary eyes, he smiled, “Grow up and shine in life", were his loving words

The smell of the spirit, the bawling siren of ambulance, the hustle and bustle of queue in front of the large corridors and a woman sitting silently in one corner amidst the chaos – that was all about that morning in the hospital. The woman was lost in her thoughts, thoughts that transported her back to the years There had been days when she was acutely ill Her father used to sit beside her for long until and unless she is asleep

He had kept all his meagre savings only for his beloved daughter. And how he smiled that day, when the doctor told she was completely cured Days passed and the conformist society wanted Pamela should bow down to the rigid, traditional norms of a woman, that of managing the household only. Her father fought back for her. He wouldn’t let down his brilliant daughter turning into a dominated housewife. It was actually the demand from her fiancé. Those were the toughest phase of her life She managed to waive off only with the thorough support of her parents and her father who stood like a wall, protecting his adorable Pamela from the harsh, brutal rigidities. Her father was very proud of her brilliant academic career and used to show her results, certificates and medals to each and everybody coming in their sweet home “My daughter is a genius", he said with his usual calming smile

Pamela’s reminiscence recoiled her senses in that dim light filled room, when she rested her father's hands and patted him. It was her another birthday, her first birthday in which her mother is no more, a birthday when her father’s memories are gradually fading away But as he got to know it was his daughter’s birthday, he still smiled and blessed her Pamela told, “Your smile is the best gift on this earth"…

The call of the doctor brought her back to reality . She entered the ICU quietly and saw a lean father His eyes were closed She called him He slowly opened his eyes and smiled at his daughter only It was two weeks since her last birthday and his last divine smile on this earth….

Twenty years have passed. Pamela is a successful social entrepreneur now. She has carried her father’s legacy of helping the distress and the needy. Her father’s tremendous expertise and interest in medical field has made her step into the health sector, only to realize her father’s dreams and goals. And she can still see that smile, the smile on her father’s lips, the smile which has always been with her, the smile which has been her father’s greatest gift to her, the smile which has been her biggest strength…It’s the ‘Divine Smile’, the lifelong blessing of a father for his daughter.

AL FatherofTechnology E v o l v e d

Artificial intelligence, or AI, has become one of the most talked-about technologies of our time. It has the potential to be the “Father of all Technology and Sectors,” as it has endless applications, ranging from selfdriving cars to voice assistants like Siri, Cortana, and Alexa.

It is transforming a variety of industries and enhancing human lives AI has many benefits, including the ability to process vast amounts of data, improve accuracy and speed, optimize operations, and automate mundane tasks.

AI-driven systems have made significant improvements in sectors like healthcare, finance, retail, and manufacturing. For example, AI can analyse a patient’s medical history and provide faster and more accurate diagnoses, helping doctors make better-informed decisions. AI algorithms can also analyze financial market data and predict future trends with high accuracy, assisting traders and investors in making wiser investment decisions.

In retail, AI can analyse consumer behavior and buying patterns, allowing retailers to tailor their offerings better and enhance customer engagement. In manufacturing, AI can optimize the supply chain, predict machinery failures, and improve product quality.

Furthermore, AI has proven to be an efficient tool in environmental sustainability, helping energy companies better understand and control energy consumption. The ability of AI to optimize energy production and consumption can ensure lower emissions into the environment, thus contributing to sustainable development

AI has significant potential in the transportation sector, particularly in self-driving cars AI technology for self-driving cars relies on machine learning and deep learning algorithms to analyze sensor data and make driving decisions. It has the potential to enhance road safety, improve traffic flow, and increase energy efficiency by avoiding unnecessary acceleration, braking, and gear changes. AI has made significant developments in communication with the creation of digital voice assistants. Alexa, Siri, and Google Assistant are just a few of the virtual assistants that use AI to recognize and interpret user commands. They can perform simple tasks like providing weather updates, answering general knowledge questions, and even making purchases

T r e n d i n g

In the education sector, AI is being used to enhance the learning experience of students AI-powered chatbots are being developed to answer student queries and provide personalized learning recommendations. Furthermore, AI is being used to improve curriculum planning, student engagement, and even assess student performance.

In the manufacturing industry, AI is transforming the way factories operate. AIpowered machines can analyze data in realtime to optimize production processes, reduce waste, and improve product quality. According to a report by McKinsey, AI could potentially add $1 4 trillion to $2 6 trillion in value to manufacturing by 2030

The finance sector Is also leveraging AI to improve customer experiences and streamline processes AI-powered chatbots are being used to answer customer queries, and predictive analytics are being used to detect fraudulent activities. Furthermore, AI is being used to analyze large volumes of data to identify new business opportunities and optimize investment strategies.

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AI is also changing the transportation industry. Self-driving cars, powered by AI, are becoming a reality, and they have the potential to reduce traffic accidents and fatalities, decrease traffic congestion, and even lower transportation costs

Finally, AI is transforming the entertainment industry AI-powered systems are being developed to create more personalized content for viewers, improve content recommendations, and even help with content creation.

The potential of AI in various sectors and industries is limitless. Over the years, AI has grown from being a concept in science fiction movies to a commonplace reality that is changing the world we live in. The development of AI-driven devices, tools, and systems has revolutionized a variety of sectors, enhancing productivity, increasing efficiency, and improving the quality of life.

