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2015 YEAR IN REVIEW

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COVER 2015: YEAR IN REVIEW NEWS THAT MADE HEADLINES

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NEWSWORTHY HEADLINES OF 2015 JAN U.S. Supreme Court Declines to Hear Louisiana Same-Sex Marriage Case (Jan. 12): The U.S. Supreme Court decides not to hear a challenge to Louisiana’s ban on same-sex marriage.

The court declines to hear the case while it is deciding whether or not to look at the issue of same-sex marriage again. There are four other cases concerning same-sex marriage that the court can choose to hear this week. Those cases concern samesex marriage bans in Ohio, Michigan, Kentucky, and Tennessee. The decisions to hear one or more of the cases is significant because if the court does take them on, it will then issue a ruling that will determine if the 14 remaining state bans are struck down.

the deal that the Obama administration wants “could well threaten the survival of my country” because it will not prevent Iran from having and using nuclear weapons. To the contrary, he says, the deal “will all but guarantee” nuclear arms in Iran.

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Earthquake Kills Thousands, Destroys Several Historic Landmarks (Apr. 25): A magnitude-7.8 earthquake strikes central Nepal, near the capital, Katmandu, killing nearly 4,000 people, injuring tens of thousands, and damaging or destroying thousands of structures, including the treasured Dharahara Tower and the temple complex Bhaktapur Durbar Square.

Denmark Sees Worst Terrorist Attack in Thirty Years (Feb. 14): Two people are killed in two attacks. In the first attack, a gunman fires into a cafe where Swedish cartoonist Lars Vilks is speaking. Vilks, who is on a list of AlQaeda targets for his Prophet Muhammad caricature, is unharmed in the attack. One man is killed, and three police officers are wounded.

The gunman escapes, setting off a manhunt by police. (Feb. 15): Hours later, another attack happens outside a synagogue. The two shootings are the worst terrorist attack in Denmark since the July 22, 1985 bombings of the Great Synagogue and the Northwest Orient airlines office in Copenhagen, which killed one person and injured twenty-six.

MAR Israeli Prime Minister Makes Controversial Speech to U.S. Congress (Mar. 3): Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu addresses Congress in an effort to sway the Obama administration against negotiating with Iran. Netanyahu calls the negotiations to get Iran to freeze its nuclear program “a bad deal.” In his speech, he says

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APRIL U.S. and Cuba Have Highest-Level Meeting in Decades (Apr. 9): U.S. Secretary of State John Kerry and Cuban Foreign Minister Bruno Rodriguez meet in Panama. It is the highestlevel meeting between the U.S. and Cuba in more than half a century.

Their meeting comes a day before the Summit of the Americas.

MAY Ireland Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage in Historic Vote (May 22): Ireland becomes the first country to legalize same-sex marriage in a national referendum. Turnout for the vote is 60.5%. Of those who vote, 62.1% choose in favor of changing the country’s constitution to allow same-sex marriage. The vote comes 22 years after Ireland decriminalized homosexuality. The referendum’s result shows how quickly the historically conservative country is changing.

U.S. Court Finds NSA Phone Records Collection Excessive (May 7): A three-judge panel of the 2nd U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals in

Manhattan rules that Congress never authorized the bulk collection of the phone records of U.S. citizens when it passed the U.S.A. Patriot Act, and therefore the National Security Agency’s program that does so is illegal.

Anthony Sadler, and Briton Chris Norman overpower a man armed with an AK-47, a pistol, and a box cutter as he walks down the aisle on a train outside of Paris, France.

JUNE SEPTEMBER Supreme Court Rules for Same-Sex Marriage (June 26): The Court rules in Obergefell v. Hodges that same-sex couples have the fundamental right to marry and that states cannot say that marriage is reserved for heterosexual couples. “Under the Constitution, same-sex couples seek in marriage the same legal treatment as opposite-sex couples, and it would disparage their choices and diminish their personhood to deny them this right,” Justice Anthony Kennedy writes in the majority opinion.

JULY U.S. Beats Japan in Women’s World Cup (July 5): In the 2015 Women’s World Cup Final in Vancouver, British Columbia, the U.S. rout Japan, 5-2. It is a rematch of the 2011 final, which Japan won with penalty kicks.

Iran Agrees to Historic Nuclear Deal (July 14): Iran and the group of six nations, the United States, UK, France, China, Russia, and Germany, reach a historic agreement to limit Iran’s ability to produce a nuclear weapon in exchange for the lifting of crippling economic sanctions.

AUGUST American Flag Raised in Cuba (Aug. 14): The U.S. flag is raised outside the newly reopened embassy in Havana during a ceremony in which Secretary of State John Kerry also speaks. The ceremony is another signal to an end of fifty years of strained relations between the U.S. and Cuba.

Train attack thwarted by Americans and a Briton in France (Aug. 21): Three Americans: Alek Skarlatos, a specialist in the National Guard, Airman First Class Spencer Stone, college student

Speaker of the House John Boehner Resigns (Sept. 25): During a press conference, John Boehner announces that he is stepping down as Speaker of the House. He also announces that he will retire from Congress on October 30, 2015.

OCTOBER Obama Announces Reversal on U.S. Troops in Afghanistan (Oct. 15): President Obama announces that 5,500 U.S. troops will remain in Afghanistan beyond 2016.

The decision comes after military leaders appeal to the President to extend the deadline for removing the troops. The announcement goes against Obama’s original plan to pull out all troops except for a small military presence at the U.S. embassy there.

NOVEMBER Three Coordinated Attacks

by ISIS Kill Dozens in Paris (Nov. 13): ISIS launches three coordinated attacks in Paris, killing 129 people and wounding hundreds. Eighty-nine people die in an assault at a concert hall, the Bataclan, where an American rock band, the ironically titled Eagles of Death Metal, is performing at the time. Dozens of others are killed in attacks on restaurants and a soccer stadium where France is playing a match against Germany. Seven of the eight terrorists die during the attacks. The attacks are the worst violence in France since World War II.

U.S. Issues Worldwide Travel Alert (Nov. 23): In light of the recent attacks in Paris and an increase in international terrorists threats, the U.S. State Department issues a warning that Americans should be alert when traveling, especially during the holidays. The travel alert is in effect until Feb. 24, 2016.

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COMING OUT IN 2015 2015 has been a banner year for LGBT individuals in a lot of ways, and though we have much more work ahead of us, here is a short list of the celebrities who are out and proud and ready to help the cause — as of this year! Their coming out will give hope and courage to those who still live in fear and the confines of the closet. We applaud those who took the proverbial leap out of the closet in 2015.

KEEGAN HIRST (RUGBY LEAGUE PLAYER) Keegan Hirst became the first British rugby league player to come out in August.

‘At first I couldn’t even say “I’m gay” in my head, let alone out loud. Now I feel like I’m letting out a long breath that I’ve held in for a long time,’ he told the Sunday Mirror. ‘I had a wife and kids. I’ve been a builder, doorman, worked in factories – I play rugby. I tick every macho box. How could I be gay? He added: ‘The only time I felt free of the torment was when I stepped on the rugby pitch. Now I feel free.’

DAVID DENSON (BASEBALL PLAYER) David Denson is the first baseball player affiliated with the MLB to come out as gay.

‘Talking with my teammates, they gave me the confidence I needed, coming out to them,’ Denson told the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel said to the newspaper. ‘They said, “You’re still our teammate. You’re still our brother. We kind of had an idea, but your sexuality has nothing to do with your ability. You’re still a ballplayer at the end of the day. We don’t treat you any different.

We’ve got your back.”

MATT CAGE (WRESTLER) Pro wrestler ‘Money’ Matt Cage came out by apologizing to women everywhere.

‘Sorry, ladies. I’m officially pulling myself off of the market. Don’t hate me too bad,’ he said in a Facebook page. ‘I truly have nothing to hide anymore. I spent the majority of my life lying, hiding and depressed because I felt like I couldn’t truly be who I wanted to be and live freely as I saw fit. I had to act and that’s not me. I, nor anyone else, should have to do that.’

ADAM RIPPON (FIGURE SKATER) US figure skater Adam Rippon came out as gay at the age of 25. ‘‘I want to be a relatable example,’ the skater told US Figure Skating’s official magazine. ‘And I want to say something to the dad out there who might be concerned that his son is a figure skater. I mean look at me; I’m just a normal son from smalltown Pennsylvania. Nothing changed. I’d just like to be a good role model. I’ve been honest with myself the whole time. I worked hard and loved what I did.’

