The Knot Summer 2023

FEEL THE MOMENT.

What makes for a magical honeymoon? It’s playing together in a place where anything seems possible… where days and nights blend seamlessly because they’re filled with love, laughter, and shared adventures. It’s finding romance in suites that defy imagination, savoring cuisine that transports guests to another world and cocktails worthy of a toast or two At Sandals® Resorts, the magic is found in the details and makes honeymoon dreams come true.

a moment in time

FEATURES

44 FRESHLY PICKED

From fancy shapes to bold colors, these rings are standouts.

50 BUTTERFLY BEAUTY

A spring soiree comes to life with a bold palette and whimsical details.

58 STANDOUT STEMS

Our guide to the most popular wedding flowers.

60 GET THE PRENUP

Why you should shed the stigma and get the protection you both deserve.

69 ONES TO WATCH

Our elite list of 26 wedding pros who are changing the industry.

Inspire 2023

84

THE DYING ART OF SEAMSTRESSES

An in-depth look at the diminishing pool of alterations experts.

92

THE ALLURE OF LAUR

An exclusive sit-down with crafter, creator and YouTube star Lauren Riihimaki on all things love and marriage.

100

MIX IT UP

Add some personality to your wedding china.

122

MYTHICAL HONEYMOON SPOTS

Nine must-visit destinations to explore before they disappear.

ON THE COVER

“The Allure of Laur” Top and pants by LAPOINTE; earrings by Vrai; necklace by Grown Brilliance

Photography by Eric Ray Davidson; Styling by Debbie Hsieh Dress by KYHA; earrings by Vrai; bracelet by Cartier; shoes by Nike

L AKE GENEVA

Celebrate your wedding day along its picturesque shores

Dreaming of a waterfront wedding?

Nestled along the shores of Geneva Lake, in southeastern Wisconsin, this beautiful community is the picture-perfect setting for a wedding weekend full of memories that will last a lifetime Exchange vows at a historic estate, a lush vineyard or even aboard a turn-of-the-century steam yacht all just over an hour away from Chicago, for easy guest travel Learn more about the local venues and wedding vendors that can bring your dream day to life at VisitLakeGeneva com/Weddings

LAKE GENEVA it's always been the place

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GREATER GIFTS

Why your registry should include experiences.

90

THE EMERALD CITY

An epic, Wizard of Oz–themed bash by us.

LOVE

78

DELI DELIGHT

A rehearsal dinner mixes pizzeria and deli vibes.

104 MYCHAELA & GIANCARLO

A colorful SoCal beach bash brought to life.

110

ANGELICA & MELISA Surprise nuptials.

116

MUDRA & PAUL

A timeless celebration of culture.

18 ED LETTER

21 THE DOWNLOAD

48 DEAR LENNON

128 THE FINAL WORD

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FASHION & BEAUTY PLANNING & STYLE

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DIRECTOR OF EDITORIAL

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THE EDITOR

The New Way To Wed

Weddings are changing and we’re here for it. We want to be beside you for all the ups and downs of the journey, so we’ve changed too. Our pages are still filled with wedding know-how and inspo, but we’re doubling down on intention and authenticity. We see you, and we want to help you make your celebration a core life memory. Let’s do this!

As much as planning your nuptials is the best time of your life, it can also be riddled with anxiety, decision fatigue and disagreements. There is no shortage of inspiration out there (or packed into this issue), but the trick is making your day yours. Before you start vision-boarding and booking pros, I want to let you in on a secret: There is no right way to wed. Your wedding day is a celebration of your love and commitment to your future spouse and vice versa.

Looking back on my own “I dos,” I feel good about the compromises I made but even better about the things I insisted on—like writing our own vows and skipping favors. We didn’t have a wedding party, but I still got ready with my best friends and we skipped the after-party in favor of brunch because my husband loves brunch. We did us.

And that’s what this issue is all about—inspiring you to do what’s right for your day. We can tell you what’s trending (page 28) or suggest a glitzy wedding shoe (page 32) or help you plan an epic honeymoon adventure (page 122). But ultimately, the choice is yours. We know there are a lot of those to make, so we’ve rounded up a list of pros we think are changing the wedding space to guide your journey (page 69). We also sat down with Lauren Riihimaki of LaurDIY YouTube fame to get the scoop on why she’s not DIY-ing her wedding (FWIW, we don’t think you should either) and what’s inspiring her. May you feel inspired to chart your own path to the altar.

— LAUREN KAY, EXECUTIVE EDITOR

FEEL THE MOMENT

What makes for a magical honeymoon? It’s playing together in a place where anything seems possible… where days and nights blend seamlessly because they’re filled with love, laughter, and shared adventures. At Sandals ® Resorts, the magic is found in the details and makes honeymoon dreams come true.

The Download

Don’t Pass Go…

Wedding planning is a lot of fun, but it’s also work. Download our free Wedding Planner app, and we’ll help you nail every to-do. You can search vendor reviews, track your budget and RSVPs, and even manage your registry—all from your smartphone. Alerts can keep you on track throughout your planning.

TAKE THE GUESSWORK OUT OF WEDDING PLANNING WITH THE KNOT

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Weddings are expensive, but we can help you save a little cash along the way. Our SavingsProgram basically pays for itself the minute you join (we’re talking $250 of instant savings). For $50, you get our bestselling Ultimate Wedding Planner and Organizer, 50 percent off your custom save-the-dates on The Knot Paper, plus 40 percent off your wedding invites. Once you receive your first gift from the registry, add any item up to $50, and we’ll send it your way. And you can’t get married without thank-you notes—you’ll get 25 custom cards for free. Have we sold you? Vist theknot.com/savings to get started.

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You’ve Got Mail

Get your guests excited for your nuptials from the start. Nothing beats a snail-mail save-thedate or invite that sets the tone for the celebration. The Knot Paper releases new designs on the regular with a motif fit for every kind of wedding. Your wedding paper is a great place to weave in cultural elements, like opting for a bilingual invite that caters to all your English and non-English-speaking guests. Or incorporate a design that pays homage to your heritage (like the Papel Picado, inspired by the traditional Mexican decorative tissue-paper craft). Paper suites have tons of coordinating elements like table numbers, menus and thank-you notes, taking the guesswork out of nailing a cohesive look.

Sustainability on your mind?

The Knot has a recycled paper option you can feel good about. Oh, and did we mention we’ll send you samples? Our paper needs to be experienced!

Many of our designs come in multiple languages, like ‘Bom Bloom’

‘Papel Picado’

‘Wildflower Nouveau’

Pack Your Bags!

The Knot Registry Store lets you register for, well, just about everything. You can even register for international experiences like a gondola ride in Venice or a slothwatching tour in Costa Rica. Talk about a memorable way to kick off married life!

We Build Dream Teams

You’ll need a few people to bring your wedding dreams to life (FYI most couples hire about 14 vendors). So where do you start? The Knot Marketplace. We have the best pros out there, all organized by expertise (florist, baker, venue) and locale. But our filters are the unsung heroes, full stop. Want to serve Caribbean cuisine at your wedding to reflect your family’s heritage? We’ve got you. Our filters let you winnow down a large volume of pros based on specifics that are authentic to you as a couple. You can read reviews from other couples, connect with pros directly and more.

Watch It!

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YOUR CELEBRITY WEDDING

Anything can inspire your wedding day—not in the least a celebrity affair. Join Executive Editor Lauren Kay and wedding planner Jason Rhee on our YouTube channel as they recreate the vibe of some star nuptials with venues from our own marketplace. It’s like House Hunters, but for venues!

Fresh Follows

DESIGNER DRESSES DECONSTRUCTED

Want the skinny on Meghan Markle’s Givenchy gown? We’ve teamed up with Crystal Lu from Casablanca Bridal, Nayri Kalayjian (aka @WeddingFashionExpert) and fashion historian Kimberly Chrisman-Campbell to deconstruct the sleek and modern 2018 gown (we reveal the cost and her something borrowed too).

What’s Your Wedding Vibe?

By Samantha Iacia Illustrations by Tiana Crispino

Answer in One Word…

Grab a pen and fill in the blanks to define your wedding style—don’t overthink it. Have your partner do the same, then compare notes to find your wedding buzzwords!

Color you never tired of:

I want guests to remember:

Minimalist or maximalist: Wedding day must-have:

Fave season:

1

TIP Consider your venue Where are you saying “I do”? Analyze the existing decor and architecture of the space. Your style should embrace the unique qualities of the wedding site for a cohesive result. 2

TIP Choose a level of formality. A black-

tie soiree calls for different decor than a mellow beach bash. The formality of the wedding influences the overall theme, from attire to flowers and beyond. 3

TIP Start small and stay focused. It’s easy to get carried away once you gather inspiration. Choose what you truly love, not just what’s trending, and be intentional with every decision you make.

Finding Your Wedding Vision

A mood board is the key to bringing your vision to life. Scan here for a step-by-step guide to creating the blueprint for your special day.

WHAT WE’RE LOVING RIGHT NOW

Editors’ Picks

GET YOUR WISH LIST READY. EXPLORE THE HOTTEST TRENDS IN WEDDING ATTIRE, ACCESSORIES, HONEYMOON TRAVEL AND DECOR. HERE ARE THE IDEAS AND BRANDS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT—STRAIGHT FROM OUR EDITORS.

Fashion

Runway Report

1. Viktor&Rolf Mariage

2. Badgley Mischka

3. Legends by Romona Keveza

4. Honor

5. Nadia Manjarrez

A little background on the bride & groom.

Whether you choose an intimate barefoot wedding by the water’s edge, or a full-glam black-tie affair, the highlight of your special day will be, well, the twilight of your special day. The only thing that can eclipse the beauty of true love, is a sunset sky over Islamorada in The Florida Keys.

fla-keys.com/islamorada 1.800.322.5397

FEATHERS

RUFFLES

7. Madeline by Madeline Gardner

8. Ines Di Santo

9. Hermione de Paula

10. Ines Di Santo

11. Justin Alexander

Signature

12. Lihi Hod

1. Kelly Faetanini

2. Houghton by Katherine Polk

3. Naeem Khan

4. Sareh Nouri

5. Naeem Khan

6. Dana Harel

1. Florent sneakers, $795, JimmyChoo.com

2. Romy 85 pumps, $775, JimmyChoo.com

3. Margi Cappuccino Bow heels, $350, LoefflerRandall.com

4. Carlo Morandi sparkle loafers, $90, MensWearhouse.com

5. Glitz flats, $79, Surprise.KateSpade.com

6. Vetty sandals, $129, NinaShoes.com

EDITORS’ PICKS Travel

ARRIVE FEELING ORGANIZED, RESTED AND READY TO ROLL WITH OUR IN-TRANSIT PICKS.

ALLEVIATE LOST LUGGAGE CONCERNS—ESPECIALLY WITH CONNECTING FLIGHTS TO YOUR DESTINATION— WITH A WELL-STOCKED CARRY-ON BAG.

1. Toss this trendy, bucketstyle crochet bag into your carry-on suitcase for backup. Plus, it goes with just about any outfit from day to night.

Alma tan crochet mini bag, $50, Dissh.com

2. Store your ring, lotions, vitamins and more in these sturdy, spill-proof travel capsules with magnetic edges. The capsule, $14, KeepYourCadence.com

3. Make room for souvenirs and more with this expandable, TSAfriendly wheelie that features a built-in zipper. (The calm hue is also a perfect ‘something blue’ that transcends the chaos of airports.)

Expandable luggage, from $325, AwayTravel.com (Plus packing cubes!) $65 for 6, AwayTravel.com

4. In the never-ending quest to find the perfect plane pillow, especially for long-haul flights, this portable winner is a functional favorite for getaways. Light versatile pillow, $45, OstrichPillow.com

Keep an eye on your valuables with the all-important AirTag. The hidden champions of lost luggage can be easily tossed into your bags—and monitored on the FindMy app. AirTag, $29, Apple.com

5. Prepare for unexpected temperature dips in the cabin with a high-quality wrap. This luxurious cashmere option is light and cozy; plus, it’s a versatile vacation piece. Cashmere travel wrap, $350, WhiteandWarren.com

Pouch, $69, MarkAndGraham.com

Tr e n d

The American West is having its moment under the desert sun. The aesthetic is all about warm colors and mixed textures.

(Giddy up!)

TO ACHIEVE A REFINED COUNTRY VIBE, IT’S ALL ABOUT LAYERING: THINK LEATHER, COWHIDE, TRAVERTINE, WOOD AND DRIED GRASS. INFUSE YOUR DECOR AND DETAILS WITH NODS TO THE ELEMENTS YOU WOULD EXPERIENCE IN THE GREAT OUTDOORS. PERSONALLY, WE’RE PARTIAL TO SOFT CARAMEL-LEATHER CHAIRS AND MOTTLED CAKE STANDS.

Cake stand, $211, WolfandBadger.com

Dinner plate, $110 for set of 4, SohoHome.com

Pillow cover, $200, Arhaus.com

Vow book, $34, OxandPine.com

Side chair, $900, Arhaus.com

Prewedding Beauty Prep

CELEBRITY DERMATOLOGIST MARNIE NUSSBAUM, MD, GAVE US THE SCOOP ON TRENDY TREATMENTS, CREATING A SKIN CARE REGIMEN AND HOW TO HANDLE PREWEDDING SKIN EMERGENCIES .

By Lauren Whalley

Q: In-office treatments are at an all-time high. Why?

A: They’re the quickest way to achieve powerful yet natural skin care results. Whether you’re looking to diminish fine lines and wrinkles, restore elasticity or simply wish to achieve a glowing complexion for your wedding, there’s a treatment option for you.

Q: Fill us in: What are the hottest prewedding beauty treatments at the moment?

A: Botox is always a popular choice as it helps reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles. For those looking to improve overall skin health, the Clear + Brilliant laser treatments will reduce pigmentation and smooth the skin’s texture for healthier looking skin. Then there is the beloved HydraFacial. I recommend coming in for this treatment in the last few weeks before your wedding to help cleanse, exfoliate and hydrate the skin to achieve that glowfrom-within result.

& a

Q: If a to-be-wed is considering Botox or fillers, how soon should they plan ahead?

A: If you want to get Botox and fillers, you should make an appointment with an experienced professional six months prior to the wedding day for your initial treatment. This ensures that we can achieve your desired results and make any necessary adjustments. The treatment can be repeated

four weeks before the wedding to maintain your look once its been perfected.

Q: What’s the best in-office treatment to achieve glowing skin?

A: The HydraFacial leaves the skin looking dewy and glowing. It’s the ultimate treatment to cleanse and exfoliate the skin. The service can easily be added to a targeted treatment plan that includes the use of glycolic acid, salicylic acid and other collagen-inducing serums.

Q: Can you give an example of an easy-toimplement skin care routine?

A: In the morning, I recommend using a glycolic cleanser like my Dr. Marnie’s MD GlyGel Cleanser, followed by exfoliation with my Glow Pads. Then apply the EltaMD Skin Recovery moisturizer and sunscreen. In the evening, use the same glycolic cleanser, a retinoid cream (like the SkinBetter AlphaRet overnight cream) and a night moisturizer to help protect and restore the skin barrier.

Q: How can more laid-back grooms create a basic skin care regimen?

A: SkinBetter makes an amazing product called Solo Hydrating Defense Men. It’s for men who want to care for their skin but don’t want to worry about a multistep regimen.

Q: When is the latest someone should get a facial or other treatment prior to their wedding day?

A: Two weeks before the wedding. You can do a HydraFacial up to one week in advance, since it’s milder.

Q: What are your options if you get a big blemish right before your day?

A: If it’s a really bad pimple, you can quickly treat it with a cortisone shot, which will shrink it within 24 to 48 hours.

Q: What’s the one piece of skin care advice you’d give to engaged couples?

A: The best piece of advice I can give to someone prepping for their big day is to avoid introducing any new skin care products or makeup within two weeks prior to the wedding—you never know how

your skin will respond. It’s also important to remember that, whatever preparations you choose to do, you will look beautiful on your wedding day.

