BodyMind Living Magazine :: Navigating Fear :: September 2021

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Carolyn Ulitsky :: FEAR & UNCERTAINTY IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP

Uncertainty evokes fear. I have often wondered and doubted whether I’d be in another relationship and be in love ever again. Being twice divorced, in my mid 50’s with adult children… how do you start, again? January 10, 2020, I decided I needed a relationship/love coach to get a better understanding of my patterns and beliefs with my relationships. I wanted to know about insecurities and doubts. I really asked for extra support for each module of my coach’s course and a few extra calls to get to the core of my blind spots to intentionally, consciously make different choices. I’ll be honest, it was not easy to face myself, my previous choices, discovering the patterns I was familiar with and how that had played out in my decisions to date and marry the men in my life.

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