JUSSIE SMOLLETT (ACTOR) Jussie Smollett, who plays gay singersongwriter Jamal on the hit Fox show Empire, came out as gay in an interview with Ellen DeGeneres. ‘I say that I don’t talk about my personal life, I’m saying that. But it is in no way to hide or deny who God made me. Ya know?’ he said. ‘My mama knows. My mama likes me a lot,’ Smollett added. ‘And yes I take her to the Sound of Music sing-along every, single year.’

JESS GLYNNE (SINGER) JOEL GREY (ACTOR) Jess Glynne is one of the most successful British female solo artists, tying with Cheryl Fernandez-Versini to have five number-one singles in the UK. She came out as bisexual in May revealing she was still reeling after being broken up with by a girl.

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Actor Joel Grey came out as gay at the age of 82. The father of actress Jennifer Grey, who was married to actress Jo Wilder for 24 years, has said he now feels comfortable being known in public as a gay man. ‘I don’t like labels,’ Grey told People magazine. ‘But if you have to put a label on it, I’m a gay man.’

COVER PATRICIA VELÁSQUEZ (MODEL-ACTRESS) Patricia Valásquez, the world’s first Latina supermodel, came out as gay after keeping it a secret for decades. ‘The reaction and support has been phenomenal,’ Velasquez said. ‘There’s never really been a Hispanic woman from my side say, “Yes, I am gay.”‘

NYLE DIMARCO (MODEL/DEAF ACTIVIST) America’s Next Top Model contestant Nyle DiMarco has become the latest celebrity to come out. When asked if he is more into ‘boys or girls’, the series’ first deaf model simply responded ‘fluid’. He also added a link to an Everyday Feminism article about fluid sexuality to make clear any ambiguity.

FATHER KRZYSZTOF OLAF CHARAMSA (PRIEST) HOLLAND TAYLOR (ACTRESS) Before the Synod, the meeting of 300 church leaders at the Vatican to discuss sexuality, Poland priest Krzysztof Charamsa came out as gay and was immediately fired from his position. ‘It’s time for the church to open its eyes about gay Catholics and to understand that the solution it proposes to them – total abstinence from a life of love – is inhuman,’ he told the Italian daily Corriere della Sera, saying he wanted to challenge the Church’s ‘paranoia’. ‘I know that I will have to give up my ministry which is my whole life,’ he added.

The Two and a Half Men star opened up to WNYC on Monday about her sexuality for the first time, where she admitted that talking about being in a relationship with a woman at 72 can be hard. “I feel very very shy of it,” she said. “Most of my relationships have been with women and I don’t like talking about them because I don’t like talking about the politics of it all because I’m not political about it.”

TOP GADGETS OF 2015 MUSE BRAIN HEADBAND Meditation is a millenniumsold practice, but it gets a hightech update with the Muse. This headband monitors your brain waves, and in conjunction with an app, trains you to Zen out.

PRYNT On one hand, I find these smartphone-printer gadgets kind of clumsy.

On the other, I never would have expected the bulky Fujifilm Instax cameras to be so popular. This lo-fi printer will be entering a Kickstarter soon, so we’ll see what the crowds think of it.

SNAIL W3D It’s sized more like a tablet than a phone but the Snail 3D combines the physical gaming controls of a mobile gaming device (think PlayStation Vita) with a smartphone.

HYPR-3 The Hypr-3 is a small, inexpensive mobile payment accessory that turns any Bluetooth-enabled mobile device into a digital wallet that’s secured with 3-factor authentication. Plus, it’s got an open application-programming interface (API), so anyone can create custom apps or integrate into their current ones.

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COVER RING While it’s not the One Ring created by the Dark Lord Sauron, this somewhat unwieldy gadget will let you use gestures to control some phone functions. The devices promise to do things like unlock your car door, enable mobile payments, type in mid-air, and any number of other tasks just by waving your finger around.

PONO PONO PLAYER This kick started high-resolution audio player starting shipping to backers last year but will go into public distribution in February. The brainchild of musician Neil Young, the $400 (AU$495, £265) betterthan-CD quality player is actually one of the more affordable of the handful that have come out recently.

QUELL For people with chronic pain -- especially if there’s a tendency to become addicted to painkillers -- this calfmounted TENS (Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation) unit may be a godsend. The company claims Quell can reduce pain from diverse maladies such as sciatica, fibromyalgia, rheumatoid arthritis and more in as little as 15 minutes.

MOTOROLA SCOUT 5000 It’s almost like a Petcube on four legs: the Scout 5000 is a GPS collar that streams video back to your phone or tablet, as well letting you befuddle your pet with disembodied voice commands.

POLAROID ZIP Following on the popularity of Fujifilm’s Instax printer, Polaroid’s Zip mobile printer takes advantage of its Zink (zero-ink) technology to generate 2x3-inch prints straight from your phone or tablet.

DEVIALET PHANTOM A creator of arguably some of the most beautiful sound gear in the world, Devialet brings its high-end technology into a single, omnidirectional wireless speaker that yes, looks like the Death Star.

And really, how can you resist a gadget with something called “Heart Bass Implosion”?

INTEL COMPUTE STICK An Atom-based PC running Windows 8, Intel’s Compute Stick is slightly bigger than a Chromecast and plugs into an HDMI port. It connects to the Web via Wi-Fi. Intriguing.

THE VIVE Even for jaded gadgetfondlers like us, there is still the occasional moment when we realize we’re looking at something that could genuinely change the future.

The Vive virtual reality headset developed by Valve (the Half-Life people) and HTC (the phone people) is the most incredible piece of tech we’ve seen this year. The little pits on the surface are sensors that place you inside the virtual space, giving you the feeling that your actual body is inside a game. It’s a bit unnerving but also amazing.

Try it the first chance you get.

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BOOK REVIEW

ALWAYS OVERBOOKED…

BY TERRI SCHLICHENMEYER

You have to tell somebody.

There’s a secret inside you, one you’ve been keeping far too long and you’re about to burst. You need to talk about it. You need some advice, some perspective. As in the new novel “Naughtier than Nice” by Eric Jerome Dickey, if you don’t talk about this issue soon, it could be the death of you.

Last Christmas Eve had been a memorable one for Frankie McBroom, for the wrong reasons: that was the day she spent thinking about how to cancel her wedding to Franklin Carruthers. He’d been her soul mate, her one-and-only… until she discovered that he was a married man.

As the eldest McBroom sister, Frankie felt as though she needed to set an example and she fought hard to forget Franklin. She wished her relationship with him had been like what youngest sister Tommie had with her Blue. Or like what middle sister Livvy had with Tony. But no, Frankie had something else altogether.

Tommie McBroom felt bad that she was cheating on her fiancé.

Down deep, she loved Blue but he’d betrayed her: he knew how much she wanted a family and yet he’d had surgery to prevent it, which proved that he didn’t care about her. Beale Streets, on the other hand, listened to her. Yes, Beale was a few years younger than Tommie, but that didn’t matter when they were making love.

The delicate chain surrounding Livvy McBroom-Barrera’s ankle spoke to Livvy of different times, of days when she and Tony were estranged and she first slept with a woman. The charm on the chain reminded her of things she learned, and lovers who disappeared from her life so suddenly. She thought of them often – especially when she and Tony brought another woman to their bed.

It was hard to believe that a year had gone by since Frankie caught Franklin in a lie. So much had happened since last Christmas, so much that wasn’t discussed. Tommie’s life was taking a turn. Livvy’s life seemed to be going backwards.

And Frankie? She was dealing with a blown-up phone, an acidruined car, bricks through her windows, belongings rearranged in her home.

Frankie was dealing with a stalker…

So you like a little spice with your Christmas nog? Or maybe some extra pepper in your peppermints? Then “Naughtier than Nice” will make you very jolly.

In this somewhat-sequel, author Eric Jerome Dickey made a list of everything you want in a holiday drama – cheating, scandalous

pasts, sex, murder, and light humor – and it’s obviously checked twice to add even more of the above. Although this book can be read as a standalone, readers then get to revisit some of Dickey’s best characters from other novels. His usual themes are mashed-up, and there’s a very nice gotcha or three scattered throughout this book.

That, and the fast-moving action, made me ho-ho-ho for this not-so-holiday holiday book and Dickey fans old and new will love it. Just beware: start “Naughtier than Nice” and you’ll just have to tell somebody.

“Naughtier than Nice” by Eric Jerome Dickey c.2015, Dutton $25.95 / $33.95 Canada 357 pages

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FEATURE

TRANSFORMING THE FASHION MODELING INDUSTRY

BY MIKE BAHR

SLAY MODEL GROUP PHOTO CREDIT: PHOTOGRAPHER: GENESIS ILADA

Slay Model Management Throws Down The Gauntlet.

