Witches Mag, Issue #5: Time

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38 Days By Caroline Guerrero How can I make sense of an ending that has been eclipsed by a beginning? Where do I put this joy and sorrow, both wrapped in grief, for who I was and who I am? For what I’ve gained and what I’ve lost? I explained it to my therapist like this: On November 1, 2020, at 3:37 am, I gave birth to my first child—a bright-eyed and curious daughter. On December 6, 2020, I turned 30. Three days later, December 9, 2020 at 10:13 pm, my grandpa, the man who raised me as his own daughter, had died. For approximately 38 days, two of the most important people in my life existed at the same time. My daughter came into this world as I embraced the harmony and self-trust ushered in by entering in my thirties built upon the intense healing and selfadvocacy I had done in the last few years of my twenties. I was so much more than just a new mother when I welcomed Zara into this world. I was finally and resolutely myself. My grandpa left us just as I was saying goodbye to much of my youth and making peace with difficult parts of my past. I didn’t cry at his funeral at first. I had known my grandpa was dying. And I attempted to temper my grief by preparing myself (as if I could) by reminding myself that we got an extra ten years with him after he almost passed away in 2009. As the oldest daughter of a single Hispanic-Punjabi mother, my duty was to be steadfast for my grandma, my mom, and my younger siblings. Being a “strong woman” in my family meant no tears unless behind closed doors. When I called my grandma after he died, 105


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dedication & more info

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page 122

littlest apple, big apple, pt. 3

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pages 118-119

world standard time

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pages 110-111

on the art of conjugation

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pages 114-115

38 days

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pages 106-109

jac’s diary

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pages 102-105

i didn’t know it at fifteen

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pages 99-100

waiting room

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pages 97-98

clairvoyant monica and the mystery of major

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pages 94-95

wo)man’s best friend

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pages 88-93

her honor

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takes two to tango

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pages 84-85

no gods / forgive us our sins

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pages 80-82

tiny round belly

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pages 77-79

stephanie’s diary

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life on a timeline

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pages 73-75

scenes from an expiring relationship

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pages 59-71

tattoo trails

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pages 53-57

time in a vial

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pages 44-48

when i was

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pages 49-50

great piece about time

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thing with the feathers

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fuck turning the other cheek

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pages 40-41

yellow house

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pages 29-37

just one year of love

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pages 22-27

four generations of poinsettias

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main characters

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pages 15-17

maría, a bird

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pages 10-13

new listings

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when you find a white hair

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right girl, wrong time

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manifesta

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