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Vol. 1 No. 64

Monday May. 14 2012

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When a Father Feels his Son The tzaddik and Mekubal R’ Gamliel Rabinowitz from Eretz Yisrael relates the following story as an illustration of the importance of maintaining a close relationship with our children.

One of R’ Gamliel’s followers once sent one of his sons off to learn in the Mirrer Yeshiva.

The Mir is a place where many can excel in Torah study, but for some boys, the lack of the typical yeshiva structure and enforced discipline from higher authorities brings on problems of its own. Not every young man is able to learn through self-motivation alone. This boy, however, was not the greatest iluy in his yeshiva back home, and yet, he did exceptionally well in his studies at the Mir. The bachur’s Rebbe wondered about that and inquired of the father. What was the secret to his son’s unusual, unexpected success in Torah learning?

The father answered simply, unassumingly,

“My son and I are very close. He phones me every day and because of our strong bond, I sense immediately if there is something bothering him. Any time I got that sense that all was not right, I would personally make the trip to the Yeshiva to visit my son and shower him with the warmth and love that only a father can provide.”

Indeed, years later, after the son married and settled down to build a family of his own, he asked his father, “How did you always know precisely when to come visit me, when I needed that extra dose of encouragement and fatherly love?”

But his father didn’t understand the question. He loved his son so deeply and had such a sincerely loving relationship with him. How could he not know when his son was in trouble? His heart always told him when his son needed him.

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‫בה"ב‬ ‫תשע"ב‬ ‫בעתו ובזמנ"ו‪:‬‬ ‫פונקט אין צייט‪...‬‬

‫איך דאס ערשטע מאל דערציילט‬ ‫פאר מיינע עלטערן אז כ'בין א שותף‬ ‫מיט די "לומדי כולל חצות"!‬

‫א משפחה‬ ‫מיטגליד‬ ‫דערציילט‪:‬‬

‫צוויי פון מיינע געשוויסטער זענען שוין‬ ‫געווען 'העכער די יארן'‪ ,‬און וואוסענדיג אז‬ ‫מיינע עלטערן קוקן שוין זייער שטארק‬ ‫ארויס געהאלפן צו ווערן מיט שידוכים‪,‬‬ ‫האב איך אריינגערופן אין אפיס פון "כולל‬ ‫חצות" ‪ -‬אן די וויסן פון מיינע עלטערן ‪-‬‬ ‫און כ'האב אליינס מחליט געווען צו ווערן‬ ‫א שותף מיט די חשוב'ע לומדים שליט"א‪.‬‬

‫"ווען ביזטו געווארן א שותף?" – האט‬ ‫מיין טאטע זיך פאראינטערעסירט‪.‬‬ ‫כ'האב אים דערציילט דעם פונקטליכן‬ ‫טאג ווען דאס איז געשעהן‪ .‬ער איז‬ ‫געווארן מורא'דיג איבערגענומען‬ ‫דערפון‪" .‬וואס?! יענע וואך איז געווען‬ ‫דאס ערשטע מאל וואס א שדכן‬ ‫האט גערופן צו אונז אהיים אין אפאר‬ ‫חדשים!"‪.‬‬

‫מיט א צייט שפעטער האט מען ב"ה‬ ‫געבראכן טעללער ביי ביידע פון מיינע‬ ‫געשוויסטער‪ ,‬איך האב זיך מיטגעפריידט‬ ‫ווי דער מחותן אליינס! אבער כ'האב פאר‬ ‫קיינעם נישט דערציילט דעם 'סוד' אז‬ ‫איך האב געהאט די זכי' אויסצו'פועל'ן די‬ ‫ישועה דורך "כולל חצות"‪.‬‬

‫זייט דעמאלטס האבן זיך זאכן‬ ‫אנגעהויבן צו רוקן‪ ,‬מ'האט אנגעטראגן‬ ‫מערערע פארשלאגן‪ ,‬און ב"ה יעצט‬ ‫איז די גאנצע שטוב איבערגעפולט‬ ‫מיט שמחה און גליק‪ .‬אשריכם! "כולל‬ ‫חצות" איז א געשעפט וואו ס'לוינט‬ ‫צו אינוועסטירן!‬

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Health Pr eventing t oo t h decay natur all y In our previous article, we discussed why fluoride is not the best prevention for tooth decay and in many instances is actually the cause of tooth decay in young children. So is there anything else, besides for the known preventative measure of brushing our teeth, and the dubious effects of fluoride, that can help prevent tooth decay?

To begin with, we have to understand what causes tooth decay. The accepted theory given is that the bacteria in our mouth produce acid as a byproduct and this acid eats into our teeth by taking out the minerals that keep our teeth strong.

Diet We all know that sugar is bad for the teeth but what a lot of people don’t know is that any refined carbohydrate can cause tooth decay. So reducing our intake of sugar and refined carbohydrates like white bread and pasta is the first step towards promoting healthy teeth. The reason generally given is that sugars feed the cavity-inducing bacteria in our mouth thus assisting in demineralizing our teeth.

Xylitol Xylitol is the most effective thing to take for cavity prevention. Countless scientific studies have shown that xylitol will reduce cavities by as much as 70%. To understand how this works, allow us to introduce you to a new concept: The bacteria in our mouth are only harmful because they protect themselves with a shield called a bio film. This is the gunk that we can sometimes feel on our teeth. The bacterium

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uses sugar and carbs to build up this bio film.

However, xylitol, is different. Because of its unique molecular makeup, instead of helping the bacteria build up these biofilms, xylitol actually breaks it up. This is why xylitol is so effective.

One good way to give kids xylitol is to put it in there bottles at night if they take bottles.

It is also a good idea to use throughout the day as a substitute for sugar. One good way to do that is to buy plain yogurt and sweeten it yourself with a little ground up berries and a spoonful or two of xylitol. Xylitol is most effective when used on a steady basis over long periods of time.

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When you first begin adding xylitol to your diet, it should be introduced slowly as it can cause loose bowels when taken in high amounts right away, as your body has not yet had the chance to become accustomed to it.

Nutrients Avoiding carbohydrates is pretty basic in preventing cavities but another important component is the fact that our diets are very deficient in key nutrients that are vital for the health of our teeth. Therefore it is important

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Baked Rice with Mushrooms This is a simple but delicious recipe for baked rice that can be made on any hectic weekday, as it can be whipped up in minutes.

Ingredients: 1 cup brown rice 1/3 cup oil 2 tsp. onion soup mix 2 ½ cups water Salt and pepper to taste 3 tsp. soy sauce 1 8-oz can mushrooms Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Pour rice into an eight-inch square baking pan, add the rest of the ingredients, and mix well.

Bake for 1½ hours.

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