Five Towns Jewish Home 6.15.23

Dear Readers,

Has the year flown by? Ask many parents that question, and you’ll undoubtedly get an answer in the affirmative. But ask the children who have been getting up early each day, putting on uniforms, standing on bus stops, sitting through classes, creating projects, taking tests, and doing homework – and they’ll tell you that it’s been a long ten months.

When you’re young, the school year takes its time. You slowly count the days and the months as you tick them off your mental calendar until summer. And then, the last day of school rolls by. Is it here? Can it really be? Has all my hard work paid off? Am I a graduate of this significant period of my life?

My memories of the last day of school are a bit messy. I remember the crunch of crumbs of chips and pretzels on the classroom floor, as every teacher fills the day with an end-of-the-year party. The class garbage can overflowed with mounds of books and papers. My backpack was filled to the brim and I’d be carrying home extra books in my hands, reminders of all the work that I put in throughout the year.

Heading off the bus in the afternoon on the last day was a mix of emotions. On the one hand, it was liberating not to have to head back to school for the next few months. But it was also a bit disconcerting.

You mean I don’t have to get up early? I can wear whatever I want? I don’t have to sit in a classroom all day? Is there something I have to do? And there was also the feeling of excitement, knowing the summer is starting.

This year, the calendar doesn’t lend itself to too much time between school and camp. For some kids, it’s just a day or so and then they’re off to camp for the summer season. And so, these days have become a blur of end-of-school responsibilities combined with checking off those myriad items needed for camp. Amazon has been very gracious about fulfilling a lot of those requirements, but still, there’s always many more errands to run before each child is packed and headed out the door.

I find that packing and shopping is so exciting for kids going to camp. It’s a new adventure that they’re about to embark on, a new vista they’re about the enjoy. But as parents, we sometimes have concerns about our children being away for an extended period of time. Take a few moments to read through Rabbi Dr. Dovid Fox’s conversation tips in this week’s issue. His suggestions can be very helpful to parents who want to make sure their children get the most out of their summer. Wishing you a wonderful week, Shoshana

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Dear Editor,

As the warm summer months approach, I find myself deeply worried and concerned about the growing use of mosquito pesticides within our communities. While the intention behind their use is undoubtedly to protect us from the annoyance of a few mosquitoes, we must not overlook the proven detrimental and long-term effects of these substances on our health and the well-being of our children. We must approach the use of these chemicals with caution, as their potential repercussions are not limited to the intended target as the members of our community who willingly apply the chemicals and those who are forced to breathe it’s vapors second-hand are harmed all the same.

Research has shed light on the detrimental impact of pesticides on people, our environment and living organisms. Numerous studies have linked exposure to these chemicals with adverse health effects, such as respiratory issues, neurological disorders, endocrine disruption, and even certain types of cancer. Children, whose bodies are still developing, may be particularly vulnerable to the potential harms these substances can inflict.

Perhaps we ought to know what’s in these chemicals and reconsider whether our collective health is not as having to be bothered with smacking off a few mosquitoes every now and then. The most popular insecticide companies of the Five Towns treat the grass with a formula containing Bifenthrin. According to the EPA, Bifenthrin is known to be environmentally hazardous. If the spray mist is inhaled, Bifenthrin causes cancers and organ damage, especially to the organs of

the reproductive, endocrine, and central nervous system. PBO-8 Synergist is another main ingredient in this treatment. Piperonyl Butoxide (PBO), a highly toxic carcinogen that causes a range of shortand long-term effects, including cancer and adverse impacts on liver function. PBO has been shown to adversely harm a variety of reproductive functions.

The cumulative effect of various environmental pollutants is becoming increasingly apparent, and it is doubly unfair to those of us who are aware of the danger posed by these products yet have no choice but to suffer at the hands of their neighbors. We live in an era where innovative, less harmful alternatives to traditional pesticide use are available.

I implore our communities to engage in a thoughtful and comprehensive discussion on the long-term consequences of mosquito pesticide usage. I sincerely hope that we can reevaluate our approach to mosquito control, prioritizing the longterm well-being of our community members, especially our children. Let us not unwittingly facilitate our own demise in a world already crawling with toxins.

I sincerely thank you for your consideration.

Truly yours,

A Five Towns Resident Yearning to Breathe Free

Dear Editor,

Your in-depth articles on Israel policy and rhetoric are to be commended. This week’s article on Israel-Gaza policy is imperative reading for all those who follow Israeli news.

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I look forward to more in-depth articles on Israeli policy in the future in your paper.

Sincerely,

Yehuda Guttman Cedarhurst, NY

Dear Editor,

Real leaders practice what they preach. NYC Mayor Eric Adams wants to pay residents to shelter migrants in their own homes. How many will he put up in Gracie Mansion or his Brooklyn apartment? Will other elected officials such as Governor Hochul, Senators Schumer and Gillibrand, City Comptroller Ladner, Public Advocate Williams, City Council President Adams, along with other NYC Congress members, State Senators, Assembly members, Boro Presidents, District Attorneys and Council members who support the Big Apple as a Sanctuary City open their homes to asylum seekers as well without taxpayers’ compensation? New Yorkers who have second summer residency in the Hamptons or the Catskills can open their homes as well. Who will be legally liable should an asylum seeker commit a crime while living in your home?

Talk is cheap, but actions speak louder!

Sincerely,

Larry Penner Great Neck, NY

Dear Editor,

According to the Oxford Language dictionary, satire is “the use of humor, irony, exaggeration, or ridicule to expose and criticize people’s stupidity or vices, particularly in the context of contemporary politics and other topical issues.” Satire would include intentional and unintentional distortions of reality to distort the truth; usually, satire is not a portrayal of reality.

Last week, I was informed that a recent letter that I wrote about the importance of being involved in local politics was satirical. Of course, the author of the letter was referring to my comments in the letter about an 80-year-old confused man that many nowadays refer to as “Mr. President.” My letter, which once again was to point out the distractions associated with national politics felt to the average American, was responded to by David S. Pecoraro. His response included a list of the “horrific” things that Donald Trump did for four years, while in addition, he included a list of the outstanding “accomplishments” of President Joseph

Robinette Biden Jr.