In conclusion, AI is emerging as the “Father of all technologies and sectors.” Its impact on human life will continue to grow in ways that we have yet to discover. AIdriven systems offer endless opportunities to improve human lives and have become a vital part of modern-day living

EDUCATION SYSTEM

FILIPINO LANGUAGE:

Heritage Weapons of our Ancestors

By Jeffrey Pangibitan

Currently, one of the main problems of every Filipino is the effort to cultivate the proper use of their language. It may not be that easy because it seems to have become a challenge due to the spread of the modernization system and enjoying foreign culture. It has a massive impact on everyone’s relationship, especially in learning and socializing. This also causes us to gradually forget our native language. We must be responsible for giving importance to our language to facilitate our communication.

However, we should not take learning our language for granted because as Filipinos there are many ways we can help to appreciate our language. The continuous expansion of our research knowledge in the Filipino language is a great help to enrich it. Despite the emergence of foreign languages in our country, young people studying should understand the responsible way to discuss the Filipino language. We should also know that having own language serves as a bridge to understand each other. This will be a way to improve the course of our economy if we all understand each other.

With the continuous spread of modern technologies and the extension of the modernization of our language, it seems to result in the weakening of the vocabulary regarding the correct way to use our language. So, we must study the history of our language because it has a great impact on our communication with different aspects of society. We must pay attention to the current state of our language to fully understand its main role in us as Filipinos. Let’s try to cultivate ourselves in the proper use of our language so that we don’t become ignorant in our country.

As a Filipino citizens, we have a great responsibility to appreciate the treasure that dates back to our ancestors, the Filipino language.

Jeffrey Pangibitan

We should all learn, especially in the new generation, the importance of using our language so that it can be a way to enrich our knowledge of our native language. Our language is so significant to our daily life because it is one of the keys to the development of our economy because we can freely communicate our opinions or opinions. That is why we should try to encourage our countrymen to use our language because it is a symbol of our identity that we can be proud of and shout that I am Filipino!

Greed for Power

LilibethC.Calanoga

AparriSchoolofArtsandTrades

“If I use my power and authority, then what else can you become?” - a line that most employees would not like to hear from their boss. When one wishes to control situations, he grips every opportunity to gain power and authority. For with power, there is influence. For with power, there is appeal in decision-making. For with power, there is opportunity.

It is very overwhelming to be designated positions or even secure promotions in our field of work. Chances like these also help us gain power and strength over the other workers. To most humble and humane employees who are lucky to acquire such, they use this power to motivate and lift up the others Yet to some, it is a great step to take advantage of, if not exploit the others especially the weak-willed ones It becomes a great avenue for manipulation as to take control of situations and actions that would launch them a favor

Once bestowed with power, you can easily influence the others in your workplace. Of course, in the hierarchy of work, those with higher designations or ranks are the ones being look up as they got more power than those in the bottom line. Though there are varying techniques to influence subordinates and peers in the workplace, using power over them tend to be easiest to take effect. It is for the very reason that most co-workers would normally respond in different ways: either comply, commit or counter.

Compliance happens when the circumstance is seemingly inevitable The subordinates do not necessarily desire to follow, but having known that the order or request is coming from a superior, they must have to do so Otherwise they will be charged of insubordination once they resist the influence Commitment takes place when they decide to accept the influence without any hesitation and even confide to support the goal in its realization. If the one with authority constantly acknowledges the initiatives and efforts of the responders, things are accomplished smoothly. This will surely lead to a balanced work habit and good working relationship. But to some point, the responders may counter the influence when it is deemed necessary. They may tend to be proactive or reactive in resisting the stimulus especially when it is already going beyond bounds and norms.

Undeniably, our superiors always have this controlling power and influence over us The reason why they always win or appeal in our decision-making They are inclined to use their legitimate power to advance or take advantage of an opportunity as we honor the legality of their position When you obey orders, you may or may not be rewarded On the contrary, if you resist an order, you may be judged and chastised immediately. Worse when it is even made known as a public matter. Thus, most subordinates are compelled to follow as they fear to get castigated when not in compliance.

As superiors become so obsessed with power, they forget that they should be the ones protecting the welfare of their subordinates and peers This is simply a simple step for greed to breed and dominate the system. Once this becomes a terminal habit, the workplace will no longer be a safe place for the rest for everyone can be a victim of manipulation. So, the moment we feel that the influence is no longer good and it is going against conventions, have your voice and assert your rights Be open to tell how you feel and never fear rejections

As a leader, never take advantage of that ounce of authority bestowed upon you Remember that there is nothing permanent in this world; that the wheel of life keeps on turning; and that everything is just borrowed. Your position today may not be the same in the morrow. How you treat your subordinates reflects your character as a head. So, why not reach out the rest and help them gain confidence and contentment at work? Optimize their interest to grow as you create nirvana in the workplace. Inspire them instead to achieved a greater fulfillment as a sensible member of the organization

Stop coercion and legitimating the abuse of power and authority End the stigma of branding an employee as noncompliant when they oppose an influence Listen to their thoughts and opinions to establish rapport and create a positive working environment. Empower everyone to improve and feel a sense of belongingness and to always take responsibility towards work. Be a motivational leader not just for one but for all. Build trust and rebuild your team.

As we celebrate Father's day, let us read the works of writers from around the globe as they express their gratitude to their beloved fathers.. All in the special edition of Poetry Planet International magazine June 2023