Gulf Coast Woman December 2022

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CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

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Ariel Chamberlain

Tracy Daniel-Hardy

Sanja Daniels

Janera Harvey

Sarah Hornby

Brittney Johnson

Dr. Sidra Khalid

Dr. Philip Levin

LaShaundra McCarty

Jennifer Miller

Joy Monnerjahn

Melissa New

Alisha Johnson Perry Marion Pitalo Platt

Kathy Rogers

Susie Siemiontkowski

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Cherie Ward

Angelyn Treutel Zeringue

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ON THE COVER

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Hair and makeup: Brittney M. Johnson

Venue: The Threaded Cork

COVER SUBJECT

Andrea Jenkins

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Stay close to home for Christmas HappyHolidays

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SAVE THE date!

Here’s what’s happening on the Coast this month

The Magic of Christmas and Trains

Through Dec. 31

Mississippi Coast Model Railroad Museum, Gulfport

Kicking off the day after Thanksgiving, the museum’s annual Christmas light display will be open to visitors from 5-9 p.m. nightly through New Year’s Eve (only closed Christmas Day).

Visitors can take pictures with Santa, sing Christmas carols and more at this family fun event, which is free to attend. Refreshments will be available.

Christmas in The Pass

Dec. 2

3-8 p.m.

Downtown Pass Christian Start the holiday off right — Pass Chris tian style! Enjoy the merriment of the Christmas-tree lighting, Santa, Mrs. Claus and the elves, music, food, arts, gifts and more.

Christmas on the Water boat parade

Dec. 3 6 p.m. Biloxi

This community-wide celebration offers something for all ages. This parade will feature boats decked out for the holidays, followed by a fireworks show. The best parade viewing locations are between the Biloxi Small Craft Harbor and Casino Row, or between the Biloxi Lighthouse and Beau Rivage Resort and Casino. To learn more, call (228) 617-3112 or (228) 432-2563.

Gulfport Harbor Lights

Through Dec. 31 (closed Christmas Eve, open Christmas Day)

Jones Park, Gulfport

This holiday tradition that started in 2015 has become Mississippi’s largest Christmas lights show. In addition to enjoying a display of over 1.5 million lights throughout 40 acres, visitors can ride carnival rides, hop on a train at the Train Station, watch the “dancing trees” and stroll through Santa’s Village. Each year, the show grows and brings new surprises. To learn more, visit gulfportharborlights. com.

Gulf Coast Messiah Chorus fall/Christmas concerts 70th anniversary performances

Dec. 1, 2 and 3

7 p.m.

Dec. 1 - First United Methodist Church, Pascagoula; Dec. 2 - Cathedral of the Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Biloxi; Dec. 3 - Keesler Air Force Base, Triangle Chapel

This annual performance of George Frideric Handel’s masterpiece, “Messiah,” has been enjoyed by thousands over the course of seven decades. All performanc es are free to the public; visit www.messi ahchorus.org/about.html to learn more.

Ocean Springs annual tree lighting

Dec. 1 6-8 p.m.

Mary C O’Keefe Cultural Arts Center Join the City of Ocean Springs and the Ocean Springs Chamber of Commerce for the annual Christmas tree Lighting.

Silent Light Festival

Dec. 3

6-10 p.m.

Walter Anderson Museum of Art, Ocean Springs

This campus-wide light festival will trans form WAMA into a illuminated wonder land inspired by nature and the winter solstice. The event will feature performers and shadow dancers, installations by Mississippi artists, a silent disco with DJs performing to personal LED-equipped wireless headphones and interactive light shows projecting animations of Walter Anderson’s timeless designs. Admission is free, headphone rental is $10.

ChristmasFEST 2022

Dec. 3

9 a.m.-3 p.m.

Mississippi Mercantile Co., Gulfport

This fun Christmas Arts and Crafts Fes tival will feature over 40 vendors sell ing: gifts, handmade items, Christmas decorations and ornaments, home décor, boutique items, delicious food and much more. This event is free to the public.

Sea Santa sail-a-bration

Dec. 3, 5:45 p.m.

Long Beach

Long Beach Community Development Asso ciation, a division of Mississippi Main Street Association, will host this annual waterless boat parade and festivities that will feature a tree lighting, Santa, awards and more.

Fourth annual Cookies with Santa charity event

Dec. 4, 4:45 p.m.

Georgia’s Corner Market, Vancleave

This event is a fundraiser event, with all ticket-sale profits going to the Vancleave Lower and Upper Elementary schools. Funds are used to ensure a magical Christmas for all the children in our community. Each child in attendance will receive two homemade cookies and hot cocoa, a Christmas orna ment, a reading of “’Twas the Night Before Christmas” and time to chat with Santa himself for a perfect photo op.

The tradition continues

Christmas in the City

Dec. 3 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

Downtown Biloxi – Rue Magnolia District

A fun-filled, family-friendly Christmas tradition is returning to Biloxi for the 18th year. Christmas in the City, presented by Biloxi Main Street, is expected to draw about 5,000 people to downtown’s Rue Magnolia District on Dec. 3. The event is a favorite of locals and visitors alike, featur ing arts and crafts from 100 vendors, live entertainment, and hourly prize give aways – not to mention the ever-popular pusharatas made by the Slavic Ladies Auxiliary. Kay Miller, downtown services manager/Biloxi Main Street executive director, says the event grows a little larger each year.

Coast Young Professionals Holiday Soiree 2022

Dec. 8, 5:30-7:30 p.m.

Magnolia Hall - Florence Gardens, Gulfport Join CYP for the annual holiday soiree. This year, the group will be walking through a winter wonderland at Florence Garden’s Magnolia Hall. Dress in your Christmas best, and come out to enjoy cocktails, hors d’oeu vres and door prizes.

The Nutcracker

Dec. 10, 7 p.m.; Dec. 11, 3 p.m.

The Beau Rivage Resort and Casino, Biloxi

The Mississippi Coast Ballet Theatre will present this Christmas classic starring Reka Gyulia and Joseph Gatti, with choreography by Svetlana. Tickets are available at beau rivage.mgmresorts.com.

“We do it the same days as Christmas on the Water, so event-goers and or tourists will have something to do all day long in Biloxi,” she says. “We have local entertain ment and children’s choirs and try to make it a very warm and fuzzy start to the Christmas season.”

Other highlights include sales of the Biloxi Main Street ornament, which this year will feature the rose window at Nativity of The Blessed Virgin Mary Cathedral, as well as pictures with Santa, unique Christmas items and delicious fare from local restaurants and food trucks. Admission to the festival is free. To learn more, visit mainstreetbiloxi.com.

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Preserving the great outdoors

JUDY STECKLER RETIRES FROM LAND TRUST, LEAVING LEGACY OF CONSERVATION

BY JENNIFER GENTILE

Despite her many accomplishments, Judy Stecker prefers to stay out of the spotlight.

When recounting her career highlights, the former executive director with the Land Trust for the Mississippi Coastal Plain focuses on others — namely the volunteers, colleagues, city officials and others who have helped the organization thrive.

But during a November event to honor Steckler, recognizing her retirement and 20-plus-year commitment to Coast conservation, she was the center of attention. To mark the occasion, several mayors collaborated on a proclamation recognizing her achievements.

“I’m thankful; I was surprised,” she says. “I didn’t feel like there was a need

to be honored. I felt like the satisfaction I received in doing the work was not the paycheck; instead, it was improving the quality of life and leaving a legacy for future generations.”

What has motivated the wife and mother of two is a desire to conserve, protect and promote open spaces and green places in South Mississippi. Her involvement began through her volunteer work with the Biloxi Bay Area Chamber, and in 1998, she participated in roundtable discussions among civic and business leaders about the community, the economy and the environment.

As a result of these conversations, a committed group of citizens, private agencies and corporations formed the Land Trust, which Steckler was tapped to lead.

“I said to myself, ‘This is something I would enjoy doing,” Steckler recalls. “I had some background, and I’d always enjoyed the outdoors as a child.”

the most poignant moments for her have been personal — such as connecting youth with nature, providing opportunities for ecological study or seeing dozens of white pelicans congregate on land trust property.

“It is difficult to sum up this woman; she is nothing short of a true inspiration for women in Mississippi and for conservationists all over,” says Sara Guice, who took over for Steckler as executive director for the Land Trust. “Her work has impacted Mississippi in the most profound ways, and it will continue to do so for generations to come.

“For a person who had no formal training in science or conservation, this is amazing.”

Guice points out that after Hurricane Katrina, Steckler and her team rose to the challenge of treating and protecting oak trees that had been covered in salt water. Such efforts earned her the nickname “the Lorax” in the Sun Herald, which refers to the beloved Dr. Seuss book about protecting the environment.

“(Steckler) is known and respected statewide for her efforts,” Guice says.

Ever the outdoor enthusiast, Steckler plans to spend much of her newfound free time hiking, boating and enjoying nature with her husband. She also wants to see more of her granddaughter and catch up on projects at home.

Despite her retirement, the devoted conservationist continues to stay involved with the Land Trust.

During Steckler’s tenure, the Land Trust secured numerous grants, conserved thousands of acres of property, forged partnerships and influenced countless people to become more environmentally conscious. However,

“I would like to thank everyone who was a member, served on the board of directors, took the time to volunteer and helped the Land Trust succeed in its programs,” Steckler says. “I want to say we still need you, and in recognizing me, I hope others will be inspired to join our team

help

continue our work.”

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“I felt like the satisfaction I received in doing the work was not the paycheck; instead, it was improving the quality of life and leaving a legacy for future generations”

Honoring heroes for the holidays

WREATHS FOR BILOXI NATIONAL CEMETERY UPHOLDS

TRADITION OF DECORATING VETERANS’ GRAVES

BY JENNIFER GENTILE

Walk through Biloxi National Cemetery in December, and you can’t help but be moved by the sight of festive Christmas wreaths adorning thousands of graves.

Julia Richardson, Harrison County Veterans Service officer, is on a mission to ensure that all the veterans and their loved ones interred at the cemetery are remembered and honored. In 2012, when she placed a wreath in honor of her dad, retired U.S. Air Force Tech Sgt. Richard K. Calaway, she developed a desire to do more.

“(I) was upset to see that maybe only 30 graves had been covered,” Richardson recalls. “I wanted to see all the graves covered, and the rest is history.”

Richardson previously had worked with Chad Riemann and the team at Riemann Family Funeral Home on projects benefitting local veterans, along with Kevin Cuttill of Crusaders for Veterans. Through their continued collaboration, Wreaths for Biloxi National Cemetery was born.

“I guess the words that best describe

this team are honor, which is what the Riemann Family Funeral Home is all about when it comes to our veterans, and respect, because Crusaders for Veterans has a deep admiration for and believes in the traditions of the military,” Richardson says. “And last but not least, loyalty, and that’s where I’m at. I’m loyal to the men and women who have served this great country of ours.”

On a cold, rainy December day in 2013, the nonprofit made significant strides toward Richardson’s goal of covering every grave.

“We had about 1,300 wreaths with about 300 volunteers,” she says. “The fact it was Pearl Harbor Day made it that much more special.”

The tradition has continued to grow, and this year, the nonprofit plans to cover 27,000 graves.

Volunteers are essential to making the effort a success, and they are needed to place and replace bows and unload the wreaths prior to the annual wreathlaying ceremony on Dec. 3.

“We need as many people as possible,” Richardson says. “It’s hard to say how

many we will have this year, but after it’s all said and done, we always have a nice turnout.”

What began as a one-day event has become a three-day affair involving delivery, unloading, and preparing the artificial wreaths. According to Richardson, some families do not live locally but make a point of attending the ceremony. She fondly remembers one veteran who told her his best buddy was buried at the cemetery and how grateful he was to be a part of such a special tribute.

The following year, he passed, too, and Richardson found herself placing a wreath on his grave.

“For me, it’s a day that truly speaks of honor, respect and loyalty; it’s a day that we share with community and family,” she says. “It’s a day that I am forever grateful that I am an American and to know that each one of those men and women served to protect us, that they loved their country, and they were ready to boldly support and defend it. Our reward is freedom, thanks to them.”

WREATHS FOR BILOXI NATIONAL CEMETERY

HOW TO CONTRIBUTE:

• It takes all year to fundraise for the purchase of new wreaths and bows, and it takes several days prior to the event to unload and prep the wreaths, which requires many volunteers. Help is needed on Dec. 1 and 2, and the ceremony will take place starting at 11 a.m. on Dec. 3 at Biloxi National Cemetery. Volunteers also are needed to pick up the wreaths on the first Saturday of the new year, which is Jan. 7.

• Richardson says as a general rule, the cost per wreath is $10, but any donation helps.

• To learn more, visit www.facebook.com/WreathsforBNC or www.crusadersforveterans.com.

THE REEMERGENCE

REE VIRTUAL EVENT

The conference starts on Tuesday, November 29th, and will run through Sunday, December 4th. The conference is FREE for registrants and includes targeted coaching and conversations helping career, entrepreneurial, and nonprofit women looking to reemerge from the economic downturn and covid into a new level. This year will include:

• Compelling Lunch & Learn panel discussions on compelling, I-Need-This-Right-Now topics Midday Tuesday, Nov. 29 - Friday, Dec. 2.

• Master Coaching sessions nightly Nov. 29 - Dec. 2; and Dec. 3-4

• Virtual broadcast all day Saturday, Dec. 3.

• Red Carpet show and Top Influencer Awards on Saturday Night, Dec. 3

We’ve said it before, and we’ll say it again: No place throws a party like the Coast. We love to have fun, so it’s no wonder that we look forward to the festive season all year long — from the enchanting magic of Christmas to the revelry of Mardi Gras. As usual, you can count on us to help you find the perfect gifts, the most glamorous looks, the tastiest recipes, the most jawdropping décor and much more. Settle in and let us help you make the 2022 holiday season the best yet!

Photo by Brandi Stage Portraiture

Delightfully

The Threaded Cork, Biloxi’s distinctive hybrid boutique, is ready for the holiday rush

different

No single label fully captures The Threaded Cork.

During any given visit, a customer can shop for clothing pieces, pick up handcrafted pottery and sip Italian Coffee available at the store’s own bar.

“Words cannot truly define what The Threaded Cork is,” says owner Andrea Jenkins. “Come see it for yourself!”