According to Mr. Pecoraro, “Americans feared a nuclear war provoked by a tweet from Trump.” The most fascinating thing about that claim is the fact that there was never a nuclear war under Trump. In fact, the threat of nuclear war according to the intelligence committee under the “saver of the soul of our nation” Joe Biden has increased. Mr. Pecoraro also stated in his response that President Trump said that “there were good people on both sides when one side was a group of actual Nazis.” However, when President Trump said those exact words in response to the 2017 events in Charlottesville, he explicitly wasn’t referring to the “neo-Nazis” as he stated to a reporter, “Excuse me, they didn’t put themselves down as neo-Nazis, and you had SOME very bad people in that group. But you ALSO had people that were very fine people on both sides.” Joe Biden, on the other hand, had an anti-Semite like Al Sharpton on his re-election video announcement to announce his apparent efforts to continue to “restore the soul of our nation.”

On the topic of Joe Biden, Mr. Pecoraro said that Joe helped make sure that there were “full supermarket shelves.” Once again, though, Joe Biden oversaw a major supply chain crisis that led to major increases in prices for everyday products, including baby formula, while his treasury secretary lied about an economic downturn and his energy secretary laughed at Americans for their economic challenges. This Biden administration seems to have a thing for laughing; just ask the first woman Vice President! Mr. Pecoraro also claimed that Joe Biden “... saved the jobs of police, firefighters, and teachers…” To my knowledge, firing people for not receiving a controversial vaccine is not saving their jobs.

I do appreciate constructive criticism, and of course, my response is not personal against Mr. Pecoraro. It is important that we, American Jews, have debates like these to get to the truth. I sincerely appreciate Mr. Pecoraro for this debate and hope to continue further dialogue with him.

Sincerely,

Donny Simcha Guttman

Dear Editor,

Thank you for your wonderful weekly publication. While we owe a debt of gratitude to The Jewish Home for affording its readers a forum to express their thoughts, on occasion a reader takes advantage by submitting a letter with so many lies, deceptions and distortions of reality that it

cries out for a response. Such was the case with the letter submitted last week by the Vice President of the former Rosedale Jewish Center, David Pecoraro. For the sake of brevity, I will only touch on a few of the falsehoods purveyed by Mr. Pecoraro.

Mr. Pecoraro characterizes Donald Trump as a dictator, yet it is Joe Biden who issued an astounding 77 Executive Orders his first year in office. It is Joe Biden who has run afoul of our Constitution on many occasions such as when he attempted to have the CDC declare a rent moratorium, redistribute wealth by attempting to forgive student loan debt, and by attempting to mandate Covid shots long AFTER the CDC knew the shots were ineffective in stopping infection and transmission of Covid.

Mr. Pecoraro’s description of unarmed trespassers at the Capitol that interrupted Congress for 3 hours on January 6, 2021 as a “domestic terrorist attack” is laughable. His narrative of “murdered police officers” is demonstrably false as the only fatality that occurred there was the cowardly murder of Ashli Babbitt, one of the unarmed protesters by a Capitol police officer. His description of our country “barely surviving” January 6th would be better reserved for the state of this country after months of death and destruction the BLM riots inflicted on this country in the months prior to January 6.

Mr. Pecoraro’s positive take on the state of the U.S. economy under Biden is preposterous. It’s hard to remember now, but inflation was 1.4% when Biden took office. Then he signed a $1.9 trillion “Rescue Plan” and a $1.1 trillion Infrastructure package that sent inflation to a 40-year high. The so-called “Inflation Reduction Act” has done nothing to curb prices at the supermarket. I have no knowledge of Mr. Pecoraro’s net worth as the former VP of the Rosedale Jewish Center, but for most Americans, having the dollar lose 15-20% of its purchasing power is devastating.

Lastly, Mr. Pecoraro’s repetition of Biden’s tired slogan that he is here to “save the soul of the nation” is absurd on

its face. This corrupt, senile career swamp creature has no soul. As head of the Biden Crime Syndicate, he has misused his position to enrich himself and his family. All the details on “The Big Guy” are laid out on Hunter’s laptop, which is why such drastic measures were taken by our corrupt intelligence agencies to delegitimize the laptop as Russian disinformation until after the 2020 election.

Bottom line: Biden, who was almost kicked out of law school for low grades and plagiarism and was widely panned as one of the dimmer bulbs in Congress, was incapable of leading this country when he possessed all of his faculties. At this point, he is in clear cognitive decline, getting lost on stage, tripping up staircases, having the media’s questions fed to him in advance and short-circuiting whenever he goes off the teleprompter. The only things propping Biden up are the lapdog mainstream media and readers such as Mr. Pecoraro, whose ailment used to be referred to as “TDS” (Trump Derangement Syndrome) but is now more accurately termed “ABT” (Anyone but Trump.)

Thank you again for your first-rate publication. Wishing you continued success.

Jason Stark

Dear Editor

Please help the family of an American hero remain in the United States.

On December 10, 2019, two people attacked police officers and a kosher grocery in Jersey City. Miguel Rodriguez was an employee at the grocery and gave his life after being shot so that others could escape. Now, his widow Martha and daughter Amy have applied to receive permanent residency in the United States. I urge everyone to contact their Representative and Senators and request that they contact the Department of Homeland Security to grant this application so that the family of this hero may stay in this great country. Thank you!

Sincerely,

Joseph M. Varon West Hempstead, NY

Philippine Volcano to Erupt

“Lava flows are slow moving and effusive eruptions are generally less violent and produce less ash and volcanic gases than explosive eruptions,” he explained.

Mount Mayon last violently erupted in 2018, displacing thousands of villagers and coating nearby towns in thick layers of ash.

Children Found Alive in Amazon Jungle

On Sunday, the Philippines’ most active volcano began spewing lava and sulfuric gas, prompting the evacuation of nearly 13,000 residents in the southeast of the country’s main island.

Philippine Institute of Volcanology and Seismology (Phivolcs) recommended everyone within a 6-kilometer (3.7-mile) radius or “danger zone” of the Mount Mayon volcano be evacuated due to the danger of rockfalls, landslides and ballistic fragments.

The alert level on the volcano was raised to 3 out of a possible 5 on Thursday, and 88% of residents living in the danger zone had been evacuated.

Situated on Luzon island about 200 miles southeast of Manila, Mayon is one of the world’s most active volcanoes. Authorities warned that a hazardous eruption could take place within weeks or days. “Relatively high levels of unrest” were detected at the volcano.

Within 24 hours, the Mayon Volcano Network recorded 21 weak volcanic earthquakes, and 260 rockfalls, as well as lava flow activity from the crater.

The agency also detected three pyroclastic density currents – hot, fast-moving flows of ash, hot gases and debris that rush down volcanic slopes – and warned of possible ashfall on the south side of the volcano.

Phivolcs director Teresito Bacolcol said they were closely monitoring the situation at the volcano and could raise the alert level to 4 if there is an increase in volcanic earthquakes and inflation of the volcano’s edifice.