It is the first exclusively transgender modeling agency. The agency is working to break down barriers that have prevented trans models from rising to the top echelons of the fashion industry.

“It’s time the world recognizes the amazing talent the trans community has to offer,” says founder Cecilio Asuncion, a former film director who entered fashion after his documentary film focusing on transgender issues, What’s the T? won awards at major LGBT film festivals. “We believe one’s gender identity should not be a hindrance to one’s fashion dreams.”

While being trans is a pre-requisite for all models on the Slay Model Management roster, it is not a guarantee for being signed with the agency.

“We do not sign just anyone,” Asuncion clarifies. “Models must have the right height, measurements and a drive like no other!”

He works alongside Genesis Ilada, a make-up artist and photographer whose work has appeared in VOGUE, KIT, DEFURE,

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TRASH, BELLO and JUTE Magazines, in scouting new talent.

They say they view talent as models first and Trans individuals second. “We’re competing against the world’s top girls. We’re not asking clients to give our models special treatment,” says Llads.

Adds Asuncion, “We’re simply saying, if trans models can do the job, let them do the damn job.”

He points out that trans models such as Lauren Foster, Caroline Cossey and Tracey Africa have had successful careers for years, appearing in fashion magazines and campaigns. “But they often had to hide who they were in order to secure opportunities. We’re encouraging our models to wear their gender as a badge of honor.

We want them to view their uniqueness as an asset that may help them to stand out in a crowded fashion field.”

At 12-years-old, Alex is the youngest trans girl on the Slay Model Management board. Her mother says she signed her

ARISCE PHOTO CREDIT: PHOTOGRAPHER: HEMALI ZAVERI MAKE-UP: BIONKA STEVENS

daughter with Slay because she’s more comfortable with her daughter’s participation in the fashion industry being represented by an exclusively trans agency.

Arisce, formerly with Ford Models, is perhaps the most recognizable face on the roster. This month, she is featured in German Vogue. She believes being represented by an agency that consists solely of transgender models frees her from the need to conform to preconceived notions of what a top model should be like.

Claudia Charriez echoes Arisce’s sentiments. Having forged a modeling career with stints on America’s Next Top Model and The Janice Dickinson Modeling Agency, Charriez is excited to be part of a community who understands and supports one another in an industry that still considers them outsiders.

2015 has been a year of progress for the trans community with many exciting breakthroughs. There was the reality show devoted to Caitlyn Jenner’s life and transition. Laverne Cox of Orange Is the New Black on the cover of Time Magazine. And the recent hire of Raffi Freedman-Gurspan, the first transgender appointee in the White House.

But Asuncion is quick to draw the line between progress and acceptance. “Trans issues are being talked about more but it’s too early to assume it’s all better.”

In his view, he’ll believe real change has been made the day a trans model appears in an ad for Target or Wal-Mart. “The day I see a trans model pushing a shopping cart in a campaign for a major retailer - and no one bats an eye - is the day I will know my work is done.”

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BEAT BOX

HOLIDAY GIFTS FOR THE DANCE FLOOR

BY JIMMY NEWSUM

So you’re planning your annual holiday bash and you’re still not sure what new tunes to cue up for the big celebration? Rest assured, our friends at Nexus Dance Radio have ya covered with the season’s hottest beats. In fact, we’re worried their list of party tunes may be so hot it might cause your floor to spontaneously combust in an explosion of pure joy and body-moving ecstasy. That’s how good we think it is.

Race is an anthem for all who have fallen victims to cyberbullies and internet trolls. Produced by Steven Phillips, who also produced Mantle’s Satellite Baby album, the song is undeniably catchy. It bathes in a cross-appeal bolstered by Kelly Mantle’s surprisingly impressive vocals and the track’s ’80s pop-synth muscle. Mantle wrote the song after meeting young fans being victimized by kids in

“¡SPICY!” CAZWELL Every so often, a song comes along that is so innovative; it not only gets clubbers to shake their bootays, it changes the shape of the musical landscape. That would describe Cazwell’s latest, an ode to the Latino culo. Pitbull meets MIA in this explosive new party jam, laden with heavy percussion and horns and sharp, lyrical rhymes that are as clever and dirty as you’d expect from Cazwell. Inspired by a guy he was seeing who was passionate in bed but also quick to snap, ¡Spicy! is couched with a hook that is tailor-made for the club, performed by side chick Cherie Lily. So go ahead: shake what you got, turn that crown upside down and relish every deliciously spicy move you make on the dance floor this holiday.

school. In the song, she recounts some of the vicious tweets she has received, including one that called her so ugly, she looked like a burn victim going through chemo. Well, who’s laughing now, troll bitches?

“KEYBOARD COURAGE” KELLY MANTLE The latest pop track from this fan favorite of RuPaul’s Drag

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“CALI” RALPHI ROSARIO VS. ASHLEY J Sometimes, Ashley feels like throwing her hands up in the air, as she says in the first line of this dance anthem. And the minute that Ralphi Rosario’s beat kicks in, you will feel exactly the same way. That’s the power of brilliant club music. Ralphi’s infectious vibe – the synthy swooshes and digitized loops - are front and center in Ashley J’s frenzied, high-energy romp about how they do things in California. Let’s just break it down: this track is smoking! It is hard pounding, sweat dripping, non-stop party madness; exactly what dance floors need to keep temps up through winter. Ralphi and Ashley deserve major props for presenting a slickly produced blockbuster that is truly big room dance music at its finest.

“LITHIUM” ATHENA With the passion, aggression, ennui and insouciance that can only come with being implausibly young, the explosive new track from this 17-year old dynamo is an artful blend of pop music with exciting dance elements. It’s about going out at 3 a.m. and partying ‘til the sun comes up; a bit ironic coming from a girl who likely hasn’t stepped foot inside a real dance club yet. It also might strike some as odd that the song is about a drug you can’t actually get high from. Lithium’s a mood stabilizer that turns people into zombies. But that’s not the point! The point is lithium is something some people need, just like letting loose in the club is a drug some other people need. Also, Razor & Guido and Dan De Leon provide remixes that are engineered to make the most inhibited listener lose their mind.

“WERK OUT” ANDRE XCELLENCE You’re not simply encouraged to dance in this new jam, you’re ordered to hit the floor and werk up a sweat. Given the song’s thumping beats that are bouncier than flubber and its ridiculous collision of rapid-fire rap verses and super poppy, husky-voiced lyricism, it’s pretty much impossible to ignore the request. There are several reasons Andre Xcellence has managed to soar above all the other gay rappers that have hit the scene in the last year. For one, his style is cutting edge. Two: he’s not afraid of gimmicks (did you catch his collaboration with Manila Luzon on Ice Cream?). But most importantly, while he may play with his lyrics, he doesn’t his production is serious business. The catchy riffs and heavy bass on “Werk Out” might very well classify Andre’s latest as his greatest.

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Christmas presents for all the children.

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PSP FOCUS ACTRESS, CHANTEUSE, LAINIE KAZAN, TAKES CENTER STAGE AT CVREP’S FIRST LUMINARY LUNCHEON OF THE SEASON The Coachella Valley Repertory Theatre presents the multi-talented stage; film and television star Lainie Kazan at their first Luminary Luncheon of the 2015-2016 season. This special luncheon, which is open to the public, is part of CVRep’s series of Luminary Luncheons and will be held on Wednesday, December 16, 2015 in the dining room at the Annenberg Center for Health and Sciences at Eisenhower Medical Center 39000 Bob Hope Drive, Rancho Mirage.

Lainie Kazan is the embodiment of the word entertainer. After understudying Barbara Streisand in the original Broadway production of Funny Girl, she soon became the “chanteuse” of her native New York, appearing in nightclubs and guesting on numerous television talk shows, including 26 appearances on The Dean Martin Show. Ms. Kazan has been nominated for a Golden Globe award as “Best Supporting Actress” in the film, My Favorite Year and has appeared in such films as Lust in the Dust, Delta Force, Beaches, and My Big Fat Greek Wedding.

Her numerous television credits include appearances on Will and Grace and Modern Family, as well as recurring roles on The Nanny, Desperate

Housewives and as Arthur’s main squeeze in The King of Queens.