Q: What skin care products are always on your shelf?

A: I love my Dr. Marnie’s GlyGel cleanser and Glow Pads, SkinMedica TNS Advanced + serum and SkinBetter AlphaRet overnight cream.

Q: Let’s not forget the honeymoon! What products should couples pack in their travel bags?

A: SPF! I recommend applying EltaMD UV Restore, EltaMD UV Clear or SunBetter TONE SMART to protect the skin. You can also use the time on your honeymoon flight to focus on postwedding skin recovery with easy-to-apply hydromasks, hydrating serum and eye patches.

Q: How should to-be-weds prep their skin the morning of their wedding?

A: They should do the same routine they’ve been doing in the months leading up to the big day. I do not recommend introducing any new products on the wedding day to prevent unwanted reactions like irritated skin, dryness or peeling.

#UnfilteredDerm

Marnie Nussbaum, MD, is known for her no-nonsense approach

About the Expert

Marnie Nussbaum, MD, FAAD, is a board-certified dermatologist specializing in non-invasive aesthetic rejuvenation. In addition to running her private practice in New York City, Nussbaum is a former Clinical Instructor of Dermatology at Weill Cornell Medical College and has served as a consulting dermatologist to the Melanoma Research Alliance. She is a member of the American Academy of Dermatology, the American Society of Dermatologic Surgery and the Women’s Dermatologic Society. Nussbaum is also a frequent guest for media outlets such as Entertainment Tonight

“In-office treatments are so popular because they’re the quickest way to achieve powerful yet natural results.”

THE JUICIEST JEWELS ARE DRIPPING IN UNIQUE DETAIL, FROM FANCY SHAPES TO BOLD COLOR TO EDGY SETTINGS. IN THE MARKET FOR A STANDOUT STACK? THESE RINGS ARE JUST RIPE.

Story by Shelley Brown

Photography by Jamie Chung

Creative Direction by Sarah Evans

Styling by Sarah Smart

OPPOSITE PAGE

Pear lab-grown diamond halo engagement ring, Badgley Mischka x Grown Brilliance, $7,040, GrownBrilliance.com | Lillian engagement ring, Ashley Zhang, $33,000, AshleyZhangJewelry .com | The Oval Muse engagement ring, Eva Fehren, price upon request, EvaFehren.com

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Ludlow emerald ring, Chroma, $9,500, GreenwichJewelers.com | Selene II engagement ring, AARYAH, $22,220, Aaryah.com | Mosaic sapphire ring, Serpentine Jewels, price upon request, SerpentineJewels.com

Picked

Emerald and pear wide offset gap ring, Shahla Karimi, from $7,500, ShahlaKarimi.com | Duét pear ring, KatKim, $7,200, KatKimFineJewelry.com

| Duo Heart Stacking

Gypsy emerald and diamond ring, Milamore, price upon request, en.MilamoreJewelry.com

Caydia lab-grown diamond two-sided eternity ring with created sapphire, Charles & Colvard, $3,059, CharlesandColvard.com | Gold Dome ring with single diamond, Ali Weiss, $2,000, AliWeissJewelry .com | Diamond Twist ring, Anita Ko, $10,625, AnitaKo.com

Dear Lennon…

IN EVERY ISSUE, OUR ADVICE COLUMNIST WILL ANSWER YOUR JUICIEST WEDDING PLANNING QUESTIONS.

FS and I can’t agree on a venue!

Dear Lennon,

My FS and I have very different opinions about our wedding venue. I’m set on a formal ballroom and he’s all about a super-casual space, like a barn or park— just total opposite ends of the spectrum. Every time we start looking at venues, it just ends in an argument. It feels like we can’t move forward with planning until we figure this out. Help!

Frustrated FS

Ok, so you’ve probably already heard the spiel that weddings (and marriage) are all about compromise—and you do have a few options here. Could you opt for a formal wedding venue and a more casual space for the rehearsal dinner so both styles are covered? If not, try starting the venue search from scratch. You and your future spouse can each pick one venue to visit, and then have a wedding planner, friend or family member choose a third space that’s a bit of a wild card—without it being super formal or super casual, but somewhere in the middle. When you tour three spaces, it will likely become clear which option is right for your big day. Oh, and wedding planners can mediate and help you come to an agreement. If you haven’t hired one already, get on that!

Can I kick my brother’s ex out of the wedding party?

Dear Lennon,

At the very beginning of my engagement, I asked my brother’s girlfriend to be a bridesmaid. They’d been together forever, and she was basically part of the family. You can probably guess what happened next—they broke up! We weren’t that close to begin with, and now it would be super awkward for her to be in the wedding party with my brother, let alone attend the wedding at all. Can I ask her to step down?

Ex Future SIL

My guess is that your brother’s ex is probably having similar thoughts and may be looking for a polite way to bow out of the wedding party. Take her out for coffee and a heart-to-heart. Tell her that you totally understand if she feels uncomfortable remaining in the wedding party post-breakup and it’s okay if she’d like to step down. If she doesn’t take the bait, you can say that you’re concerned about your brother’s feelings, and it might be best if she bowed out. Just know that if you encourage or ask her to step down, your relationship is effectively over— which may be for the best anyway, given her breakup with your bro. Also, if she’s already spent money on your wedding, whether it’s to buy a dress or for travel or accommodations, offer to reimburse her.

My MIL is inviting people to my wedding without asking first!

Dear Lennon, I just found out that my future MIL invited six people to attend my wedding without asking me first—and they said yes! I don’t know these people, and they definitely aren’t on the guest list. Can I disinvite them? The wedding is only a few weeks away.

Angry Future DIL

Ugh, this is frustrating! So there’s one question you’ll want to consider: Is your MIL paying for the wedding? If so, then she has a say in who’s invited, and though these last-minute additions are super annoying, she does have ground to stand on. If you and your FS are footing the bill, then your partner can absolutely tell their mom that these additional guests cannot be accommodated, and she’ll have to rescind the invites. Let your FS fight this battle and handle all communication so you can try to maintain a good relationship with your soon-to-be in-laws.

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6 REASONS TO LOVE A SANDALS WEDDING & HONEYMOON

Sandals® has been helping couples tie the knot on some of the most beautiful islands in the world for more than 40 years. From your own dedicated wedding team to help you plan every moment including prewedding festivities and excursions for your guests, they’ve got you covered. Worried about planning from far away? The Virtual Wedding Design Experience allows you to see all the details from the comfort of home. And since they have experience incorporating all different cultural traditions and accommodating guest lists from two to 200+, you can be sure your celebration is in good hands. Plus, you can kickstart your honeymoon the moment you walk down the aisle!

KEEP THE CELEBRATION GOING WITH THESE PERKS

1. Choose from 17 resorts across seven islands. 2. Their Butler Suites offer jaw-dropping accommodations, like a villa over the ocean with glass floors, a suite you can swim up to or a room with a private plunge pool. 3. You get access to some of the best locations and beaches in the Caribbean, with different cultures, flavors and breathtaking views to explore. 4. Every stay includes unlimited gourmet food, premium liquors and wines. 5. All tips, taxes and round-trip airport transfers are included. 6. You’ll have endless land and water sports to choose from.

THE

HONEYMOON BEGINS THE MOMENT YOU SAY “I DO.”

Butterfly Beauty

A BUTTERFLY MOTIF SETS THE STAGE FOR WHIMSICAL SPRING NUPTIALS IN THE SWISS ALPS WITH A PUNCHY COLOR PALETTE OF TANGERINE, INDIGO AND LAVENDER.

Story by Hannah Nowack

Photography by Ashley Ludaescher Photography

New Hues

Indigo and burnt orange bring a fresh twist to a standby wedding color palette: navy and gold. For extra pizazz, layer in bursts of lavender and raspberry.

Refined Ruffles

A sculptural neckline complements a bold, rugged mountain backdrop.

Polished Paper

You don’t need dramatic illustrations for an invitation suite to pack a punch. Bold typography anchors this set in a less-is-more way that’s chic and refined.

Twice as Nice

Soft lavender

frosting coated the two-tier dessert, whose inside showcased the fragrant herb as well. To finish, lemon-cream filling sandwiched layers of lavender cake.

Peak Presence

Did you think mountain weddings required a rustic theme? Think again. This whimsical vibe fit the Swiss Alps setting perfectly.

Flower Feel

Texture was the name of the game. Fresh alliums, tweedia, dahlias and carnations paired with dried eucalyptus and bunny tails in the arrangements.

Scan for even more butterfly-inspired wedding ideas.

Photography: Ashley Ludaescher Photography

Event Planning: Vanessa Noel Events

Floral Design: Idlewild Floral

Venue: Grand Hotel Kronenhof

Dress: Ritual Unions

Suit: Zara

Shoes: Sophia Webster

Accessories: Untamed Petals

Hair & Makeup: Sinem Yavsaner

Rentals: Tableset

Cake: The Wooden Spoon

Bartending: Grand Hotel Kronenhof

Travel Agent: Wedaways

Model: Option Model Agency

Support Your Partner’s Goals, Not Yours

Instead of telling your partner what their goals should be and how to reach them, ask the following three questions to grow in understanding.

What’s really important to you right now?

Illustration by Abby McCartin by Jay

Shetty

We want to help our partner become the best version of the person they want to be. We support their dreams. We genuinely want to see them grow. But if we’re trying to get them to do something we think would be best for them, they’re not likely to trust our insights.

Jay Shetty is the bestselling author of Think Like a Monk and the host of the podcast On Purpose. This exercise is an excerpt from his new book, 8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go.

Copyright © 2023 by Jay Shetty. Reprinted by permission of Simon & Schuster, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

What do you need to get there?

Is there anything I can do to help you?

In this way, you let your partner lead themselves to their answers. Understanding your partner’s goals without editing them to suit yours is one of the greatest gifts you can give someone.

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SETTLING ON THE PERFECT FLOWER VARIETY FOR THE BIG DAY IS NO EASY TASK WHEN EACH BLOOM IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN THE NEXT. HERE’S OUR IN-DEPTH GUIDE TO 10 OF THE MOST POPULAR WEDDING FLOWERS.

1. Hellebore

Season: Early Winter–Spring

Cost: $$ Colors: Black, Green, Purple, White

Try it: As a Corsage

Symbolism: Peace, Serenity

2. Dendrobium

Orchid

Season: Late Winter–Early

Summer Cost: $$

Colors: Purple, White, Yellow

Try it: As a Boutonniere

Symbolism: Beauty, Refinement

3. Peony

Season: Spring–Early

Summer Cost: $$$ Colors: Orange, Pink, Yellow, White

Try it: In a Low Centerpiece

Symbolism: Honor, Romance, Wealth

4. Rose

Season: Late Spring–Early Fall

Cost: $$

Colors: Orange, Pink, Purple, Red, White, Yellow

Try it: As a Photo Booth

Backdrop Symbolism: Beauty, Love, Passion

5. Tulip

Season: Spring Cost: $

Colors: Black, Blue, Orange, Pink, Purple, Red, White, Yellow

Try it: In a Flower-Girl

Bouquet

Symbolism: Deep Love

t Stems

6. Ranunculus

Season: Late Winter–Early Spring Cost: $$

Colors: Burgundy, Peach, Pink, Red, White, Yellow Try it: In a Ceremony Arch Symbolism: Attraction, Charm

7. Anemone

Season: Winter–Spring

Cost: $$ Colors: Berry, Purple, Red, White Try it: As a Wedding Party Boutonniere

Symbolism: Luck, Protection

8. Protea

Season: Spring–Early Fall

Cost: $$$ Colors: Orange, Pink, Red Try it: As a Single-Stem Bouquet Symbolism: Courage, Diversity

9. Hydrangea

Season: Spring–Early Fall

Cost: $$ Colors: Blue, Green, Purple, White Try it: As a Dramatic Entrance Installation Symbolism: Beauty, Grace, Gratitude

10. Calla Lily

Season: Late Spring–

Summer Cost: $$$

Colors: Maroon, Pink, White, Yellow Try it: As a Single-Variety Centerpiece Symbolism: Fertility, Life

Story by Hannah Nowack

Photography by Jamie Chung

Creative Direction by Sarah Evans Styling by Sarah Smart

FEATURES

Get the Prenup

IT’S TIME WE SHED THE STIGMA ATTACHED TO PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENTS.

By Esther Lee

Illustrations By Abby McCartin

No couple enters marriage believing that their love story will someday end. Statistically, however, one in three will walk down the aisle—and eventually into a courthouse to file their dissolution of marriage. Yet only 5 percent of to-be-weds sign a prenuptial agreement.

A prenup offers protection for both parties if you go your separate ways. Since it’s legally binding within the state of registration, a marital agreement can influence the division of property and debt, or who gets child custody. “The interesting thing about prenups is you expect your partner to be a gold digger, you’re a gold digger yourself, or you don’t think this marriage is going to last,” speculates Tori Dunlap, creator of HerFirst100K. com and author of Financial Feminist. “The truth is that most couples have a prenup already. It is chosen for you by the state. You already have a hard-and-fast legal order of operations of what happens if you separate.”

Our data found that 46 percent of couples describe prenups as “smart,” while another 20 percent perceived these contracts to be “cynical.” Seventeen percent went so far as to call them “pointless.” Prenups have built quite the reputation in pop culture, but we can learn something from the Real Housewives and the Kardashians. While each marriage differs, a solid prenup unifies couples in at least one respect: It encourages communication as you prepare for marriage. If you’re still on the fence about whether to get one, here are 12 scenarios where a prenup may benefit you.

One of you is wealthier or has assets.

You may want to protect your assets if you come into the marriage with a higher financial worth than your spouse.

Julia Rodgers, CEO of HelloPrenup, an online prenuptial agreement service, gives an example of an engaged couple where one party purchased a home and the other party paid rent on it. If the couple divorced, some states might rule that the property should be split between owners.

One or both of you has received sizable gifts.

Let’s say your parents regularly give you money. Even after marriage, they may continue their generosity, but both parties won’t necessarily agree on how to use the funds. “Without a prenuptial agreement, in most states, monetary gifts received during the marriage will be considered marital property,” explains Rodgers. “A prenup allows couples to decide if they would like those monetary gifts to be considered separate property.”

One or both of you will receive an inheritance.

The division of inheritance is a common issue couples will face in marriage. In some states, like Arizona and California, debts and assets (including an inheritance) are divided equally among spouses. “Without a prenuptial agreement, inheritance may or may not be considered marital property,” notes Rodgers. “Many parents who are considering passing down their wealth to their children, either in trusts or other instruments, [are typically] concerned about the prospect of their hard-earned wealth being split during a divorce.”

At least one of you has been married before.

Some circumstances may be different than they were in the first marriage. If you’re bringing assets or monetary commitments into a new marriage (such as child support and multiple properties), you may want to keep them separate from your new spouse’s financial responsibilities.

ISLAND VIBES

YOUR GUIDE TO SOME OF

THE WORLD’S MOST BEAUTIFUL DESTINATIONS

JAMAICA | ANTIGUA | ST. LUCIA | THE BAHAMAS | GRENADA | BARBADOS | CURAÇAO | TURKS & CAICOS

BARBADOS

SANDALS BARBADOS

The undeniably chic Sandals Barbados is set on the white sands of a fawless beach, with awe-inspiring views at every turn. Indulge in decadent accommodations, unwind at lounges and bars with a calypso beat as the soundtrack and savor mouthwatering dining options. Experience more than you’ve ever expected, where exclusive is always inclusive.

ANTIGUA

SANDALS GRANDE ANTIGUA

A serene haven set on Antigua’s best beach, Dickenson Bay, this resort faces a pristine stretch of sand and unforgettable blue waters. The Caribbean Beachfront Village is a lush seaside oasis with majestic palms hovering over charming cottages at the water’s edge, while the Mediterranean Oceanview Village brings the Riviera to the Caribbean with sumptuous villas and suites.