Bacolcol said there was an effusive eruption Sunday night with lava flows observed to reach 500 meters (1,640 feet) from the volcano’s summit.

It had been 40 days since their mother died in a plane crash in the Amazon jungle. This week, rescuers finally found four children who had been wandering the area for more than a month after they were the only survivors of the plane crash.

The children ate “three kilograms (six pounds) of farina,” a coarse cassava flour commonly used by indigenous tribes in the Amazon region, said spokesperson Pedro Arnulfo Sánchez Suárez.

“Days after the crash, they ate the farina which they had carried there…but they (eventually) ran out of food and decided to look for a place where they could stay alive,” Suárez said.

“They were malnourished but fully conscious and lucid when we found them,” he added.

He added, “Their indigenous origins allowed them to acquire a certain immunity against diseases in the jungle and having knowledge of the jungle itself –knowing what to eat and what not to eat – as well as finding water kept them alive – which would not have been possible (if they) were not used to that type of hostile environment.”

The four children – 13-year-old Lesly Jacobombaire Mucutuy, 9-year-old Soleiny Jacobombaire Mucutuy, 4-year-old Tien Ranoque Mucutuy and infant Cristin Ranoque Mucutuy – are currently recovering in a hospital in the Colombian capital Bogota after being taken there by air ambulance flown by the Colombian Air Force on Saturday, officials said.

Medical reports say they are dehydrated and still “cannot eat food” – but are well and out of danger.

“What’s required now is to stabilize

(their health),” Colombian Defense Minister Ivan Velasquez said.

The children’s mother Magdalena Mucutuy Valencia was killed in the plane crash on May 1. She died four days after the crash, leaving them alone and stranded in the Amazon jungle. Before she passed away, the mother urged her children to leave the area. The plane’s pilot Hernando Murcia Morales and Yarupari indigenous leader Herman Mendoza Hernández were also killed in the accident.

The children’s disappearance sparked a massive military-led search operation that saw more than one hundred Colombian special forces troops and over 70 indigenous scouts combing the deep forest.

The four were eventually found in an area clear of trees.

They told officials that they had found a dog – a Belgian Shepherd search dog named Wilson that belonged to special forces. The dog had gone missing on May 18, Suárez said. “The kids told us that they spent three or four days with Wilson and that they (found) him quite skinny,” he added.

Colombian President Gustavo Petro, who visited the children in hospital on Saturday, celebrated their return and said their survival “would be remembered in

history.”

“They are children of the jungle and now they are children of Colombia,” Petro said.

U.S. Suspends Food Aid to Ethiopia

and swarms of locusts that devoured crops.

The discovery that U.S. aid had been stolen in Ethiopia on an “industrial scale,” as one senior U.S. official put it, was also another blow to Washington’s already-strained relations with Ethiopia, Africa’s second-most-populous nation, with 120 million people, and once a key U.S. ally.

The United States is by far the largest aid donor to Ethiopia, where about 20 million people depend on food aid. In the past fiscal year, it gave $1.5 billion in aid, more than two-thirds of that in food. Although a significant amount of that aid reached the hungry, U.S. officials said they had discovered misappropriation on a scale that left them with no choice but to halt the deliveries.

of 9/11, rapidly took over Afghanistan amid a disastrous U.S. withdrawal in August 2021.

The United States on Thursday suspended all food aid to Ethiopia, where its contributions feed an estimated 12 million people, citing “widespread and coordinated” theft of emergency rations in a countrywide scheme overseen by Ethiopian government officials.

The unusual decision was likely to hit hardest the millions of vulnerable Ethiopians already reeling from the combined effects of civil conflicts, climate change

“We made the difficult but necessary decision that we cannot move forward with distribution of food assistance until reforms are in place,” the U.S. Agency for International Development said in a statement. “Our intention is to immediately resume food assistance once we are confident in the integrity of delivery systems.”

The USAID statement did not say who stole the food. But a briefing document by the Humanitarian and Resilience Donor Group, a coalition of foreign donors including USAID, said the scheme “appeared to be orchestrated by federal and regional government of Ethiopia entities, with military units across the country benefiting from humanitarian assistance.”

A senior USAID official, who spoke on the condition of anonymity to discuss an ongoing investigation, confirmed that account. After an extensive investigation in seven of Ethiopia’s nine regions, U.S. officials uncovered “probably the largest scale diversion that we have seen, at least in recent history,” the official said.

But U.S. officials, whose tense relations with Prime Minister Abiy Ahmed of Ethiopia had been slowly warming in recent months, were reluctant to publicly blame the Ethiopian government for the diversion of U.S. aid. (© The New York Times)

Al-Qaeda Helping Taliban Govern

According to a United Nations report, at least three key leaders in the Taliban’s government in Afghanistan are “affiliated” or “associated” with al-Qaeda.

The Taliban, which protected al-Qaeda before and after the terrorist attacks

The U.N. Analytical Support and Sanctions Monitoring Team said in its June report that “two provincial governors of the Taliban de facto administration,” Qari Ehsanullah Baryal and Hafiz Muhammad Agha Hakeem, “are affiliated with al-Qaeda.” The team added that “another Talib associated with al-Qaeda,” Tajmir Jawad, is the “Deputy Director of the General Directorate of Intelligence.”

The confirmation of al-Qaeda-affiliated leaders in the Taliban government comes after President Joe Biden wrongly claimed that al-Qaeda was “gone” from Afghanistan a few days after the Taliban takeover in 2021.

Hakeem had been the governor of Nuristan province but was named the governor of Panjshir province in May. Baryal was named the governor of Kabul province by the Taliban in November 2021 and later went on to become the governor of Kapisa province. Jawad was named the deputy chief of the Taliban’s intelligence services in September 2021.

The U.N. noted the U.S. military has assessed that Jawad was the former head of the “Kabul Network” — described as “a mixture of al-Qaeda and Taliban that directed suicide assaults against the United States and other coalition targets.”

The FBI also describes Sirajuddin Haqqani, a Taliban deputy prime minister and the leader of the Taliban government’s powerful interior ministry, as “a senior leader of the Haqqani network” who “maintains close ties to the Taliban and al-Qaeda.”

The U.N. noted that Sirajuddin’s ministry “continued its distribution of Afghan passports and tazkiras (national identity cards) to al-Qaeda members with advisory roles in main Afghan cities.”

The new report indicated that “al-Qaeda members have received appointments and advisory roles in the Taliban security and administrative structures” thanks to the Taliban and that “the Taliban provided al-Qaeda with monthly ‘welfare payments,’ with portions of those payments filtered down to fighters of al-Qaeda affiliated groups.”