Part café, part clothing store and part gift shop, the Biloxi business embraces being different. Jenkins opened the doors of the Coast’s only ‘hybrid’ boutique in 2017 in the historic district behind Mary Mahoney’s on Rue Magnolia.

“Every year from then to now has been a milestone, growing the business and being part of the community,” she says. “We pride ourselves on great customer service and continue to grow by adding new and unique products.”

OFFERING ONE-OF-A-KIND ITEMS

The store’s five-year anniversary ribbon cutting on Dec. 9 comes amid the hectic Christmas shopping season.

“The holidays are fun, and very busy,” Jenkins says. “Knowing that customers are coming in specifically because we carry unique items makes it that much more special.”

Shoppers are bound to get thirsty while they browse, and they can order a cup of gourmet Illy coffee from the bar tucked in the back of the store – or a beer if they prefer. The shop also is the only place in Mississippi that sells Polish Pottery hand-painted European stoneware that is oven, dishwasher and microwave safe.

Jenkin’s best advice to holiday customers: “Shop early, and grab it when you see it!”

“Many of our items, like Polish Pottery and handmade gifts, are literally one of a kind,” she says. “We do offer gift wrapping and shipping.”

Besides showcasing and selling other artisans’ work, Jenkins puts her personal stamp on The Threaded Cork with furniture pieces she’s refurbished, various types of oyster art she creates and mosaics

she makes from broken pieces of Polish Pottery. Her aesthetic sense started developing at a young age.

“Growing up, my mom was a costume designer and seamstress, so fashion was always around me,” Jenkins recalls. “Not only did I learn how to sew, but I learned that my passion would to be in the fashion industry.”

After graduating from Florida State University with a double major in fashion merchandising and finance, she began a career in retail management. She and her husband moved many times due to his career in the U.S. Navy – relocating to the Gulf Coast for a second time in 2016.

“Although I’ve always wanted to have a boutique, I knew I needed to take that idea to the next level,” Jenkins says.” As we were thinking of how to stand out and offer something different, the idea of a ‘hybrid’ boutique evolved. We found the perfect place in downtown Biloxi, and everything just came together.”

PERSISTENCE PAYS OFF

The Threaded Cork’s customers range from local aficionados to visitors from across the country, many of whom rave about the store in online reviews. One poster dropped in for a coffee prior to a hair appointment and now can’t wait to return.

“The place is perfectly appointed, a comfortable place to shop and (provides) the perfect amount of customer service,” she wrote. “If you are in need of a wardrobe update, or just need to pop in quick for a new outfit to wear to a last-minute engagement ...., these ladies will meet your every need with grace, kindness and care.”

Another reviewer was delighted to discover The Threaded Cork while visiting from Florida.

“I love everything I have purchased for myself or gifted to friends and loved ones,” she wrote.

Jenkins makes an effort to offer something for everyone. She also wants every person who walks through her door to feel welcome and not intimidated.

“The biggest reward is repeat customers,” she says. “I believe that every

small business has challenges, and I like to look at challenges as opportunities to help me see things differently and improve.”

The COVID-19 crisis forced Jenkins to pivot, and her first step was to create a website and continue offering products online that could be shipped, picked up or delivered. Her second step was utilizing social media to reach as many people as possible.

“The pandemic took everyone by surprise, and I realized in the beginning that I needed to fight for what I had built ...,” she recalls. “I never gave up, and to this day, it has been paying off.”

Jenkins has plenty of reasons for optimism, as downtown Biloxi has grown significantly over the past five years – increasing her store’s visibility and customer base. Regular patrons have come to know that The Threaded Cork will be open and offering special promotions during events like First Friday on Dec. 2 and Christmas in the City on Dec. 3.

“The most special thing about doing business on the Gulf Coast is that it truly makes us feel like we are a part of the community,” Jenkins says. “The Mississippi Gulf Coast is a special place, and we love it!”

Photo by Brandi Stage Portraiture

HOLIDAY Shopping Guide

fashion and MUST-HAVE accessories

Handmade, 100-percent organic, naturally harvested reed purses from Cambodia, Lepiquemedium, $52, oval keychain carrying case $12.95, Kiri Wave, small, $35, Robin’s Nest in the Pass

Single-breasted tailored blazer in umber tweed by Smythe, $795, Grant’s for Her

Knotted-bow heeled sandal in light beige sparkle with rhinestones by Loeffler Randall, $350, Grant’s for Her

Red Velvet Romper, $44, Simply Jane Clothing Co.

Good R Sunglasses, $25, Coastal Hardware

Beaudin leather keychain wallet shown in navy python, $29.99, D.Batia Interiors

Christmas wreath earrings, $19; pink Santa earrings, $20, Simply Jane Clothing Co.

Dune jewelry, made with sand from local beaches, crushed gemstones and sterling silver, $59.99-$299.99, Bay-Tique

Hey Dude Shoes, $59.99$65.99, Bay-Tique

2022

HOLIDAY Shopping Guide

Tagua purple necklace, $55.95, earrings, $18.95, California Drawstrings

Tagua multicolor necklace, $55.95, earrings, $15.95, California Drawstrings

Sorrelli cross necklace, $110, Coastal Hardware

Handmade red coral necklace with lapis beads and pendant, $75, Robin’s Nest in the Pass

Sorrelli cross bracelet, $80, Coastal Hardware

French Kande “French Kiss” necklace, $176, California Drawstrings

French Kande rhinestone necklace, $256, California Drawstrings

Angel

Reindeer

Polish

Propane

Fountains,

Illy

Birchwood

Remembrance

Toadfish nontipping coolers and gift sets, $29.99-$99.99, Bay-Tique

Surfing

Santa’s Message plate set, $38.99, Robin’s Nest in the Pass

Nativity, angel and church ornament, $15 each; Nativity tea towels, $12 each, Simply Jane Clothing Co.

Viv & Lou tote set (tote bag, $32, lunch tote, $20, blanket, $35), Gotcha Covered

Mosaic churches, $45, The Threaded Cork

Nutcracker pillow, $37.50, Simply Jane Clothing Co.

Tea towels $9.50, The Threaded Cork

Marble Christmas tree, $38; marble Christmas cutting board, $31, Simply Jane Clothing Co.

Mississippi shiplap cutting board, $28, The Threaded Cork

Amethyst marble wine stopper, $21.99, D.Batia Interiors

Resin decor clamshells, bigger size, $39.95, smaller size, $19.95, Robin’s Nest in the Pass

Sweet grace flower diffuser, $25, Coastal Hardware

Shopping Guide

outerwear ESSENTIAL

(bags, coats, scarves and hats)

Leather cross-front moto jacket in black by Vince, $1,295, Grant’s for Her

Double-breasted overcoat with tortoise-colored buttons in aqua by Smythe, $995, Grant’s for Her

Pleated bow clutch with chain strap in cream by Loeffler Randall, $250, Grant’s for Her

Mary Frances

“Purrsuasian” bag, $168, California Drawstrings

Lambskin biker-style jacket in white by Sarah Stewart, $775, Grant’s for Her

Vapor dri-fit hoodie by vapor (unisex sizes), $37, Gotcha Covered

Italian leather handbag in blue croc by BENE, $475, Grant’s for Her

Beaudin crossbody bag (shown in brindle, also available in jaguar and gold), $139.99, D.Batia Interiors

Wool hat with leather band in camel/black by Janesss leone, $268, Grant’s for Her

HOLIDAY Shopping Guide

Mary Frances “Wine Time” bag, $159, California Drawstrings

candles and cosmetics LOTIONS, PERFUMES,

Sweet Grace candles and fragrance line, $15.99$59.99, Bay-Tique

Shower FIZZIES, $12, The Threaded Cork

Spongelle holiday body buffs, $14, The Threaded Cork

Swan Creek candles, $20 each, Simply Jane Clothing Co.

Fresh mint, eucalyptus and bergamot hand lotion and soap by Graybill and Downs $42 each, Grant’s for Her

Niven Morgan Collection: hand cream $18, hand soap $25, body wash $28, candle $36, California Drawstrings

Borderland Candle Co., Balsam Fir Candle, $23, Robin’s Nest in the Pass

Bourbon Royalty Midas candle (four scent options), $19.99, D.Batia Interiors

Musee Nutcracker bath-bomb set, $32, Simply Jane Clothing Co.

BY JENNIFER MILLER

Entertain this holiday season like a pro

Those who know me are familiar with my extreme love of entertaining — especially around the holidays.

If you’re expecting guests this season, here are some tips for being a great host while staying within a reasonable budget.

SET A BUDGET

I know this may seem obvious, but for me, it’s easy to go overboard when throwing a party, especially if I haven’t set a spending limit.

The first step in creating a budget is knowing how many guests will be attending, then setting a dollar amount for each category: food, décor, drinks, entertainment, venue and favors (optional).

If you opt to give favors, consider handmade gifts. They are so meaningful and much easier on the wallet. For example, your guests definitely will appreciate a craft you made or cookies you baked.

PLAN YOUR MENU

When determining what foods you will serve, keep in mind the time of day and how many guests you’re expecting.

Also consider how you can get the most out of each dollar spent. For instance, a taco or slider bar will go much further than trying

to feed each guest his or her own steak.

Another cost-saving tip: Everyone loves an extravagant charcuterie board, but if you’ve ever made one, you know they are not cheap. This is one area where, I admit, I always go over budget. You can create a somewhat budget friendly charcuterie board by utilizing a wholesale market.

SERVE ONE SIGNATURE DRINK

This is one of the best budgetfriendly Christmas party ideas. Rather than trying to accommodate everyone’s drink preferences, choose one red wine, one white wine and one cocktail. Set a cost for these items that you are comfortable with and stick to it. It will be much easier to select a single drink to serve at your event.

Here are a few of my favorites: cranberry Moscow mule, caramel apple martini and peppermint mojito. You also can also note BYOB on the invitations.

Happy entertaining!

Jennifer Miller is a certified interior designer, professional home stager and the president of Jennuwine Design, Sophis ticated Staging. Reach her at jenn@jennuwinedesign.net or (601) 213-8729.

FESTIVE COCKTAILS FOR YOUR NEXT HOLIDAY PARTY

CRANBERRY MOSCOW MULE

What you’ll need

• 4 ounces ginger beer (Fever Tree is my favorite)

• 4 ounces cranberry juice

• 2 ounces good quality vodka (my preference is Ketel One)

• fresh limes for lime juice (plan for one lime for every mule you are expecting to make)

• crushed ice cubes

• garnish items: fresh cran berries, rosemary sprigs and lime slices

Directions

• Place one cup crushed ice into a copper mug.

• Add ginger beer, cranberry juice, vodka and the juice of a squeezed half lime to a cocktail shaker filled with ice.

• Stir or very gently shake, then pour into the copper mug.

• Top with cranberries, gar nish with a lime slices and rosemary sprigs and serve.

From www.spoonfulofflavor. com

It may be getting darker earlier, but spectacular light displays are illuminating the long winter nights across the Coast. Load your family in the car, crank up the holiday tunes and make memories as you experience all the festive fun. Not sure where to go? Check out our guide to the best holiday festivals and light displays.

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Christmas Feeling

Waveland home reflects owner’s festive, welcoming spirit

BY JENNIFER GENTILE

When holiday visitors enter her home, Cheryl Crosby Tenney is going for the “wow” factor.

“I want them to feel warm, cozy and like Christmas …,” says Tenney, who lives in Waveland’s Emerald Lake Estates. “The most common comment I hear from people is that our home is magical and just beautifully decorated.”

For five years, Tenney has entrusted her holiday preparations to Sadie Jane's Famous Wreaths and Gifts.. She and her family moved to Waveland from the Middle East during the Christmas season, and she communicated with the Sadie Jane’s team via phone and exchanged photos in advance of her arrival.

“I hired them to decorate so I could mark that off my list,” she says. “I wanted my family to feel Christmas when they came home.”

Tenney — a candidate for Waveland alderman who shares the home with her husband, Gary, their two youngest children and a four-year-old Pyredoodle named Louie — favors a traditional aesthetic. Red and green figure prominently in her Christmas décor, and she also is fond of cedar and anything organic.

Tenney and her husband, who works in the petroleum business, have been married for nearly 23 years, and throughout that time, they have added annually to their collection of Swarovski Christmas ornaments.

“We buy two in case one breaks; we like to add some of those on the tree,” she says. “That is very sentimental to both of us.”

Each year, Sadie Janes’ role in decking the Tenneys’ halls is decorating the main tree, mantle and front porch, which normally takes a full day. After the team has worked its magic, Tenney finds the overall effect warm, welcoming and classic.

“By now, they know my style, so It is very easy working with them,” Tenney says. “The only challenge I have is not spending too much.”

This year, Sadie Jane’s once again will oversee the tree and put new decorations around the front door. The Tenneys entertain quite a bit over the holidays, including an annual ladies’ gift exchange and frequent visits from friends and family, which means the décor receives plenty of admiration.

Jeanne Brackin, owner of Sadie Jane’s, continues to marvel at how a relationship that began via Facebook messenger when Tenney lived abroad has flourished into a strong friendship.

“(Cheryl) is just a delight to work with,” Brackin says. She is easygoing. She doesn’t try to micromanage, She trusts our vision, and she lets us take the ball and run with it.”

Brackin describes her friend’s style as “exquisitely over the top,” especially this time of year.

“We hope that it inspires (her guests) and sets the mood for celebration,” Brackin says. “We want them to feel Christmas – not just to see it, but to feel it.”