In addition to her Emmy Award nominated performance in St. Elsewhere and her Tony nominated performance in the Broadway musical version of My Favorite Year, Ms. Kazan produced and starred on Broadway with Bette Midler, Madeline Kahn, Patti LuPone, Elaine Stritch and Andrea Martin in Doin’ What Comes Natur’lly, an all star tribute to Ethel Merman. She has sung with the Boston Pops, and has appeared at such iconic venues as, Carnegie Hall, The Greek Theatre and Feinstein’s in New York City. She has performed in Las Vegas for more than 25 years, recorded five albums for the MGM label, and was awarded Best New Artist in 1968. In addition to her recent appearance in the Adam Sandler film, Pixels, she can soon be seen in the upcoming 2016 film, My Big Fat Greek Wedding 2. Lainie Kazan is now teaching at UCLA and is starting a Cabaret program there as well.

The Lainie Kazan Luminary Luncheon, catered by Lulu California Bistro, begins at noon, and will be followed by an Actors Studio style interview with Ms. Kazan, conducted by TV/Radio Host, Don Martin.

Following the interview, audience members will have an opportunity to participate in a Q&A session with Ms. Kazan. Tickets are $45.00 and must be purchased in advance, or by calling the CVRep Box Office.

760-296-2966 or online at www.cvrep.org.

CELEBRATE SINATRA’S 100TH BIRTHDAY To celebrate Frank Sinatra’s 100th birthday, books are written, songs are re-mastered, events preparations are taking place, certain products are being shipped to take their places on the market, and more. Here are a few more ways to celebrate.

One of the most important music figures of the 20th century, “Old Blue Eyes,” is being honored on his hundredth birthday with a celebration at The Westin Mission Hills. Join Sinatra impersonator, Steve DiTullio, and friends for a dinner theater performance at the Oasis Ballroom from 7pm-9:30pm that will take you back to golden days of Sinatra’s greatest hits.

For tickets visit www.westinmissionhills.com

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Sinatra’s Birthday at Spencer’s December 12th, Noon to closing Sinatra tribute artist Luca Ellis even serenaded Lady Blue Eyes with a few of her favorite Frank songs. Nestled at the base of the San Jacinto Mountains, Spencer’s is a longtime favorite of many celebrities

PSP FOCUS who value its privacy and romantic atmosphere. On Frank’s 100th birthday, Spencer’s will pay tribute to its longtime loyal patron with a live pianist playing Sinatra tunes all day throughout lunch and dinner.

701 West Baristo Road, Historic Tennis Club neighborhood (760) 3273446 www.spencersrestaurant.com

SPEND THE NIGHT WHERE SINATRA SLEPT Designed by E. Stewart Williams in 1947 for Frank Sinatra and his first wife, Nancy Barbato, the Twin Palms Estate is a spectacular example of mid-century architecture in the heart of Palm Springs. This estate boasts both mid-century style luxury and historical significance with modern amenities. This Palm Springs architectural gem features exquisite period furnishings and infamous piano-shaped swimming pool. Williams also has many other significant projects in the Palm Springs area. The legendary residence was host to some of the valley’s most glamorous parties with Hollywood’s brightest stars of the day. The twin palm trees, located poolside, appropriately name the legendary estate. Frank Sinatra often hoisted his Jack Daniels emblem flag on the flagpole once positioned between the twin palms, which indicated an invite to his Movie Colony neighborhood cronies that revelry and cocktails were in order.

The home was also witness to some of Sinatra’s most memorable bouts. One of the most outrageous was when Frank threw then-wife Ava Gardner’s possessions onto the driveway after she appeared at the house in an attempt to catch him with Lana Turner. You can still see the chip in the sink where Frank threw a bottle in a rage.

Managed by Beau Monde Villas. Visit www.beaumondevillas.com for complete details and to reserve a night or two for a celebration you will not soon forget.

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FOUR DAYS OF POOL PARTIES, DANCE EVENTS AND WOOFY MEN!

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PSP FOCUS NEW YEAR’S EVE IN PALM SPRINGS Here are a few picks for New Year revelers.

TRIO New Year’s Eve Three Dinner seating choices; 5:30, 7:30 and 9:30 plus Bar Party. Midnight balloon drop and party favors.

Starting at 10pm party at the bar with unlimited champagne & wine. Reserve early www.triopalmsprings.com THE ACE HOTEL PS Spaceland , FLOOD Magazine and Desert Daze Presents present New Years Eve 2015 in The Commune on Thursday, December 31, 2015. Live sets by Thee Oh Sees, He’s My Brother She’s My Sister and Slipping Into Darkness, plus Desert Daze DJs. Doors open at 8PM with music starting at 9PM. Event is 21+. Tickets are $25 and can be purchased starting Tuesday, December 2nd! Tickets include entrance to the party and a champagne toast at midnight. If any tickets remain, they will be sold at the door for $30 a pop. www.acehotel.com THE HARD ROCK HOTEL The New Year’s Eve Masquerade Party is back for the 32nd year and we’re pulling out all the stops. Join us at the Hard Rock Hotel Palm Springs & prepare to be dazzled as we ring in 2016 in spectacular style at one of the premier New Year’s Eve Events in California!

Purchase your tickets early, this event sold out last year with over 3,000 in attendance! DJs’ TBA. Classic Rock Band “Dude Jones” & the popular Latin band, “Nel Pastel.” Plus for those of you who like to entertain, “Masquradeokie” with T-Bone. www.partywithbb.com LULU On New Year’s Eve Lulu will be rocking with its year-end blow-out party spotlighting live music and dancing with Tony Grandberry and his Big Fun Orchestra. A superb 4-course Dinner, champagne toast, hats, party favors will begin at 8 pm ($99.99 per person). (Early Seating 4-course Dinner $49.99 per person 5-7 PM) Reservations are especially important. Please call 760-327-LULU (5858) or go to www.lulupalmsprings.com HUNTERS PALM SPRINGS The best dance club in the desert is throwing a spectacular New Year’s Eve bash, no cover, Champagne bottle specials, free champagne toast and of course a balloon drop at midnight. www.huntersnightclubs.com PURPLE ROOM SUPPER CLUB Rings in the New Year with Rose Mallett, Martin Ross, Kal David

Lauri Bono. Three dinner seating choices; 5:30, 7:30 and 9:30 with midnight balloon drop and unlimited champagne & wine to ring in the New Year. Visit www.purpleroompalmsprings.com to check on actual performers schedule.

TOUCAN’S TIKI LOUNGE Bring in the New Year with a tropical flare. Toucan’s is the place to be. Reserve your spot now! . Champagne toast at midnight. Get your tickets at www.toucanstikilounge.com/upcoming COPA It’s party time at Copa! Welcome 2016 in Classic Palm Springs style. Music, balloons, party favors and champagne toast at midnight. Dance to the sounds of DJ Inya and San Francisco’s DJ 6PAC. Doors open at 8pm . Tickets $30 advance. Purchase tickets www.copapalmsprings.com PALM SPRINGS CONVENTION CENTER New Year’s Eve Swing Dance Gala. Swing into the new year and dance until dawn with some of the best swing dancers in the world at the Palm Springs Convention Center. This masquerade ball is part of the Palm Springs Swing Dance Classic, a five-day event filled with workshops, boot camps and competitions. Reservations available. www.peoplewhodance.net DESERT PRINCESS GOLF RESORT & SPA New Year’s Eve Extravaganza Presented by The L Spot. The evening is slated to be an extraordinary event which will include a full & delicious dinner buffet, (catered by the Desert Princess culinary staff), a complete no-host bar, live entertainment by the incredible songstress Keisha D, Photography by Seven Tassopoulos and the phenomenal DJ services of Ultra Star Entertainment. Desert Princess Golf Resort & Spa, 67967 Vista Chino (at Landau), Cathedral City, CA 92234. For tickets call 323-369-3361 or visit www.lspotpalmsprings.com

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LEGALLY SPEAKING

LEMON LAWS WHEN CAR DEALS GO SOUR

BY CHRISTOPHER HERITAGE

Did you see those fantastic model year close-outs this fall?

Find a one-of-a-kind bargain you couldn’t resist? Get talked into a sweet deal that can’t be beat? Or did you study all the details and negotiate a perfect match for you and your budget at your reputable local automobile dealer?

Bringing home a new car is exciting and fun, but once in awhile, it becomes a nightmare. If the rosy glow becomes a frightful hassle, you may have a way out. California has strict “lemon laws” which could protect you from deals gone sour.

Lemon laws have a primary goal of forcing manufacturers and car dealerships to live up to their warranties, and promptly and properly correct problems that occur. But there are some car-related problems that are definitely not covered: Dealership fraud – lying to you, cheating you, or failing to disclose important Information (such as accident damage) about your vehicle.