It was noted that terrorist groups enjoyed “greater freedom to maneuver” under the Taliban. As such, the threat of terrorism is increasing in the Afghan area.

The Taliban, the Haqqani network, and al-Qaeda remain deeply intertwined in Afghanistan. The U.N. team stressed that “the Taliban of 2023 is, with few exceptions, the same Taliban of the 1990s.”

According to the U.N., there are between 30 to 60 “core members” of al-Qaeda in Afghanistan and around 400 “al-Qaeda fighters” in Afghanistan, with that number “reaching 2,000 with family members and supporters included.”

Al-Qaeda has “established new training camps” and “safe houses” across Afghanistan, the U.N. noted.

Former PM Berlusconi Dies

Silvio Berlusconi, known for his flamboyant character and leader of Italy at one time, died in a Milan hospital this week at the age of 86.

The politician, who was long regarded as Italy’s most colorful public figure, was elected prime minister three times and

served for a total of nine years, longer than anyone since fascist dictator Benito Mussolini. Affectionately nicknamed “Il Cavaliere” (The Knight), his career was marked by a series of political, financial and personal scandals, many of which landed him in court.

lusconi became the richest man in Italy, making his money on properties. He bought out TV stations and football clubs before turning to politics.

Berlusconi turned his attention to politics in 1993 when he formed the center-right Forza Italia Party, named for “Forza, Italia!” (Go, Italy!), a chant heard at Italian national soccer team games.

Boris Johnson Resigns from Parliament

Berlusconi was voted out of parliament in 2013. But he re-emerged in early 2018 as an elder statesman, the kingmaker of a right-wing alliance involving his Forza Italia party.

After the Court of Milan granted him “rehabilitation” later that year, effectively lifting the ban on him re-entering politics that was in place following his 2012 tax fraud conviction, he announced he would run for a seat in the European Parliament.

Berlusconi was elected in May 2019, at 83 years old, and remained in office as a Member of the European Parliament at the time of his death.

At one point during his lifetime, Ber-

Boris Johnson, Britain’s former prime minister and one of the most divisive leaders of his generation, resigned as a member of Parliament after accusing a committee of attempting to “drive me out,” he said in a letter on Friday.

The former Conservative party leader

said he was “bewildered and appalled” after receiving a letter from a House of Commons committee, which is investigating whether he lied to British lawmakers over lockdown-breaking parties during the pandemic, known as “Partygate.”

Johnson, one of the main architects of Brexit, said the letter made “it clear, much to my amazement, that they are determined to use the proceedings against me to drive me out of Parliament.”

The former leader said the committee’s Partygate report, which has yet to be released publicly, “is riddled with inaccuracies and reeks of prejudice but under their absurd and unjust process I have no formal ability to challenge anything they say.”

“I have today written to my association in Uxbridge and South Ruislip to say that I am stepping down forthwith and triggering an immediate by-election,” the wild-haired politico said.

Last year, the Metropolitan Police issued Johnson and then-finance minister Rishi Sunak – who is currently Prime Minister – with a fine for attending a gathering in Downing Street during the Covid-19 lockdown, making Johnson the first sitting UK prime minister to be found guilty of breaking the law.

In March, Johnson admitted to the

20 committee that he misled Parliament about what happened but claimed he did so unintentionally.

In his letter on Friday, he said he was the victim of a “witch hunt,” an act of revenge against him for “Brexit and ultimately to reverse the 2016 referendum result.”

Johnson was beloved by constituents during most of his tenure. As mayor of London, he managed to connect with voters even though most Londoners are liberal by nature. Fans who weren’t part of his traditional Conservative base appreciated his affable and knowledgeable persona.

Johnson also managed to deliver on his promises, famously bringing Brexit to Britain, even though his predecessor Theresa May failed in that regard. He rapidly rolled out a vaccine program for the UK during the Covid era. And he played a leading supporting role for Ukraine.

Djokovic’s 23rd Grand Slam

Novak Djokovic began his day picturing how it would end, holding his children in his arms, raising another Grand Slam

tournament trophy above his head, and singing his national anthem as Serbian fans chanted and danced and celebrated his third French Open men’s singles title and much more.

jacket with “23” emblazoned under his right shoulder.

Djokovic, 36, has spent most of the past two decades chasing his rivals Roger Federer and Rafael Nadal, two other giants who have defined this era of modern tennis. That race has come to an end, at least for now.

“Those two guys, the past 15 years, were occupying my mind quite a lot,” Djokovic said as he sat next to the championship trophy.

fans want to fault him for being a mere compiler, Djokovic has a winning record against both of them. (© The New York Times)

Syrian Attacks 4 in French Playground

On Sunday at Roland Garros, Djokovic defeated Casper Ruud, 7-6 (1), 6-3, 7-5, to capture a record 23rd Grand Slam singles title, continuing a stunning turnaround from a year and a half ago, when he was deported from Australia before the first Grand Slam tournament of 2022, a dire harbinger of the year to come. After Ruud’s final forehand sailed off the court, Djokovic dropped his racket and collapsed onto his back on the red clay.

Moments later, after a congratulatory hug from Ruud, Djokovic knelt in prayer in the middle of the court, then headed for the stands to embrace his family and his coaches. When he came back onto the court moments later, he was wearing a

Djokovic surpassed Federer last summer, just a few months before Federer’s retirement, winning his 21st Grand Slam title at Wimbledon’s Centre Court on the grass that Federer had ruled for so long. In January at the Australian Open, Djokovic won again. That 22nd title tied Nadal, the Spanish champion who missed this year’s French Open with an injury.

With a cast of stars on hand for the occasion, he made his history on the red clay of the Philippe Chatrier court at the French Open, which Nadal has won an astonishing 14 times.

And with his win Sunday, Djokovic regained the world’s top ranking for a record 388th week. In addition to the record for Grand Slam tournament titles, he also holds the record for Masters 1000 titles. In case any Nadal or Federer

Last Thursday, a 31-year-old Syrian refugee stabbed children and adults in a playground in Annecy, France. Four children, two of whom were tourists, were critically injured and had to undergo surgery on Friday. French Prime Minister Elisabeth Borne said that all four victims are “under constant medical surveillance” and that “their situation is stable.” Olivier Veran, a government spokesman and medical doctor, added that two of the young victims are still in critical condition.

The children’s ages range from 22 months to 3 years old. Three were taken to a hospital in the southeastern French City, Grenoble, while the fourth was taken to Geneva, Switzerland.