The Tenneys

High-tech gifts

that

will make their holiday

BY JAMSINE BALL

Shopping for loved ones can be challenging, and we all need a little inspiration to find the perfect present. If you’re stuck, high-tech gifts are almost always a good option; after all, who doesn’t like getting the latest, greatest gadgets? Here’s a quick roundup of cuttingedge toys we are loving for the holidays and beyond:

THE TOP HEAT PORTABLE HEATER

We all know someone who is constantly cold. Top Heat invented a rapid heating system that within three minutes covers a 350-square-foot room to provide a cozy, warm atmo sphere. It’s perfect for the office or home. shoptopheat.com, $49.95

AIRA ICONIC FACIAL STEAMER

It’s just like getting a facial! This steamer detoxifies and cleanses and is appropri ate for all skin types. It’s designed to clear pores and stimulate circulation. vanityplanet.com, $59

GOURMIA DUAL BASKET DIGITAL AIR FRYER

CORE REUSABLE

Take advantage of a new way to take notes and stay organized with this reusable notebook that includes 36dot grid pages, one microfi ber cloth and one erasable amazon.com, $23.56

CHI 1-INCH VOLCANIC LAVA CERAMIC PRO

This air fryer has a Smart Finish setting that lets two different types of food finish cooking at the same time, no matter their difference in time or temperature needs. It includes two non-stick baskets, crisper trays and even a recipe book and is perfect for a quick family dinner. target.com, $69.00

BY JASMINE BALL

This unique hair tool is made from some of the most effective heat-con ducting materials on earth; volcanic lava combined with the power of CHI ceramic creates bouncy, sleek results without the damaging effects of high-heat styling. Hair is drawn into the heat-isolating curl chamber and timed to create lively, shiny curls and waves every

LARQ SELFCLEANING WATER BOTTLE BY PUREVIS

The non-toxic technology seamlessly sanitizes not only the bottle, but the water in side. This design is available in several colors, keeping all liquids either hot or cold for 12 to 24 hours. The recharge able sanitizer battery can last up to a month. amazon.com, $99

FUJIFILM INSTAX MINI 40 INSTANT CAMERA

The Airpods Max combines high-fidelity audio with industry-leading noise cancellation for an unparal leled listening experience. There there are five colors to choose from, and you have the chance to personalize your headphones as well. bestbuy.com, $449.99

PHONESOAP UV CELL PHONE SANITIZER & DUAL UNIVERSAL CELL PHONE

CHARGER

This instant print camera has built-in automatic expo sure for ideal pictures every time, plus a classic design and a one-touch selfie mode to capture one-of-akind shots. Bestbuy.com, $99

FIZZICS DRAFTPOUR BEER DISPENSER

BOX

This portable sanitizer cleans the surfaces of your phone and other tech gear by using UV-C light while charging with the dual USB and USB-C charging ports. amazon.com, $56

Beer lovers, this one’s for you. The Drafpour gadget transforms any type of beer, whether in cans or bottles, into a nitro-style draft. It’s sure to make every brew taste better. amazon.com, $124.99

Jasmine Ball is a Mississippi fashion, beauty and lifestyle blogger. Connect with her via Instagram (Miss_Ball23), her blog site (www.the ball-post.com) or by email at theballpost1@gmail.com.

Beat inflation, give delight with

DIY Christmas gifts

MONEY TIGHT THIS HOLIDAY SEASON? GIVING SOMETHING SPECIAL AND HOMEMADE CAN HELP YOU SAVE

BY SANJA DANIELS

While my calendar is jampacked these days as a wife, mom, graduate student at The University of Southern Mississippi and intern at the Veterans Administration, I still enjoy a good DIY project.

With the Christmas season upon us, and inflation hitting many of us hard, I’ve started a few projects that are inexpensive and unique. Homemade gifts not only are easier on the wallet, but they tend to be treasured especially because they are heartfelt and one-of-a-kind.

I find DIY projects therapeutic and fun for the whole family; plus, they’re a great way to keep kids busy and let them unleash their creativity.

Here are a few projects to try that can bring joy to your home and smiles to loved ones’ faces this holiday season:

METALLIC AND GOLDLEAF PAINTING

What you’ll need: Frame

• Bright metallic paint in the color pearl and metallic acrylic paint in antique gold and copper.

Gold flakes

• Three-quarter-inch angle brush

Total cost: $15

My 8-year-old daughter, Hannah Vivian, made his original metallic and goldleaf painting. You’ll first brush on a generous amount of bright metallic paint in the center; then, lightly brush on your copper paint at the bottom corners and faint gold strokes on the top. Try to avoid mixing the paint; however, a light stroke throughout the corners will add dimension. Lastly, release the gold flakes, starting at the top left corner, and let them fall to the center. Dry time is eight to 10 hours, but it may vary depending on your paint’s thickness.

LAVENDER GOAT MILK SOAP

What you’ll need:

• 12 ounces of detergent-free goat milk soap.

• Five to 10 drops of lavender essential oil

• A half ounce of dried corn flower

• 2.25-by-3-inch silicone mold Total cost: $10

This lavender and goat milk soap was easy and fun to make with my daughter. Weigh out 12 ounces of goat milk soap, place it in a microwave-safe bowl and heat for one to two minutes. Remove the bowl from your microwave and stir in five to 10 drops of lavender oil; add a half ounce of dried cornflower petals. Once it’s thoroughly mixed, pour it into a silicone mold of your choice and let it harden overnight.

JEWELRY HOLDER

What you’ll need: Spray bottle filled with water

Parchment or wax paper Plastic wrap

• X-Acto knife

Three-quarter angle brush

• One-quarter angle brush

Acrylic matte paint in shades sky blue and navy

Liquid Leaf paint in classic gold

Total cost: $10

This jewelry holder was made from airdry clay and was fairly easy, but it required some patience. I used a large knife to cut off a piece of clay, which resembled a slice of bread. I placed the clay onto parchment

paper, used my hands to fashion it and sprayed a little water onto the clay. Once I had my desired size, I placed my clay on top of a ramekin, upside down, with plastic wrap between the clay and the dish. I let it sit overnight and very carefully separated the plastic wrap from the clay. I gently cut off the rough edges with an X-Acto knife. I also used the knife to add lines inside of the jewelry holder. I painted the inside sky blue, and the outside navy. I let those coats dry before lightly brushing on liquid leaf paint.

Sanja Daniels is a mother, wife, student, advocate and DIYer who previously has won Gulf Coast Woman’s DIY DIVA Face book competition. Reach her at Sanja. Daniels@usm.edu.

memoriesMerry

As we gather to celebrate the season with family and friends, we often find ourselves reminiscing about special times from holidays gone by. Here are some of the favorite flashbacks you shared in our holiday memories contest:

ALLANA OZENE, DRENA OZENE AND KENDRA KEYES

“Snow for family pictures is pretty hard to come by in South Mississippi. For this shoot, my daughters and I decided to bring our own!” *Submitted by Drena Ozene

NYC CHRISTMAS

“This photo was taken in New York City with a few of my best friends with the Empire State Building in the back ground. We were on top of a building in NYC that had ‘ig loos’ to hang out in. This is one of the fondest memories made with best friends!” *Submitted by Mallary Hicks

THE FOWLER FAMILY

“This is one of very few pictures my sisters and I have with our late mom. She passed when we were teens.” *Submitted by Bria Fowler

CHRIS TIBLIER (MY HUBBY)

“Always making me laugh — who wears the hat better?” *Submitted by Chantelle Tiblier

BY JOY MONNERJAHN

Joy Monnerjahn is the owner of The Bayou Belle, where you will find many Louisiana recipes. She grew up in Southern Louisiana and enjoys bringing the flavors of her home to her dishes. Learn more at https:// www.purejoyliving.net, and reach her at purejoy@purejoyliving.net.

It’s the holiday season, and y’all know what that means: lots of yummy confections! I am pleased to share a few holiday cookie recipes that are not only my favorites, but also the easiest to make. Amid all the seasonal hustle and bustle, you can whip up some tasty goodies in no time. The cutout cookies require a little more work, but they are worth it — and super fun for the kids to decorate.

It’s also worth noting that homemade cookies make a great DIY Christmas present.

WHITE CHOCOLATE SUGAR CUTOUT COOKIES

Ingredients:

6 ounces white chocolate chips

• 2 3/4 cup flour (more for dusting)

1/2 tsp baking powder

• 1/2 tsp salt

2 sticks butter, room temperature, un salted

1 cup sugar

• 1 large egg 1 tsp vanilla

• 1 tsp almond extract

Royal icing

Sweeten

the season with homemade cookies

Directions:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

• Put white chocolate in a microwave-safe bowl, and warm it in 30-second intervals, mixing in between. While it cools, whisk flour, baking pow der and salt in a medium bowl.

Beat butter and sugar with mixer until fluffy and light — about five minutes. Beat in the egg until smooth.

• Beat in melted white chocolate. Add in vanilla and almond extract.

• Slowly add in flour. Mix until combined.

• Roll dough into a big ball; put it on top of Saran Wrap, then roll it into a really long square. You can divide the dough so you have two squares.

• Roll them as thin as you want your cook ies, then place them on a cookie sheet and put them in the fridge to chill for two hours.

• After two hours, take them out and cut them into the shapes you want.

• Cook for 12-15 minutes.

Cool on pan for five minutes before transferring to a wire rack to cool.

TRIPLE ESPRESSO CRINKLE COOKIES

Ingredients:

• 1 cup Dutch cocoa powder

1.5 cups granulated sugar

• 1/2 cup melted butter

4 eggs

• 2 cups flour

3 tsp espresso powder

• 2 tsp baking powder

1 cup confectioners’ sugar

Directions:

• Using your paddle attachment on a stand mixer, add cocoa powder, sugar and butter. Mix until combined Add the eggs one at a time; mix well.

• In a small bowl, combine flour, espresso powder and baking soda.

• Add to the chocolate mixture and blend until just combined.

• Transfer dough to the fridge and let it chill (about two to four hours).

• Heat oven to 350 degrees.

Add confectioners’ sugar to a small bowl.

• Using a small ice cream scoop, scoop out some dough.

• Roll the ball in the confectioners’ sugar. Place on cookie sheet about two inches apart.

Bake for 10 to 12 minutes.

• Allow to cool on pan.

PECAN SNOWBALL COOKIES

Ingredients:

1 cup softened butter

• 3/4 cup powdered sugar

2 tsp vanilla extract

• 2 1/4 cups flour

1 cup chopped pecans (I do some fine, some rough)

Powdered sugar (for rolling the cookies in after they’re baked)

Directions:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

• Line a cookie sheet with parchment paper.

• With a stand or hand mixer, cream but ter and sugar together until fluffy and light. Add vanilla

• Add the flour and mix until combined. On low, mix in the pecans.

• Scrape the bowl and make sure it is all mixed well.

• Using a scooper or measuring spoon, roll the dough into approximately two-table spoon-sized dough balls.

Place them on your cookie sheet.

• Put them in the fridge for about 30-45 minutes.

• Bake cookies for 15-18 minutes until golden.

• Place on a cooling rack.

Roll them in powdered sugar and set on rack.

Tasty treats are ideal for sharing, gifting

THE ORIGINAL SLAVIC LADIES AUXILIARY PUSHARATA RECIPE

5 pounds self-rising flour

2 ½ cups sugar (1/2 cup for the fruit below, 2 cups for the flour mixture)

2 cups raisins

3 tablespoons nutmeg

3 tablespoons cinnamon

3 tablespoons baking powder

2 tablespoons whiskey 2 tablespoons vanilla

4 large apples

4 large oranges 1 lemon

3 cups chopped pecans ½ gallon milk sugar glaze (below)

- Combine the dry ingredients: flour, two cups sugar, nutmeg, cinnamon and baking powder. Peel and core the apples. Peel and pit the oranges and lemon. Mince the fruit or run it through a blender or a food proces sor, but don’t liquify. Combine with ½ cup sugar.

- Combine wet ingredients: whiskey, vanilla and milk. Stir wet ingredients into dry, then mix in fruit, raisins and pecans.

- Heat ½ to 1 gallon cooking oil in a deep fryer. Drop balls of dough (the ladies use a special scoop or a standard coffee teaspoon) into hot fat, being careful not to crowd the pieces. Fry until golden brown, then drain on paper towels. Coat with sugar glaze.

Sugar glaze: Combine two to three cans of evaporated milk with six pounds confectioners’ sugar and almond extract to taste. This is an inexact science. It’s best to start with the sifted sugar and add the milk gradually, stirring all the while until you reach a glaze consisten cy. Add the extract a small amount at a time to taste, and remember that the extract adds moisture, too.

It’s recommended to allow pusharatas to sit uncov ered overnight until thoroughly dry. Do not store in a tightly covered container, as this will soften your glaze and make them mushy. If gifting, present them in a simple paper bag or in a box placed in individual paper cups. (makes 300)

a sweet Coast tradition Pusharatas:

1,500 dozen that’s the total number of pusharatas made for the annual Christmas Sale held by the Slavonian Ladies Auxiliary. This tradition started back in 1984.

BY MARION PITALO PLATT

The Slavonian Ladies are Croatian by birth or by marriage to a member of the Slavonian Men’s organization. The popularity of the pusharata locally can be traced back to the arrival of immigrants from Croatia (formerly Yugoslavia) who settled on the Coast in the late 1800s, attracted by the thriving seafood industry.

Upon their arrival, these Croatians did not have many personal pocessions, but they brought many family recipes that were passed down through generations, one of which is the famous pusharata — a small, fruit-filled donut covered in a sugary glaze.

The Croatian tradition is to serve pusharatas at holiday functions, family gatherings, weddings and especially Christmas. This delicacy represents traditions rich in history and heritage.

Weeks before the annual holiday sale, the Slavonian Ladies get busy shopping for ingredients, chopping fruit, assembling gift boxes and getting the batter ready for the night of cooking. On the afternoon of Dec. 22 each year, the process begins. Auxiliary members young and old gather at the lodge on Maple Street in Biloxi to undertake the all-night process.

Several small fryers are set up, and a small metal scoop is used for cooking to create the perfect round pastry. The pusharatas are laid out to cool, then coated with a sugary icing. Once dried, they are placed in gift boxes to be sold to customers who have ordered these delicacies months in advance. The waitlist of people wanting to buy pusharatas is always extremely long.

If you are not lucky enough to land a spot on the coveted list, pusharatas also are sold each year at the Biloxi Christmas in the City festival in downtown Biloxi. This year’s celebration will be held on Dec. 3. Sale proceeds go to scholarships for members’ children who are high school seniors.

Many pusharata recipes have circulated around the Coast, and some of them can be found in the newly published Slavic Ladies Auxiliary cookbook. This second-edition cookbook came out in August and makes a great Christmas gift.

Marion Pitalo Platt’s Croatian her itage comes from her father’s par ents, who hailed from the islands of Hvar and Brac, Croatia. She has been a member of the Slavonian Ladies Auxiliary for 20 years and served as past vice president in 2009 and 2010. Reach her at marionp1@att.net.