Repossession of your car that you believe was illegal or improper.

LET’S TAKE A LOOK AT SOME OF THE PROTECTIONS YOU HAVE: In California, there are roughly 1.8 million new car sales each year. A very tiny percentage of these will turn out to be lemons. The percentage varies widely by manufacturer, and it will pay to check the statistics before you sign off on a deal. It is good to know that there are restrictions on the sale of vehicles returned under the lemon laws. A vehicle must be retitled in the name of the manufacturer, and DMV must inscribe “Lemon Law Buyback” and affix a decal on the vehicle. A “Warranty Buyback Notice” disclosing the warranty problems and repair history must be given to any new transferee.

Is my car covered? Yes, if it is a new or used vehicle sold or leased in California that comes with a new car warranty. Cars, pickup

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trucks, vans and SUV’s are included, along with the chassis, chassis cab and drive-train of a motor home. The laws cover the duration of the manufacturer’s original warranty period. “Extended warranties” are not usually covered, because they are actually service contracts, not original new car warranties.

How do I know it is legally a lemon? A vehicle is presumed to be a lemon if the following criteria are met within 18 months of delivery to the buyer or 18,000 miles on the vehicle’s odometer, whichever comes first: The manufacturer or its agents have made two or more attempts to repair a warranty problem that results in a condition that is likely to cause death or serious bodily injury if the vehicle is driven; The manufacturer or its agents have made four or more attempts to repair the same warranty problem; or The vehicle has been out of service for more than 30 days (not necessarily consecutively) while being repaired for any number of warranty problems; or The problems are covered by the warranty, substantially impair the vehicle’s use, value or safety to the consumer and are not caused by abuse of the vehicle.

If required by the warranty materials or by the owner’s manual, the consumer must directly notify the manufacturer about the problem(s), preferably in writing. The notice must be sent to the address shown in the warranty or owner’s manual.

If the above are met, the buyer or lessee is presumed to be entitled to a replacement vehicle or a refund of the purchase price.

The manufacturer, however, may claim that the criteria have not been met, and the buyer is not automatically entitled to compensation.

Do I need a lawyer? Most lemon law cases do not need to be handled by an attorney. If you have followed the rules, and have carefully documented all of the issues and events, it may be very clear to everyone that your car is a lemon and the manufacturer may agree that you are entitled to your choice of a replacement or refund. The manufacturer can’t require you to accept a replacement instead of a refund.

If the problems and documentation are less clear-cut, the manufacturer does not agree that you have met all the requirements, or if you want to file a lawsuit in civil court to obtain damages or additional compensation, then you are required to use a California State-certified arbitration program offered by the manufacturer to resolve the warranty issues first. There is no fee for making a claim under arbitration, and this is a fairly quick, simple and informal way of resolving disputes. The specific steps for filing are described in the manufacturer’s warranty materials.

An attorney is not needed for this process. The program assists you and the manufacturer in collecting all the evidence, which will be presented at a hearing. In most cases, the arbitrator will render a decision within 40 days from the date the claim was opened. You and the manufacturer must accept or reject the decision within 30 days.

If it is favorable to you and you both accept it, the manufacturer must usually comply with the ruling within 30 days.

If you disagree with the arbitrator’s decision, you may reject it.

You can continue your attempts to get your car’s problems repaired by the manufacturer; or you can consult an attorney to help you decide what further legal options are available to you.

This article is part of an ongoing series of articles pertaining to legal issues relevant to the LGBT community, and is intended for general information purposes only – not legal advice. Christopher Heritage is an attorney in Palm Springs and San Diego, who focuses on LGBT estate planning, domestic partnerships, same-sex marriage, probate, trust administration, and bankruptcy. He welcomes questions and comments and can be contacted at 760-325-2020 or at chris@heritagelegal.com

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FITNESS

NATURE KNOWS BEST

BY REVEREND DENNIS MASON, B.F.A., C.P.T., UNIVERSAL LIFE CHURCH

Not long ago I received a letter from an on-line reader regarding diet plans. His goals are to add muscle and drop excess body fat. He asked me if he should drop his current diet to bulk up and then switch to another diet to cut. This is an example of what I call “diet thinking.” When I speak or write about my book, The Art of Fitness, I see it as a lifestyle, which includes what we eat. The word diet simply means the food we consume for nourishment. To become trapped within diet thinking infers that more

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mental focus be done to fully understand the lifestyle concept. It’s not something to turn on and off as you would a faucet, but rather part of a lifelong commitment to better selfhealth and fitness. The Art is in letting our natural attributes guide us.

The old saying “Nature knows best” especially applies when seeking to achieve a happy, healthy and fit lifestyle. As human beings, we perceive everything around us in terms of concrete, abstract, and ethereal

thought. Our five senses are designed to help us get along in the physical world. So, naturally, many of our experiences in life focus on the physical being that is our body. It is our life-long vehicle, our home, our sanctuary, our fortress, our temple, and our best friend. Our body also supports our mind. The mind houses and generates thoughts, feelings, emotions, attitudes and other such abstract perceptions as visual art, music, dance, and our projections of what we hear, see, taste, smell, and touch. For the sake of simplicity, let’s call this

awareness the ego or body-based intellect.

However, the mind is quite capable of more than three-dimensional thought. It can grasp and understand such concepts as time, space, movement and change. The mind, as with the physical body, is also genetically unique for each of us.

On a much larger scale, we are all ‘part of the whole’ as manifestations of a higher power, which created and continues to create all things. Words that some of us may use to refer to that power are God, Spirit, Universe, and so on. That Power allows the body and the mind to have certain unique qualities called cosmic gifts.

Cosmic gifts are those qualities that permit us to excel in certain areas of physical or mental activity. We are all aware of a ‘gifted’ poet, musician, actor, scientist, or spiritual leader. Some names that come to mind are John Steinbeck, John Lennon, Ruth Gordon, Aldous Huxley, Carl Sagan, and the Dahlia Llama.

Often times we fail to see our own natural gifts because we are too busy searching for what we THINK are our gifts.

How many times have you seen someone at the gym struggling to force their body to do something outside their natural physical parameters? While a properly designed exercise and nutrition program can maximize muscular gains very well, it will not be able to overcome the genetic parameters. Here, the ego is striving to attain that which is unattainable, rather than what can be attained naturally. Simply put, God and Nature know best.

How many advertising statements have you seen, read or watched on television that proclaims “We can improve on nature”?

The medical and pharmaceutical industry has spawned cottage businesses that offer products, potions and pills that will “give you the body you want almost overnight.” To me, this has to be the height of human arrogance.

Does this sound too good to be true? In the

vast majority of cases the answer is ‘yes’ and with the remainder there are spin off or trade off aspects such as unwanted side effects.

Consider the concept that we are all part of the ‘grand Scheme’ of things. As such we already have instilled in us the mechanism to know what is right for us. All we have to do is listen to our own ‘inner voice.’ That voice is part of our spiritual link to all that is. It is like a giant regulator to help show us all the possibilities we are each capable of achieving. We can apply this concept to our desire for a happy, healthy and fit lifestyle. For example, if your desire is for only superficial changes in the way you look, then your progress will never be good enough to satisfy that desire. But if you look deep enough within yourself you may see that the natural need of the body to be healthy is predestined.

Before structuring your lifestyle change, workout program, or meal plan, make sure you have been true to your inner self with respect to realistic goal setting. Goal setting needs to be given careful consideration with regards to your genetic make-up, your level of dedication to achieve that goal and an accounting of your genuine ‘feelings’ for what we are about to undertake. It is in the Art of staying Fit that shows us that part of the preparation to working on you, is the willingness to allow our natural innate abilities and cosmic gifts to come forward.

Dennis is a certified Personal Trainer and Master Fitness Coach with over 40 years’ experience. NPC bodybuilding competitor, charity cyclist, health and fitness motivational speaker and author. Body Sculpting Nutritional Guidance - Aquatics & Post Rehab Conditioning www.dennismasonfitness.com dennis@dennismasonfitness.com Phone: 760-219-5877 Home Base: World Gym Palm Springs Join Dennis on his internet radio program, Fitness & More, on demand at: www.BlogTalkRadio.com FitnessAndMore Also on Facebook and Twitter as fitnessradio.

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WELLNESS

THE MONSTROUS MINISTERS OF HATE

BY DR. KENNETH TOTH, BA, MAT, DC, RN There seems to be an increased frequency these days of so-called men of the cloth, aka “ministers”, who are publicly and hatefully denouncing members of the LGBT community from their pulpits, not only in their backward, insular stomping grounds of the bible belt, but now even in openly political gatherings attended by some seeking the GOP nomination for President of the United States.