Amidst the violent attacks, a 24-yearold man named Henri was videoed in pursuit of the attacker, using his bulky backpack as a shield against the man’s stabs, while also going on the offensive, throwing the knapsack at the assailant in an attempt to stop further stabbing.

Henri was hailed a hero by many, including French President Emmanuel Macron, who personally thanked the good Samaritan. “You are experiencing very hard moments, traumatizing. I am very proud of you.”

“[I] tried to act as all French people should act, or would act,” insisted Henri. “I am far from alone in having reacted. Many other people around started, like me, to run after him to try to scare him, push him away. And other people immediately went over to the children to take care of the injured.”

Henri’s father, François, said that his son told him “that the Syrian [terrorist] was incoherent, saying lots of strange things in different languages, invoking his father, his mother, all the gods.”

The attacker was reportedly denied

refuge in France due to his refugee status in Sweden and is currently in custody, actively undergoing psychiatric evaluation.

According to Line Bonnet-Mathis, the lead prosecutor in this case, what drove the man to commit such horrific crimes is unknown; he had no criminal record.

One of the wounded adults is a Portuguese citizen, who, according to Portugal’s Foreign Ministry, was injured while “trying to stop the attacker from fleeing the police.” The ministry said that “for this act of courage and bravery, we thank him profoundly.”

Iran Helping Russia Build Drone Factory

so that Russia can create a drone manufacturing plant in the Russian republic of Tatarstan.

Furthermore, the U.S. government claims that Iran supplied Russia with hundreds of armed drones for use against Ukraine.

According to White House National Security Council spokesperson John Kirby, the drones are “shipped across the Caspian Sea, from Amirabad, Iran to Makhachkala, Russia, and then used operationally by Russian forces against Ukraine.” Kirby added that hundreds of one-way attack unmanned aerial vehicles (UAVs) have been transported from Iran to Russia, as of May. In exchange for these drones, Kirby says, Russia has been “offering Iran unprecedented defense cooperation, including on missiles, electronics, and air defense.”

Iran, while denying that it sent drones for use against Ukraine, has stated that it does in fact plan on doing business with Russia. The Middle Eastern country’s plans include purchasing Russian Su-35 fighter jets, with Iran also declaring its interest in Russian helicopters, radars, and even more equipment.

“In total, Iran is seeking billions of dollars’ worth of military equipment from Russia,” said Kirby, warning that a “full-

scale defense partnership” of this sort would be “harmful to Ukraine, to Iran’s neighbors, and to the international community.”

The United States has been restricting exports and issuing sanctions on those who are suspected to be involved in these transactions. Additionally, on Friday, the U.S. government planned to give recommendations and warnings in order to “help governments and businesses put in place measures to ensure they are not inadvertently contributing to Iran’s UAV program.”

Blinken Visits Saudi Arabia

U.S. Secretary of State Antony Blinken arrived in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia, on Tuesday, June 6. His visit to the Kingdom, which was made in order to ease

According to the Biden administration, Iran is actively providing materials

U.S.-Saudi relations, lasted three days.

The day after his arrival, Blinken spoke in front of the Qatar Prime Minister and several Arab Gulf officials at a Gulf Cooperation Council (GCC) meeting in Riyadh, the capital of Saudi Arabia. During the meeting, he pledged the United States’s continued loyalty to its Gulf Partners and announced that the U.S. is striving to engage other nations to join the Abraham Accords. “We are collaborating with countries in the region to

widen and deepen the normalization of relations with Israel,” said Blinken in the beginning of the GCC meeting.

Blinken, in talks with Saudi Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman a day earlier, mentioned the potential for improved relations between Israel and Saudi Arabia. However, the Biden administration made it clear that an Israeli-Saudi peace deal is not anticipated in the very near future.

Barbara Leaf, U.S. Assistant Secretary

of State for Near Eastern Affairs, noted that while such an agreement is “no question an end goal,” current reports of such a deal are “misreporting and a lot of hyperventilation in the press, a lot of excitable rumination in the press, especially in the Israeli press.”

This visit marks the first time the U.S. Secretary of State has visited Saudi Arabia since the Kingdom renewed its relationship with Iran, who happened to reinstate its Riyadh embassy on the day that

Blinken arrived in Jeddah. The Iranian embassy in Saudi Arabia had been closed for the past seven years, prior to Tuesday.

Iran isn’t the only controversial country Saudi Arabia has recently involved itself with. Nicolas Maduro, the president of Venezuela, also happened to be meeting with the Saudi Prince on the day of Blinken’s arrival. Additionally, Syrian leader Bashar al-Assad was invited to the Arab League summit in Jeddah a month ago, after not being invited since 2011 when the Syrian Civil War started. The United States was disappointed with Assad’s presence at the summit.

On the topic of Syria, Blinken declared that “we are determined to find a political solution in Syria that maintains its unity and sovereignty and meets the aspirations of its people,” promising the same for Yemen as well.

IDF and Lebanese Clash

On Friday, conflict broke out between the IDF and Lebanese rioters.

According to the Israeli army, the confrontation started when multiple Lebanese citizens tried demolishing an Israeli-built barbed wire fence that is meant to serve as a border barrier between Israel and Lebanon near Kfar Shouba. The rioters then started throwing rocks at Israeli soldiers, and the attacked forces responded with tear gas.

The clash took place in Sheeba Farms, an area which belonged to Syria until 1967, when the land was captured by Israel. The location, which is on the Israel-Lebanese border, remains disputed territory, with Israel, Lebanon, and Syria all claiming the area as their own. No clear border has been established between Israel and Lebanon, with only an unofficial border known as the “Blue Line” existing.

One of the rioters was hurt by the tear

gas, according to the Lebanese state National News Agency, and soldiers from the Lebanese army were sent to the scene with the goal of “facing the Israeli enemy.” However, further conflict was quelled by the United Nations Interim Force in Lebanon (UNIFIL).

UNIFIL told Arabic-language media that it was trying to end the conflict and encouraged the two involved nations “to use coordination mechanisms to prevent misunderstandings and maintain stability in the region.”

A Hezbollah parliament representative, Ali Fayyad, said that “the resistance is closely following the issue in the Kfar Shuba hills, moment by moment, and is preparing for any escalation possibilities, and will not allow the Israeli enemy to persist in its transgressions.”

In response to these events, the IDF insisted that it “will not allow any attempt to violate the sovereignty of the State of Israel.”

4 Hurt in Drive-By Shooting

Four Israeli soldiers and a civilian were wounded in a drive-by shooting at-

tack in the northern West Bank on Tuesday afternoon.