Scan here to watch Slavonian Ladies Auxiliary members make pusharatas.

Take advantage of great beauty deals this holiday

It’s not surprising that from October to January, makeup brands experience an increase in sales. Lots of special releases and gift sets appear on shelves, which make ideal presents for friends and family, and it’s also the best time to stock up on your own favorite products and try new ones. The sales are plentiful, and the deals are amazing!

The holiday season is a makeup artist’s dream. There are usually lots of glittery, sparkly, glossy and brightly colored items released during the festive period. You’ll be ready for your New Year’s night out with all the swag you acquired during the holiday sales.

Black Friday is, of course, the big kickoff for retailers, followed by Cyber Monday, and the deals often continue through the New Year. This is prime shopping time, and I’ve taken advantage of it to buy new concealers for my kit and top off the skin care products that I use to prep my clients. I’ve even bought a new makeup light. The best sales can start as early as the week leading up to Black Friday and continue through Cyber Monday.

HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO CONSIDER WHILE DOING YOUR HOLIDAY MAKEUP SHOPPING:

• MAC releases its holiday collection in part starting in October. One popular item is the brand’s Advent Calendar, which contains numbered compartments illustrating the theme for that year. Opening a different drawer each day reveals anything from full-sized lipsticks or a pair of lashes to sample-size mascara and eye shadows.

MAC isn’t the only place to find makeup-themed advent calendars. Several brands release kits that are great for gifting – or adding to your own collection.

Products to try: MAC Bursting with Surprises Advent Calendar, $195, www.maccosmetics.com; Charlotte Tilbury Diamond Chest of Beauty Stars, $200, www.sephora.com

• While I worked at MAC, lots of customers would buy their first set of makeup brushes during this time because you can get a set of four or five brushes for the amount you usually would pay for two. You can find good-quality brushes with cute handles for a great price!

Products to try: Charlotte Tilbury Magic Mini Brush Set, $50, www. charlottetilbury.com; MAC Limited Edition Brush Essentials Kit, $50, www.ulta.com

• Have you ever wanted to try several lipstick or blush shades but weren’t sure what would look great on you? What about a brand you thought might be too expensive? Considered starting your makeup kit but didn’t want to spend lots of money? This is a great time to branch out, experiment and treat yourself!

Product to try: NARS Behave Backstage Cheek Set, $39, www. sephora.com

• Sephora is a one-stop shop to buy multiple brands, and you can often get mini-bottles of fragrances that come with a “coupon” to apply to the purchase of a full-sized bottle.

Product to try: Sephora Favorites Perfume Sampler Set, $72, www. sephora.com

So, get your festive cheer on, head to your nearest makeup store (or shop online) and load up those baskets! You’ll be ready to fill those stockings, wrap those presents and enjoy a little gift to yourself that makes you feel fabulous when you hit the town.

BY BRITTNEY M. JOHNSON

Brittney M. Johnson is an independent makeup artist based on the Mississippi Gulf Coast. Reach her at mbrittneyjohnson@gmail.com.

‘Tis the season to

BY JASMINE BALL

Christmastime is here, and we all know what that means: parties galore! One of my favorite things about the holidays is seeing people dressed up and reveling in the most joyous spirit. This season has a way of elevating everyone’s mood.

Getting you prepared for all your holiday gatherings is my specialty! We all love a little sparkle, so here are some clothing pieces that are sure to make you shine:

Of course, you can’t celebrate the holidays without adding some shimmer and shine to your look. I’m loving the use of sparkle to bring glam to otherwise basic items. For instance, I’m a big fan of sheer sparkle tops. You can wear this top by Nasty Gal as is, with a top or bralette underneath or even underneath a dress. It’s simple, but perfect for an elevated casual party look.

Nasty Gal Sheer Glitter Long Sleeve Funnel Neck Top, $16.80, nastygal.com

• If you don’t love sparkle but still want to stand out, go for a shiny metallic. This Anthropologie off-the-shoulder look is amazing for any holiday outing. This dress is perfect for dressing up and down, with the perfect amount of high shine included.

Anthropologie Guapa OneShoulder Mini Dress, $260, anthropologie.com

If you’re willing to be a bit adventurous, why not try sparkles and patterns together? It’s so creative

and fun! This pink check sequin bodycon mini by River Island is spectacular! I need this pink-and-redcombo in my closet ASAP, and so do you.

River Island Pink Check Sequin Bodycon Mini Dress, $141, riverisland.com

• How about a skirt option? One of my favorite skirt looks right now is another River Island gem. I love that it’s not in the typical holiday colors of red or green, so it’s a little different and unexpected. This piece is so flirty while still keeping it classic.

River Island Purple Sequin Feather Trim Pencil Midi Skirt, $91, riverisland.com

• You can’t have the perfect holiday outfit without the right shoe. When it comes to footwear, Betsey Johnson and Antonio Melani catch my eye every time. They are always attention grabbing and on top of the trends. From sparkle to huge bows, both brands are the best at making your outfit pop.

Antonio Melani x Nicola Bathie Lila Bow Detail Platform Dress Sandals, $129.99, dillards.com

Betsey Johnson SB-Aron Silver Loafer, $139, betseyjohnson.com

Jasmine Ball is a Mississippi fashion, beauty and lifestyle blogger. Connect with her via Instagram (Miss_Ball23), her blog site (www.theball-post.com) or by email at theballpost1@gmail. com.

ROYAL REVUE

Featuring the 2022 Queens of Mardi Gras

KREWE OF BONNE VIVANTES

QUEEN

OF BONNE VIVANTES:

GULF COAST CARNIVAL ASSOCIATION

QUEEN IXOLIB: Madison Warren

GCCA Coronation Ball

Feb. 20, 8 p.m.

Mississippi Gulf Coast Coliseum and Convention Center

Free public viewing tickets

For more info: www.msgcca.org

GCCA Biloxi Mardi Gras Parade

Feb. 21, 1 p.m.

Downtown Biloxi

KREWE OF ATHENA KREWE OF ATHENA QUEEN: Wendy Figer

Krewe of Athena 45th Annual Ball Jan. 27, doors open at 6 p.m.

Dr. Frank Gruich Sr. Community Center, Biloxi

KREWE OF DIAMONDHEAD QUEEN OF THE KREWE OF DIAMONDHEAD: Suzy Smith

The Krewe of Diamondhead

Celebrates 007 Feb. 11, 6:30 p.m.

The Club at Diamondhead

For more info: Renee Kirschenbaum, (251) 751-1528

James Edward Bates

Photography

James Edward Bates Photography

Andrea Logan

Eddie Robinson, Robinson Photography

KREWE OF OLYMPUS

QUEEN HERA XIV: Eva Amos, pictured with King Zeus XIV, Hawes Amos

KREWE OF SELENE QUEEN

OF SELENE: Sarah Shaffer-Parrington

Krewe of Selene visits Tiffany’s NY Jan. 14, 6:30 p.m. | The Emerald Ball Room, Diamondhead Country Club

KREWE OF GEMINI QUEEN LEDA LIII:

54th Annual Krewe of Gemini Carnival Ball — “Gifts of the Gods” Feb. 4, 7 p.m.

Location: Biloxi Civic Center $50 per person

For more info: kreweofgeminigulfport@ gmail.com

KREWE OF NEREIDS

QUEEN DORIS LIV:

*Krewe does not reveal the names of its royalty

54th Annual Ball and After Party (Black Tie) Feb. 5, 8 p.m.

Mississippi Gulf Coast Coliseum No cost to attend ball, $100 for after party

For more info: nereidssupperdance@ gmail.com

KREWE OF VESTA QUEEN HESTIA XXXII: Angela Bouler

Vesta in Wonderland Feb. 4, Royal Court presentation begins at 7:30 p.m.

BF “Mac” McGinty Civic Center, Pascagoula

By invitation only Formal or semi-formal attire required. Must be 21 or older to attend.

Sandie Schlett

Portraits by Penny LLC, Penny Majors

ROYAL REVUE

LES CAVALIERS

QUEEN CAVALIER: Melissa Horne

Les Cavaliers Ball Feb. 11, doors open at 7 p.m., tableau begins at 8 p.m.

IP Casino Resort Spa, Biloxi

MERRY MASKERS

QUEEN: Victoria Salloum Chambers

LES BELLE FLEURS

QUEEN STEEL MAGNOLIA: Mary Belanger

Les Belle Fleurs Ball

Feb. 18, 7 p.m.-midnight

Location: Frank Gruich Community Center, Biloxi

For more info: email to les_belle_fleurs@ yahoo.com or visit Les Belle Fleurs Facebook page

MYSTIC KREWE OF NIORD

QUEEN IDUNA 61: Kay Kelly

Viva Las Vegas Jan. 7, 7 p.m. Jackson County Civic Center, Pascagoula

By invitation only

MYSTIC KREWE OF THE SEAHORSE

LADY CLAIBORNE: Sandy Walsh

Mutiny in The Bay Jan. 14, 6:30 p.m.

Location: Bay St. Louis Community Hall

For more info: www.MKOTSH.com

Brian Pearse Photography

QUEEN OF BILLIKINS ANGEL GARY LADNER

Mardi Gras Ball 2023

Feb.3, 8 p.m.

Biloxi Community Center

QUEEN OF LES MASQUEES GAYE WINTER

Les Masquees Celebrates 100 Years

Feb. 10, 8 p.m. tableau

Dr. Frank Gruich Sr. Civic Center

By invitation only

Photo by Angie Bergeron

Photos by James Edward Bates Photography

ROYAL REVUE

OCEAN SPRINGS CARNIVAL ASSOCIATION

QUEEN SPRINGS VII: Rebecca Stanaway

Ocean Springs Carnival Association’s Eighth Annual Masquerade Ball: Casino Royale 007 Feb. 4, 7 p.m.

Ocean Springs Civic Center $75 per person

For more info: oscarnival.com

NORTH BAY AREA MARDI GRAS ASSOCIATION

LAMARIN

Feb. 4, 6:30 p.m.

Joppa Shrine Temple $25 per person

For more info: nbamga1988@gmail.com

THE REVELERS CARNIVAL ASSOCIATION

SOUTHERNETTES

QUEEN HERA: Christin Collins

Dreaming in Neon

Jan. 28, 7 p.m.

Biloxi Civic Center $60 per person

For more info: southernettes@gmail.com

QUEEN: Cecilia Gollott Schmidt

Revelers Ball

Feb. 18, doors open at 7 p.m.

Biloxi Civic Center Members only

ST. PAUL’S CARNIVAL ASSOCIATION

QUEEN CHRISTIANA 2022: Kristin LaMarca May

St. Paul’s Carnival Association Royal Ball Feb. 17, 7 p.m.

4321 Espy Avenue, Long Beach

$60 per person

For more info: (228) 493-2728

QUEEN

XXXIV: Marcie Potts

Photo by August Taconi

Make a loved one’s holiday with the gift of beauty

Generosity is always in style, but the tradition of gift giving feels better than ever this season. As the struggles of the past two years abate and we can gather again with less worry, many of us are embracing the opportunity to spend a little extra on those we love.

With that in mind, and with Christmas and New Year’s coming up fast, our to-do lists are about to double in size — but that doesn’t mean the stress must double, too. The next couple of months are about celebration and connection, and we all want to put our best faces forward. That’s a great reason to give family, friends, coworkers and others on our lists the gift of beauty.

When we talk about the gift of beauty, we’re referring to those services and products that help us all feel special, cared for and proud. Whether it’s a skincare service like a calming facial, a beautiful makeup application for a special event, skincare products, microdermabrasion, chemical peels, or microneedling, these gifts can have a powerful positive effect.

If you're not sure which gifts would be best suited for those on your list, you always can purchase gift cards or certificates. When the recipient comes in, the aesthetician will do a consultation, and together, they can devise a personalized skin care plan.

Whether you’re looking for a holiday present for a friend or family member, or a little something to lift the spirits of someone special, remember these reasons why the gift of beauty will be especially cherished this year:

1. Beauty services can help boost a loved one’s confidence, especially if he or she is going through a particularly tough time.

2. Now that many of us are reuniting with friends and family for the holidays, gifts of beauty can help us feel like the best versions of ourselves.

3. Beauty service certificates offer something great to look forward too, even after the holidays.

4. There’s never a supply chain shortage with gift certificates for beauty services.

As the saying goes, “look good. feel good.” This holiday season, show your loved ones how much you value them through the gift of beauty and self-care. What better way to make the people on your list feel special than gifting services and products that will make them look and feel good.

One bonus benefit: It will make your Christmas shopping a breeze. While you're at it, gift yourself with a beauty treat, too!

Melissa New is an independent, licensed esthetician and owner of New Skin Care, based in Gulfport at Doctors Care. Reach her at (501) 328-7984.

BY MELISSA NEW

Stylish survivor

WINDY STANTON OF LADIDAA BOUTIQUE AIMS FOR POST-PANDEMIC SUCCESS

BY JENNIFER GENTILE

Many first-time visitors to Ladidaa boutique wonder the same thing: How are they just now discovering this vibrant, whimsical shop in the heart of downtown Biloxi?

“I still have locals come in and say, ‘How long have you been here?” says owner Windy Stanton. “And when I tell them three years, they are surprised.”

When Ladidaa opened in 2019, in a redevelopment zone on Howard Avenue, its location raised some doubts. But Stanton saw the potential in the Schooner building storefront, falling in love with its dramatic, art deco-style ceiling that reportedly was salvaged after Hurricane Katrina.

“I knew if I got into it early and established myself that in three to five years, when Howard Avenue was filled with new businesses and restaurants, my location would be a great one!” she says.

For the first year, business boomed – but then the world stopped in its tracks.

“COVID really set us and all the other businesses back a couple of years,” Stanton says. “But we are survivors.”

Two years later, sales haven’t yet returned to pre-pandemic levels, but Stanton remains optimistic and willing to evolve. When it opened, Ladidaa focused on fast fashion for young women, but now, the store carries more upscale pieces that appeal to customers ages 30 to 60.

“I saw a need for higher-end pieces and party wear, especially with sequins and rhinestones,” Stanton says. “On the Gulf Coast, we have so many special events, and sometimes it’s difficult to find a great outfit for those occasions.”