Yet, very few people seem to be denouncing such vitriol as totally inappropriate and unacceptable. So what gives?

In the not-too-many-years-ago medieval days of our country (preceding the Civil Rights Act of the 60’s), we had the same type of gutter snipes condemning African-Americans and Jews in a similar manner and using the Bible as their shield for their hateful, bigoted, and yes, dangerous spew. They were probably then, as well as now, an “inspiration” to the KKK and their sympathizers against these groups of fellow Americans. Today, these individuals seem to get it that folks will no longer put up with their targeting of AfricanAmericans and Jews with such hateful rhetoric. And, thankfully, the media does not tolerate the use of such slurs as the “N” word or the “K” word. I suspect that these kinds of religious leaders have not been rehabilitated, but are just not willing to push the envelope because of hate crimes legislation that is now in place. However, because the GOP led congress refuses to add the LGBT community to the hate crimes legislation, it would seem that such “ministers” seem to feel that they have a pass to continue displaying their internalized homophobia and direct their intense self-hatred at the LGBT community.

It would also seem apparent that the offensiveness of these pulpit cowards, literally dripping with internalized homophobia, is a sad commentary on our society at large. These preachers apparently feel that they are superstars to the halt and lame of mind in their audiences…not only in their not-so-sacred sanctuaries and political gatherings, but also in their homes via the media.

Have we not been sickened and saddened enough by the African-American church and Jewish synagogue burnings and bombings and shootings, as well as the murders of the Mathew Shepherds, of the not too distant past?

So where is the outrage now when these “ministers” who purport to serve Christianity get up in front of the masses holding a Bible in one hand for authority and demand that members of the LGBT community should be rounded up, imprisoned, and yes even put to death simply because they are perceived to be different? Sadly,

I do not remember any member of Congress making any further mention recently of trying to add LGBT people to the umbrella protection of the Hate Crimes Bill.

Within the last few weeks, our fair little city of Palm Springs experienced another unprovoked physical attack upon two members of the LGBT community. Was this a hate crime? One would have to conclude that it was based upon the media’s account of the crime and the epithet/slur that was verbally hurled at the victims by the attacker(s) before the physical attack that resulted in serious injuries to both victims. Perhaps the perpetrator(s) derived a depraved sense of “courage” to carry out such vicious deeds from some bigot of the pulpit. We’ll never know for sure. However, because the LGBT community is NOT included in the Hate Crimes Bill, the perpetrator(s) will surely get a lighter sentence if convicted.

I am curious about how many leaders of the religious community here in Palm Springs saw fit to discuss the recent attack from their pulpits and condemn the hateful public rhetoric that we have all been hearing from some of their ministerial colleagues, as well as urge their congressional representatives to include LGBT folks in the Hate Crimes Bill? I would hope the answer is: every single one of them.

Dr. Kenneth Toth, BA, MAT, DC, RN, CPT, holds multiple degrees and credentials as a science educator, chiropractor, registered nurse, and personal trainer. He is currently limiting his professional activities to Personal Training/Nutritional Coaching. Dr. Ken is accepting new clients exclusively at World Gym Palm Springs for personal training along with nutritional coaching. You may contact Dr. Ken at 949-235-9408 or on his website: KenTothFitness.com.

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NUTRITION

DO YOU BELIEVE EVERYTHING IS HEALTHFUL IN A HEALTH FOOD STORE?

BY LINDA LARROWE BERGERSEN, MA BOARD-CERTIFIED HOLISTIC NUTRITION CONSULTANT

Sugar-packed yogurts are still crowding their refrigerated cases. I find ‘organic” lemonade, yet it is loaded with refined sugar.

Vegetarian burritos are wrapped with refined flour tortillas.

To be an informed health-food shopper, it’s mandatory to read the ingredients on the labels, and it’s important to learn the many different names of sugars and hidden negative ingredients.

There are so, so many different names for detrimental sugars, it’s mind-boggling. Here’s a list of most sugars that manufacturers like to add to make products irresistible, and maybe to even cover up the negative word, ‘sugar’. These need to be avoided as much as possible, if not completely:

I was shopping in a major “health” food store this week, and it occurred to me just how much of the food provided in that store was really NOT healthful. It’s sad to think of how many people who shop in these stores truly believes anything they buy there is “healthful.”

If you were to take out all the items that contain refined flours and refined or artificial sugar, there would not be much left on the shelves.

Granted, I have to agree that they do carry more of the foods containing organic ingredients, no GMOs, no dyes or food coloring, less hydrogenated oils, etc.; these stores are part of a movement headed in the right direction, and do attribute to more healthful eating. Yet, the bulk of our everyday foods contain the refined flours and sugars that continue to contribute to disease and obesity alone, and these healthier stores are full of them.

There are deli cases filled with the cakes and pastries laced with the same refined ingredients found in the sweets filling the standard bakeries or supermarkets. In fact, within these stores are the bakery sections that look exactly like any other bakery section in markets and sweet shops. Like I mentioned above, they may use less of the detrimental additives, yet are they still using refined flours and sugars? Most likely, yes.

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Acesulfame K Potassium Agave Aspartame (Equal, Nutrasweet) Brown Sugar Caramel Corn sweetener Cornstarch Corn syrup Dextrin/Dextrose Fructose Fruit juice Galactose Glucose High fructose corn syrup Lactose Maltodextrin Maltose Rice syrup Saccharin (Sweet’ n Low) Sucralose (Splenda) Sucrose Treacle

I found that many of the so-called healthier brands like to dressup or disguise their ingredients with catchy words such as ‘natural’ or ‘organic’ to help make them sound healthier, yet really are not.

A package of cookies showcased on a display table near the checkout lines had this list of ingredients: Natural butter, organic sugar, enriched unbleached flour, brown eggs.

NATURAL butter: generally speaking, butter is a natural product; butter is butter, but if it’s from grass-fed, pastured cows, it would be far more nutritious, containing more of the beneficial conjugated linoleic acid (CLA).

ORGANIC sugar: a white sugar product, whether it’s organic or not, is still refined sugar, and is one of the most unhealthful foods in our diet because of the processing involved, and basic nutrients expelled. Why bother growing organic sugarcane when all they intend to do with it is refine the heck out of it, making it toxic.

ENRICHED UNBLEACHED WHEAT flour: they are using a flour that has been refined, and all the bran and wheat germ has been removed; enriched means to add back in some of the nutrients that have been lost, such as niacin, iron and folic acid to name just a few, yet these added nutrients are generally of lesser quality. Not bleaching the flour is a ‘benevolent’ act on their part and hope to have this recognized. If it were bleached, the flour would have been treated with chlorine gas (oxide), which in turn produces toxins that affect the pancreas.

BROWN eggs: there is no difference between white or brown eggs. It’s the pasture-raised eggs that we should be eating for

the most optimum benefit obtainable from commercial eggs; these chickens have a less stressful life, and a healthier diet. And if these eggs listed on the label were pastured, that word for sure would be highlighted instead of the word ‘brown’.

GLUTEN-FREE is a big buzzword these days, and not only the health food stores, but all supermarkets are filling shelves with such products.

However, if you read the ingredients on the label, it may be found that they are not so healthful. To get on the bandwagon of high-selling glutenfree products, many manufacturers are filling them with the cheaper ingredients, such as (white) rice flour, corn flour, soy flour, cornstarch, potato starch, plus the white refined or artificial sugars and sweeteners.

LOOK FOR THE BETTER FLOURS SUCH AS: Brown rice, Organic corn flour, Arrowroot, Chickpea, Potato flour Buckwheat, Certified oats, Amaranth and more.

Everyone needs to be cautious in buying the gluten-free labeled items, but we need to be cautious in buying anything that goes into our mouths.

How many of the patrons of these stores truly believe that anything sold there is healthful? You can bet that many are certainly swayed to believe most of it is.

Linda Larrowe Bergersen, MA Board-Certified Holistic Nutrition Consultant Palm Springs, CA | LindaBergersen.com | LLBergersen@gmail.com Facebook: Linda Bergersen, The Palm Springs Nutritionist Book on Amazon.com: “So, You Think You Eat Healthy?”

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EPICUREAN

KEEPING YOUR WAISTLINE IN CHECK DURING THE HOLIDAYS Sweet treats at work. Extravagant family dinners. Buffets brimming with holiday indulgences. There’s plenty to savor this time of year, and it doesn’t have to lead to a bigger waistline.