SANDALS ROYAL BARBADOS

This all-suite retreat takes romance to whole new heights at a rooftop pool and a rooftop restaurant and bar. The glassedge main pool blurs the line between land and sea. Strike it lucky at the bowling alley, enjoy a chill vibe at the craft beer bar or indulge in epicurean delights and sweet treats.

GRENADA

SANDALS GRENADA

Discover life with more spice at Sandals Grenada, where pools are suspended in the sky and a living room is found in a beachfront pool. Retreat to suites you can swim up to or secluded villa sanctuaries with private plunge pools. At this exotic hideaway, breathtaking scenery meets creative innovations, delivering an escape beyond extraordinary.

Sandals Royal Barbados

ST. LUCIA

SANDALS REGENCY LA TOC

At Sandals Regency La Toc, every exceptional moment comes with a spectacular view. Retreat to exclusive accommodations set high on a cliftop or at water’s edge. Hit the links at the rolling fairways of two challenging golf courses. Savor extraordinary restaurants and bars that will tempt your palate. This is a place designed to naturally impress and embrace you in a state of pampered serenity.

SANDALS GRANDE ST. LUCIAN

At this picture-perfect resort on the edge of one of the island’s best beaches, you’ll revel in grand views at every turn. Overthe-Water Bungalows and beachfront Rondoval™ Suites are the resort’s most sought-after accommodations. Explore a diverse world of favors every day and night, including the romantic Gordon’s Over-the-Water Restaurant. Love is in the air as you wind down your day setting the night ablaze beneath the stars.

SANDALS HALCYON BEACH

Tucked into ever-blooming gardens and edged by a tranquil, translucent sea, this intimate resort embodies the charm and beauty of this corner of paradise. With its brandnew beachfront suites, it is a true Garden of Eden. And with nature as its centerpiece, every elegantly appointed accommodation becomes a romantic retreat. You’ll enjoy true halcyon days thanks to creative bar concepts and palate-pleasing restaurants.

THE BAHAMAS

SANDALS EMERALD BAY

Indulge in the laid-back spirit of the Bahamian Out Islands. Here, being pampered with the ultimate service while surrounded by so much beauty defes the imagination. Sumptuously appointed villas and suites, impressive pools, exceptional restaurants, an award-winning championship golf course and a signature spa are all deliberately designed for pampering.

Sandals Grande St. Lucian

Sandals Regency La Toc

Sandals Emerald Bay

TIPS FOR PLANNING A CARIBBEAN HONEYMOON 3

After months of budgeting, wedding venue hopping and vendor shopping, a relaxing tropical vacation with your one and only probably sounds pretty good right now. (We’re willing to bet that’s why honeymoons were invented.) But where can you fnd the right balance of fun, sun and relaxation? Look no further than the Caribbean, where swimming beneath the surface together reveals depths you’ve only imagined and the adventures you share lead to deeper connections. In this guide, you’ll fnd our best tips for planning a trip to this tropical hot spot as well as our top picks for destinations and resorts. Dive in!

PICK YOUR DESTINATION

The Caribbean is made up of thousands of islands, each with its own unique charm. The hardest part is choosing just one. Are you looking for secluded romance or lively nightlife, a wide range of water sports or a pampered spa experience? (Our resort guide inside can help you fnd the perfect spot.)

2DECIDE ON ACCOMMODATIONS

The Caribbean ofers a wide variety of accommodations, from mega resorts to secluded villas. If you’re looking to take it easy, staying at an all-inclusive can be a great option for a stress-free getaway, since food, drinks, activities and more are all included. Sandals® and Beaches® Resorts take this concept to the next level with amenities like swim-up suites, Over-the-Water Bungalows and a dedicated butler to take care of every detail of your stay.

3CHOOSE SOME ACTIVITIES

From breathtaking beaches to underwater adventures, you’re spoiled for choice in the Caribbean. At Sandals and Beaches Resorts, most activities and water sports equipment are included as part of your stay, meaning you can just show up and start having fun.

CURAÇAO

SANDALS ROYAL CURAÇAO

Discover a cultural crossroads with beautiful cove beaches nestled in rocky clifs, a colorful capital and a dramatic landscape built for adventure. At this brand-new resort, a fusion of favors seduces the palate, and a two-level main pool melts into the distant horizon. Exquisitely designed bungalow suites perched at water’s edge may be hard to leave, but with access to a Mini Cooper to explore the island, temptation abounds.

Sandals Royal Bahamian

JAMAICA

SANDALS MONTEGO BAY

Sandals Montego Bay captures a carefree spirit bathed in tropical beauty. It embraces its idyllic locale along the water’s edge with an Over-the-Water bar, Over-the-Water Serenity Wedding Chapel and beachfront Swim-up Suites. When the sun goes down, Sandals Montego Bay rises to the occasion with dining and entertainment worthy of celebration and romance.

SANDALS ROYAL CARIBBEAN

Experience a place where endless amenities come with warm island hospitality. Plated perfection is found in decadent restaurants, while a private ofshore island ofers your choice of adventure or relaxation. Over-the-Water Villas & Bungalows—the most coveted suites in all of the Caribbean— are the romantic escape couples dream about.

SANDALS NEGRIL

With a reggae beat and carefree spirit, it’s no surprise everyone loves Sandals Negril. Its gorgeous shoreline is perfect for every water sport you can imagine. The island chic beachfront Swim-up Suites, Millionaire Suites and beachfront Loft Suites come with the exclusive services of a personal butler. And the spectacular sunsets? They’re the main event on the beach every night.

SANDALS ROYAL BAHAMIAN

Love comes easy at Sandals Royal Bahamian, with the slower pace of island life. A private ofshore island ofers exotic adventures and romantic indulgences while the beach club ofers the perfect escape. Every day feels luxurious in a Swimup Suite and in the island chic accommodations found in the Island Village. Foodies and water sports enthusiasts will fnd their appetites sated here, while those looking to lose themselves may just forget about time altogether.

SANDALS ROYAL PLANTATION

Discover the understated elegance and exquisite privacy at this boutique all-butler, all-suite, all-oceanview resort. Spend your days lazing at the water’s edge with cool libations delivered by a beach butler. Take high tea on the terrace. Indulge your palate at a caviar and Champagne bar. Hit the links at Upton Estate Golf & Country Club. In a place where your every need is anticipated, get ready to be spoiled.

SANDALS OCHI

Beachside to blufside, this resort ofers something uniquely special. Get closer to the water’s edge—at a sexy beach club, tempting beachside and over-the-water restaurants, lively bars and even an over-the-water wedding chapel. You can also head to the hills and a private oasis of the most extraordinary villas with private pools or to nearby Upton Estate Golf & Country Club where green fees are complimentary. It’s two sides of paradise in one extraordinary destination.

SANDALS SOUTH COAST

Water is the inspiration for everything extraordinary at Sandals South Coast, a seaside oasis on a two-mile stretch of white-sand beach, with indulgent Over-the-Water Bungalows, beachfront Swim-up Suites and Rondoval Suites. Say “I do” at an Over-the-Water Serenity Wedding Chapel, or foat on a hammock at Latitudes Overwater Bar. In a place where you can watch the sun rise and set on the same stretch of beach, you’ll discover romance at its most serene.

SANDALS DUNN’S RIVER

BEACHES NEGRIL

Set along the widest stretch of Negril’s famed 7-Mile Beach, this resort is the very essence of a laid-back paradise, complete with beachside bars and restaurants where you can dig your toes in the sand, a water park overlooking the sea and rooms and suites that make you feel at home. It’s all about spending time with those you love, any way you want.

BEACHES OCHO RIOS

Escape to a beachfront getaway for the entire family, a tropical garden oasis lining an impossibly blue sea. Design your day around endless possibilities, from an ocean of water sports and an exhilarating water park to the rolling hills of an 18-hole golf course. Every palate is pampered at seven extraordinary restaurants, and sumptuous accommodations are the perfect retreat at the end of a perfect day.

COMING MAY 2023

Let life fow where tranquility sets the mood and worries foat away on cool, gentle breezes. The one-of-a-kind accommodations bring luxury to a new level—from beachfront SkyPool Suites to the Swim-up Rondovals with rooftop decks. Sustainability is at the heart of this brand-new resort where cascading waters from the heart of Dunn’s River greet you. Epicurean temptations, trend-setting bars and endless activities on land and sea make this a true paradise.

TURKS & CAICOS

BEACHES TURKS & CAICOS

There are so many reasons why this resort is so popular. Amazing accommodations for families of all sizes in fve magnifcent villages. Mouthwatering dining experiences at 22 restaurants and a 45,000 square-foot water park. And it’s all set on a 12-mile beach lined by the bluest water you’ve ever seen, so bring on the fun and the romance!

Beaches Ocho Rios

Sandals South Coast

CELEBRATE YOUR LOVE IN PARADISE

Your new life together starts here, in a place created for romance and fun in the sun. Destination weddings and honeymoons at Sandals and Beaches Resorts are designed to create unforgettable moments in some of the world’s most beautiful locations. Whether you’re dreaming of an adults-only party or a family-friendly celebration, it’s possible to fnd exhilaration, rejuvenation and relaxation, all in the same place. And with a beginning like this, the incredible memories you’ll create together will stay with you for a lifetime. Your honeymoon starts the moment you say, “I do!”

At least one of you has children.

Let’s say one party has kids from a previous marriage. A prenup can help you establish what part of the estate would go to the spouse’s children. It also ensures family members have a financial plan in the case of death. Wills are still necessary, but prenups can establish intent from both parties.

One of you has significantly more debt.

If your partner is repaying hefty student loans or acquires extreme credit card debt during your marriage, you probably don’t want to take on that burden after a split. “In a divorce, judges in many states have immense discretion as to how debt should be distributed among the parties,” says Rodgers. “In certain situations, a judge could choose to attribute some of one spouse’s debt to the other, especially in the case where the other party directly benefited from the result of that [loan or purchase].”

You plan to buy property together.

When purchasing a property together, experts still recommend that you keep your initial investments separate. Say acoupleplanstobuyacondotogether, but one party has saved much more for a down payment. “In a divorce, the money that one party contributed to the down payment, although not equal, would likely be considered as ‘transmuted’ or absorbed into the marital estate and split upon sale of the property,” says Rodgers. A prenup can protect those initial investment amounts.

One or both of you are small business owners or entrepreneurs.

Protecting your investments can be important if you own a closely held family business, a business with your name on it or a business with other people. Imagine that one partner is more relaxed with budgeting and also owns a business. Though the rewards are great, there are risks too. “Without a prenuptial agreement, the conservative spouse may be responsible for some of their partner’s business debt and entitled to some of the business,” explains Rodgers. “The most extreme and complex

divorce cases arise when one spouse is a business owner, and the judge deems the other spouse entitled to some of that equity.” In short, it could get very expensive when litigating a divorce.

You want your privacy in the event that your marriage ends.

Nobody wants their personal matters to be leaked to the public, and a prenup can ensure that that won’t happen. Confidentiality clauses are becoming standard in many prenups. They make sure that neither party could disparage the other on social media, television, in any publication (including a memoir) or publicize negative aspects of their marriage or financial lives.

You were engaged for a very short time.

Some couples meet and get married quickly, so a prenup is smart if you don’t know each other that well. Other couples don’t want to talk about it while wedding planning and sign a postnuptial agreement after the marriage is legalized. (By the way, you can get a postnup anytime after you marry.)

One of you doesn’t work or doesn’t plan to work.

If one party will be staying at home to raise a child, for example, the couple can work through an agreement to recognize that individual’s unpaid labor. By agreeing on financial provisions, both parties will have a plan in the event of a divorce.

You believe you choose your destiny.

A prenup provides a sense of peace for couples who simply want to be prepared. “One of the beautiful things about getting a prenup or a postnup is that you and your partner get to decide what happens should you separate, as opposed to the state,” says Dunlap.

Finally, discussing your respective assets and liabilities also promotes communication, a pillar in any healthy relationship. With contractual services available online, there’s little reason not to discuss your financial situation with your partner. Trust us: Sign the prenup before the marriage license.

Only 5% of to-be-weds sign a prenup.

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WELCOME TO SOUND SOCIETY, WELCOME TO SOUND SOCIETY,

OUR ARTISTS ARE AMONG THE WORLD’S MOST GIFTED TOURING AND STUDIO MUSICIANS. THEY DELIVER UNRIVALED ENTERTAINMENT EXPERIENCES THAT GET PEOPLE DANCING – AND TALKING.

IF YOU’RE STRUGGLING TO CREATE YOUR GUEST LIST, WE’VE GOT YOU COVERED. THIS FLOWCHART WILL HELP YOU DECIDE WHO GETS AN INVITE.

Who Makes The Cut?

SMALL & INTIMATE

BIG BLOWOUT BASH

HAVE YOU TALKED TO THIS PERSON IN THE PAST YEAR?

WHAT’S YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS PERSON?

FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER

PARENTS’ OR IN-LAWS’ FRIENDS

YES NO

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT INVITING THEM?

WOULD INVITING THEM TAKE YOU OVER BUDGET?

ARE YOUR PARENTS OR IN-LAWS PAYING FOR THE WEDDING?

CO-WORKER

DO YOU HANG OUT WITH THIS PERSON OUTSIDE OF WORK?

YES NO

SKIP THE INVITE INVITE

SKIP THE INVITE

SKIP THE INVITE

WOULD NOT INVITING THIS PERSON DAMAGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARENTS/IN-LAWS?

By Kim Forrest Illustrations

By Fabiola Lara

YES NO

INVITE SKIP THE INVITE

Designer Spotlight

DESIGNER AND NEWLYWED SAVANNAH MILLER REVEALS WHAT INSPIRED HER WEDDING DAY STYLE (HINT: IT’S MEDIEVAL AND ROYAL), DRESSING FOR A SECOND WEDDING AND WHAT SHE THINKS EVERY BRIDE SHOULD KNOW BEFORE THEY HIT THE STORES.

By Shelley Brown

What inspired your epic wedding dress and cape ensemble? I’ve heard they were based on Arthurian legend, and I’ve got to know more about that.

I am slightly obsessed with both the Russian Empress Catherine the Great and the dress of the Regency Era. I felt those references really elevated my hopelessly romantic notion that I must, at all times, resemble the Lady of the Lake (a Medieval enchantress associated with the Legend of King Arthur). I also love all the textures and luxury of the fabrics that were used in Regency fashion. I looked at old paintings to see examples of incredible cutting techniques that we incorporated into the construction of the satin corset built into my dress. I chose gold satin because it was Christmastime, and I wanted to look like a winter queen. I couldn’t believe it when I found a Chantilly lace where the white threads had been replaced with golden threads, creating the most delicate, sparkling spider’s web of an overdress. I made sure the skirt was super full, with inserted godets and waterfall sleeves that went down to the floor and beyond—there was an excessive amount of lace that felt so romantic and sensual.

Were you at all surprised by what you ended up wearing?

Not at all. After all, I’m a designer. I dream up wedding dresses every day, and I’m really aware of what I love. However, it was a magical experience to put myself in my brides’ shoes and feel how exciting the bespoke design service we offer really is.

BENJAMIN WHEELER

What about your second and third dresses?

The second look was the base that sat underneath the Chantilly lace overdress. It had a concealed zip all the way up the side seam, so I could open it up after the ceremony to make it a little more sexy and easy to move in. The third look is from my main collection and is super fun because it’s shorter, so I could really dance. As much as I loved wearing a corset, it was heaven to get into a biascut slip dress and feel easy. I could get on with having a great time at my party without worrying about anyone stepping on my train.

How did you accessorize your three distinct looks?

I wanted to wear crowns from the get-go because it felt like wearing a veil for my second wedding, at age 43, was a bit much. The crowns I chose for the ceremony were from Tilly Thomas Lux. They really stood out to me because they are super contemporary but still romantic. I created bespoke mules with Jimmy Choo in a gorgeous sparkling fabric with a pearl strap for my ceremony. They were incredibly comfortable and had a kitten heel that didn’t make me too tall!