That doesn’t mean customers looking for a chic daytime look, or even cute swimwear, will be disappointed — nor will customers hunting for a one-of-a-kind present. What to buy the friend or relative who has everything? How about a jeweled flamingo wine glass, or sequined game-day jersey?

If the boutique’s vast selection of apparel, accessories and gifts brings a smile to your face, that’s exactly the reaction Stanton’s going for. Even the name Ladidaa is meant to convey the positive and not-overlyserious energy the store embodies.

“People are what matter in life, not all the trappings,” she says. “We like to have fun!”

Stanton also has her eye on the bottom line, and several projects are in progress to help increase the store’s revenue. One of those is a custom hat-making business that she is tying into the boutique.

“I’ve already made a handful of custom pieces, and they were wildly popular for Halloween,” she says. “Be on the lookout for Mardi Gras hats coming in December and January.”

Another strategy in play is collaboration with other area businesses, including local designers wherever possible. With more spaces being filled in downtown Biloxi, Stanton says, her store and its neighbors are seeing more traffic from tourists, which accounts for about half of their sales.

“I encourage everyone to come to downtown Biloxi and check out all the new businesses, loft apartments, restaurants and bars; there are more on the way, with some pretty big names coming to Howard Avenue,” she says. “And please come check out my beautiful ceiling and find a Christmas party dress and blinged-out handbag.”

To keep up with the shop’s holiday events and sales, follow Ladidaa on Facebook and Instagram (@ladidaaboutique).

IF YOU GO

Ladidaa

871-C Howard Ave.., Biloxi Tuesday-Friday, 11 a.m.-5 p.m.; Saturday, 11 a.m.-4 p.m., closed Sunday and Monday (228) 207-4906 www.ladidaa.com

String Your Lights,

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Our Dreammaker Loan program provides financing to help bring the biggest smiles to those you love! We offer lending options whether that be for buying presents, decorating your home to be the brightest on the block, traveling home for the holidays and more!

Relax and enjoy this special time with your friends and loved ones by reaching out for a Dreammaker Loan! Our Branch Managers are ready to assist with all your checking and lending needs. Give us a call or visit our website to locate and stop by any of our branch locations. It’s just that easy to make this year’s holiday season the merriest of all!

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THREE STEPS TO

holiday-season success for small retailers

The hustle and bustle of the holidays has begun. Amid all the shopping at major retail chains, smaller business owners may forget that the busiest shopping season of the year presents an opportunity for them, too. The big box stores don’t get all the customers. In fact, many people intentionally shop small and want gifts that are not mass produced. Even if you don’t have a marketing budget in the millions, you still can get your products in front of your customers. Here are three ways to get started:

USE COMPELLING IMAGERY

A picture is worth a thousand words. Hence, a great picture of your product could result in new customers. A great image should demonstrate the product, show people enjoying it and be lit in a way that flatters what you’re trying to sell. It should be the focal point of the image.

CLEARLY COMMUNICATE THE “DEAL”

Confused customers don’t buy. For those who do not like “selling,” there is a tendency to not be direct. Hints and allusions can be missed, leaving the potential customer guessing. Take control of this moment. Clearly state the product, benefits, price, discount percentage and deadline.

SHARE OFTEN

Think about your favorite commercial. How many times have you seen it? I would guess much more than once. Large companies buy exposure on radio stations, television and elsewhere and have their ad placed multiple times in multiple spaces. They do this just in case you were not watching or listening the other times their

commercial appeared. Don’t assume your customers saw your ad the first time. Many of them probably did not. Remember to share often.

USE YOUR EMAILS

If your customers signed up to get emails from you, include email in your marketing mix. Promote your most popular products or services, and include a testimonial in the email. Email marketing allows you to cut through some of the noise that is experienced when marketing via social media.

These are just a few ways to promote your products and services this holiday season. Creating a plan is the best way to accomplish your marketing, and ultimately sales, goals. If you don’t have a holiday marketing plan yet, it is not too late. Don’t miss this opportunity to finish the year strong.

LaShaundra McCarty is chief communica tion officer, LMc Communications. Learn more and connect with her via www. lashaundramccarty.com or https://linktr. ee/lashaundra.

BY LASHAUNDRA MCCARTY

As a former prosecutor, I am equipped to handle a variety of cases, whether it be complex civil litigation or defending criminal cases. As a female litigator, I bring a unique perspective to your case and will ensure your rights are protected. I also strive to ensure that clients are treated with dignity and respect and that each case is handled as efficiently as possible.

As a parent, I understand the importance of keeping families together. However, situations arise where difficult decisions must be made and I work hard to represent my clients’ interests. In addition to family law, I specialize in immigration cases, with an emphasis in family-based matters, asylum cases, and removal defense.

Since the beginning of my legal career in 1994, I have been a trial attorney, litigating cases on behalf of my clients whether they were civil litigants or criminal defendants. I treat every client with dignity and respect, making sure that each case is handled in a way that best serves our client’s needs. My practice focuses on complex civil litigation, family law matters, estate matters and criminal defense.

Any description of areas of practice does not state or imply certification, specialization, or expertise in any particular area of the law. The descriptions herein are meant only to provide information about the activities and experiences of the attorneys and are not intended as any form of guarantee of any particular results on a case.

CHERIE RIVERA WADE, ESQ.MICHELLE TOMES BRYAN, ESQ.

KATHERINE A. KINGREN, ESQ.

Don’t let tipping stress you out

BY JANERA HARVEY

Here’s a quick, foolproof guide to gratuity

Tipping doesn’t have to be complex. Most people know the standard 15 to 20 percent for a restaurant server, but what about other scenarios like a delivery food driver or a housekeeper? This guide explains how much to tip in most scenarios, but keep in mind that you always can tip more for exceptional service.

FOOD

There’s a saying that if you can’t afford to tip, you shouldn’t go out to eat. Good food service always deserves a tip because most restaurant employees make under minimum wage and work hard to provide a good experience.

HOSTS

There’s typically no need to tip your host unless they can seat you at a particular table you requested during a busy time. In this case, you should consider tipping them $5–$10 for their service.

SIT-DOWN SERVICE

All waitstaff should be tipped 15–20 percent of your bill at a minimum. If you ordered something small like a drink and fries, you should still tip a few dollars for taking up a table in their section. As for bartenders, leave $1–2 per drink.

FOOD DELIVERY

Many restaurants are already understaffed, so it’s kind to leave a 10–15 percent tip for drivers leaving the restaurant to deliver your food. If you use an app like DoorDash or Grubhub, you should leave around 10 percent of your bill to help your driver with gas money.

HOME SERVICES

When it comes to taking care of your home, hiring the right people for the job is essential. Be sure to tip your home service workers appropriately to show your appreciation.

LAWN, POOL, AND HOUSEKEEPING

It can be tricky to decide whether to

tip housekeeping, lawn care or pool care professionals. It depends on if you see the same person or a different person each time and if they work for a company or own it. If it’s the same person and someone who owns the company, tip them $5–10 each visit. If it’s a different person each time and they work for a company, they’re likely making an hourly wage and don’t see much of what you pay. In that case, tip 15–20 percent.

If it’s their first visit and they do difficult work to clear your yard or scrub particularly dirty areas, be sure to tip them 25–30 percent so they know you appreciate their extra effort and want them to return.

TRAVEL

Amid the hustle and bustle of traveling, don’t forget to tip those who help make your experience memorable and comfortable along the way.

HOTEL ROOM CLEANING

It’s customary to tip about $5 per day of your stay when you leave. So, if you stayed for four days, you would tip around $20.

VALET PARKING

If you’re lucky enough to encounter valet parking, be sure to tip them around $5 when they return your car at the end of your visit. There’s not a lot of guidelines available for valet tipping, so use discretion depending on the service quality and how busy they are.

I highly suggest never allowing yourself to get stressed about tipping. Whenever you’re unsure, just double the tax and leave that amount for a tip. That amount usually comes close to 15 percent.

Janera Harvey is a money coach, certified credit counselor and owner of The Credit Journey LLC. Reach her at info@thecred itjourneyllc.com.

It’s the most wonderful time of the year to help others

It’s more likely she is making impossible daily choices between paying for quality childcare or rent, filling a prescription or fixing the car.

BY ALISHA JOHNSON PERRY

Just after Halloween, almost on cue, Andy Williams’s “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year” bubbled up from my childhood. I hummed along and thumbed through the local craft store’s most festive offerings of “Grateful” paper plates and pumpkinadorned cups and napkins. Standing in front of turkey-day decor, catching glimpses of Christmas decorations just beyond, I considered the privilege of buying holiday-inspired trinkets while still being able to meet my basic needs of food, clothing, shelter, health care, transportation and access to technology. Is it really the “happiest season of all” for everyone? What about ALICE?

Mississippi United Ways Association identifies ALICE (Asset Limited Income Constrained, Employed) households as those with income just above the federal poverty level.

ALICE individuals often are underemployed and undercompensated to provide crucial services that they themselves cannot afford. The cashier scanning my recreational holiday items could be ALICE, for example. Her biggest choice probably is not which cheeses to include in her holiday charcuterie board.

Marian Wright Edelman said service is the rent we pay for being alive.

Particularly at this time of year, Gulf Coast nonprofit organizations, which are connected to the pressing needs of our community’s most vulnerable residents, stand ready to receive our service of time and cash or legacy giving.

As high-profile midterm U.S. elections shake up our congressional and gubernatorial seats, individual giving toward political campaigns is flowing to both parties. Inflation and economic fluctuations seen at the grocery store and gas pump also impact individual giving, with an average 4.7 percent increase during years of growth and a decrease of 0.5 percent during economic downturns, according to one expert.

December is a good time to reflect on the entirety of our portfolios, beyond what we have accumulated in cash. Mississippians with giving hearts always find a way to support the community, even when inflation diminishes the value of their donor dollars.

Financial advisors and community foundations are uniquely positioned and qualified to give good direction on noncash gifts of stock, real estate, retirement plan assets, personal property, life insurance or any planned gift beyond

Happy Holidays

your lifetime. The 2022 Planning & Progress Study conducted by The Harris Poll on behalf of Northwestern Mutual found that people who work with a financial advisor feel as though they are on more solid ground in affording housing and healthcare, managing their level of debt, understanding personal finances and planning for emergencies and retirement.

Charitable giving wisdom says that the wealthier we feel, the more we give, and it is well established that the needs in Mississippi are great. Daily susceptibility to a volatile financial market weighs heavily on ALICE children. Six of every 10 Mississippi children are born daily into economically stressed homes, impacting their socioemotional development, general outlook on the world and their contribution to a safe society.

The Bible says our treasure follows our hearts’ passions. December is the most wonderful time of the year to connect with your passion as a giver, identify a need and invest cheerfully.

Alisha Johnson Perry, CFRE, is director of donor programs at the Mississippi Gulf Coast Community Foundation. She is celebrating her 15th anniversary as a fundraising professional, supporting social justice and human rights organi zations in the Gulf South region.

PROBATE IS NOT THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN

achieve the goal of protecting the assets.

BY KATHY BROWN VAN ZUTPHEN

Trusts are a good estateplanning tool. I often say they are an excellent option when a family needs flexibility, such as after a second marriage results in a blended family or when there is a specialneeds family member. Trusts provide the ability to control assets from the grave. They can terminate upon the happening of a specific event or provide support for the life of the beneficiary, then specify what happens to the remainder of the assets.

Trusts can allow a person to protect assets and set certain standards for distribution. Some people, however, have asked me about forming a trust or putting someone else’s names on assets to eliminate the need for probating a will after their death. Here is why that is not always the best idea:

1. Your goal should be to provide a plan for the transfer and management of your assets and real property that makes the most sense for you and your family.

Just listing a family member’s name on an account or real property may eliminate the need for probate, but it may not

For instance, if you have a situation where one family member may have a special need, an addiction or just does not make the best decisions, the goal of preventing probate may just lead to handing the care of the assets to an inappropriate party. I have numerous stories of children who pledged to take care of the assets only to dwindle them prematurely, often even before the parent’s death. So, I always caution about just putting a child’s name on an account or real property. Recognize that you are relinquishing some control over that asset when you put someone else’s name on it.

2. Having a written legal plan, whether it be a trust or last will and testament, can eliminate confusion, last-minute crisis and family feuds.

No one wants to plunge his or her family into a crisis or chaos because of a life-changing event like a stroke, dementia or death, but that is exactly what can happen without a written legal plan. A trust can specify how you want your assets handled, even while you are alive, and, at a minimum, a last will and testament can specify exactly how you want assets handled and distributed. Without such documents in place, your family will be forced to adhere to state statutes.

3. If you or a loved one needs to qualify for Medicaid, do not put assets in a family member’s name.

It is common for people to call me and say something like, “My mother needs to go to a nursing home, so we moved all her accounts and real estate into my name, and now she cannot qualify for Medicaid.” If your loved one needs help from Medicaid to pay for nursing home care, do not transfer assets out of that person’s name; he or she could be disqualified. Medicaid now has a five-year review to see if assets have been transferred when deciding whether someone qualifies for benefits.

4. Tax consequences may result if you deed your house to a family member.

Another common tactic people employ to avoid probate is making a new deed to put their child’s name on their real property. Before taking such an action, check with a certified public accountant because if your child inherits your property in a last will and testament, the value of the real property at the time of your death will be taken as the “tax basis.” If you deed it to a child before your death, he or she may face capital gains tax if you have held the property for a long time and its value has significantly increased.

Kathy Brown van Zutphen of Coastwide Law LLC is an attorney licensed to practice law in Alabama and Mississippi. She focuses on the “elder law” areas of trusts, estates and conservatorships. Additionally, she litigates lawsuits and represents small business owners as part of her legal practice. Visit https://coastwidelaw. com/ to learn more or reach her at her office: (228) 357-5227.

ELEVATIONS

CHARNELL MARTINO TAKES HELM OF BILOXI MAIN STREET

Charnell Martino is the new president of Biloxi Main Street, accepting the gavel from outgoing president Bobby Gillon.

Martino, a CRA support representative with Cadence Bank, has been involved with Biloxi Main Street for two years, most recently serving as vice president. She assumed her new role during Biloxi Main Street’s membership party and annual meeting, held at Ground Zero Blues Club.

The organization’s main goal is to be the catalyst in promoting, preserving, revitalizing and enhancing the economic growth of the downtown Biloxi area.