A wounded Israeli motorist, 33, reported coming under fire from a passing car at the Efes intersection located between the settlements of Mevo Dotan and Hermesh, west of the Palestinian city of Jenin. The Israel Defense Forces said the same gunmen apparently then continued on their way and opened fire at a military vehicle in the area. Four soldiers were wounded.

The civilian had suffered gunshot wounds to his upper body.

The attack came exactly two weeks after an Israeli man, 32-year-old Meir Tamari, was shot dead by Palestinian terrorists outside Hermesh.

Palestinian gunmen have repeatedly targeted troops, military posts, Israeli settlements and civilians on roads in the West Bank.

Smoking on the Rise

Israelis like to smoke. In fact, the smoking rate among the Israeli adult population is 20 percent – higher than the OECD average. A quarter of men and

15% of women smoke, with rates higher among Arabs than Jews. And the pandemic made it worse, with one-quarter of smokers adding 13 more cigarettes to their daily routine.

stated that after a significant drop-off in youth smoking between 1998 and 2019, the trend is reversing. Now 20% of youth (more boys than girls) smoke, with half of them smoking tobacco and half using e-cigarettes. Whereas in the past teens were initially introduced to smoking through cigarettes and hookahs, by 2019, they were reporting more use of vapes, some as early as age 12.

“Eight thousand people die from tobacco use every year in Israel. Eight hundred of them from passive smoke,” said public health professor Laura Rosen of Tel Aviv University, who has studied the effects of tobacco smoke on children for the last 15 years.

It’s not just traditional cigarettes that Israelis are consuming.

According to a report by the Taub Center for Social Policy, “one-quarter of all youths smoked an electronic cigarette, possibly under the false belief that it was less risky than a traditional cigarette.”

People are getting hooked on cigarettes earlier in life. A report on smoking issued by the Health Ministry in 2021

Israel Cancer Association (ICA) health promotion specialist Dana Frost told The Times of Israel that kids have become hooked on electronic cigarettes — especially disposable ones — which they like for their bright colors and appealing sweet and fruity flavors.

According to Frost, in 2022, 13.7% of kids aged 12-14 started smoking as compared to 3.4% in 2020-21.

“It’s illegal in Israel to sell smoking products to minors. Yet, kids in middle school are getting ahold of them,” she noted.

Not enough long-term research has been done on vaping. However, international peer-reviewed research presented in an ICA position paper indicates that the materials in vapes are known to expose users to heavy metals and carcinogenic chemicals.

There is also evidence that vaping

causes damage to the lungs and airways and the heart and blood vessels. In some cases, it affects the gums and teeth and can even lead to tumors in the mouth. One study indicated that vaping increased anxiety. Even those who are not smoking themselves can be affected by the nicotine emitted in the vapor.

“We are really worried about how children and youth are becoming addicted to nicotine from vaping. Addiction happens much quicker at younger ages, when brain development is more dynamic and incomplete. The brain is in a constant state of learning until age 25, and addiction is a type of learning. As a result, addiction at a younger age is not only quicker, but also stronger,” Frost noted.

Some countries have banned vaping. But others see vaping as a tool to help cigarette users cease their traditional smoking habits.

The Knesset Finance Committee confirmed earlier this year a 145% tax on electronic cigarettes and associated products. Additionally, regulations passed in 2019 limit the advertisement and sale of vaping products, and also forbid smoking e-cigarettes in indoor public spaces.

There’s also the issue of secondhand and even third-hand smoke in Israel. Parents smoke near their children, and

their kids imbibe the noxious fumes. Third-hand smoke, when the smoke is on smokers’ clothes and hair and is breathed in by others, is also a major problem for children.

Who is to Blame for Attack at Egyptian Border?

an easily opened small emergency gate on the border barrier was unknown to troops stationed in the area; an over-prioritization of drug smuggling incidents; and excessively lengthy guard shifts.

Staff Sgt. Ori Yitzhak Iluz, 20, Staff Sgt. Ohad Dahan, 20, and Sgt. Lia Ben Nun, 19, troops of the Bardelas and Caracal battalions, were killed in the attack on June 3.

The IDF said that the commander of the 80th Division, Brig. Gen. Itzik Cohen, will be formally reprimanded for his “overall responsibility for the event, including the lack of control over the implementation of the procedures.”

Col. Ido Sa’ad, the commander of the Paran Brigade, will be dismissed from his role and moved to another position in the IDF, for his “overall responsibility for the event and the manner by which operations are carried out in his area.”

and 2012. In one multi-stage attack in August 2011, six Israeli civilians, an IDF soldier and a counter-terrorism police officer were killed, as well as five Egyptian soldiers.

Highway Collapses in Philly

After an Egyptian police officer crossed the border and slaughtered three Israeli soldiers on June 3, an army investigation concluded certain factors contributed to the attack. As such, a senior officer will be removed from his position and several others will be formally censured.

The IDF said that it had found a number of contributing factors to the attack:

The IDF noted that Sa’ad did act correctly when it came to engaging with and killing the Egyptian attacker.

Lt. Col. Ivan Kon, the commander of the Bardelas Battalion, will be formally reprimanded for his “responsibility for the implementation of the operating concept in his forces.” He will additionally be denied a promotion for five years, the IDF said.

According to the IDF’s investigation, the Egyptian policeman, Mohamed Salah Ibrahim, 22, infiltrated the border through an emergency gate early on June 3. The small gate, held shut with only zip ties, is used by the IDF to cross the border when necessary, in coordination with the Egyptian army.

Salah walked three miles from Egypt and climbed a cliff to reach the gate. He then walked to Israel’s guard post, where Iluz and Ben Nun were situated, seemingly taking them by surprise around 7 a.m. Iluz and Ben Nun had been involved in taking care of a smuggling incident during the night.

When the two soldiers’ shift was up around 9 a.m., officers discovered the pair had been killed. Other soldiers searched the area for the attacker. Around 11 a.m., a drone identified the terrorist. He began to fire upon a group of soldiers and killed Dahan. Another group of soldiers ultimately killed Salah.

The Israel-Egypt border has been largely peaceful since the two countries signed a peace agreement in 1979, Israel’s first with an Arab state. In the past decade, Israel built a large barrier along the border, largely aimed at keeping out African migrants and Islamic terrorists who operate in Egypt’s Sinai.

Sinai-based terrorists carried out multiple attacks against Israel in 2011

Early Sunday morning, a tanker driver took an off-ramp on the Interstate 95 in Philadelphia and crashed into a wall while trying to navigate a curve. A fire broke out at the scene. Subsequently, a stretch of the northbound I-95 collapsed and fell onto the truck.