Licensed naturopathic doctor Dr. Aimée Gould Shunney believes the holidays are a time to enjoy good food and time with family and friends. With her expert insight, you can make smart eating decisions while avoiding the most notorious food traps of the holiday season.

AVOID: Eating holiday sweets to satisfy hunger EAT: Proteins followed by just a bit of dessert “Many of us don’t cook and we simply show up to the party hungry, craving something sweet,” says Shunney. “My suggestion is to have some dessert ... after you have proper sustenance. Make sure you eat regularly throughout the day. Keeping your blood sugar stable will help you make good choices when you get to the party.

Be sure to have plenty of high quality protein and fat, like fish, meat, beans, nuts and seeds, as well as fiber, so any sugar you do eat takes longer to metabolize. And then, since you will be sated, you can have a small portion of your favorite dessert. It’s a win-win.”

AVOID: Meat and fatty main dishes EAT: Flavorful and festive fish as a main course “Fish contains the essential long-chain omega-3 fats EPA and DHA that are so helpful for a healthy stress response, for blood sugar balance, for mood, and for heart health. Who doesn’t need an extra dose of that at the holidays?” says Shunney. “The truth of the matter is most people rarely eat fish often enough - at least once a day - to get a therapeutic dose of EPA and DHA. Supplementing with two to four caps daily of Nordic Naturals Ultimate Omega or Algae Omega, is an excellent way to supplement fish in the diet and ensure the myriad health benefits associated with long chain omega-3s.”

AVOID: Overindulging on chocolate goodies EAT: Healthier alternatives that use raw cocoa powder “Sugar cravings are often a sign of low blood sugar,” Shunney says. “It’s your body screaming for quick energy. But remember, while something sweet may confer a quick energy burst, it will also drop you on your bottom sooner than you can say, ‘Oops! I did it again.’”

Shunney suggests eating protein or opting for a healthier chocolate alternative like Chocolate Avocado Mousse. (Recipe by Chef Jenny Brewer at www.nourishingnutrition.com)

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INGREDIENTS: 3 dates, pitted and soaked in warm water for at least 10 minutes 2 large ripe avocados ½ cup raw cacao or cocoa powder 1 Tablespoon vanilla extract DIRECTIONS: Pulse dates in a food processor until broken down, as close to a paste as you can get them. Add avocados, chocolate, and vanilla and puree until smooth, scraping the sides as needed. Note: taste and add more cocoa and dates if desired. Serve with fresh berries and a few crushed nuts for crunch.

AVOID: Eggnog, holiday cocktails and other high calorie drinks EAT: Water or unsweetened juice mixed with mineral water Shunney suggests: “Water, water, water - not very festive, but it really is the best thing to drink for your mood and metabolism.

Additionally, a bit of unsweetened juice with sparkling water is a perennial non-alcoholic favorite that feels a bit more special when toasting and doesn’t overload you with sugar and empty calories.”

AVOID: Eating everything at a holiday buffet EAT: Your favorites surrounded by veggies and protein “Take small amounts of your favorites, otherwise you’ll be miserable and overeat everything else,” says Shunney. “Then surround those with veggies and protein. Ideally, you should have about 1/4 of your plate be protein and 1/2 to 3/4 of your plate be veggies, and no more than 1/4 of your plate be starch. It’s more doable than you think - especially if you allow yourself to have small amounts of the things you love.”

AVOID: Baking with tons of sugar and refined flour EAT: Baked goods with smart sugar and grain substitutes “Recipes always call for way more sugar than needed, so do some research or experiment with cutting sugar in half,” Shunney says.

“You can also sweeten with fruit, fruit juice, dates or coconut sugar for added nutrition and to keep the sugar and calories down. Substituting whole grains for refined grains is an excellent way to add fiber and vitamins, and adding whole nuts or using crushed nuts as crusts is a great way to add good quality fat to stabilize blood sugar.”

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LESLIE SHOCKLEY OWNER - Tea With Iris My goal is to create a waste-free environment by gardening, composting, and making products from organic and repurposed materials. All of my products are sewn with my most cherished heirloom, my grandmother’s 1958 Singer Slant-O-Matic sewing machine. My prints are hand-painted from the plants in our native and edible gardens.

Working as a Peace Corps volunteer in the Philippines (19961998) opened my eyes to the amount of waste people consume and the detrimental effects it has on the environment. It wasn’t that the people I worked and lived with in the rural fishing community in the Philippines were more wasteful than we are; they had to deal with their waste on a daily basis and couldn’t take it to the curb every week as we do here. I feel that as consumers, we can really change the impact we have on our local and global environment by the way we choose to spend our money and really think about the life cycle each product has on our environment.

The products I make are inspired by the materials I find. A vintage linen will transform into a 60‘s-inspired dress I named the Maude dress.

A Vera linen and vinyl tablecloth will evolve into a picnic blanket. Or a unique embroidered linen napkin will be the pocket for a girl’s ‘happy power’ dress, which is a loose fitting play dress made from vintage linens. My daughter came up with the term ‘happy power’, asking my husband one morning if he had happy power. I thought it was a perfect name for the first style of girls dresses I designed. If I buy virgin material, I source material made sustainable resources such as organic cotton, bamboo and hemp.

My passion for making prints from plants in our garden came from an early appreciation of nature, growing up in the Cahuilla Hills in Palm Desert, California and later on in life taking botany courses in college.

I’m continuously learning through nature and want to pass along this knowledge. I share my learning experiences in gardening and composting, and some of the ways I have found to reduce the amount of waste in our household on my website and other social media. www.teawithiris.com | leslie@teawithiris.com

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DEC 12 – JAN 7 THE CLIENT COLLECTIVE ART SHOW PALM SPRINGS This event is free and open to the public and the many donors and supporters of Desert AIDS Project. Special thanks to the Curatorial Team: Russell Pritchard, Bruce Tunis, and Kevin Christenson. The Client Collective Art Show will be viewable Monday - Thursday, 10 AM - 6PM, and Friday - Sunday, 10AM - 8PM. www.desertaidsproject.org

makes you feel like you’re sitting in your living room with an eccentric friend who has your whole dinner party in stitches.

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THRU DEC 31 WILDLIGHTS AT THE LIVING DESERT THE LIVING DESERT, PALM DESERT Transgender Day of Remembrance has become a global movement to end violence against the Transgender Community. It is our goal to make this the largest TDOR vigil in Southern California to bring needed public attention to end violence and oppression against the Transgender Community. www.transcc.org DEC 16 A VERY ANXIOUS CHRISTMAS, SHANN CARR’S MULTI-MEDIA SHOW CHILL BAR PALM SPRINGS A Very Anxious Christmas will leave everyone in Stiches. Professional Comedian Shann Carr is coming to Chill Bar Palm Springs. With 26 years of exclusively gay standup experience at her hip, comedian Shann Carr weaves a storytelling style that

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CHILL BAR PALM SPRINGS A warm and fabulous twenty first century modern venue located on Arenas, suited with multi faceted rooms for any celebration. The gorgeous island bar is surrounded by hi-definition video entertainment and a comfortable designer lounge. Chill on the patio enjoying music and refreshing beverages with friends after a game of pool, or come by and say hello to our friendly staff. Open for business seven days a week. Get out of the heat, and come join us! Happy Hour (From Open to 7pm) and Late Happy Hour (From Midnight to Last Call) $4 Well Drinks, $2.75 Bud Light & $1.50 Chill Lager. www.chillbarpalmsprings.com

THE SUNDAY BAND W/ SPECIAL GUESTS. PAPPY & HARRIET’S PIONEERTOWN The Sunday Rock + Roll Service is a Pappy and Harriet’s institution celebrating the healing powers of music and community!

Every weekend the club’s favorite singers and players get together and trade songs.

Come join us to see Victoria Williams, Gar Robertson, Carol Ann Crandall, Damian Lester, Bob Furgo, Rachel Dean, Ryan Norman, Caleb Winn, Danny Frankel and other talented locals performing for your drinking and dancing pleasure. With a come-as-you-are vibe, Sundays have seen great special guests like Robert Plant, Lucinda Williams, The Jayhawks, Rickie Lee Jones to name a few. www.pappyandharriets.com

CARNIVAL CABARET. OSCAR’S CAFÉ & BAR. PALM SPRINGS Carnival Cabaret is a high-end female impersonator revue. This production has traveled throughout the country with performances in casinos, theaters and for corporate events.