“I’m excited to make my home of Biloxi a destination for all,” Martino says.

LAELA SCHENCK NAMED BOYS & GIRLS CLUBS YOUTH OF THE YEAR

Laela Schenck, representing the Forest Heights Unit, has been named Boys & Girls Clubs of the Gulf Coast’s Youth of the Year.

Schenck received her title during the Boys and Girls Clubs’ 55th Annual Meeting & Youth of the Year Celebration. As winner for the organization, she receives a $1,500 educational scholarship and will go on to compete for the state title in February.

NEREIDS MERMAIDS GIVE BACK TO KID’S TRUNK OR TREAT, DUNBAR VILLAGE

Members of the Royal Court of Queen Doris LIV and the Krewe of Nereids Mermaids collected candy and healthy treats and donated them to a kids’ Trunk or Treat and Dunbar Village.

Trunk or Treat at the Bay St Louis Train Depot is made possible by a volunteer group of locals providing a safe environment for children. Dunbar Village is a retirement community offering seniors various levels of care.

Nereids is the original Mardi Gras Krewe in Hancock County and started in the 1960s as an all-female organization devoted to giving back to the community.

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Be safe, not sorry, this holiday season

A LITTLE PREVENTION, INSURANCE PROTECTION CAN GO A LONG WAY

Tis the season for gifts and family celebrations, bonfires and feasts. Amid all the festivities, please keep the following in mind:

• December is National Drunk and Drugged Driving Prevention Month (www.samhsa.gov). If you are impaired while celebrating, don’t get behind the wheel. An automobile crash will increase your insurance costs. Plus, you will be inconvenienced while your vehicle is being repaired, and, in the worst-case scenario, someone could be hurt or killed. If you’ve been drinking, be responsible and use a designated driver or an Uber to reach your destination safely.

• Prevent Blindness America has declared December Safe Toys and Gifts Awareness Month. Your health insurance may require that you first pay a deductible for treatment, and you will waste hours of your precious holiday sitting in an emergency room, if an unsafe toy causes injury.

Balloons can choke or suffocate a child, so discard any burst balloons right away. Toys with small parts can pose a choking hazard to young children. Also make sure to review the age appropriateness of gifts you give to little ones.

Riding toys such as bikes and skates can result in falls, causing concussions, abrasions or worse. Ensure that helmets and proper safety gear is worn. Discarded wrapping paper, boxes and plastic should be removed right away.

• Expensive gifts warrant a call to your insurance agent to ensure they are properly covered. Beautiful jewelry or art, vehicles and more require protection for their value and any liability exposure. An appraisal or invoice may be required to add fine art or jewelry to your policy, and standalone coverage also may be available.

• With all the season’s great parties and plentiful food, be certain to keep up with your exercise and medication regimen so you do not need to use your health insurance due to illness.

• Large events hosted at your home or business where alcohol is served could increase your liability exposure. For such occasions, consider getting protected with event insurance.

• December brings colder weather in most areas, along with potential threats to your home, car and business in the form of fires, burst water pipes and dangerous road conditions. There are more home fires during December due to additional cooking, decorations catching fire, candles, fireplace issues and brittle Christmas trees.

Take precautions to avoid having to file insurance claims. Confirm that your smoke alarms are functioning, and have an escape plan in place with which all family members are familiar. Be safe, and enjoy the holidays!

BY ANGELYN TREUTEL ZERINGUE

Angelyn Treutel Zeringue is President of SouthGroup Insurance Services, a CPA, PWCAM, CBIA, and a licensed Trusted Choice Insurance Agent. Reach Angelyn at www. southgroupgulfcoast. com, (228) 3851177, or azeringue@ southgroup.net.

COAST EPISCOPAL SCHOOL BECOMES NASA ASTRO CAMP COMMUNITY PARTNER

Coast Episcopal School of Long Beach has become a NASA ASTRO CAMP® Community Partner. The independent school is now one of 201 NASA ACCP partners in 29 states and six countries, and one of 14 Mississippi Gulf Coast partners.

The Community Partners Program provides NASA-unique STEM engagement activities and experiences to youth, families and educators. It will enable CES students to have access to authentic NASA science experiences through integration of NASA’s unique resources and expertise. The program provides STEM-based educational materials and presentations, plus connections to NASA scientists, astronauts and engineers — and its mission is to spark students’ interest in earth and space science, technology applications, engineering, rocketry, robotics and computer science.

JOE PAUL NAMED PRESIDENT OF THE UNIVERSITY OF SOUTHERN MISSISSIPPI

The Board of Trustees of State Institutions of Higher Learning completed its search for the 11th president of The University of Southern Mississippi by voting to name Dr. Joe Paul university president.

A Southern Miss alumnus, Dr. Paul previously served as an administrator in student affairs for more than 40 years. Before becoming vice president for student affairs in February 1993, he held a variety of positions, including assistant director of student activities, assistant vice president and dean of student development. He also held faculty rank in USM’s College of Education and Psychology.

“We have work to do in growing the enrollment, maximizing our impact on our Mississippi Gulf Coast and ensuring the continued growth of our research enterprise …,” Dr. Paul says. “I want to assure all that I will attack these next four years with the energy and urgency with which I have approached these first four months. We will chase audacious goals with passion and persistence.”

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BY KATHY ROGERS

Charitable giving makes a difference in your life and in the lives of those who benefit from your generosity. No matter your financial situation, you can participate. Charitable giving is not only limited to giving money. A contribution of time can be equally important and meaningful.

Some of you may give money because it makes you feel good; plus, it provides a tax deduction. There is nothing wrong with that. The charity you choose to support financially is, no doubt, grateful for your contribution.

For others, like me, it’s about much more. Charitable giving of both my money and time connects me to the causes I am passionate about and helps me know that I’m making a meaningful impact. It brings me joy to know that I can touch and change lives in a way that aligns with my values.

What about you? How has charitable giving affected your life? How have you been positively impacted by someone else’s charitable giving? How do you feel when you give of yourself, your dollars or volunteer hours, to help others in need?

Here are four questions to ask yourself as you consider charitable giving:

WHICH VALUES ARE MOST IMPORTANT TO ME?

What are you deeply passionate about?

Four questions to ask while planning your charitable giving

Take time to consider your life experiences, values and motivations. Think about how to align them with your charitable giving.

WHERE CAN I DO THE MOST GOOD?

Think locally. Think smaller charities, the unsung heroes working day in and day out who are making a positive difference in your community. Is there a cause dear to your heart that is consistently underfunded or understaffed? Not only do these organizations need your dollars, they also need you to volunteer your time.

WHICH ORGANIZATIONS ADDRESS THE ISSUE(S) I WANT TO SUPPORT?

If you have been on the receiving end of charitable giving, how did that impact you? You have a unique insight that allows you to relate to others who find themselves in a similar situation; share your story. Consider seeking out opportunities to serve, and connect with an organization like the one that assisted you.

If not, which organizations are most effective at solving the problem(s) you want to address? How transparent are they? Do your due diligence before giving. Focus on groups that know what they’re doing – and that clearly tell you how your giving will make a difference.

WHAT EXACTLY DO I WANT TO DONATE?

How much money can you afford to give? What about your time or distinctive skills, things like construction, accounting or graphic design? Volunteering your time to supply a needed service is a great way to donate. Do you have any appreciated assets you no longer need? How about funding a life-insurance policy with your charity as the owner and beneficiary?

As 2022 heads toward a close, many people are looking for tax deductions. I’m a board member for two local charities. I know firsthand that such organizations would appreciate a donation to their cause. I encourage you to contact the local charity of your choice and ask to schedule a meeting with the executive director. I can guarantee he or she would be glad to meet with you to share more about their organization and how you can help their mission. Giving your time or money to a cause you believe in would be a great way to end your year.

Kathy Rogers is the vice president of Marston Rogers Group, a life planner and financial consultant. Reach her at (228) 206-5902 or Kathy@mrg.life.

The process of building Mississippi’s first Healthcare Workforce Academy is now officially under way.

Numerous officials, including Gov. Tate Reeves, were on hand for the November groundbreaking of the Singing River Healthcare Academy, located on Bienville Boulevard in Ocean Springs. The site will house the state’s first-ever medical apprenticeship program, which will be implemented to offer growth opportunities and career pathways to improve health and save lives.

“The Singing River Healthcare Academy will be an important addition to Mississippi’s Gulf Coast and will result in more healthcare professionals in our state, higher wages for Mississippians and a better quality of life,” Reeves said at the groundbreaking ceremony. “The Academy is an example of what’s possible when you have strong partnerships that commit to putting Mississippians first, and it perfectly encapsulates our state’s new workforce development strategy.”

Tiffany Murdock, Singing River Health System CEO, added, “This program sets us up for success by allowing for a more trained and skilled workforce while offering rewarding longterm careers in specialty critically needed areas.”

In year one, at least 1,000 students are projected to be trained through the Healthcare Academy. All the apprenticeship programs will prepare participants to sit for nationally recognized certifications or licenses. Upon completion of the program, apprentices will be qualified for employment in highdemand, specialty areas.

For more information about the Singing River Healthcare Academy, please visit HealthcareAcademy.org.

SINGING RIVER BREAKS GROUND ON STATE’S FIRST MEDICAL WORKFORCE ACADEMY

FROM SINGING RIVER HEALTH SYSTEM

Struggling with loss this season?

You’re not alone

For many, the holiday season is a joyful time spent with loved ones. But for those experiencing grief, it can be a painful reminder of those no longer here. Nearly three years after the start of the COVID-19 pandemic, many people still are reeling from loss and emotional turmoil. Navigating grief and trauma during this season of gatherings and celebration can be challenging.

IF GRIEF IS AFFECTING YOUR MENTAL HEALTH THIS SEASON, THESE COPING STRATEGIES MAY HELP:

Avoid overindulging to numb the pain. The holiday season is a festive time filled with opportunities to celebrate. Surrounded by food, drinks and fun, we can find it easy to overindulge. These activities can become unhealthy coping mechanisms and negatively impact our mental and physical health. It’s a happy time, but too much alcohol and heavy food can worsen the symptoms of depression and anxiety. Consider alternative

activities like watching a favorite holiday movie or trying a new recipe.

Look for new ways to make this time special. Even though holiday gatherings may look different this year, consider meaningful ways to celebrate while honoring loved ones. If participating in old traditions is too painful, look for ways to make new memories. Grief is not linear, and pushing yourself to do something you’re not ready for can make this time more difficult. Taking the time to find new and creative ways to celebrate can make the season a bit more enjoyable and bring excitement back after grief.

Practice self-care. Grief is always hard, but it can feel especially fresh during the holidays when family and friends tend to gather. Make time to check in about how you’re feeling. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to jump into the festive spirit. Instead, find ways to process your feelings. Taking a walk, listening to music or journaling can help

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put your mind at ease and increase your overall wellness.

Reach out for support. Don’t isolate yourself during stressful times. Even if your support network has changed due to a loss, you shouldn’t go through grief alone. Reach out to a loved one, a friend or a licensed professional for help. There’s nothing wrong with asking for support.

Although the holidays are a special time, they also can be a sharp reminder of how much things have changed, especially during the COVID-19 pandemic. Take time to honor your loved ones and feel your grief while making space for new memories and traditions.

Sarah Hornby is a psychiatric nurse prac titioner at Oceans Behavioral Hospital Biloxi. For more information, visit www. oceansbiloxi.com.

Worried about RSV?

Here’s what you need to know

FROM MEMORIAL HEALTH SYSTEM

As we head into the winter months, you likely have heard of an illness called RSV that is surging nationwide and filling hospitals to capacity. So, what is this virus, how serious is it and what precautions should you be taking? Here, Memorial Health System answers your most pressing questions.

WHAT IS RSV?

Respiratory syncytial virus, or RSV, is a respiratory virus that infects the lungs and breathing passages. It is a common, contagious virus that causes infections of the respiratory tract.

WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS?

People infected with RSV usually show symptoms within four to six days after getting infected. Symptoms of RSV infection usually include a runny nose, decrease in appetite, coughing, sneezing, fever and wheezing. These symptoms usually appear in stages, not all at once. In very young infants with RSV, the only symptoms may be irritability, decreased activity and breathing difficulties.

WHAT PRECAUTIONS SHOULD PEOPLE BE TAKING?

If you have cold-like symptoms, you should cover your coughs and sneezes

with a tissue or your upper shirt sleeve (not your hands), wash your hands often with soap and water for at least 20 seconds, avoid close contact with others like kissing, shaking hands and sharing cups and eating utensils, and clean frequently touched surfaces.

If you have cold-like symptoms, please take extra precautions to not interact with children at high risk for RSV, including premature infants, children younger than 2 with chronic lung or heart conditions, children with weakened immune systems or children with neuromuscular disorders. Parents of children at high risk of developing severe RSV disease should help their child, when possible, to avoid close contact with sick people, wash their hands often with soap and water for at least 20 seconds, avoid touching their face with unwashed hands and limit time spent in childcare centers or other potentially contagious settings during periods of high RSV activity.

SOME ADDITIONAL FACTS ABOUT RSV:

• Nearly all children will have an RSV infection by their second birthday, but RSV can affect people of all ages. Most infected people are contagious for three

to five days with mild symptoms.

• RSV is the leading cause of hospitalization in infants, resulting in 58,000 hospitalizations per year among U.S. children under age 5.

• It also can be dangerous to the elderly, causing 177,000 hospitalizations and 14,000 deaths annually in the U.S. among adults age 65 and over.

• Most RSV infections go away on their own in a week or two. Pain and fever can be managed with over-the-counter medications, and infected people also should consume plenty of fluids and get sufficient rest. Talk to your healthcare provider before giving your child nonprescription cold medicines. While there is no specific treatment for RSV infection, researchers are working to develop vaccines and antivirals.

*Information provided by the National Foundation for Infectious Diseases and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

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Navigating the holidays

TIPS FOR CANCER PATIENTS AND CAREGIVERS

Experiencing a cancer diagnosis and undergoing treatment can be especially challenging during the holidays. Focusing on certain areas can be helpful for patients as they navigate through the season:

1. BE PROACTIVE ABOUT SELF-CARE AND ENERGY PRESERVATION.

Make a list of daily activities to do with family members and friends. Conserve your energy to do the activities you want to do each day. Prioritize the activities, and rest if needed in between. Also, eat healthy, and monitor your protein intake.