For my first dance, I changed into a diadem from Lelet that had dangling pearls and made me feel like a million dollars. I also changed into some killer stilettos from Manolo Blahnik that had a huge crystal motif snaking up the foot. It was great to unzip that skirt and transform my whole look to something a lot more sexy. For my third look, I took the crowns off and changed into a pair of incredible diamanté chandelier earrings from Jennifer Behr that felt super elegant but also disco!

Did you incorporate any heirlooms to play of the Old World feel of your wedding gown?

I kept my jewelry delicate and wore some gorgeous gold disc earrings made by Heidi Hockenjos. She also constructed a stunning necklace using diamonds from a ring that my mum had given me when I was born that resembled Princess Diana’s engagement ring. I never wore it, so I decided to have the diamonds hung individually on a gold chain with tiny gold discs behind them that were engraved with the initials of 14 of my friends and family.

Second weddings can sometimes be smaller gatherings or less of a fashion moment in general. I love that you went all out for yours. What are your thoughts on dressing for a second wedding?

I think you have to go for it. We were going to keep it small, but then we got completely carried away with it. We’ve both been married before. We wanted to celebrate our love and the miracle that is making wedding vows a second time, fully conscious of what it means to be married.

How involved in the design process were you? (I assume very.) I’d love to hear more about it.

I was completely on top of it from start to finish and I loved every second. It was so fun to design something without having to meet other people’s needs.

Will your wedding gown or any of the looks you wore on your day be incorporated into your collection?

The base dress, now called ‘The Savannah,’ was such a hit that it is going to be in my main line for the bridal market taking place in the spring.

Let’s talk about glam. What inspired your hair and makeup?

I worked with the incredible Wendy Rowe and Dior Beauty for my wedding hair and makeup, which was a total dream. Wendy is an exceptionally talented makeup artist and made me feel like the best version of myself. She also plastered gold glitter under my eyes before the party so that I could really sparkle like a Christmas queen. I kept my hair in its usual style, but had it done by the incredible Jordan Garrett from Hershesons, whom I have known for years. He made me feel polished but still very me. With wedding hair and makeup, I think it’s super important that you look put together but still like yourself, so you don’t give your partner a fright at the altar!

What’s your advice to brides starting to dream up their own wedding looks ?

Start by doing lots of research. Get pinning like crazy on Pinterest to identify silhouettes you love. Then go and try on some dresses at a boutique that resonates with your style and the vibe you want. Or come to me! We also offer a bespoke service and absolutely love helping brides to bring their dream dresses into reality.

Above, Savannah Miller hits the dance floor in her slip-dressinspired second and third looks.

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INSIDE OUR LIST OF 26 NOTABLE EMERGING WEDDING PROS

By Hannah Nowack

Finding the perfect team to bring your wedding vision to life is no small task. According to our internal research, couples book an average of 14 different pros to make it happen. But how do you find those people who are going to be the perfect fit for you? That’s where we come in. We’ve poured over the many talented vendors out there to find a cohort of 26 outstanding and emerging businesses we know will inspire your wedding planning. Here are our 2023 Ones to Watch honorees.

The Innovator

THEY’RE TRAILBLAZERS AND VISIONARIES. THEY’RE TRENDSETTERS AND TASTEMAKERS. THESE VENDORS ARE CONSTANTLY THINKING OUTSIDE THE BOX TO DREAM UP NEW AND INVENTIVE WEDDING IDEAS.

What makes these pros so notable?

Out of the thousands of wedding professionals in the industry, you might be wondering how we landed on these 26 standouts. We created a series of guidelines to help us in our search for rising talent across all categories. We sought value-driven pros who are cheerleading and change-making, educating and amplifying. Our honorees are the future of weddings.

• Fewer than eight years in business in the wedding industry.

• Have a cutting-edge, authentic and innovative approach to their field.

• Vetted by a seven-person committee made up of four members of our editorial team and three well-respected industry experts.

• Further vetted through reviews from industry peers they’ve worked with.

Christina Kim Mathis of Blue Box Bakery

@BlueBoxBakery

Based in: Washington

Expertise: Cake Baker

Founded: April 2016

Motivated by: High-Quality Customization

Balancing great design and great taste, all tailored to each couple’s sensibilities, is paramount for Christina Mathis. Beyond that tall order, what sets her apart even more is her proficiency with sugar flowers that bring elegance and artistry to her cakes.

“We specialize in realistic sugar florals and customize each detail to be cohesive with the overall event design. We use the finest local and organic ingredients so the cakes always taste as good as they look.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “She is so lovely to work with, organized, and strikes the perfect balance between producing delicious cake and unique designs.” — @AReneeWeddings

Dani Blasena of HauteFêtes Fine Weddings & Events

Expertise: Event Planner

Founded: June 2016

Motivated by: Balancing Discernment and Details

Dani’s ethos is that you shouldn’t compromise seamless execution for the sake of impeccable design. “I am laser-focused on the balance between implementing great, intentional ideas and producing a really fun, flawless event. My proudest moments have always been related to how my clients (and their guests) feel when they see and experience their wedding. I hope that others are inspired by my work and that they also place emphasis on ensuring that design and execution go hand in hand.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Dani’s vision is seeing the event as a production and also a work of art.” — @JoelSerrato

Based in: Virginia & South Carolina

Expertise: Specialty Rentals

Founded: November 2017

Motivated by: Innovative Design

Elisa’s company grew from a desire to fill a hole in the market. “We saw gorgeous weddings happening across the country, but there were limited options for tabletop rentals.” She wants her inventory to be “part of a significant shift in events toward self-expression. I love the role we play in empowering clients to express their personal style. To do that effectively, we are thoughtfully adding to our collection all the time and many of our newest pieces are even custom-made for us.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Elisa’s past experience as a photographer helped her succeed in the rental arena. She understands how things photograph, what creates incredible design and how to capture it.” — @LaurelElise

A former professional viola player, Elizabeth’s approach to wedding planning is well orchestrated.

“As a classically trained musician, I learned attention to detail, focus, artistic expression, intuition and nonverbal communication. These traits have shaped me as an events professional. I view my role in each wedding as that of a creative director.”

@XOMoreauWeddings

Based in: Texas

Expertise: Event Planning

Founded: January 2018

Motivated to: Push Creative Boundaries

EastMadeCo

Based in: Maryland

Expertise: Event Planner

Founded: September 2015

Motivated to: Create Art

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Elizabeth is a polymath. What really makes her stand out in my eyes is the way she’s learned so many different facets of the industry. Not only is does she play strings, but she also knows photography. Her understanding of different vendor roles on a wedding day makes her that much better at her craft.”

— @NikkiDaskalakis

“You know what would be weird?” That’s the question Alex asks herself each time she starts planning a new wedding. “All my ideas sound funky at first, but I’m just too obsessed with them not to float them to my clients. I thrive with couples who want a wild, eccentric or over-the-top vibe for their wedding. I hope my work makes the boring wedding obsolete. A wedding is a party, y’all. It’s time we start acting like it.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Working with Alex is a one-of-a-kind experience. She has such a clear and unique perspective and is never afraid to push boundaries or explore out-of-the-box ideas.”

— @FeatherandTwine

Elizabeth Gopal of East Made Co.

@EmersonJamesRental

Elisa Bricker of Emerson James Rental

Alex Moreau

Check out some of Alex’s work on page 82!

The Innovator continued

Jenny Vu-Tran of IntriCakes

@IntriCakes

Based in: California

Expertise: Cake Baker

Founded: October 2015

Motivated by: Innovation

It’s not easy to reinvent something as timeless as the wedding cake, but Jenny is doing just that. “We strive to push the boundaries of cake design and believe innovation comes from being open to new ideas. That’s why we are constantly exploring new techniques, from incorporating 3D printing to projection mapping. Moreover, I’m always searching for ideas in art, architecture, fashion and nature to influence a new cake design. Ultimately, we want our cakes to balance beauty and individuality.” WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Jenny pushes herself—I love her willingness to stretch her comfort zone.” — @AGoodAffair

of Pop & Drop

@PopandDropTX

Based in: Texas

Expertise: Decor

Founded: August 2019

Motivated to: Balance Design and Sustainability

Kelsey isn’t just on a mission to create beautiful decor. She is also working to cut down the waste of single-use decorations. “We’ve always felt it’s possible to design thoughtful event experiences while being conscious of their environmental impact. We are committed to sustainability and always consider how to reduce waste. We recycle, reuse or dispose of things responsibly when we can’t. Our streamer rentals are almost entirely waste-free. Our mission is to save time and money, eliminate stress, let sustainability lead the way and have fun in the process.” WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Kelsey is always a wonderful vendor—communicative, quick to reply, hardworking and has an amazing product we’re proud to showcase at our events.”

— @PearlEventsAustin

“While my medium is photography, it’s really about giving the world inspiration and perspective. My photographs, the clients I serve—it’s all about redefining the standard. The loud voices aren’t the only ones that should be heard, so I pave an artistic path that showcases and shifts how the world, and we as individuals, view race, gender and sexuality. I don’t necessarily disrupt the status quo; I simply prove that there isn’t one at all.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Not only does he believe in the abilities of fellow vendors, but Rudney’s able to connect and foster teamwork when working with others. He has the ability to tell stories through beautiful imagery with a hint of editorial flare. The result is photos that are breathtaking and timeless.” —

@LindaHaEvents

@RudneyNovaes

Based in: Washington, DC

Expertise: Photographer

Founded: February 2016

Motivated to: Create With Purpose

Rudney Novaes of Rudney Novaes Photography

The Connector

THESE PROS ARE EMBRACERS, BRIDGE-BUILDERS AND STORYTELLERS. THEY CARE NOT JUST ABOUT SUCCESS, BUT ABOUT CREATING SPACES, BONDS AND NARRATIVES THAT ALLOW ALL COUPLES AND VENDORS TO THRIVE.

Angelica Laws of

Expertise: Event Planning

Founded: August 2017

Motivated to: Build Human Connections

Angelica’s goal is to “help couples create weddings that showcase their personalities, pique guests’ curiosity and evoke feelings that leave lasting impressions. We believe in the power of design to transform spaces and tell a story. For us, genuine human connection comes before everything else.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “I always leave a wedding with Angelica feeling valued and heard (usually with a hilarious moment we can’t stop referencing later). She genuinely cares about people—people that hire her, people that she interacts with and people she doesn’t even know.” — @Kir2Ben

Based in: Georgia

Expertise: Photographer

Founded: January 2016

Motivated to: Create Visual Narratives

“My artistic voice now has a lot to do with my past. The police found me as a newborn on a bench and brought me to an orphanage. By God’s grace, I received a loving home in America, but I grew up not knowing whose smile I share or whose laugh I have. At times, I’ve wished for a glimmer of my story, a photograph of where I came from. That feeling made me sensitive to the weight heritage holds and the gift photography is.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “She has an artist’s eye and a caring demeanor that makes her a delightful to work alongside.” — @RRoseEvents

Based in: Texas

Expertise: Event Planning

Founded: May 2016

Motivated to: Offer a Unique Perspective

Julian and his team come from a wide range of backgrounds, allowing them to bring complicated events together. “Our threemember team has worked in everything from hotels to catering and rentals, giving us a unique perspective into all aspects of producing a wedding.” Julian hopes couples remember that “it is okay to come in with more questions than answers,” because his team has all the answers and experience needed.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Julian’s organization makes his team a joy to work with.” — @SouthernFriedPaper

“We believe in balancing the art of storytelling with the flow of an event. Each wedding weekend is an opportunity to serve more than just the couple getting married. It’s an intricate dance between each vendor, and we hope every experience [and interaction] with us leaves others feeling valued, supported and encouraged.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING:

“What makes Megan stand out is her genuine kindness and willingness to help everyone around her. Megan is not just a team player, but really champions her fellow vendors in every way.”

— @PearlandSkyEvents

@MeganPettusFilms

Based in: Alabama

Expertise: Videographer

Founded: September 2016

Motivated by: Stories With Soul

Julian Leaver of Julian Leaver Events

Angelica & Co. Weddings

@Hannah.Forsberg

Hannah Forsberg of Hannah Forsberg

@JulianLeaver

Megan Pettus of Megan Pettus Films

Check out Angelica’s own wedding on page 110!

@AfrikArmando

Based in: Pennsylvania

Expertise: Photographer

Founded: May 2017

Motivated to: Coach Couples

The Mentor

THESE PROS ARE COACHES AND ADVISERS. THEY’RE EDUCATORS WHO WANT TO SHARE THEIR WEALTH OF KNOWLEDGE AND ARE INVESTED IN SUPPORTING EMERGING ARTISTS.

Kaytee Stice

Turn

Afrik views his role as not just a photographer, but a teacher: “I coach people to be their most beautiful selves in front of the camera.” His mentorship extends to aspiring pros as well. “As a person of color, I hope to inspire others to believe anything is possible—as my own story proves. Ten years ago, I was homeless for a time, and yet I broke through in a white-dominated industry. We must never forget how limitless our potential is.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Afrik is not only a kind human, but a talented, down-to-earth photographer.” — @MusaWeddings

Shean Strong of Shean Strong Design

@SheanStrong

Based in: Georgia

Expertise: Floral Designer

Founded: March 2017

Motivated by: Educating for Growth

Shean cares about transparency and education, both with his clients and with the industry at large. From managing pricing expectations with couples to teaching blossoming floral designers, Shean is motivated to give back through his role as an educator. “I love giving students the confidence to grow their businesses. I take deep pride in being able to share my trials and successes with others and give them the tools to set themselves apart in an ever-growing industry.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Shean is innovative, professional and just allaround fun to collaborate with.”

— @EvaClarkEvents

Based in: Kentucky

Expertise: Floral Designer

Founded: February 2016

Motivated to: Create Space for Relationships

“I value creating spaces where vendors can authentically connect and grow.” Along with fellow One to Watch Samantha Leenheer, Kaytee co-created a multi-day experience for wedding pros to learn and network. “I love being able to uplift, inspire and challenge business owners to follow their passion so they can lead with purpose and confidence in their work.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING:

“From clients to creative partners, emerging florists and other industry peers, Kaytee has the ability to make each individual feel seen, heard and included.”

— @AbbyMcKinneyEvents

“I hope to be a beacon of empathy and to tell my clients’ stories so they feel seen. To make that happen, I want every couple to stay flexible. Our industry moves so quickly that you never know what new ideas are around the corner. Being open-minded is the best way to allow your budget to adjust to your needs while having fun planning.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING:

“Samantha pushes design limits wherever she can. She could transform a parking garage into something whimsical. She’s a thought leader who deserves to be recognized and applauded for her innovation in the Midwest market.” — @ChelseyJBarhorst

@HouseofJoyandCo

Based in: Ohio

Expertise: Event Planner

Founded: July 2016

Motivated to: Embrace Flexibility

Samantha Leenheer of House of Joy

Afrik Armando of Afrik Armando

CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT: AFRIK ARMANDO (2); CAITLIN HON; AMANDA DONAHO PHOTOGRAPHY; JESSICA GOLD PHOTOGRAPHY; NICOLE CAREY PHOTO

to page 82 for a peek at Afrik’s work!

@_Everbloom

Based in: California Expertise: Floral Designer

Founded: December 2017

Motivated by: Polished Professionalism

The Realist

THESE VENDORS ARE DOWN-TO-EARTH CHEERLEADERS. THEY’RE TEAM PLAYERS WHO SEEK TO BE YOUR SUPPORTIVE SIDEKICK, THE ONE YOU KNOW WILL TELL IT LIKE IT IS AND DISRUPT THE STATUS QUO FOR THE BETTER.