On Monday afternoon, state police said that a body had been recovered from the wreckage.

The truck was carrying 8,500 gallons of gasoline, Pennsylvania State Police said.

Pennsylvania Gov. Josh Shapiro issued a disaster declaration on Monday, which allows the state to dip into federal funds and cut red tape to expedite repairs.

The roadway is one of the busiest interstates in the region, typically carrying about 160,000 vehicles through Philadelphia daily.

Crews are first working to demolish the collapsed part of the roadway, which should take around four to five days. But officials say that the damage to part of the East Coast’s primary highway could take months to repair. Northbound lanes had collapsed in the incident, and southbound lanes had been damaged in the inferno.

U.S. Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg said his agency is prepared to help local officials swiftly address the extensive disruption caused by the collapse. “To be clear, swiftly is not going to be overnight,” Buttigieg told reporters Monday at an event hosted by the American Council of Engineering Companies. “We’re talking about major structural work.”

“I found myself thanking the L-rd that no motorists who were on I-95 were injured or died,” Gov. Shapiro said.

NYPD Commissioner Resigns

to lead the public safety agency where he was an officer for 22 years, giving her the power to rethink policing after bitter protests against police brutality and racism.

The mayor said in a statement on Monday that Sewell had worked tirelessly and that “New Yorkers owe her a debt of gratitude.” But Sewell, in an email to the department announcing her resignation, did not mention the mayor at all.

She did not say when she would be leaving, and the mayor did not say when a replacement would be chosen.

spirator in a corruption investigation that produced several convictions, including that of a police department chief who had served as his top aide.

Several senior current and former police officials said that Sewell had been undermined since early in her tenure by the mayor and some of his senior aides, including Banks and Timothy Pearson, a senior adviser to the mayor.

Hopefully, some of these borrowers are now in the workforce and have a few dollars to spend towards their debts.

Inflation does not help with people who are struggling to make ends meet. And with the collapse of major banks and layoffs at Disney and Amazon, some people are concerned about paying their bills.

Keechant Sewell, commissioner of the New York Police Department, said Monday she would resign after less than 18 months, giving no reason for the abrupt end to a tenure during which she won over many in the rank and file even as she jockeyed for position against other appointees and top officers.

Sewell, who was appointed to her position by Mayor Eric Adams and started in 2022, was the first woman to head the nation’s largest police force. Adams had promised as a candidate to name a woman

Sewell was an enigmatic figure, hardly straying from her script at news conferences and revealing little of her personality, in contrast to her voluble predecessors. When asked in an interview what book she was currently reading, she replied, “stats.” This year, Philip Banks III, the deputy mayor for public safety, began giving widely publicized weekly, livestreamed public briefings — a role that would typically belong to the police commissioner.

Banks’ appointment had been surrounded by questions over whether his 2014 resignation from the department while the subject of a federal corruption investigation would hamper his credibility and ability to perform the job. He had been named as an unindicted co-con-

On Monday, Sewell wrote in her email to the department: “I will never step away from my advocacy and support for the N.Y.P.D., and I will always be a champion for the people of New York City.” (© The New York Times)

Time to Pay Up

Meanwhile, all eyes are on the Supreme Court as borrowers wait to see if the Biden administration will be allowed to move forward with its student loan forgiveness program. A decision is expected in late June or early July.

Under the proposal, individual borrowers who made less than $125,000 in either 2020 or 2021 and married couples or heads of households who made less than $250,000 a year could see up to $10,000 of their federal student loan debt forgiven.

If a qualifying borrower also received a federal Pell grant while enrolled in college, the individual is eligible for up to $20,000 of debt forgiveness.

But several lawsuits argue that the Biden administration is abusing its power and using the pandemic as a pretext for fulfilling the president’s campaign pledge to cancel student debt.

For tens of millions of borrowers, March 2020 was the last time they had to pay their monthly federal student loan bills. But come October, the government will be waiting for them to pay up.

The pandemic-related pause on both payments and interest accumulation had been set to end later this summer, though the exact date payments would be due was a little fuzzy. On Monday, the Department of Education clarified the date.

A law passed in early June to address the debt ceiling officially prevented the pandemic-related pause from being extended again. The repayment date had been extended a total of eight times under both the Biden and Trump administrations.

“Student loan interest will resume starting on September 1, 2023, and payments will be due starting in October. We will notify borrowers well before payments restart,” the Department of Education said in a statement on Monday.

It won’t be easy for many borrowers to start coughing up these monthly payments. A report by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau notes that about 1 in 5 student loan borrowers have risk factors that suggest they could struggle when scheduled payments resume, like being delinquent on student loan payments before the pandemic or having multiple student loan servicers.

Still, there are many more people working now than before the pandemic.

Unabomber Dies in Prison

Theodore “Ted” Kaczynski, the Harvard-trained math professor who unleashed a deadly bombing campaign from a shack in rural Montana and became known as the “Unabomber,” died in prison at the age of 81 on Saturday morning. It is believed that he took his own life. Kaczynski had been serving eight life sentences after he pleaded guilty in 1998 for sending mail bombs that killed three people and wounded 23 others from 1978 to 1995.

The FBI spent nearly two decades trying to track him down, contending with a killer who was making untraceable bombs and delivering them to random targets – the first sent to a Chicago university in 1978.

An FBI-led task force – which eventually grew to more than 150 full-time

34 investigators – was formed in 1979 to investigate the “UNABOM” case, an acronym made up of the words university, airline, and bombing.

Kaczynski was arrested in 1996 at a small, remote cabin in western Montana.

Portrayed by prosecutors as a vengeful loner, Kaczynski published a 30,000word treatise that became known as the Unabomber Manifesto.

In the document, Kaczynski claimed a moral high ground for his deadly campaign, justifying the attacks in the name of preserving humanity and nature from the onslaught of technology and exploitation.

“I believe in nothing,” Kaczynski wrote. “I don’t even believe in the cult of nature-worshipers or wilderness-worshipers. (I am perfectly ready to litter in parts of the woods that are of no use to me – I often throw cans in logged-over areas.)”

A sentencing memorandum quoted extensively from Kaczynski’s journals, in which he wrote of a deep hatred of people.

A tip from his brother led to his arrest in April 1996. The family claimed that his writing reflected a mentally ill man and not a cold-blooded killer. A federal prison psychiatrist agreed, diagnosing him as a paranoid schizophrenic, and opening the

way for prosecutors to drop their demand for the death sentence and allow a plea bargain.