2. RECOGNIZE YOUR PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL LIMITATIONS, AND SHARE YOUR FEELINGS AND EXPECTATIONS WITH FAMILY MEMBERS.

If your treatment is causing fatigue, distribute the workload and delegate preparations for the holidays. If you are having anxiety or depression, discuss with your oncologist or palliative-care doctor.

3. DISCUSS YOUR TREATMENT AND SIDE EFFECTS WITH YOUR ONCOLOGIST, AND GET GUIDANCE ON ANY LIMITATIONS.

Be prepared for unexpected side effects and hospitalization if needed. Educate your loved ones about the side effects so they can help manage them effectively.

4. TAKE PRECAUTIONS AGAINST ACUTE ILLNESSES, SUCH AS BACTERIAL AND VIRAL INFECTIONS.

Wear a mask, perform hand hygiene and get vaccinated. Virtual visits can be an option to meet with family members if you or another family member is ill.

Another important thing to consider is talking about your cancer prognosis with your oncologist. It is vital to have this discussion because if the prognosis is poor, you can do the things you want with family members during the holidays and make memories and traditions. Part of cancer treatment is achieving life milestones and being a part of important events, so discuss your hopes and expectations with your doctor.

BY DR. SIDRA KHALID

For the caregivers of a cancer patient during the holidays:

1. Plan for events by listening to the patient’s input.

2. Ask for help if needed from other relatives. Focus on self-care as well.

3. Be empathetic, and provide emotional support and guidance.

4. Get vaccinated.

If a loved one has passed from cancer, celebrate his or her life. Participate in cancer awareness events. Donate to cancer research. Discuss your feelings with a health care provider if you are having trouble coping with your loss.

The end of the holiday season marks the beginning of the new year. As a resolution, make cancer screening a priority. Focus on healthy living, such as healthy diet, exercise and wellness.

Dr. Sidra Khalid is a physician with Memorial Physician Clinics specializing in hematology, oncology and internal medicine. Reach her at (228) 575-1234.

When my dad suffered a stroke, it was my turn to help him with important decisions, like making the right choice in rehabilitation. I asked the medical professionals that treated him who they trusted for the best care and outcomes. They referred us to a place that created a rehabilitation program

specifically designed for his needs using advanced technology and innovative treatments. And he was cared for by a highly trained, experienced staff that showed professionalism and compassion throughout his recovery. Now I know why they are the trusted choice of medical professionals.

Amanda’s many years of nursing experience include a primary focus on maternal-child nursing, including labor & delivery, postpartum, gynecology, newborn nursery, pediatrics, OB-GYN clinic, and maternal-fetal medicine. She is an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant and values her role in helping mothers and babies with their breastfeeding journeys.

Specializing in LIFETIME CARE for Women

Adolescent Health | Well-woman Exams Breast Cancer Screening & Problem Evaluation PAP Smears | HPV Screening Health and Wellness Counseling | Contraceptive Care STD Screening & Treatment | Pregnancy Testing Preconception Care | Prenatal Visits Postpartum Care | Menstruation Issues Fertility Evaluation | Lactation consultation Now seeing patients at both the BILOXI AND GULFPORT LOCATIONS.

Celebrate

Merry Fitmas, y'all! You all know how the song goes: “On the first day of Christmas, my true love gave to me ..." and so on. I don't know about you, but I've never seen a partridge in a pear tree, nor would I like to receive two turtle doves this year.

However, as my gift, I would love to help you get started now on your fitness and wellness goals. Why wait until January? Let’s end the old year right and ring in the new one on a positive note, feeling strong and accomplished. That means substituting the lyrics we all know and love for the 12 Days of Fitmas, which we can all appreciate.

the 12 Days of "Fitmas"

OF "FITMAS" CHALLENGE

knee lifts

Use the number of exercises listed as the amount you do. For example, one one-minute plank, two jumping elves, three plank pikes and so on.

Remember, 'tis the season to be jolly — and fit! I wish you and your loved ones a happy, healthy holiday season!

Maria S. Barr is a fitness instructor, educator and entrepreneur who serves as brand manager and a master trainer with Barre Intensity. Reach her at maria@ barreintensity.com.

Specializing in Mohs Micrographic Surgery, the least invasive skin cancer treatment available with the highest success rate, every physician at The Skin Surgery Centre is board certified in dermatology and Mohs fellowship trained. Having undergone years of comprehensive, rigorous training, including reconstruction techniques, Dr. Bucher, Dr. LeBlanc, Dr. Voss, and Dr. Rougelot can expertly remove patients’ cancerous cells while performing cosmetic reconstruction all within the same day.

Understanding cultural competence — and why it matters

Relationships are a powerful part of who we are — especially during the holidays, when they tend to take on an even more significance. Our relationships can make us feel like we belong and have something important to contribute to those around us.

Relationships can strengthen us, motivate us to affect change in our world and, more importantly, to be changed. Despite our best efforts, however, it can be difficult to connect with people and experience all the benefits that relationships have to offer if we don’t try to understand others’ cultural backgrounds. That is why developing “cultural competence” in ourselves and encouraging it in those around us is so important.

Cultural competence is defined as “the ability to effectively interact, work and develop meaningful relationships with people of various cultural backgrounds.” Cultural backgrounds can include the customs, behaviors and beliefs of people from groups that are not our own. Here in the U.S., we are living and working in an increasingly culturally diverse environment, where we are expected to interact, communicate, build relationships and work effectively with people from diverse cultural and ethnic backgrounds. Furthermore, modern technology has made interacting across cultures around the world a very frequent and common occurrence. Working toward and encouraging cultural competence in our workplaces, homes and among our closest friends and family can allow us all to become more informed, kinder and more tolerant global citizens.

BY DR. APRIL ULMER

Even those of us most inclined to increase and improve the quality of our interactions with those outside our cultural circles must consider that cultural competence is not something to be mastered. It is a lifelong process that focuses on increasing selfawareness, developing social skills and improving behaviors around diversity, as well as gaining the ability to advocate for others.

So, this holiday season and beyond, let’s work to become more culturally competent in our personal and professional lives, and let’s encourage those around us to do the same. After all, better understanding and tolerance of our fellow human beings is the best gift we can offer our community, our state and our world.

Dr. April Ulmer, a.k.a. “The Tummy Dr.,” is a board-certified pedi atric gastroenterologist who practices at Kids and Tummies in Gulfport. Reach her at thetummydr@gmail.com.

ELEMENTS OF CULTURAL COMPETENCE:

1. Acknowledge cultural differences. 2. Understand your own culture. 3. Engage in self-assessment. 4. Acquire cultural knowledge and skills. 5. View behavior within a cultural context.

The common causes of period pain

BY DR. PHILIP L. LEVIN

Menarche, the onset of menstruation, typically begins between the ages of 10 and 16, sometimes as young as 8. While it’s a sign of becoming an adult, for many women, this milestone marks the start of a 30-plus-year journey of monthly pains. While usually centered in the mid-to-lower pelvis, the pain may be felt in the stomach, lower back, groin or upper thighs.

In a recent national survey, more than four out of five women reported menstrual pain, with two out of five reporting pain with every period. Some women compare the intensity of their cramps to a heart attack. One said it felt like being punched in the gut from the inside out.

As women age, cramps become more common, with women over 30 the most affected. After age 40, many women’s periods become heavier and more painful. While this may be a physiological reaction to aging, it also may stem from other causes and should be evaluated by a physician.

A litany of medical conditions can cause period pain, and one of the most common is endometriosis. For those with this condition, cells being shed from the uterine lining during menstruation flow backwards and out the fallopian tubes, implanting inside the woman’s pelvis. Once settled, they imitate the uterus, causing bleeding internally with each cycle. This internal blood causes pain and can set up further implants.

A second common cause of menstrual cramps are fibroids. Uterine fibroids are non-cancerous tumors that develop from the muscle of the uterus. Tiny ones are common and often go undetected while bigger ones may cause menstrual cramping, heavy bleeding and infertility. Sometimes if childbearing is desired, a large fibroid can be excised. However, in most cases, doctors recommend a hysterectomy. Many other medical issues

can cause pelvic pain, such as ovarian cysts or infections, although these usually aren’t associated with monthly cramping.

Some women find adequate relief from their menstrual cramps with simple home treatments, such as heating pads or chamomile tea. Light exercises such as yoga, stretching and walking can stimulate endorphins that lower pain response. Other homeopathic remedies include stress reduction such as with massage, singing and vitamin and mineral supplements. Acupuncture also has been used for relief.

Medications that may help include non-steroidal anti-inflammatory pills like ibuprofen and herbal remedies like fennel, turmeric, cinnamon, ginger, garlic and CBD. Berries, tomatoes, pineapples, leafy green vegetables, almonds, walnuts and fatty fish like salmon also can also help reduce inflammation. In contrast, caffeine and smoking can narrow blood vessel flow, causing increased cramping.

If cramps are worsening with heavy bleeding, a physician can do tests to determine if there’s a physical issue to treat. Standard workups include a pelvic exam, ultrasound and sometimes

advanced radiographic studies such as CAT scans and MRIs. Laparoscopic evaluation can be both diagnostic and therapeutic, such as removing fibroids or endometrial implants.

Because menstrual cycles are hormonally induced, regulating with estrogens and progesterone often can be effective in controlling the intensity of both the bleeding and the severity of the pain. Many women find relief from birth control pills, implants or vaginal rings.

Severe menstrual cramps can be disabling. Consult your physician for an appropriate workup. While menopause will bring an end to menstrual cramps, for women whose pain is too severe or who have associated medical causes, sometimes a hysterectomy may be needed.

Dr. Philip L. Levin is a retired emergency medicine specialist in Gulfport. Learn more or contact him at www.Doc tors-Dreams.com.

Light exercises such as yoga, stretching and walking can stimulate endorphins that lower pain response

Stress can have negative effects on the body, including the skin. With the holidays approaching, here are some tips to have your skin ready for any event.

• Cleansing the face twice a day removes dirt, oil, and bacteria off the skin and out of pores giving way to a clearer complexion. If you have sensitive skin, talk to your skincare specialist about a cleanser that’s right for you.

• UVA (aging) and UVB (burning) rays increase early signs of aging and are responsible for skin cancer. Use an SPF of 30 or more when outdoors and also daily to protect you throughout the day. P.S. Windshields are notorious for sun exposure on the neck, face, chest, and hands when driving.

• Invest in topical Vitamin C. Vitamin C is a potent antioxidant that protects against free radicals such as smoke, pollution, car exhaust, and the sun.

• Invest in Retin A. Retin A helps to keep the skin resurfaced and youthful resulting in a decrease in fine lines, discoloration, acne, giving skin a smoother and brighter complexion.

• Drink plenty of water. Our skin is our largest organ and needs water to keep cells hydrated.

• Get lots of rest. When we sleep, our body is working hard to regenerate cells. Eye bags and dark circles can also be improved by getting more rest.

• Read labels on products. Chemicals such as parabens, sulfates, and formaldehyde can be snuck into skincare products which are unhealthy for the skin.

• Eat a healthy diet. A diet high in antioxidants from fruits and vegetables can protect against free radicals that damage the skin.

• Don’t smoke. Cigarette smoke contains over 7000 free radicals. Free radicals damage the skin over time leading to deep wrinkles and poor skin health.

• Don’t overuse alcohol. Alcohol puts our skin in a state of dehydration. (See Drink plenty of water..)

For more questions regarding how to keep your skin healthy during the holiday season, speak to your dermatologist. Happy holidays!

BY DR. KEITH THOMPSON

Keep your veins healthy during the holiday strain

It’s the most wonderful time of the year, yet stressful as well. Those long days of shopping for the perfect gifts, decorating the house, cooking delicious foods, baking cookies for Santa — we want everything to be perfect for our family and friends. However, our efforts can all take a toll on our vein health if we’re not careful. Here are some helpful tips to keep your leg veins healthy during the holidays.

DRINK WATER

While we all love the eggnog and Christmas spirits, drinking plenty of water throughout the day is essential to good vein health. Staying hydrated encourages proper circulation in your leg veins and keeps you energized and glowing.

EAT HEALTHY

I think we all can agree this might be the hardest thing to do during the holidays. From family gatherings to work parties, we’re inundated with fatty dips, sugary desserts and rich casseroles. While we don’t want to deprive ourselves of our favorite fare, it’s important to strike a balance with foods enriched with vitamins, fiber and antioxidants, as they help strengthen the vein walls and promote proper circulation.

GET EXERCISE

Especially during the busy holiday season, finding time to exercise can be a challenge. However, it’s so important to maintaining healthy veins. Exercise helps the calf pump blood back to your heart, which helps promote healthy veins. And after all, exercise is proven to help reduce stress and there’s plenty of that to go around during the holidays.

PRIORITIZE YOURSELF AND LOVED ONES

Focusing on our health throughout the holidays may seem difficult, but by being mindful, hopefully we can enjoy the hustle and bustle a little more. However, if you are suffering from leg vein issues that are negatively impacting your life and you’d like assistance, the best solution is to seek treatment from a boardcertified vein specialist. Minimally invasive treatments are available to help you take on the Christmas marathon with legs that look and feel their best.

Dr. Keith Thompson at the Vein Institute in Hattiesburg is a board-certified, full-time vein specialist. Reach him at (601) 336-8368.

BY DARLENE UNDERWOOD

Nothing says “the holiday season” like Christmas trees, wreaths, garland and candles. When it comes to decking your halls, are you a “fresh” or “faux” decorator?

Both types have pros and cons. For instance, faux allows for years of use. It’s relatively inexpensive. One con is that it’s made from petroleum byproducts, and it becomes a problem when you’re ready to dispose of it.

As for fresh greenery, its fragility naturally makes it temporary. When selecting fresh plants and foliage for holiday decorating, you must consider the lifespan, the location where it will be used and your ability to keep it fresh longer by adding water.

I try to use a combination of fresh and artificial foliage. This option can be very cost effective while also giving you longevity — the best of both worlds.

Here are some helpful tips to consider as you ready your home for the holidays:

• When reusing an artificial wreath, you might try augmenting it with fresh boughs of cedar, pine and/or magnolia. Cut fresh greenery early in the morning and hydrate overnight. A product dip, Flower Fresh, helps maintain freshness for arrangements, so I recommend it for all fresh flowers and greenery.