Jordan Jeanty of Jordan Jeanty Studios

@JeantyStudios

Based in: Texas

Expertise: Videographer

Founded: February 2017

Motivated to: Care and Grow

It’s important to Erice that she “do whatever it takes to create something amazing.” And part of that mission is finding ways to better the industry. “I want to see florists have more of a business-first mindset. Well-organized, systemized and profitable floral businesses should be the norm, not the exception. I hope to encourage other florists to standardize their pricing and advocate for themselves.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Her professionalism, talent and kindness stood out to me from the start. Erice is talented creatively and she’s also smart.” — @StettenWilson

What sets Jordan apart is as simple as it is profound. He cares— deeply. “I care about my couples, and I care about my work. While I appreciate the lifestyle my business has afforded me, what I do is much more than a way to earn money. By asking questions, listening and approaching my work from a position of service, I can create films tailored to my couples. When it’s all said and done, I hope I’ll be remembered as a unique and respected voice in the wedding industry. Being ‘the best’ is a subjective award. My goal is to be among the individuals who have elevated the wedding filmmaking industry.” WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Jordan truly understands his clients, which allows him to create a beautifully curated videos.” — @ElleAudreyEvents

Egan

@ModernRebelandCo

Based in: New York

Expertise: Event Planner

Founded: August 2015

Motivated to: Disrupt the Status Quo

Amy doesn’t plan weddings. Rather, she plans what she likes to refer to as “love parties,” or weddings that break the rules. “I want to give people permission to break away from expectations and have a celebration that feels true to their relationship.” To help do that, she asks all her couples to come up with a mantra that best describes their partnership and can serve as a guiding light throughout the planning. “This allows couples to walk away from the event with a deeper connection to their relationship.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Amy and her team are among the most supportive, welcoming vendors around.” — @NaturaCollective

Erice McNeff of Everbloom Floral Design

CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT: LAUREN SCOTTI; MADELEINE COLLINS PHOTOGRAPHY; COURTESY OF JORDAN JEANTY; CHELLISE MICHAEL PHOTOGRAPHY; THE HON COLLECTIVE

Amy Shack

of Modern Rebel

Based in: California

Expertise: Photographer

Founded: August 2018

Motivated to: Alter the Standard

“While stunning designs are central, for us, it’s less about what it looks like and more about what it feels like.” Kiara uses flowers to evoke emotions, but “to help us get there, I won’t always tell you what you want to hear. A lot of vendors squelch their opinions to please a couple, but honesty is at my core. I want to be a confidant for my couples, someone they can ask for an honest opinion…delivered with love.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Her aura cannot be contained. Kiara is your go-to for impeccable taste, professionalism and generosity of spirit. She is grace and artistry combined.” — @ErickaKreutzPhotos

@K.Hancock

Based in: Washington

Expertise: Floral Designer

Founded: October 2015

Motivated by: Designs that Evoke Emotions

@BoShimPhoto

Based in: New York

Expertise: Photography

Founded: May 2016

Motivated by: Timelessness and Heritage

“As a Korean immigrant, I come from humble beginnings. I’m proud of the resilience and work ethic I built early on in life. That journey informed my approach to photography. I’m an acute observer and pride myself on being present. I capture the big moments and, equally important, the special in-between times. I’m proud of my voice as a photographer and want to stay true to the timeless beauty I see through my lens.”

Erica is all about “romanticizing real life. The rawness, the beauty of loving and living with people. I hope everyone I have the honor of sharing even a glimpse of this life with knows they matter. Their stories matter, and their love matters.” She’s also inspired by the varied ways that life and love take shape from person to person. “The world can be going down the drain, but at least we’ve found happiness in each other. That once-in-alifetime kind of love is a beautiful thing. And there is no right way to celebrate love. It doesn’t matter what it looks like. Love is worth celebrating.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Erica has such beautiful energy—she is unapologetically herself. She is vulnerable and invites you in. You get her at 100%.” — @HMNbyVeronica

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Bo has the kind of personality that makes you feel like you’ve known her your whole life. She’s highly professional but also fun and friendly, so it’s easy to relax in her presence. ” — @JennyFu

Bo Shim of Bo Shim Photography

Erica “Gem” Benson of Alternative Standards

Kiara Hancock of K. Hancock Design

CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT: NIKI RHODES PHOTO; ERICKA KREATUZ; JENNY FU; BO SHIM PHOTOGRAPHY; ARIELLE LEVY PHOTO

The Advocate

THESE PROS ARE UNITERS AND AMPLIFIERS. THEY’RE MOTIVATED BY INCLUSIVITY AND A DESIRE TO INVITE PEOPLE IN WHILE CREATING WORK THAT AUTHENTICALLY REFLECTS A COUPLE’S ROOTS.

Erin and Steve Sok of Sok Vision

@Sok.Vision

Based in: Washington, DC

Expertise: Videographers

@LePetitePrive

Based in: New York

Expertise: Event Planner

Founded: September 2016

Motivated to: Foster Mutual Respect

Xin Huang of Le Petit Privé

Xin aims to create intentional designs that are both visually stimulating and packed with meaning and purpose. To do so, she invests deeply in “honorable vendor relationships that foster mutual respect, so we can all have a healthy work environment. Staying true to our ethics and our level of care are guiding lights for us.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “You can tell by her events that she’s interested in pushing the envelope, and she surrounds herself with people who do the same.” — @CalenRose

Founded: June 2017

Motivated to: Create Space for All

“We are proud to disrupt the narrative of who deserves luxury. We hope when people see us in the luxury space, they feel safe to be fully themselves. Representation is important, and we’re honored to be a bridge for minority filmmakers. Everyone is running toward the same goal to love their families and build community. Yet each person’s approach happens through the lens of culture, race, gender, etc. This diversity makes beautifully rich stories that remind us about why we’re connected.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Erin and Steve do a great job of storytelling from the heart. They bring a new outlook on how to showcase love stories and emotions.” — @FavoredbyYodit

Caitlin Fulton Kuchemba of Fulton Events

@FultonEvents

Based in: Pennsylvania

Expertise: Event Planner

Founded: May 2015

Motivated by: Endless Possibilities

“One benefit of owning my own business is waking up daily knowing there is no limit to our creativity. I love working with vendors who share the same mindset to elevate their work. I want to leave a legacy as someone who not only rose themselves, but helped others rise with them. As part of that, I’m most proud of the team I have built and the opportunities I’ve been able to provide them. As a female-owned business, it’s important to me to give women the chance to grow, thrive and flourish.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “I am amazed by Caitlin’s ability to create designs that represent her clients. She thinks of little things that make a huge impact.” — @RedfieldPhoto

“Wedding videography is still a very male-dominated field. We are an all-female cinematography team that has built this thriving business through solid relationships and communication.” What’s even more impressive than Kelly’s success is her desire to share it. “I hope to encourage female cinematographers that we can run sustainable and profitable businesses while being wives and mothers.”

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING: “Kelly is one of the most caring people

I’ve met in this industry, always making sure everyone around her is working at their best capacity and, if they’re not, seeing how she can help. Simply put, she makes this entire industry better, and she does it with a smile and heart of service.” — @SaciaMatthews

@K.LaFleurFilms

Based in: Nebraska

Expertise: Videographer

Founded: June 2016

Motivated to: Empower Female Filmmakers

Kelly LaFleur of K. LaFleur Films

Natalia Renna & Zachary Nathanson

Even before the main event, Natalia Renna (28 and a digital marketing strategist) and Zachary (Zach) Nathanson (30 and a small-business owner) infused their wedding weekend with unique personalization. The Los Angeles–based couple invited 210 loved ones to California’s Ojai Valley for three days of festive events to celebrate their marriage. First on deck? A special event that honored their heritage.

Family ties have always been central to the couple’s relationship. So much so that Natalia and Zach looked to their respective family matriarchs for inspiration for the rehearsal dinner.

As a nod to their grandmothers’ Jewish and Italian roots in the Bronx, New York, the couple created an old-school Italian

Retro Roots

A checker motif, synonymous with old-school delis, wove through the event.

Story by Hannah Nowack

Photography by Logan Cole

pizza joint meets Jewish deli in the middle of a field for their prewedding celebration. “Our vision for the rehearsal dinner was to honor our families and heritage, specifically our grandmothers,” says Natalia. While the grandmothers didn’t know each other during their youth, they share similar life journeys.

“We recently discovered that they grew up a few blocks from each other in the Bronx,” Natalia says. “That inspired a theme that tied together Jewish and Italian design components.” Additionally, the Renna family’s food business started as a pizzeria in San Diego, making the rehearsal dinner theme all the more meaningful.

Natalia explains that the inspiration board for this event included “menus and signage from restaurants, pizzerias and delis that fit the look of what we were going for. We envisioned a lot of checkered prints and playful fonts. Our amazing vendors brought everything to life.” The team certainly didn’t disappoint with the red, black and white event.

“We brought in restaurant booths, a 1957 Porsche Speedster, red-and-white checkered tablecloths, a black-and-white dance floor and custom bars to create the vintage feel we wanted,” says Natalia. Vinyl banquettes formed booths that looked right out of an eatery. A backdrop anchoring the vignette showcased photos of relatives going back to the early 1900s. As another nod to the grandmothers, a street sign bore the names of the roads where the women grew up. Natalia says that “everything felt so custom and thoughtful.”

Of course, no Jewish deli meets Italian pizzeria event is complete without a fantastic menu. Guests enjoyed a madeto-order pasta station, while tunes by Dean Martin, Frank Sinatra and Lou Monte played in the background. Natalia’s grandmother Sara also made her famous pignoli cookies.

And what does one wear to a deli-slashpizzeria event? Natalia rocked a multicolor red-and-orange slip dress befitting the palette. Zach looked dapper in a dark green suit and knit polo.

Event Site: Ojai Valley Inn, Ojai, CA

Photography: Logan Cole

Videography:

Quail & the Dove Event Planning + Design: Details Darling

Floral Design: Going Steady Studios

Dress: Cult Gaia

Suit: Suitsupply

Hair: DIY

Makeup: Shadi Malek

Invitations: Suite Paperie

Rentals: Bella Vista Designs; Theoni

Catering: Ojai Valley Inn

Rehearsal dinners are special since they give to-be-weds a little extra time with loved ones who are in town for the big day. Natalia recalls how meaningful and stressrelieving it was to just spend time with the very family members who inspired

the event. “The second we saw everyone having fun, all our prewedding stress melted away,” she recalls. “It brought tears to our eyes to see everything we planned come to life and everyone we love in one place.”

Porsche Pics

In lieu of a photo booth, vintage wheels served as a backdrop to guests’ snaps all night.

REFRESH YOUR REGISTRY

Greater Gifts

INFLUENCERS ARE PRIORITIZING EXPERIENCES.

HERE’S WHY YOU SHOULD TOO.

Story by Hannah Nowack

Photography by Afrik Armando

Don’t limit your wedding registry to physical gifts. Some of our fave influencers share a peek at creative bonding experiences to inspire wedding wish lists everywhere.

The Knot recently invited a crew of engaged content creators to Cedar Lakes Estate in Port Jervis, New York, to help them through the wedding journey. A key element of the trip, planned by XO Moreau, covered wedding registries.

While physical gifts are a mainstay on most registries, many to-be-weds already have plenty of household items. In fact, according to The Knot 2022 Registry Study, 36 percent of couples said one of the top reasons they created a registry was because they valued cash and experiences over tangible items. We took the chance to showcase all the fun and engaging activities couples can register for on The Knot Registry. There’s a gift out there for every couple—and if the lakes and waterways of Port Jervis are calling your name, you could register for an airline gift card to make the perfect postwedding trip a reality.

Host: The Knot Event Planning + Design: XO

Moreau | Venue, Accommodations + Catering: Cedar Lakes Estate, Port Jervis, NY

| Photography: Afrik Armando | Floral Design: B Floral | Beauty: LeJeune Artistry

| Stationery: The Knot Invitations | Travel Coordination: The Travel Siblings

Wedding Experts: XO Moreau; Beth Chapman Styling; Cocktails & Details; Fallon Carter Events | Drape: Swag Decor | Furniture Rentals: Luxe Event Rentals | Neon: Name Glo | Color Consultations: House of Colour | Linens: House of Hough | Entertainment: DJ Scooter/Epic Events NJ | Gifting: Cadence; Kinfield; Paravel

Attendees: Aïssata Diallo & Ali Camara; Andrea Camila & Lewis Kelly; Bri Scalesse & Sheldon Nguyen; Caleb Marshall & Cameron Moody; Carobi Parada & Maxwell McCoy; Joanna (JoJo) Levesque & Dexter Darden; Kiana Bonollo & Cody Nance; Morgan Tyler & Shawna Marie; Savannah Wright & Michael Hummel

Want even more influencer-approved wedding planning tips? Scan here.

For the fitness fanatic

It’s time to sweat it out. Kick off your marriage on an active note by adding a workout class to y our registry.

For the adventurer

Do you love experiencing the great outdoors? If a hike or kayak trip is your ideal date, you and your partner could register for an adrenaline-fueled outdoor adventure ahead of the big day.

For the food aficionado

Your taste buds will thank you for registering for a cooking class. Bond with your love while whipping up a mouthwatering dish.

The Dying Art of Seamstresses

By Esther Lee Illustration By Tiana Crispino

There’s a mild lull at the intersection of 17th and Broadway in Manhattan. Beyond the inconspicuous building on the northwest corner of Union Square, the streets will soon fill with activity at the end of another week in September 2022. Parsons and New York University students amble through the park in loosefitting cargo pants and fitted tops, a post-pandemic attire trend harkening back to ’90s grunge. It’s the busiest year of weddings ever and I’m about to interrupt someone who’s experiencing the boom in full.

On the sunny fifth floor of the building, I’m greeted by a woman in thick-rimmed glasses: Alzira Michelon, owner of Alzira Hermes Studio, the go-to alterations business for Oscar de la Renta and VIPs. Her studio instantly calms me. Like the gowns she alters, the walls are brushed in an eggshell white, and there’s plush seating in the main room. She hands me a glass of water and explains her efforts to counter what brides typically carry into the space: the chaos of the city and the stress that comes with planning a wedding. In here, visitors find themselves at ease.

“I always want to give the feeling of a good environment,” says Michelon. “They can hear the stress of clients,” she motions to her staffers in the sewing room. “I try to make a very good environment for everyone walking in, to help them relax.”

Michelon and her husband, Reginaldo, first locked eyes in a bar in Brazil and married after a whirlwind courtship. The couple emigrated to the United States in the 1990s, driven by the promise of a green card and a brighter future for their daughter. Their path began at Vera Wang, where Alzira eventually grew into the role of alterations manager. Over the next 10 years, the couple (Reginaldo runs the operations arm of their company) sharpened their business acumen while making new client connections. Today, they independently run their own alterations studio, and they’re a guarded secret among fashion, retail and bridal-industry movers and shakers.

The Migration Policy Institute, a nonpartisan think tank based in Washington, DC, has found that Brazilians who migrated to the US in the 1980s and ’90s believed they could make four times what they could’ve earned in their native country. Today, Brazilians make up one percent of the immigrants in the US and often bring a valuable skill: alterations and stitching. But trade success stories like the Michelons seem to be growing increasingly rare. The alterations business, specifically, faces a looming crisis: The demand remains high, yet it’s a dying art.

It’s during an industry event that bridal boutique owner Beth Chapman raises her concern. “This story needs to be told,” she says in a clipped tone. “Soon, we won’t have seamstresses to fulfill our orders and both couples and bridal salons are feeling it.” What makes Chapman an authority on the matter?She’sthefounderofTheWhite Dress Society, an industry collective of bridal salon owners, who are on the front lines of the alterations crunch.  According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, 13 percent of garment workers currently hold roles in sewing and tailoring. This percentage has been declining for 20 years, while the demandforalterationsremainssteady. “It’s a lost art,” Chapman laments. “Unfortunately, sewing and alterations work is no longer taught and pursued in this country. I fear that within five years, we’re going to be in a crisis and there might not be enough seamstresses to alter the wedding gowns sold.”

