September 2021 Issue 154

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’m overwhelmed! I need to get grounded!” (but what does that look like?) “I need to calm my mind!” (how do I do that?) “I need to find my truth!” (and where will I find the time?) Let us share some thoughts to update your toolbox. Compassionate inquiry, curiosity, and mindfulness are key tools for effective self-reflection that moves us through various states of fight/flight reactivity and post-traumatic stress because they are comforting attributes, easy to work with, and not overwhelming. Mindfulness is the practice of focusing conscious attention on physical sensations and feelings in the moment without interpretation or judgment. This practice relaxes the body and mind to help reduce stress, anxiety, depression and insomnia, improve attention and engage the world around us. Mindfulness practices create moment-to-moment awareness that encourages attention to the present moment where we have influence and choice, as opposed to reliving the past and/or futurizing where we

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Creatively Writing Our Recovery cannot affect change because our influence is diminished. Mindfulness practices replace problematic responses to triggered states such as dissociation, denial or numbing out with replenishing life affirming coping strategies. Creative art externalizes the experiences of trauma. Art can enable us to safely test a variety of options. Art does not have to be perfect. Art can help us to heal and live meaningful lives with less impact from traumatic stress. Inner responses to trauma can be expressed in

visual metaphors which can then be modified or transformed. Changes in these metaphors can reflect changes in personal beliefs or behaviour. Transforming art images is unquestionably easier than transforming behavioural patterns, attitudes, or actual life situations, but the experience of making changes through art can nonetheless help us to manage traumatic stress and make positive life changes. Writing is a powerful tool of self-discovery, expression and ultimately integration and transformation. Through

the writing process, we begin to claim our story and have agency over our traumatic experiences, instead of living in a state in which our trauma has control over us. Because traumatic experiences are often stored in the body outside of verbal language, concrete tools such as creative art and gentle mindfulness practices work with the body to create new pathways between mind, body and in the brain itself. Mindfulness, creative art and journaling centres us in our own decision-making. Guidance that comes from our intuition builds the resilience needed to overcome adversity. We discover personal strengths and begin to believe in ourselves. The attributes of mindfulness empower lifestyles that liberate our spirit and foster positive relationships with Self and others. For more information on “Creatively Writing Our Recovery”, contact Kendra Thomas of Warmland Women’s Support Services 250-710-8177 kthomas@warmlandwomen.org


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September Forecasts

6min
page 77

HeartMath Can Help You

5min
pages 74-76

Managing Changes With Ease

2min
page 72

Jump Into Music

2min
page 69

The Importance of Our Microbial Friends

3min
page 70

Helping Our Kids Cope

2min
page 68

The Other School Supplies

2min
page 67

September Arts

4min
pages 64-65

Waterfalls in The Fall

2min
page 63

Cowichan Valley Probus Club

1min
page 62

Selecting Exterior Colours

2min
page 61

Re-wilding with Native Plants

2min
page 58

What is Iboga?

3min
page 57

Flowering Bulbs: Nature’s Gift That Keeps Giving

3min
pages 59-60

Canna Classes With Robin Round

2min
page 56

Flower Pot Art Show Sale and Garden Walk

2min
page 55

Fall into Something Special at the Public Market

2min
pages 52-53

So What Happened? A Tale of Two Land Use Plans

4min
pages 47-48

2021 Election Candidates

6min
pages 44-45

3 Tips to Weather a Financial Storm

2min
page 51

Sleep Makes You Smarter

2min
page 50

Free workshop for Cowichan Businesses

1min
page 49

Things I Will Consider in Preparing to Vote

2min
page 43

Creatively Writing Our Recovery

2min
page 42

One World Festival: Honouring Cultural Diversity

10min
pages 38-41

We’re Back to The Polls

2min
page 36

Cowichan Women’s Health Collective

3min
pages 34-35

The S’amunu/ Somenos Watershed- A watershed in Trouble

2min
page 25

Boost and Preserve Brain Power

4min
pages 32-33

What is a Life Coach?

2min
page 31

Quw’utsun Sta’lo’ Skweyul, (Cowichan River Day

2min
page 24

Darsana Tea

1min
page 23

Hunting the Elusive Porcini

4min
page 21

Can We Talk?

1min
page 20

Farming in the 21st Century

5min
pages 14-15

Cowichan Exhibition

1min
page 13

Very Special Sandwiches

3min
pages 16-17

Celebrating Arts and Nature in Lake Cowichan

2min
page 8

Artists’ Demos Offer Glimpses Into Creativity

2min
pages 6-7

The Joy of Picking Fruit With Fruit Save

2min
page 18

September Events

2min
page 5

The Kids of Summer

2min
page 19
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