Wire greenery to the artificial wreath, and remember to mist the wreath every few days to help prolong its life. The same technique can be used for swags, centerpieces and artificial trees.

• Early in my career while living on a very limited budget, I attended a holiday open house at an upscale garden center in Jackson. Spying a gorgeously decorated tree, I realized it was not within my means, but I desperately sought a less expensive way to recreate the look. I purchased a fresh tree that had some issues. The branches were widely spaced and not very uniform; but the price was right. I cut branches of Burford holly from my mother-in-law’s yard, spray painted them gold and tucked them in various spots among the widely spaced branches of the fresh tree. It worked, and I was pleased with my ingenuity. Don’t be afraid to get creative to achieve your décor goals.

• Many homeowners buy and install their fresh holiday trees soon after Thanksgiving. This is four to five weeks before Christmas, so bear in mind that falling dry needles and strings of lights could become a fire hazard.

• Always try to select the freshest tree available. Have the trunk trimmed several inches shorter, and place it in a tub or bucket of water overnight. These trees are harvested in the mountains before the first snow, so they already are fairly dry before arriving at your local store or tree lot. Cutting a few inches from the trunk allows the pores not callused over to be exposed and the tree can take up water, extending its

freshness.

• Nothing smells as great as a fresh tree, wreath or swag. I encourage you to buy from a local Christmas tree farm. The tree can be selected early, then cut closer to the season.

Happy holidays!

Darlene Underwood is a National Garden Clubs of Mississippi third vice president, nationally accredited flower show judge and Mississippi master gardener. Reach her at darlene.underwood@att.net.

8 ways to keep the kids busy during winter break

BY ARIEL CHAMBERLAIN

The holidays bring lots of fun with friends and family, but after all the seasonal hustle and bustle have passed, the dreaded question arises: how will you keep the kids entertained for the rest of their winter break? Although a little boredom can be good for kids, as it encourages creativity and resourcefulness, it’s still wise to have a few options on hand when you need a break (which you inevitably will).

1. Visit your local library – Take the kids on a trip to your local library. This is a great way to encourage them to read over their break, and it also gets them out of the house for the afternoon. Your local library may even have some craft time, story time or other fun activities, so check the event calendar.

2. Have a holiday movie marathon – Spend some time binging all your favorite holiday movies. Let everyone in the family pick a film, grab some snacks and cozy up together.

3. Get in the kitchen – While I was growing up, one of my favorite things to do was bake with my mother. Not only is it fun, but it also is a good way to pass on family recipes and traditions.

4. Schedule doctor visits – This may not be the most fun activity on the list, but winter break is a good time to take care of any necessary medical appointments. Getting these out of the way now means less time off from school and work later.

5. Host a playdate – Playdates over winter break will allow your kids to see their friends while giving you a

chance to catch up with your mom friends.

6. Donate to a local shelter – Donating old toys and clothes to charity helps teach your kids to appreciate what they have. It also makes room for any new holiday gifts they may receive.

7. Get outside – Just because the temperature has dropped doesn’t mean you and your little ones can’t enjoy the outdoors. Bundle up and head to a local park or playground. Nothing’s better than getting a little fresh air and exercise.

8. Go bowling – Check out the local bowling alley. Many have discounted days or times throughout the week, and the kids are sure to have a ball.

Ariel Chamberlain is a mom and lifestyle blogger based on the Mississippi Gulf Coast. Connect with her via Instagram (@ thelemonsoflife1, her blog (www.thelemonsoflife.com) or by email at arielc@thelemonsoflife.com.

THESE IDEAS WILL HELP YOU MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR KIDS’ TIME OUTSIDE THE CLASSROOM, NOT TO MENTION CREATE A FEW MEMORIES ALONG THE WAY.

SELLING YOUR HOME OVER THE HOLIDAYS?

Decorate strategically

The holidays are a fabulous time to showcase your home's warmth and character to prospective buyers. The right decorating plan can significantly increase your home's desirability by getting the buyer engaged and ready to write an offer.

If you’re looking to sell during the festive period, here are some helpful tips:

• Once you start decorating, complete the task as soon as possible. Your home must be clean and clear of clutter. Also, please don't overdo it. You want buyers to see your home, not focus on the decorations. For instance, if your Christmas tree takes up a lot of space, perhaps move a few furniture pieces to other rooms or to storage to avoid making the space feel cramped. As a Realtor and new home specialist, I have had many buyers consider Christmas tree placement when deciding on a home.

The same is true for tabletop décor; to avoid clutter, put some of your everyday items away until after the holidays.

• Make a great first impression. Perhaps place a big red bow on the mailbox as a marker to help Realtors and potential buyers find your home. Add a wreath and a new doormat, and, if possible, add white lights to the exterior.

Remember, it gets darker earlier, and many buyers drive by at different times to ensure your home is "the one."

• Don't forget that the foyer plays a considerable role in creating a great first impression. Consider adding subtle holiday scents as buyers walk through. A vase with evergreen clippings adds a touch of elegance and the soft smell of pine.

• Avoid limiting your buyer pool with the use of religious items. Use items geared toward all beliefs and backgrounds. Winter themes like holly and snowmen tend to make a house feel warm. Add a plaid throw over the end of a sofa for a cozy feel. Also, avoid overly personal items such as:

1. homemade ornaments

2. Christmas stockings with names

3. a bunch of holiday cards

4. family photos

• Reducing natural light detracts from the value of the room. Keep this in mind when placing your décor. Try to keep the windows clear to allow as much natural light as possible to enter. We all love putting our Christmas tree in front of a window, but if your windows or space are limited, try moving it to a different part of the room. If you add anything to the windowsill, limit it to a simple candle that

BY SUSIE SIEMIONTKOWSKI

won't interfere with sunlight.

• Coordinate with the room's colors to make each one as appealing as possible to potential buyers. Think neutral. Metallics such as gold, copper or silver accents add a touch of elegance to almost any color scheme. White is also a peaceful, festive and neutral accent color for any holiday decorating scheme. If you use multicolor tree lights, perhaps change them to white for a more elegant feel.

Finally, keep the loud noises to a minimum. Turn off the talking Santa and singing elves. Instead, play soothing holiday music softly in the background.

It might feel like a lot of work to decorate your home for the holidays, especially when you may move before the season ends, but decorating your home strategically can make it sell faster. Your décor can bring buyers joy and happiness, making them feel like they are already home.

Susan Siemiontkowski is a Realtor with Coldwell Banker Alfonso Realty. Reach her at (228) 239-2621 or susiesellsthe coast@gmail.com.

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Give your loved ones the gift of assurance

people and things.

DR. TRACY DANIEL-HARDY

I have heard my mother and late grandmother (and even some church ladies) say, “Just keep on living!” Momma usually says that when it takes her longer than usual to do something that I, or a younger person, could do more quickly or she previously could accomplish with less effort. As I have entered middle age, I have a greater appreciation for the statement and its meaning.

If you are “blessed” or “lucky” enough, depending on your view of life, you, too, will live to see age 65 or beyond. By the time you reach that milestone, you probably will have noticed the onset of mental and physical deficits. I already have started seeing changes in my physical ability, endurance and capacity to remember things without prompts or notes. I even sometimes lament my husband’s grunting while exiting my small car and friends my age struggling to rise from their resting positions. I think the decline is one of the seasons of life for most of us.

Because of the recent increase in deaths of young people in our state and nation, we might be led to believe that life expectancy has decreased when, in fact, Americans are living longer. It is predicted that more Americans will live to the ages of 80 and 100 over the next 50 years than in the past. Therefore, we should anticipate living longer and start preparing for a time when we may need help from a caregiver due to diminished physical and/or mental capacity.

This season, I suggest giving the gift of assurance to our loved ones who may oversee our care.

• Begin by making a list of important

• Create a list of special friends and loved ones that includes their contact information (name, address, phone number, email address, and social media handles).

• While you are still lucid, establish a will or trust to designate who does what under what circumstances, as well as who gets what.

• Create and safely store logins and passwords to access important accounts. Then, make sure someone knows how to locate that information.

• Make your wishes known. Do you want to stay in your home, live with a loved one or go to a nursing home or assisted-living facility when you can no longer care for yourself completely?

• List all assets that must be managed or monitored.

• Begin adding trusted loved ones to financial accounts, policies, deeds, etc.

• List your healthcare providers, along with their locations and contact information.

• Authorize a loved one or two to receive disclosures from your health care providers regarding your care.

• List whom you want to manage your finances and care, and be sure to inform them.

• Create a list of insurance policies, policy numbers and contact information.

• Make sure a friend or loved one has a key or access to your home.

• If you have a pet, designate who will care for the pet.

This gift of assurance will greatly help the caregivers who oversee your care and ensure your wishes are fulfilled.

What else would you recommend? Email me your suggestions.

Dr. Tracy Daniel-Hardy is the author of “The Adventures of Butch and Ruby: Chronicles of a Caregiver” and director of technology for Gulfport School District. She may be contacted at tracy@drtracy danielhardy.com.

Identifying learning disabilities early

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There is so much to watch for when you are a parent of a young child. You want to ensure your child is developing early reading skills, math skills and a good attitude about school. But what do you do when your child struggles in school from a young age?

If you know your child is experiencing learning difficulties, it’s important to not ignore the signs. Here are a few things to watch for when your child is young that could be signs of learning disabilities or other learning issues:

ISSUES WITH READING AND WRITING

For many children, reading and writing challenges start early and continue to be problematic throughout elementary school.

If your child has a hard time remembering basic spelling rules, forming written letters or writing coherently, or reading aloud or fluently, one or more issues could be respon sible.

Pay attention to your children’s reading comprehension as well. Are they understanding what they read? They could be missing skill gaps or dealing with something more complex like dyslexia.

STRUGGLING WITH SIMPLE MATH

Math difficulties tend to worsen with time because math as a subject becomes progres sively harder. If your child has trouble read ing or counting numbers, mastering simple math facts or understanding simple visual representations of numbers (e.g., that five dots represent the numeral five), dig deeper. Knowing the fundamentals is essential for middle school and high school math, where the subject gets much more complex.

POOR SHORT-TERM OR LONGTERM MEMORY

There are lots of reasons that a good memory is helpful for students. It helps them store and recall information when they need it. It helps them remember directions long enough to complete multi-step work like math problems. A weak working memory and problems with focus are symptoms

of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). Your child’s school can help you identify issues like this, and a personalized tutoring program designed to address your child’s specific needs can be beneficial as well.

DIFFICULTY WITH DIRECTIONS

If your child struggles to comprehend written directions, or the teacher shares that he or she often misunderstands or does not seem to hear verbal directions, you might need to evaluate your child’s work habits more closely. Sometimes ADHD is the culprit, and other times, it could be a processing disorder or a visual issue.

WEAK STUDY, ORGANIZATIONAL AND TIME MANAGEMENT SKILLS

Many students must cultivate these skills over time, but if your child misplaces or forgets about homework frequently, procrastinates during every homework session and ignores essential details during homework time, don’t wait to deal with these problems. This lack of executive functioning skills will become even more problematic as your child grows older.

School becomes more challenging with each grade, and the expectations increase. Your child must be able to focus, pay attention, manage his or her own time, stay organized and learn effectively. If your child struggles with these things and grades suffer as a result, professional tutoring help may be in order.

The Huntington Learning Center Gulf port is located at 8950 Lorraine Road, Unit E, Gulfport. Contact the center at (228) 206-2353.

A place for hope and healing

HOPE HAVEN CHILDREN’S ADVOCACY CENTER SUPPORTS CHILDREN, RESTORES FAMILIES AND AIDS RECOVERY

BY CHERIE WARD

staff who provide forensic interviews, parenting classes for the non-offending caregiver, referrals for forensic medical exams and mental health services. The teams work closely with law enforcement officers, court systems, district attorneys’ offices and specially trained medical providers.

lives. We do get to see them connect and build trust with our staff and start to heal. I love how much our staff loves their jobs and the families we serve.”

Hope Haven is one of only 11 accredited children advocacy centers in Mississippi, and James says the nonprofit cannot operate without outside financial support.

Anything and everything is possible when you connect with the heart of a child.

That’s what the recovery teams at Hope Haven Children’s Advocacy Center set out to accomplish each day, and they’ve been succeeding for 27 years.

“Hope Haven originally started as a children’s shelter,” says John James, executive director. “A group of local citizens recognized the need for a resource for children entering foster care in our area. They, along with the local youth court judge, raised money, purchased a house, hired staff and started Hope Haven. We are truly the result of a community coming together.”

The community alliance that began with the initial shelter continues, and the Center now offers an oasis of recovery and a path to justice for children who are victims of sexual and physical abuse. The child advocacy hub has specially trained

“The children we serve are often the victims of unimaginable trauma,” James says. “This trauma, if not addressed correctly, will follow them their entire lifetime. We offer specially certified and trained mental health providers and services for as long as needed at no cost. So much more is known now about trauma and its impact on children and families than we knew even 10 years ago.”

The center's staff consists of a forensic interviewer, two certified family advocates and a multidisciplinary coordinator.

“Between all of us, we have close to 100 years of experience working with abused children,” James says.

Days at Hope Haven start with law enforcement referrals, followed by forensic interviews of children suspected to be victims of felony abuse. Advocates also meet with families to help them with mental health and medical services, as well as law enforcement for possible protection and prosecution. The specialists also prepare families for court cases and offer parenting classes.

“The work never ends,” James says, “but we are going to make going through this process as stress-free for the child as we can. These children and their families come to us at a scary, terrible time in their

“We are the most critical nonprofit agency on the Gulf Coast concerning the protection of children and provision of free healing services to abuse victims,” he says. “We assist the district attorneys, law enforcement officers and child protective services with getting people who hurt kids off of the streets. Our DAs will tell you we are the one nonprofit they cannot work without.”

James notes that state nonprofits receiving funding from the Federal Victims of Crime Act took a 50 percent funding cut last year, which for Hope Haven meant about a $125,000 loss in operating funds.

“We all could face significant cuts again this year, and if that happens, you will see many nonprofit agencies close and eliminate services,” he says. “I don’t know what our future would hold under that scenario. We need our community's support. Please consider donating to Hope Haven as you choose the agencies you support this year.”

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