At first, the issue seems straightforward: There are over 45,000 seamstresses working in the US. In 2022, 2.6 million couples got married. A limited or dwindling supply (not restricted to bridal clients), paired with the wedding boom, has resulted in supply-anddemand challenges for both wedding professionals and couples. Or was that it? The more I look into it, the more complex the problem appeared. Isolated from demand, the number of seamstresses has fallen for a variety of

Alterations is an art, after all, and like anything of value, it must be preserved.

THE DEMAND REMAINS HIGH, YET ALTERATIONS IS A FADING DISCIPLINE. WE INVESTIGATE WHY.

The Trump Administration’s immigration policy influenced the availability of labor across many industries, and the results are playing out years later. The steady influx of seamstresses from China, Brazil and other countries provided a reliable supply for decades. The decision to tighten borders stunted the availability of green cards and working visas across industries.

According to the Pew Research Center, approximately 1.1 million migrants entered the US annually during the early 1990s, including the Michelons. Access to a hopeful immigration narrative has shifted over the last several years. “People who don’t have the papers cannot work. Or they’ve stopped coming [to the US] now,” says Alzira. “We all know immigration is political…If they don’t have a visa, they’re illegal.”

“I would say that none of the seamstresses I’ve ever worked with are American born and raised. My family is Iranian,” says Giselle Ghofrani of Belle Atelier in Chicago. Her interest in fashion started young at her mother’s alterations business. “When my mom was growing up, if you didn’t know how to sew, there was something wrong with you. All women knew how to sew.”

Like Michelon, Ghofrani’s story starts with immigration. Her mother, Soheila, was an engineering student in the 1970s when her family’s assets were frozen during the Iranian revolution. Though she came to the US to study, the stitching skills she had learned in Iran helped her earn money. Even in the ’70s, the trade was so valuable that one opportunity led to the next, and Soheila eventually started her own business. Over 40 years later, she is now known as “the Dress Doctor.” Soheila has passed her knowledge to her daughter, who initially pursued another route in fashion. Ultimately, Ghofrani returned home to expand the family business.

Some argue that the point of restricting immigration was to give jobs to Americans. But there lies the issue. The lack of skilled American labor, coupled with reduced inbound talent, is creating a void. Some immigrants were trained in stitching from a young age, and it is rarely taught in US schools. Finding skilled labor is significantly more challenging without immigrants. Then there’s also the issue of sourcing new and young talent.

Chloe Skalli, program director and pattern design instructor at the New York School of Design, argues that the latter is causing even more strain. “As the number of seamstresses in the industry dwindles, the impact is twofold. First, the cost of alterations is driven up due to a scarcity of skilled workers. Second, the turnaround time for alterations is getting longer as the seamstresses become overwhelmed by the demand,” she says.

Alterations is a tough career that requires physical labor and the mental force of paying close attention to every stitch and every loop. “It’s a scary job. We work together to make it easier, but it’s not an easy job,” says Michelon. “I wish I could find more people to train.”

Every seamstress I spoke to shared the same message. Despite steady demand, alterations work is a hard career. “It’s such a specialized skill, because you’re not making something from scratch and you can’t recreate it if you’ve made a mistake,” says Michelon. The work requires precision and experience. “That’s really scary, especially for someone like me to [test run] someone without much experience…As a business owner, you must have patience and trust.”

Scaled correctly, the business can be lucrative, says Melissa Oddo, owner of deMelis Atelier in Higganum, Connecticut. As the founder of Stitched Collective, a communityforpeopleinthebridalsewingindustry,Oddo’s mission is to help independent businesses grow through

reasons, causing the perfect storm.

“None of the seamstresses I’ve ever worked with are American born and raised.”

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education and networking opportunities. “It is a different animal, altering,” she muses. A designer friend of hers even says she’d rather avoid altering anything, preferring to make gowns from scratch.

“Awareness is the first step. We need to acknowledge and address the problem as an industry,” Chapman says. “The next step is education. It is important that we teach future generations about this craft and show that it is a lucrative and creative field.” Fashion and trade schools could create training programs devoted to alterations, and seamstresses and tailors could hire talented young workers as apprentices. “There needs to be a level of interest, however, for that to occur,” she says.

Let’s say you’ve mastered the art of stitching. You still have to learn about operations and scaling a business. It’s necessary to manage client expectations and explain the painstaking level of work required. “The hardest part about the job is not just sewing, but it’s also the communication that you have with your client,” adds Ghofrani. “That can be very difficult.”

For decades, retailers provided lucrative compensation packages to seamstresses, sometimes luring them in with twice the pay of momand-pop shops. But today, pay is not the only issue. Many seamstresses have retired or will soon. Their average age is 50, according to the jobs site Zippia.

Young people have long been drawn to the fashion industry. In the 1990s, the booming field attracted college graduates seeking careers and titles with cachet. (Call it the Carrie Bradshaw or Kate Moss effect.) They got jobs as account executives, designers, merchandisers, creative directors and buyers. Thirty years later, a new wave is coming, this time led by Generation Z.

“Bring it to the kids,” enthuses Oddo. “We really want to start getting to a point where more and more people learn at a young age. Take a little sewing class. Ignite that spark.”

Stitching pairs affordability with sustainability, both of which young people value. “When you have the skill to mend clothing or to alter something, you start to care more about quality, and that’s how we beat fast fashion and take it beyond the bridal industry,” says Oddo. “That’s something that I’m always trying to be cognizant of. What do we do next for circular fashion?”

Independent education across social platforms, or content creation, is an industry expected to reach $38.2 billion by 2030. “I see the pandemic as a real gamechanger for Gen Z and its interest in sewing. While other

generations largely reverted to increased ‘mindless’ screen time to distract from the stress, the opposite effect was seen with Gen Z,” Skalli says. “They took to YouTube and other learning platforms to create, not simply kill time. This is evidenced by the boom of ‘SewTok,’ or dedicated channels on TikTok for sewing and tailoring. The desire to create has not been lost on Gen Z, but the way they are learning is different.”

“We are seeing some up-and-coming seamstresses on TikTok and Instagram, and that is encouraging,” adds Chapman. “However, there are just not enough of them to meet the demand. More seamstresses are retiring and leaving the industry than are joining it.”

As long as the diversity in body shapes, sizes and forms exist, we will always need seamstresses. Consumers will always seek fitted clothing across different sizes. Wedding attire specifically is usually made to order, intended to make its wearer feel like the most exquisite being in the room. One dress no longer cuts it. When I stepped into Michelon’s studio, the entire team was focused on altering three gowns for a wedding the next day. Whether to-be-weds are wearing one or five dresses, the business of alterations will always require skilled labor.

If anything, Oddo has a simple plea for those exploring career options or new opportunities. “Pick up a trade. I don’t care if it’s sewing or not, just pick up a trade,” she says. “As a country, the US is down on the trades. We have to appreciate people who work with their hands and everything they do for us. I think it’s going to be uplifting to see where the next generation takes it.”

Alterations is an art, after all, and like anything of value, it must be preserved.

Sources:

Beth Chapman is the founder of The White Dress Society, a collective of bridal salons. She also runs Beth Chapman Styling , as well as a brick-and-mortar bridal boutique in Clinton, Connecticut, The White Dress by the Shore. Beth is an industry educator and leading expert.

Giselle Ghofrani is the daughter of immigrants and is proudly carrying the torch for her parents. A former design student

in New York City, Ghofrani moved back to Chicago to open up Belle Atelier, a new business within her mother’s alterations shop, The Dress Doctor.

Melissa Lynn Oddo studied at the Fashion Institute of Technology in New York City from 2003-2007 and earned her AAS with a specialization in tailoring. Today, she is the founder of Stitched Collective and arguably the lead educator of seamstresses across the bridal industry.

Alzira Michelon is the co-owner of Alzira Hermes Studio in New York City.

With more than three decades of experience in alterations, Alzira and her husband, Reginaldo Michelon, are the force behind fitted gowns—both bridal and eveningwear—for VIPs and the preferred tailors for Oscar de la Renta.

Chloe Skalli is the program director and pattern design instructor at the New York School of Design in New York City.

“ There might not be enough seamstresses to alter the wedding gowns sold.”

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To celebrate the resilience of couples and wedding vendors after two tough pandemic years, The Knot hosted a gala at Chelsea Industrial in New York City inspired by the iconic fairytale of The Wizard of Oz. The black-tie event recognized everyone’s challenging COVID-era experiences while ushering in hope for the future of weddings. Planned by Magnolia Bluebird Design + Events, the party celebrated perseverance and dedication through the pillars of courage, knowledge and love—topics The Wizard of Oz knows a thing or two about.

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Knowledge

Interactive elements are a great way to bring the energy and keep guests enthralled at any party. Lacking a brain, the Scarecrow is on a quest for knowledge and we celebrated him in an area resembling a cornfield. This space wasn’t just thought-provoking to look at, but was also a compelling activity to engage with: An artist painted words onto entertainers as part of the installation as a nod to the journey for higher learning. Guests were even encouraged to take part and jot down notes of reflection on paper slips.

Courage

Even hors d’oeuvres can be a chance to surprise and delight guests. We celebrated the Cowardly Lion’s quest for courage with a topiary-inspired space reminiscent of the kingdom he wanted to lead. While guests enjoyed snacks creatively displayed on trees in the space, they were greeted by moss monkeys hanging from the ceiling as a nod to the tale’s Winged Monkeys.

Love

When it comes to entertainment, think outside the box to make a big impact. We paid homage to the Tin Man, who has no heart, in a metallic silver space. The designers didn’t limit themselves to tin, but got creative with materials like tinsel garlands to add visual depth and intrigue to the space. The star of the show was a larger-than-life silver stiltwalker who beckoned attendees to the poke-bowl station tucked behind curtains of tinsel.

THE

OF LAUR

CRAFTER, CONTENT CREATOR AND ENTREPRENEUR LAURDIY ISN’T DIY-ING HER WEDDING.

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Top and trousers by Rosie Assoulin; earrings by Raven Fine Jewelers; veil by Ariel Taub; shoes by Jimmy Choo

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It took three apps for Lauren Riihimaki and her fiancé, Jeremy Lewis, to finally reconnect. “This is the most millennial story—probably a lot of others can relate to it,” laughs the crafting expert and content creator behind LaurDIY. She’s in her element: at home in a relaxed crewneck sweatshirt. “He saw me on the dating app Raya…He saw I was single and interested, so he DM’d me on Instagram, but I missed it. I wasn’t following him because we hadn’t crossed paths in many years. Then, I saw him on Hinge.”

When Riihimaki joined dating apps—which, according to The Knot 2022 Real Weddings Study, is now the most popular way engaged couples meet—she wasn’t looking for anything serious. “Whatsoever,” she reiterates. “I had just gotten out of another relationship, and I hadn’t been single since moving to LA…But we went on our first date, and we’ve been pretty much inseparable since then.”

Years before, the LA-based pair had worked together on a project; both were in other relationships at the

time. “We had each other’s contact information, but it still took us three apps to officially cross paths again,” she continues. “I don’t even know if I want to use the words ‘meet-cute,’ but it’s very millennial.”

It also inspires hope that in the madness of supposed missed connections, what’s meant to be will very well be.

Riihimaki’s story begins in Canada. The 29-year-old started her YouTube channel in 2012, while studying in Toronto. She used the platform to share her passion for crafting, as well as the inner workings of her life, and today counts over 8 million subscribers and over 4 million followers on Instagram. Her life has become more than crafts, with fandemonium interest in her authentic reaction videos, her podcast with Lewis, and the adorable life she’s built with her dogs, Diggy and Moose (also social media influencers). But that’s just the tip of the iceberg: HBO Max tapped Riihimaki to host two seasons of Craftopia and, just this winter, she inked a fresh deal with Roku.

What makes her tick isn’t fame. It’s finding long-term comfort for herself and her future family. “Jeremy and I align on so many of the foundational elements of life that lead you to success,” she reflects as she lists them off. “What we want family-wise, career-wise, how we like to travel and how we like to navigate our day-to-day lives. We’re aligned on so much. It felt natural falling into life with him.”

Riihimaki’s engagement was nearly foiled by her nail artist. Lewis had arranged a couple’s weekend in Malibu, which he positioned as his Christmas gift. “Within the same hour Jeremy had initially texted me, my nail girl texts me saying she had to reschedule our appointment to the day before we were supposed to leave,” she recalls. That sparked the excited spiral (something Riihimaki describes as a positive or negative devolving of thoughts) that the proposal would inevitably happen that weekend. Lewis caught wind of his then-girlfriend’s accurate conjecture and casually suggested they move the outing to after the holidays. Though they went ahead with their original plan, Riihimaki was thrown off track.

Imagine a beach picnic, 100 steep steps down an incline and a trail of roses leading to the Pacific Ocean. “Even at that point, there was a large doubting portion of me that thought it might have been for someone else,” Riihimaki recalls of her December engagement. “It was in my mind that someone was getting engaged. As we got closer, I realized it was, in fact, for us. I started crying, ‘It’s not a beach picnic!’ It was the proposal of my dreams.”

"On the day of my wedding, I’d love to just be as present as possible."

Hat by Maryam

Keyhani courtesy of LOHO Bride; top by SKIMS

The push and pull between privacy and public life updates has been an eye-opening process for Riihimaki. “I didn’t go to school for accounting, so learning how to hire my first employee, how to navigate contracts and hiring a manager was very much a learn-as-you-go process,” she reflects. “It’s been a fun journey, learning how to grow and evolve. Now, there are so many creators making content, and you really have to learn how to change with the times: learn the platforms and dive into your analytics to stay on top of your content and your game.”

She’s decided to make her engagement and wedding public. “I’m happy to share so much of it,” she reflects. “A lot of my audience is going through similar life stages, which is really fun…They’ll send me vendors—planners and photographers they’ve used—which is incredible. It feels like a totally different community now that I’m transitioning into this period of my life.”

As Riihimaki has built a reputation for crafting her way through life and creating kitschy decor, why wouldn’t her wedding be the same? The bride-to-be argues the opposite: She wasn’t prepared for the deluge of decisions she had to face so soon. “I was never the type of girl to have her dream wedding planned, nor did I know exactly what I wanted,” she says. For her, it’s been a crash course in wedding planning for beginners. “What decisions do I start making? What’s the first thing to do? When I started looking into inspiration, I questioned whether I wanted neutral tones or a colorful and vibrant wedding.” She pauses, “You have to start making big decisions early.”

As she had this awakening, of sorts, the crafting royal reached a conclusion: LaurDIY will not be DIY-ing her own nuptials. She would compartmentalize work and her personal life. With a lot of her own input, Riihimaki will outsource the professional work to her vendors. Independently, she’ll create wedding crafting content along the lines of “how to embellish your wedding shoes.” (She proudly holds up her latest project for me to see: a pair of simple white pumps, adorned with tiny pearlescent beading and slinky straps.) She also plans to learn calligraphy, partly for the challenge and to see if LaurDIY flourishes can be added to her own wedding.

Even Riihimaki acknowledges her limitations. “I want to focus on making DIY content for other brides,” she says. “On the day of my wedding, I’d love to just be as present as possible—without worrying about whether the floral arrangement I put together is actually up to par with what a professional would’ve done. I am, by no means, a professional. I’d say I’m a master of none, but very creatively inclined to problem-solve anything in the DIY realm.”

You could argue that Riihimaki’s vision for her wedding is better developed than most. Four months into her engagement, she at least has a sense of the setting and creative direction. “We’d like the wedding to be somewhere like Hummingbird Nest Ranch—it’s so beautiful. To have the built-in backdrop of Southern California makes me feel so lucky,” she says. “There’s

HOW TO EMBELLISH YOUR WEDDING SHOES, BY LAURDIY

1 Purchase a pair of strappy heels

2 Use acetone to prep the area where glue will go and to gently remove varnish

3 Carefully line the desired area with E6000 glue

4 Add flatback pearls one by one

5 Wait 24 to 72 hours for E6000 glue to fully set

6 Remove the ankle strap

7 Thread new ankle ribbon or strap through the heel cap

8 Loop, then wrap, tie or fasten around your ankle

Lauren’s tip: Elastic ribbon will make these more comfortable!

