Left by parents in the country, the children of Romanian emigrants dilemmatically think the way to success
By teacher Dragut Violeta
Despite the daunting reports about the children left in the country by their parents abroad, the situation is more complex and part of them succeed. Many children learn from their parents that life is tough without having studies, basically going to work downstairs, sometimes to humiliating work. Parents abroad send money to children, some get money so easily they do not get tired of learning anymore, and after studying, they live on their parents' money. Children who are more soulful and aware of the burden of parents learn to give a helping hand in the future, so parents will stay home. I have spoken to many people who have gone abroad to work and many are nostalgic for having lost years of hard years, the years of youth that they had to spend with their family. Other people who left the country were married abroad, obviously also with people of the same nationality, talking about the fact that they did not finish a high school, so when they return home they have money, they have a house, they have a car but there is no good work. The most inspirational buyers buy more apartments and when they return to the country, they live out of this money, not to be neglected. Others work for a few months abroad, return to Romania, rent cars, houses, relax with the most pious people and then realize they are out of money. Then go again and history repeats itself ...
Many go away, then come back and say they do not go away, but the departure syndrome always returns, so that at retirement they are surely returning home, at home. I mention the case of a single woman named Marioara who has two children she grows alone, both children are in high school, well-maintained, educated, but all on the mother's sacrifice. He works at a large hypermarket, where he receives 1000 RON, has to pay the rent, the bills, the madquakes, the food, all amounting to over 1200 RON. More the person who rented the room borrowed him when he had to operate a 7,000-pound disc herniation, money to be returned. Marioara is exhausted, has to work, does not have to say she can not and must be strong in front of her children. She hoped to go to strawberries in Spain, but she was denied she was 47 years old. Her luck was that she did not leave the service in Romania.