Carnival Cabaret features the world’s most amazing cast of men who perform as famous women. You will not believe your eyes! Veteran TV and film actor James

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Gypsy Haake, who holds the record for the oldest working female impersonator in the world, hosts the show. Haake is 83 years old and has been seen in films and television since the 1980s. Shows run every Thursday, Friday and Saturday. Dinner show seating begins at 6:30pm. Show only seating begins at 7:30pm. Showtime is 8pm. Tickets start at $29.95.

Tickets: carnivalcabaret.ticketleap.com

COPA In a throwback to old Palm Springs’ nightclubs, the Copa is fashioned around an elevated performing stage and a stunning u-shaped bar lined with leather barstools, upholstered booths, and gilded cocktail tables. Sink into the sexy lounge, sip a cocktail, and enjoy the lineup of local and guest entertainers. For weekly schedule visit www.coparoomps.com

THE PURPLE ROOM Supper club, drinks and live music. It’s where Palm Springs plays. Great entertainment nightly and dinner specials. You never know whom you might see at The Purple Room.

For monthly schedule and info visit www.thepurpleroompalmsprings.com

OSCAR’S CAFÉ & BAR Located in the heart of downtown Palm Springs on the corner of Tahquitz Canyon Way and Indian Canyon, Oscar’s has a huge outdoor patio with lots of umbrellas for shade and misters to keep you cool, too.

You can beat the heat any time of year and enjoy the views of Palm Springs. On Saturday and Sunday from 8am – 2pm, enjoy a $9 Bottomless Mimosas (juice included), a single $2 mimosa or a $5 Bloody Mary with brunch, during which both our full breakfast and lunch menus are available. Also join us for Sunday Funday Weekly Tea Dance 4pm-Close! Live entertainment weekly visit our website for details. www.oscarspalmsprings.com

LIPSTICK AT COPA Thursday nights at Copa just got a little hotter with a new show at the new showroom inside Copa. The Hot New Lipstick show is a raucous affair where the audience is encouraged to participate in singing, clapping, dancing, partying and celebrating special events. Featuring performances by Charles Herrera, Pinkie Meringue Shimmer, Marina Mac, Sassy Ross, Dion Khan, and Cherilyn, and emceed by the fabulous Bella Da Ball, this show will not disappoint. For ticket info and schedule of performers visit www.coparoomps.com

HUNTERS NIGHTCLUBS® Palm Springs, Palm Springs’ go-to gay bar and dance club, has been leading the way in fullout fun for 16 years now! And we keep it pumping, making it better for you all the time with our unparalleled event line-up.

We enjoy having the desert’s most soughtafter and friendly DJs, full-on themed events, and a staff that has it all without the attitude. And of course, we are proud to hold the longest happy hour in the entire Valley. Remember: Size Matters. Come by for our happy hour from 10am – 7pm.

Yes, that’s right: 9 hours long! For a list of all events and specials visit www.huntersnightclubs.com

SUNDAYS “The Playgirls” at Toucans Tiki Lounge featuring Tommi Rose. Performances at 8 & 10pm.These darling Divas of drag really deliver with their very own brand of entertainment to packed houses. Special guests appear weekly. DJ in the sound booth.

Every Sunday Complete list of events www.toucanstikilounge.com FOR A COMPLETE CALENDAR OF EVENTS VISIT OUR MEDIA PARTNER, GAY DESERT GUIDE. CLICK ON LOGO

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JAN 15 - 18

DEC 10 - 27

HOMO FOR THE HOLIDAYS SEATTLE, WASHINGTON Homo For The Holidays is a hearty holiday fruitcake packed with rollick-some reindeer, enticing elves, ghostly guests, sexy snowstorms, agile angels, musical Maccabees, and new ways to define coming home. It’s not Christmas in July, it’s Pride in December! Light your menorah, stuff your stockings, and join our chosen family in celebrating our favorite wintry holiday of all, Homo For The Holidays!

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JAN 1 - 11

PALM SPRINGS INTERNATIONAL FILM FESTIVAL PALM SPRINGS, CA Now entering its 27th year, the Palm Springs International Film Festival has a wellestablished reputation as one of the most prestigious and well-attended film festivals in the country. The Festival has long secured its place on the world stage as the portal for the very best in world cinema, welcoming more than 136,000 enthusiastic filmgoers to Palm Springs every year. www.psfilmfest.org

MID ATLANTIC LEATHER WEEKEND WASHINGTON, DC Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend is a threeday long party and event with participants that now number in the thousands. The heart of the weekend is the historic leather formal Saturday evening cocktail social, Leather Cocktails. The Weekend also includes official events organized by weekend hosts, Centaur MC, that include a bustling Leather Exhibit Hall; Sunday brunch; Mr. MAL Contest and the official Sunday night closing party. www.leatherweekend.com

JAN 17 - 24 JAN 7 - 10

GAY CHRISTIAN NETWORK CONFERENCE HOUSTON, TEXAS Discover what makes the Gay Christian Network Conference the world’s largest, most celebrated, and most affordable annual LGBT Christian event at the 12th annual GCN Conference, taking place at the Hilton Americas and the George R. Brown Convention Center. For over ten years, GCN has brought hundreds of Christians together each January for fellowship, worship, support, engagement,

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SIN CITY SHOOT OUT LAS VEGAS, NEVADA In 2007 the event started with the idea of creating the best LGBT softball tournament in the world and over the years has morphed into something much bigger & special as more sports are added yearly to the line up. For 2016 we will have over 8,500 participants & 23 different sports together for competitive fun on and off the field, as our nightly parties are not to miss events. www.sincityshootout.com

ASPEN GAY SKI WEEK ASPEN, COLORADO Aspen Gay Ski Week is the premier gay & lesbian winter travel vacation event in Colorado. Not only is it a great vacation destination but also it is a fundraising event for local and national LGBTQ organizations.

Aspen Gay Ski Week has gained the reputation of hosting the most exclusive and explosive winter entertainment. Worldrenowned DJ’s, indoor & outdoor pool parties, debauchery that will take you into the morning hours just in time to hit the slopes. www.gayskiweek.com

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JAN 17 - FEB 7 JAN 10 - 17 DEC 5 - 10

MERLINKA QUEER FILM FESTIVAL BELGRADE, SERBIA The Festival aims at presenting films dealing with gay, lesbian, bisexual, transsexual, intersexual and queer issues. The official program will highlight short, documentary and feature films from all over the world. www.merlinka.com

DEC 27 - JAN 3

SUMMER CAMP 2015 TAKAKA, NEW ZEALAND Summer Camp is a unique holiday experience for gay and bisexual men. It is our longest running event, with men from across the world gathering at Autumn Farm for the festive season. Come and experience friendship, fantasy and fun with your gay brothers. Spend the New Year in a relaxed, clothing-optional, secluded country garden environment. Each day is different, with optional day trips to visit the natural beauty of Golden Bay. Warm up your evening at the Happy Hour and our New Year’s Fireworks and Dance Party.

AROSA SKI WEEK AROSA SWITZERLAND The annual Gay Ski Week in Arosa, one of Switzerland’s most enchanting winter resorts, is in its 10th year and constantly growing with people participating from all over the world.

Come experience Swiss hospitality, the charm of a true mountain resort and glamorous parties while you’re enjoying yourself with various activities throughout the week. There is a wide range of accommodations. Don’t forget to order your event pass for the week, or do you want to miss the foam party, a fondue night at the mountain hut, a classical piano concert, the pool party, our cabaretnight or the drag- queen ski race?? www.arosa-gayskiweek.com

MIDSUMMA FESTIVAL MELBOURNE, AUSTRALIA Midsumma Festival is Victoria’s premier gay and lesbian arts and culture festival, presenting an annual community celebration and encouraging the development of innovative artistic content and a unique cultural experience. We believe that maintaining a history of Midsumma is just one of the ways that we can recognize the efforts of those people and organizations which have been, and continue to be, an integral part of Midsumma’s history. www.midsumma.org.au

JAN 14 - 17

CARTAGENA GAY FEST CARTAGENA, COLOMBIA Great beach parties, sea breeze and bodies with the best and the most exciting experiences that move at the pace you like. A dream, just the desire to enjoy and not have to go looking elsewhere, what have for you ...

So sit back, close your eyes and feel the sound of palm trees with fresh breeze Cartagena, a frozen cocktail your hands, the tide seducing your feet, getting sun and feeling that nothing else matters, just you and the special moment to relax and start a memorable 2016. You’ve never been to a festival like this in Colombia, Cartagena Gay Fest!

Our international media partner, FNQ Magazine, www.fnqmagazine.com Cairns gay lifestyle and travel publication that gives Australia and the world a taste of gay life in the tropics, sponsors the International Calendar. www.go2gaycairns.com

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