Coat by Varca courtesy of LOHO Bride; earrings by Candy Ice Jewelry

LOVE & LAUR

Days after her cover shoot, Riihimaki had another wedding occasion to look forward to: her engagement party. “This is my first foray into planning any kind of formal

gathering, to be honest. Even with birthdays, it’s been like, ‘Hey, we’re playing beer pong in our backyard by our pool—come!’” she laughs. “This is a totally different thing. It’s been really exciting picking out the

so much beauty in nature, plus it’s easy to have that backdrop of palm trees against string lights.” There will be fewer than 100 guests. “We both have small families,” she says. “That’s the advice everyone has given me: 100 is the perfect number in terms of being able to enjoy yourself and say hello to every guest.”

The dogs, “100 percent,” will have a role in the wedding. “I’ve already ordered four different colors of bow ties for Moose that hopefully will match the outfits for my cover shoot,” she says. “I’ve also seen these new companies pop up, like wedding dog concierge services…Honestly, we have so many friends and family members who would love to be the Moose and Diggy dogsitters of the wedding, but we want our guests to be as present as possible. We also want our dogs to be there. What’s the happy medium?”

Running a business has taught Riihimaki to be certain about her nos. “I did a video reacting to an old wedding Pinterest board and it was pretty cringey. It was relevant in the times of doughnut walls and Mason jars. It was very timely for what was trending at that time.” She will also skip the bridal shower and garter toss. (“Thinking about having to do that in front of my soon-to-be mother-in-law makes me want to put my head through a wall,” she deadpans.) “But I saw the viral video of a bride who tossed the cat plushie and the recipient had to adopt an animal. That obviously has more commitment to it, but there’s something fun we can incorporate that embraces customs and tradition, that has a more personal spin on it.”

drink stirrers, finding a photo booth, working through florals and choosing a venue. It really does feel like a mini version of what the wedding will be.”

The Vendors

Venue: Eveleigh, Los Angeles Photographer: Sydney Jackson

Planner: Harlow Planning

Dress: Kim Kassas, Kinsley James, Los Angeles

She has a big announcement toward the end of our conversation. “I’m committing to color, 100 percent,” Riihimaki says. “I’m not someone who wears a ton of color, but I think about what my office looks like and there’s color everywhere. It’s spilling with color…Pouring over this decision of color or no color, color or neutral colors, or neutral tones [put it all into perspective]. My friends were like, ‘Lauren, look around. Look at your house. Look at your office and immediate spaces: There’s so much color and so much life breathed into every room through bright vibrant colors.’” Even if she hasn’t processed the connection, her proposed wedding palette of pinks, oranges, blues and purples is an extension of the sunset hues from Lewis’ proposal.

Creativity will be a common theme in Riihimaki’s wedding content, but it’s the power of being present that will shine on the day she exchanges vows. “I’m really excited about making DIY wedding and engagement content over the next year. I would love to be a source of inspiration,” she reflects. “Just having been a wedding guest and seeing my friends go through the wedding planning process, I’ve seen how emotionally and physically draining it can be. I am in a place where I’m able to have the luxury of having a planner who can help me through a lot of it. I plan on being really involved in the planning process and being a part of it. Very hands-on.”

In true LaurDIY fashion, she adds, “But I would love to be able to have little DIY moments.”

"I've seen how emotionally and physically draining the process can be. I am in a place where I'm able to have the luxury of having a planner who can help me through a lot of it."

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There’s creative and then there’s absolutely and utterly visionary—and the Southern California beach wedding of Mychaela Miller (32 and a nurse practitioner) and Giancarlo Silva (35 and a media executive) was undeniably the latter. The couple wanted “something very memorable, out of the box, interactive and fun,” and that’s exactly what they got with their colorful retro-meets-mod wedding.

Although they now live in New York City, the couple returned to the sandy beaches of SoCal for their big day. “I grew up in Emerald Bay and have many memories from the times I spent at the beach and park,” shares Mychaela. She grew up playing volleyball with Giancarlo’s sister, but didn’t get close to Giancarlo until they were in college at the University of Southern California. “Our first date was at a Mexican restaurant in Los Angeles,” recalls Giancarlo. “What was proposed as a group dinner quickly turned into a date with just the two of us. It became clear there was more spice going on than just the salsa.” Mychaela adds: “Throughout the time Giancarlo and I dated, we spent a lot of summer days at the beach, so it has special meaning for both of us. Also, my grandparents met on the same beach in the 1950s, so Emerald Bay is truly a special place for my extended family.”

The beach wedding (which followed two pandemic postponements) was totally fun

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and funky in the very best way, and guests knew what they were in for beforehand, thanks to View-Master invitations. The custom invites included pictures from the couple’s relationship along with brightly colored circular stationery outlining the details of the nuptials.

When the big day arrived, the creative celebration exceeded guests’ expectations. Mychaela and Giancarlo exchanged vows at Our Lady Queen of Angels Catholic Church in Newport Beach, California, before heading to Emerald Bay in Laguna Beach for cocktails, dinner and dancing. After the ceremony, Mychaela says, “the wedding party made a grand entrance at the beach in a vintage black-and-white school bus with ‘Mychaela and Giancarlo Just Got

Married’ printed on the side. Giancarlo and I entered the park on my family’s surfsticker-covered vintage golf cart, complete with brightly painted tin cans trailing from the bumper.”

There were unique details everywhere you looked. For example, a retro colorchanging mood-ring table assignment installation replaced traditional escort cards, seating people based on the color of their ring. Upon arrival at the reception, guests found a wall reading “In the Mood,” where the gloved hands of entertainers extended through holes in the wall and dispensed mood rings. Attendees sat at tables that matched the color or “mood” of the ring they received.

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tom vinyl letters on the back of every midcentury modern chair. They also discovered goldfish as part of the table decor, as a nod to Mychaela’s parents’ wedding, which also included goldfish throughout the decor. “Along the center of the three long tables were small bowls containing live goldfish, plus custom porcelain vases decorated with black geometric patterns containing small arrangements,” says Michaela. Additionally, the couple commissioned custom bars that contained goldfish-filled fish tanks and were decked out with the phrases “glass half full” and “glass half empty.” At the end of the wedding, loved ones and vendors took all of the goldfish home. That wasn’t the only gift. “For wedding favors, we had porcelain vases made by a family friend, who is a master potter. As our guests left, they took a vase of their choosing. It has been fun to visit family and friends since then and see the vases in their homes,” notes Mychaela.

The activities and the unique guest experience didn’t stop there. The party also had a vintage foosball table and an art-inspired guest-book prompt. “We have a family tradition of doing ‘squiggles’ at holiday gatherings,” Mychaela explains. “A squiggle is a simple line design that is copied and distributed to the guests, who then incorporate that design into a drawing of their own. This served as our guest book, as everyone created a wedding-themed squiggle.”

The surprise and delight continued with a strolling magician, a custom sandcastle and even an airplane that flew over the event with a congratulatory sign. But there was one last moment of fun the couple didn’t see coming. “My parents surprised everyone (even me and Giancarlo!) with USC’s Trojan Marching Band, who played fight songs,” says Mychaela.

The food was just as notable as the interactive elements. During cocktail hour, guests enjoyed mini popsicles, crab sliders and coconut grilled cheese sandwiches. Later in the evening, in addition to two bars, the couple hired a draft beer truck with IPAs, Mexican lagers and Guinness on tap. Even the soup course got a creative treatment. Mychaela and Giancarlo served tomato soup out of mini cans with a custom label of their last name that resembled the

Funky Frosting

Fitting the eclectic-mod vibe of the day, the icing on the wedding cakes resembled ’70s shag carpets.

Ceremony Site: Our Lady Queen of Angels Catholic Church, Newport Beach, CA

Reception Site: Emerald Bay Beach & Park, Laguna Beach, CA

Photography: Stetten Wilson

Videography: Kavin Lindgren

Event Planning + Design: Amorology

Floral Design: Native Poppy

Officiant: Father Steve Sallot

Gown: Viktor&Rolf

Suit:

Suitsupply; shirt: Ralph Lauren

Shoes:

Mychaela: Alexandre Birman; Giancarlo: Gucci

Accessories:

Mychaela: heirloom; Giancarlo: Ralph Lauren; heirloom

Engagement + Wedding Rings: Anne Marie Pintore

Hair + Makeup: KC Witkamp

Wedding Party Attire: BHLDN

Stationery: Branch + Cotton

Rentals: Backup Backdrops; Casa de Perrin; Folklore; Form Deco; Hostess Haven

Catering: 24 Carrots; Pacific Organic Pops; Summer’s Table; Tap Truck

Cake: Hey There, Cupcake!

Desserts: Chunk-n-Chip

Music: Dart Collective; Soulville California; Trojan Marching Band

Entertainment:

Magician: Joe Skilton; sand sculptor: Archisand; airplane sign: Fly Sky Ads

Favors: Double M Pottery

Transportation: Jump on the School Bus

Campbell’s logo. New York steak (a must for the city dwellers) and lobster came next on the menu. For dessert, the couple took a trip down memory lane. “I surprised Giancarlo by giving the baker the special German chocolate cake recipe that his mom made for his birthday every year,” says Mychaela. “We had several round cakes of various sizes, some with rainbow sprinkles, like Giancarlo’s birthday cakes, andsomewithcoloredshagfrosting.”Tacos and ice cream sandwiches rounded out the offerings as late-night treats.

Beyond the day’s festive details and activities, Mychaela and Giancarlo look back most fondly on a quiet moment they shared together. “One of our favorite moments was between the cocktail hour and the reception,” says Mychaela. “We had a few minutes to ourselves for the first time as husband and wife, and it was special to reflect and take in the sunset before we

continued the celebration. If you’re engaged right now, trust your gut and try not to overthink each decision. People likely won’t remember every little detail, but they will remember the love you shared throughout the day.”

Artistic Flair

Rather than signing their names in a guest book, attendees drew sketches as keepsakes for the couple.

Angelica Laws & Melisa Matthews

SWEET SURPRISE

Imagine this: Your good friends get engaged and invite you to celebrate at a local bar. Except, upon arrival, you learn that you won’t be raising a glass to an upcoming wedding—it’s happening today. To celebrate their love, Angelica Laws (32 and a wedding planner) and Melisa Matthews (34 and a photography teacher) did just that: They planned a surprise reception under the guise of an engagement party. Since Angelica is an event planner herself (you can read more about her work on page 73), she’s seen just about every wedding idea in the book. She also didn’t want to get bogged down with planning, which would make her nuptials feel like work. Angelica and Melisa decided to flip the script and creatively turned their engagement party into a wedding reception, abbreviating their planning journey while surprising loved ones along the way. “The most exciting piece of our wedding was that it was all a surprise,” says Angelica. They invited their closest family and friends to their Rockville, Maryland, backyard that morning for a private ceremony, followed by an ‘engagement party’ that afternoon with additional guests. “It was the only way that I could fully relax, get myself out of planner mode and be present,” Angelica adds. “By shaking up the traditions of a classic wedding, we put our own twist on the day to make it beyond perfect for us.”

Story by Hannah Nowack Photography by La Vie En Rose

Tender Tears

Even though the couple spent most of the morning together getting ready, Angelica (right) kept her dress a secret so she could have a special reveal to Melisa.

Beautiful Blooms

The floral arrangements for the day included clematis, cosmos, delphiniums, lisianthus, tulips, ranunculus and roses.

It was fitting that the backyard of the couple’s first home served as their ceremony venue, because it played a key role in their love story. Melisa recalls the very moment, in that house, when she knew that she and Angelica would be together forever. “While we were sitting on the floor of our empty new house drinking champagne, I knew Angelica would not only share a home with me; we would share an eternity,” says Melisa.

Melisa’s moment of clarity culminated the slow-and-steady growth of their relationship. After initially matching on a dating app (Melisa was Angelica’s first swipe), it took a month before Angelica was ready to say yes to a first date.

Theydatedlong-distance—withAngelica in Silver Spring, Maryland, and Melisa in Charlottesville, Virginia—for the first year of their relationship. “Since we didn’t live in the same city, the buildup for our first date was a slow burn,” recalls Angelica. “After chatting online for a week, we felt comfortable exchanging numbers. From

there, we essentially became pen pals. We were constantly keeping up with one another via phone and text while living our separate lives. It was clear that there was an attraction, but we had both been burned before, so took it slow.”

Finally, Angelica couldn’t resist a first date. She took a risk and drove two-anda-half hours to Melisa’s place. “She made us, quite arguably, the worst stir-fry dinner at her apartment and our now-favorite black walnut old-fashioneds,” Angelica says. “She had a full night out planned for us, starting with a whiskey tasting her friend was hosting and ending the night at a gay bar in downtown Charlottesville. We laughed a lot, grew much more comfortable around one another and danced the night away. The hopeless romantic in me was absolutely smitten.”

Four years later, the couple purchased their first home and decided to use it as their wedding ceremony venue. They invited those dearest to them to “soak in our love story in a place that means

so much to us. We wanted to share our full lives with them as we were about to commit to sharing our lives with each other,” says Angelica.

When thinking about what mattered most to them for their wedding, Angelica and Melisa were keen on keeping the day authentically theirs. “That meant foregoing a lot of the traditional wedding elements and doing what felt right to us,” says Angelica. “We didn’t hide from each other before our ceremony and instead spent time together with our family and friends. We also walked ourselves down the aisle individually, as a stance of us entering into this new phase of our lives completely free.”

The couple infused sentimental details throughout the day. “Melisa is from Suriname, a country in South America, and her first language was Dutch,” Angelica says. “She included some Dutch in her vows and our officiant opened with a few lines in Dutch as well. It was a beautiful way to subtly tie in her past and the language most of her family speaks.” They also incorporated tulips and Dutch blue design elements in honor of Melisa’s family from Holland.

Angelica’s mother died in 2019, and the couple prioritized including her in the day.

Ceremony Site: A private residence, Rockville, MD

Reception Sites: Lulu’s Winegarden; American Ice Co.; The LINE DC, Washington, DC

Photography: La Vie En Rose

Videography: Brian Schornberg

Event Planning + Design: Angelica & Co. Weddings

Floral Design: Springvale Floral

Officiant: Dr. Katie Kane (friend)

Gown: BHLDN

Suit: Anne Taylor

Shoes:

Angelica: Magosisters; Melisa: Urban

Outfitters

Accessories:

Angelica: Ana Ware

Engagement + Wedding Rings:

Angelica: Polamai; Melisa: ARTËMER

Hair + Makeup: Caitlyn Meyer Hair & Makeup

Stationery: Design: Angelica & Co. Weddings; envelopes: Cards & Pockets;

vellum: Ivy and Betty Designs; printing: Moo

Rentals:

BBJ La Tavola; Select Event Group

Catering: Lulu’s Winegarden

Dessert: The Cheesecake Factory

Photo Booth: Maryland’s DJ

Favors: Crumbl Cookies

Transportation: RMA Worldwide

They designated a special chair for her in the front row and covered it with flowers and a favorite photo. “When Melisa and I walked down the aisle, we each carried a loose white flower that we placed on her chair,” Angelica says. “We asked our guests to take a moment of silence with us before we began.” She also brought back a childhood tradition. “Every holiday, my mom would take me and my sister to get our nails done. She called them ‘fancy nails’ because she had the artist paint flowers on a few fingers. For our wedding day, I treated myself to ‘fancy nails,’ knowing it would make my mama proud.”

Before the couple’s “engagement party” with their wider friend group, Angelica and Melisa exchanged personal vows in front of their closest family members (and a few of the couple’s chickens as VIPs).

