PARENTAL SUPPORT
Single Parenting Your Child with a Disability By Dr. Ron I. Malcolm, EdD EVEN IN THE BEST SITUATIONS, RAISING A CHILD WITH A DISABILITY AND TWO INVOLVED PARENTS CAN PRESENT A CASCADE OF DAILY CHALLENGES. NAVIGATING THE ENTIRE PROCESS OF PARENTING AS A “SINGLE PARENT” OFTEN OFFERS EVEN MORE TRIALS. HERE ARE 10 SIMPLE SOLUTIONS TO ASSIST WITH THE CHALLENGE OF RAISING A CHILD WITH EXCEPTIONAL NEEDS AS A SINGLE PARENT.
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INVOLVE THE OTHER PARENT
You may be dealing with a divorce situation or possibly never having been married to your partner. However, even if the other parent does not live in your home, consider letting them care for their child on the weekends. This is particularly true if they are a trusted and safe adult. Research has shown any child being raised by two parents often does better in school and in life in general. While you may not have the option of having the other parent directly in your home, they can still be directly involved with their child. This will give you a necessary break and the opportunity for your child to interact with another trustworthy adult.
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GET INVOLVED IN AFTER-SCHOOL ACTIVITIES
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USE BABYSITTERS
Consider involving your child in an after-school activity. Many children with disabilities develop a passion for art, drama, music, or sports. The greatest thing about being involved in after-school activities is that it generally doesn’t require any additional transportation concerns for you as a single parent. Your child generally will complete their day at school and go directly to the after-school activity. This also allows them to socialize with a range of peers.
Many single parents of children with disabilities experience a lot of anxiety with the idea of leaving their children
