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Choosing a headstone

A memorial headstone is an opportunity to remember the person that has died and commemorate their life. Not only does a headstone provide a tangible reminder of the person who has died, it also becomes a marker for loved ones to visit and honour their memory. If you are not sure where to start when choosing a headstone, this guide to the different options may help. What types of headstones are there? Memorial headstones come in a variety of shapes and sizes and the type you choose will be personal to you. Here are some examples of the options available: Tablets and wedges (flat markers) These are laid flat on the ground and typically made from

What do different headstones cost?

granite. They are perfect for marking an ashes burial or for a

The cost of different headstones is comprised of multiple factors

simple memorial. Inscriptions do however tend to weather more

including size, shape, material used, inscription type and length,

quickly than upright headstones due to the water being able to

etc. As a rough guide, the pricing is:

settle in the inscribed letters. Upright headstones A popular option, with an upright tablet structure and matching base. As long as they meet cemetery regulations, upright headstones can be any shape, size and design. Headstones with kerb sets Available in some cemeteries, this memorial includes an upright headstone and a matching kerb-set to mark the grave boundary, with chippings covering the grave.

What should be written on a headstone? A headstone will usually contain information about the person

What materials can I use on the headstone?

who has died:

There are several options available for headstone materials.

J Their name J Date of birth or age J The date they died

While generally hard wearing, some stones will change in appearance and weather overtime.

Deciding on the rest of the headstone inscription will require a little more thought, however some people choose to include a

Granite

short quote or saying, also known as an epitaph. You may also

The most popular choice for a memorial due to minimal

like to consider adding a small design to the headstone to make

maintenance, granite is a non-porous, tough and durable stone,

it unique.

available in a variety of colours and finishes. When choosing an epitaph, you should consider the following: Marble Marble is considered naturally beautiful due to its smooth, shiny

J Keep it short and concise. Space is limited to just a few lines J Whose perspective will the epitaph be written from? Think

surface. Some churchyards don’t allow marble. It is a porous

about the voice as it could be the person who has died, a

stone, meaning it will weather over time and needs to be cleaned

family member or a friend

by a specialist to look like new. For some this patina is desired.

J Be respectful. The words you choose will remain on the memorial forever n

Sandstone This natural-looking material can be used in both churchyards and cemeteries. It is softer than granite and marble and slightly porous. Slate Slate headstones appeal to many, especially those with local heritage. The quality of the slate will determine its appearance and durability over time. Cheaper slate can discolour or shatter/ chip in local weather conditions. Please bear in mind that different burial grounds have their own rules and regulations for the erection of memorials in relation to size, shape and material.

Kelly Owen is the first female funeral director at Tom Owen and Son – an award-winning, family run, independent community Funeral Director situated in Llandudno. They provide a modern fresh approach to organising funerals that empowers you to have a unique funeral that is fitting for the person that has died. For more information, please get in touch with one of the team by calling 01492 860 280 or visit the blog and website at https://www.tomowenandson.com/

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