In her vows, Melisa told Angelica that she is “not the woman of my dreams— you’re the woman I couldn’t even imagine existed.” Angelica, who recalls “crying every time I tried putting pen to paper” when crafting her vows, shared that “if I only had you for the rest of my life, I’d consider it a life worthy of living. There’s no ounce of me that wants a life without you.” They both ended their vows the same way, without having discussed it previously: “Angelica/ Melisa, I choose you.”

After officially tying the knot, the couple made their way to Lulu’s Winegarden, a bar in Washington, DC, to surprise their friends. “Melisa shocked the jaws right down from everyonewhenwethankedthemforsharing our wedding day with us,” Angelica says. Then they walked to another favorite bar, American Ice Co., to have a first shot—a pickleback—in lieu of a first dance. “It’s a favorite with our friends and signals the start of ‘one hell of a good time’ for us,” explains Angelica. At the end of the night, the smaller ceremony group had a familystyle dinner at The LINE DC, a nearby hotel. “We laughed, enjoyed each other, listened to some impromptu speeches and soaked in our first meal together as a married couple,” Angelica says.

Cool Collar

Instead of a bouquet or boutonniere, Melisa decked out the lapel of her wedding suit with fresh flowers.

Mudra Patel & Paul Cressman

MAUVE MAGIC

Three months after meeting Mudra Patel (34 and a vice president of product management), Paul Cressman (35 and an attorney) knew he wanted to marry her. “She was such an amazing person, with such a kind heart, and everything just felt so easy with her,” recalls Paul. Had fates not aligned, they might have never met. In 2014, Paul was working as an attorney and living in Philadelphia. Over a long holiday weekend, he visited a friend in New York City and planned to depart on Sunday. Thankfully, the buddy convinced him to stay a little longer, and that night they met up with his girlfriend, who brought along her bestie. And, as any rom-com lover could predict, that best friend was Mudra.

“We were soon connecting over our love of food and wondering where we could get sushi and a burger at the same restaurant,” recalls the couple. After finding one such place with an eclectic-yet-inviting menu, the couple got lost in conversation over their shared interest in everything from science and technology to business and politics. “It was refreshing to have such an organic and easy conversation with another person.”

“Later, we realized we had been talking the whole night,” Mudra says. “At 5:30 in the morning, Paul asked whether I had ever seen the sunrise over New York City. We

Gilded Greeting The couple introduced their cream, forest-green and mauve color palette to guests through a foilprinted invite suite.

Story by Hannah Nowack

Photography by Emily Loeppke

Hand-Selected Style

walked down to a park on the Hoboken, New Jersey, waterfront and watched the sunrise. It was an amazing way to end the perfect night.”

Roughly four years later, the couple decided it was time to take the next step in theirrelationship.Theytalkedaboutgetting engaged in late 2018, but Paul surprised Mudra by proposing several months early. “The decision to spend your life with your best friend and partner is an easy one, but the actual moment Paul asked me was a special surprise,” says Mudra.

“It was a Friday night after a long work week, and we changed into sweatpants and got ready for dinner,” she recalls. “Paul made dinner and we spent the evening chattingaboutworkandhowmuchweloved each other. I said, ‘You know, it doesn’t matter how, when or if you ask me. It’s moments like these that matter the most.’ Just then,

Paul asked me to grab our sangria and go sit on the patio. I took my big blanket outside whilePaulchangedhisclothesandfollowed me. I made fun of him for putting on a nice shirt, but then he got down on one knee and began to tell me again why he loved me so much. I finally realized what was happening, started laughing and crying, and said an emphatic ‘yes’ (after saying ‘no’ about 10 times in disbelief).”

About a year before their engagement, the couple took a trip to Santa Barbara, California, and fell in love with the town, so it was a simple choice for their destination wedding. Unfortunately, the pandemic

forced them to postpone their wedding and change their original venue. Still, after a three-year planning process, they finally said “I do” in Santa Barbara.

The couple “aimed for an aesthetic that felt elevated, romantic and timeless. Mudra’s style is pretty clean, neutral, classic, and mine is a bit brighter and more vibrant,” says Paul. “Our design felt like a good mix of both of us.”

The wedding weekend included multiple events, each with a distinct feel and color palette. To start, the couple celebrated the mehndi (henna) night with a coastal vibe and a white-and-yellow palette. “Because

Much of the day’s fashion was custom-sourced from India—from Mudra’s gold jewelry to the attire worn by all eight wedding party members.

Abbreviated “I dos”

Mudra and Paul opted for a shortened Hindu ceremony. They skipped elements that didn’t feel authentic to them and “kept the parts that were rooted in symbols of love, commitment and unity.”

Ceremony + Reception Site: Santa Barbara Historical Museum, Santa Barbara, CA

Photography: Emily Loeppke

Videography: I Heart Creative

Event Planning + Design: Array Creative Design

Floral Design: Coco Rose Design

Officiant: Sudhir Jha

Mudra’s Attire: Gaurav Gupta; Oscar de la Renta

Paul’s Attire: Jos. A. Bank

Shoes:

Mudra: Jimmy Choo; Paul: Shyamal & Bhumika

Engagement + Wedding Rings: Ultimate Diamond

Hair & Makeup: TEAM Hair & Makeup

Stationery:

Invitations: Mascotte Designs; Day-of paper: Sophia Loves Letters

Rentals: BBJ La Tavola; Bella Vista Designs; Party Pleasers; Table Method; Theoni

Catering: Nimita’s Cuisine

DJ: Sodjla

this event was held on a rooftop, with views of the mountains and the beach, we wanted the decor to be minimal and let the landscape shine,” says Mudra. To match the waterfront feel, they each donned deep blue outfits custom-made in India. For the main event, the aesthetic centered on soft shades of pink and neutrals, with lots of lush greenery. And to cap off the weekend, the couple hosted a brunch with a white color palette.

On the day of the ceremony and reception, Mudra and Paul had a first look that ended up being Paul’s favorite moment from the entire wedding. “Until that point, I had heard so much about Mudra’s dress and was waiting to see her all day. When the first look finally came, I had an overwhelming sense of anxiety and excitement. I remember hearing the footsteps behind me and finally being able to turn around to see her. At that moment, she took my breath away. I knew I was there with my best friend, and we were doing it together. This is the moment that sticks in my head and always makes me smile.”

To kick off the ceremony, Paul (decked out in custom attire from Mumbai, India) entered with a traditional baraat—a South Asian groom’s wedding arrival—after which Mudra’s brother escorted her to the mandap (Hindu altar). The couple chose to abbreviatetheirHinduceremonytoabout45 minutes.“Thepandit(Hindupriest)jokingly reminded us of that after he completed the ceremony. We kept the parts that were rooted in symbols of love, commitment and unity,” says Mudra. Because vows aren’t traditionally recited during a Hindu ceremony, the couple opted to exchange handwritten versions after the wedding.

Mudra’s favorite moment was during the reception. “Right before Paul and I gave speeches, I held the mic and looked at everyone I loved and then to Paul. I felt immense gratitude and fullness. It was the first time I got teary and was a beautiful reminder of why people have weddings. Besides celebrating your love, it’s the one time in your life when everyone you love will be in one room looking at you with love.”

Mythical Honeymoon Spots

9 DESTINATIONS TO VISIT BEFORE THEY SOMEDAY DISAPPEAR

By Jen Murphy Illustration by Tiana Crispino

Some of the world’s most beautiful places are fading away and could soon be only paradisiacal memories. Climate change, rising sea levels, erosion, deforestation and other environmental factors are threatening natural wonders like the biodiverse Amazon rainforest and the ice shelves of Antarctica. These are nine destinations you should bump to the top of your travel list before they disappear. To help protect them for future generations, consider offsetting the carbon emissions of your flight through the airline or donating to an environmental organization such as the Rainforest Alliance (Rainforest-Alliance.org) or the Great Barrier Reef Foundation (BarrierReef.org).

Venice, Italy

Why go now: This watery maze of a city is built atop more than 100 islands connected by nearly 400 bridges. As sea levels rise and the foundations of Venice’s centuries-old buildings continue to slowly sink, experts fear the city could be completely submerged by 2100. When to go: Avoid the peak summer crowds (and humidity) and visit between April and June or September and October. How to visit: Arrive by water taxi to the private jetty of The Gritti Palace, a Luxury Collection Hotel. This 15thcentury former palace, once owned by the Doge of Venice, has an unrivaled location overlooking the Grand Canal, 82 rooms decked out in Murano glass and antiques, and an in-house cooking school. From $815; Marriott.com

Essential experiences: Explore the city’s iconic canals on a gondola ride (from $87 for 30 minutes), then pop into the famed Bar Longhi to sip a cocktail from the martini trolley. Bar manager Cristiano Luciani’s signature libation is the wild fennel ’tini. In the evening, catch a show at the renowned opera house Teatro La Fenice TeatrolaFenice.it

The Great Barrier Reef, Australia

Why go now: In the last three decades, the world’s biggest coral reef ecosystem has lost half of its coral cover, and the warming sea continues to bleach coral. When to go: The best visibility for snorkeling and diving is from June to October.

How to visit: Book one of the 14 cottages at Orpheus Island Lodge, a luxe retreat with a palm-fringed white-sand beach and serious eco cred. Its main dive site is home to 1,100 of the 1,500 fish species on the reef. From $4,550 for two nights, all-inclusive; Orpheus.com.au

Essential experiences: Explore and learn about the delicate ecosystem with guided low-tide walks and reef snorkels.

The Galápagos, Ecuador

Why go now: Overfishing threatens to disrupt this fragile marine ecosystem, and the islands’ native flora and fauna are increasingly vulnerable to invasive species.

When to go: The weather is warm and water visibility is crystal clear for snorkeling and diving from December through May.

How to visit: Mass tourism is a concern in the Galápagos. Choose a responsible base like Pikaia Lodge on Santa Cruz Island. Located on the edge of an extinct volcano in the heart of a private giant tortoise reserve, this 29-room, carbon-offsetting Relais & Chateaux property embraces a land-based tourism program that ensures money goes back to local communities. The lodge’s reforestation program offsets carbon dioxide emissions. From $9,200 for three nights, all-inclusive; PikaiaLodge.com

Essential experience: Island-hop aboard Pikaia’s 145-foot yacht. Full-day, naturalist-led excursions are included in your stay. Take in the secluded beach of Tortuga Bay, pristine snorkeling spots and one-of-a-kind wildlife, including the Galápagos blue-footed booby and tiny Galápagos penguin.

Antarctica

Why go now: Nearly 65 percent of Antarctica’s native species, particularly the emperor penguin, could disappear before the end of the century as a result of melting sea ice.

When to go: The short expedition season is November through March, when the sun shines nearly 24 hours. Baby penguin chicks start to hatch in December.

How to visit: Silversea’s Antarctica Bridge tour skips the treacherous two-day sailing across the Drake Passage (and its 40-foot waves) and instead arrives at the White Continent via a scenic two-hour flight. The 200-passenger Silver Endeavor expedition ship has a 1:1 guest-to-staff ratio, butler service for every suite and a fabulous French restaurant. From $43,800 for six nights, all-inclusive; Silversea.com

Essential experience: Book an excursion on a Zodiac boat for an up-close look at massive glowing blue icebergs, Gentoo penguin colonies, and chance encounters with breaching humpbacks and orcas.

The Amazon, Peru

Why go now: Close to 20 percent of the Amazon forest—home to over 3 million species—has been lost in the last 50 years as the result of deforestation, man-made fires and other climate-related threats. When to go: June to November is the dry season. December through May brings sporadic rains but prime wildlife spotting. How to visit: Aqua Expeditions Aria Amazon bills itself as a floating boutique hotel that cruises the main stem of the Amazon River. The boat’s 16 suites have floor-to-ceiling windows, so you can spot pink dolphins from bed. Star chef Pedro Miguel Schiaffino showcases Amazonian ingredients in the restaurant. $6,144 for three nights; AquaExpeditions.com Essential experience: Canoe through wildlife-rich Pacaya-Samiria National Reserve and fish for red-bellied piranhas.

The Alps, Switzerland

Why go now: Unless greenhouse emissions are curbed, experts predict the Alps could lose 70 percent of their glacier ice cover by 2100. Book your ski trip now. When to go: The winter season runs from December to early April. Skip the crowds around the holidays.

How to visit: Host of two Winter Olympics, the annual Snow Polo World Cup and thrilling toboggan races, St. Moritz is a snow-sports mecca with a storybook alpine setting and perpetual sunshine. You’ll feel like a celebrity (and probably spot a few too) at Badrutt’s Palace, a glamorous landmark hotel with 10 restaurants, including après hot spot Paradiso, which sits at an elevation of 6,000 feet. From $800 in winter; BadruttsPalace.com

Essential experiences: Get an adrenaline rush as a passenger on St. Moritz’s famed Olympia bobsleigh run ($290). Oenophiles shouldn’t miss a meal in Krug Stübli, the hotel’s rustic 30,000-bottle wine cellar.

The Maldives

Why go now: Scientists predict that 80 percent of this Indian Ocean archipelago of nearly 1,200 islands won’t exist by 2050, due to climate change and rising sea levels.

When to go: Visit between November and April to avoid monsoon season.

How to visit: Located in the South Male Atoll, the newly renovated, adults-only Anantara Veli Maldives Resort offers a choice of beach pool villas, dreamy overwater bungalows, and a wellness villa with daily yoga and personal training sessions. A hydroponic farm supplies ingredients for its half-dozen eateries, including über-romantic Baan Huraa, a Thai restaurant perched on stilts above the lagoon. From $750; Anantara.com Essential experience: Snorkel with nurse sharks, eagle rays and mantas while ogling colorful coral at nearby Vaavu Atoll.

THE RISE OF ADVISORS

By Esther Lee

Chalk it up to the post-pandemic return of travel. “Revenge travel” has created a need for professional assistance with honeymoon planning. Last year alone, 32% of all couples used a travel agent to plan their honeymoons, according to The Knot Honeymoon Study 2022. What’s more, nearly half of all couples said expert advice was most helpful with planning the honeymoon. After all, you are the VIPs here—let the professionals take care of you.

Why consider a honeymoon advisor?

• Preferred travel and room rates

• Special perks and amenities

• Convenience and ease

• Best-in-class expertise for bespoke experiences (43% of couples said a travel agent influenced their choice of destination)

The Dead Sea, Jordan

Why go now: The salty lake is shrinking by more than 3 feet a year as humans harvest minerals and extract water for drinking and irrigation. When to go: The heat is most tolerable from March to May and September to November.

How to visit: Set on the north side of the mineral-loaded waters, the Kempinski Hotel Ishtar Dead Sea boasts nine swimming pools, a private beach and one of the largest spas in the Middle East. Splurge on the honeymoon suite, which has a private, lake-facing terrace with a Jacuzzi. From $200. Honeymoon suite from $675; Kempinski.com

Essential experiences: Of course, you must float in the Dead Sea. But you should also tack on a visit to the UNESCO-listed archeological wonder Petra. Experience Jordan offers a two-day off-the-beaten-path tour that can be booked privately or with a group and covers 7 to 10 miles of trekking each day to lesser-known sites. From $750; ExperienceJordan.com

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New Orleans, Louisiana

Why go now: Storms, erosion and sea level rise will continue to put The Big Easy’s people and historic spaces in peril. When to go: The weather is best in spring and fall. Mardi Gras is typically celebrated in February.

How to visit: Worthy of a Wes Anderson film, 67-room Maison de la Luz feels more like a home than a hotel. There’s a daily wine-and-cheese hour, an intimate cocktail bar and a decadent breakfast (think griddle cakes with passion-fruit curd). The hotel doesn’t serve dinner, but the concierge can make you a reservation at one of NOLA’s top restaurants. From $378; MaisondelaLuz.com

Essential experiences: Catch the last set at Snug Harbor, a cozy jazz bistro just outside the French Quarter, and share the famed hot dog from Dat Dog after the show. If your visit coincides with crawfish season (March to June), grab a few pounds of the boiled crustaceans from Zimmer’s and peel ‘n’ eat them along Lake Pontchartrain.

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