At the sentencing hearing, Susan Mosser, who lost her husband in a Unabomber attack, urged the judge to “make the sentence bullet-proof, or bomb-proof, lock him so far down that when he does die, he’ll be closer to…. That’s where the devil belongs.”

Her husband, Thomas, a New Jersey advertising executive, was killed by a package bomb in 1994.

Kaczynski’s other victims were computer rental store owner Hugh Scrutton and timber industry lobbyist Gilbert Murray. Geneticist Charles Epstein and computer expert David Gelernter were maimed in bombings.

In 1998, Epstein called Kaczynski “the personification of evil.” He had lost three fingers on his right hand and suffered severe abdominal injuries, a broken arm and permanent hearing loss in the attack.

“Every time I look at my hand, it’s still there. Every time I have to have somebody speak up, it’s still there,” he said.

Kaczynski had quit a tenure-track position at the University of California, Berkeley, in 1969 to build a shack near Lincoln, Montana. He lived there without running water or electricity for more

than 20 years. He waged his 17-year “anti-technology” bombing campaign from the 13-by-13-foot shack.

Along with the deaths and injuries he inflicted, Kaczynski threatened to blow up airplanes. He placed a bomb on one flight in 1979, forcing the plane to make an emergency landing when a fire broke out in the cargo hold.

At one point, Kaczynski was able to force newspapers to print his 35,000word manifesto, threatening to blow up a plane out of Los Angeles and saying he would stop the bombings if The New York Times and Washington Post published it.

Higher Grocery Bills

From April to May, adjusted for seasonal swings, grocery prices got 0.1% more expensive, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics’ Consumer Price Index, a key measure of inflation. Menu items got 0.5% in that time.

Overall, grocery prices were 5.8% more expensive in May than they were a year ago. Going out to eat? Menu prices have risen 8.3% over the past year. Together, food prices jumped 6.7% throughout the year, once again outpacing overall annual inflation, which came in at 4%.

Certain food items got quite a bit more expensive over the course of the year.

Margarine spiked 22.5%, flour jumped 17.1%, bread spiked 12.5%, and sugar rose 11.1%. Meanwhile, juice and other nonalcoholic drinks popped 9.9%, lettuce went up 9.4%, and ice cream increased 8%.

Cheese, chicken, and fresh fruits and vegetables also increased in price, but at much smaller degrees.

A variety of factors have caused food prices to rise. Extreme weather, the war in Ukraine, avian flu and higher costs along the supply chain have all led to higher prices.

Wonder why you spent so much at the grocery this week? Blame it on inflation.

Some foods have decreased in price over the past year. Citrus fruits became 5.3% cheaper; fresh whole milk dropped 3.45; and fish fell 1.1%.

Eggs, a product whose price soared last year, has made a comeback, dropping 13.8% last month – the largest single-month price decline since January 1951.

A Ban on Book Bans

the bans were the result of newly enacted state laws, according to the report, which found bans were most prevalent in five states: Texas, Florida, Missouri, Utah and South Carolina.

Pritzker and nine other governors sent a letter last month to textbook publishers urging them to consider the negative impacts of book banning.

Big Apple Loses Big Jobs

On Monday, Illinois became the first state in the nation to prohibit book bans.

Gov. J.B. Pritzker signed a bill into law to prohibit public schools and libraries from banning books, noting that it’s the only one of its kind in the country.

“Book bans are about censorship, marginalizing people, marginalizing ideas and facts. Regimes banned books, not democracies,” Pritzker, a Democrat, said at a bill signing ceremony at a Chicago library. “We refuse to let a vitriolic strain of white nationalism coursing through our country determine whose histories are told, not in Illinois.”

The measure, which takes effect January 1, says public libraries must adopt the American Library Association’s Library Bill of Rights or their own statement prohibiting book banning to be eligible for state money.

The association’s Library Bill of Rights states that reading materials “should not be proscribed or removed because of partisan or doctrinal disapproval” or “excluded because of the origin, background, or views of those contributing to their creation.”

The signing comes amid record book challenges, laws and policies to limit books available in public schools and libraries.

In March, the library association said there were 1,269 demands to censor library books and resources in 2022, marking the highest number of attempted book bans since the association began compiling the data more than 20 years ago.

“A record 2,571 unique titles were targeted for censorship,” the association said.

An April report from free speech organization PEN America found book bans rose during the first half of the 2022-2023 school year. Almost a third of

The retail industry in New York City has shed thousands of jobs since the pandemic, even as the rest of the job market has almost fully recovered, according to a new report released last Thursday from the Center for an Urban Future, a public policy think tank.

The study found that in the three years since February 2020, New York City lost 37,800 retail jobs, an 11.1% decline, while the overall private employment sector has regained all but 0.8% of jobs.

The city’s job losses in retail were also far worse than in the rest of the country; nationally, retail jobs were up an average 0.7%. Retail jobs are a critical part of the city’s job market, particularly for young people of color.

The retail industry — which includes clothing, sporting goods and grocery stores, among others — has been shrinking for years, but the pandemic sped up the growth of online shopping, especially in big cities like New York, where the commercial ecosystem relies on tourism and still-half-empty office buildings, said Jonathan Bowles, the center’s director.

“New York is on the verge of a crisis, when it comes to jobs that are accessible to New Yorkers without a college degree,” Bowles said, and the decline is contributing to widening racial disparities.

More than 70% of the city’s 301,700 retail jobs are held by Black, Hispanic and Asian workers, a disproportionate share of whom did not finish college. Over onefifth of that workforce is younger than 25.

In the first quarter of the year, the unemployment rate for Black New Yorkers was 12.2%, compared to 1.3% for white New Yorkers — the biggest gap this century.

The industries in New York that are growing — tech, finance, health, legal and accounting services — are not accessible to the workforce that has been laid off, Bowles said.

To counter the losses in retail, Bowles said, the city should invest in job training programs that can help retail workers transition to other fields. The report also recommended offering tax incentives to encourage in-person shopping and, most crucially, expanding new affordable housing in the five boroughs to increase foot traffic and shore up demand. (© The New York Times)

Nuggets Nab NBA Championship

downing the Miami Heat 94-89 at Ball Arena in Denver to take Game 5 of the NBA Finals.

Two-time MVP Nikola Jokić led the way for the Nuggets with a game-high 28 points and 16 rebounds.

“It was an amazing effort by the team,” he said. “It was an ugly game. We couldn’t make shots, but at the end, we figured out how to defend.”

The Serbian big man was voted Most Valuable Player of the NBA Finals and is the first center to win the award named after the late Bill Russell since Shaquille O’Neal of the Lakers in 2002.

Nuggets coach Michael Malone hailed Jokić, 28, who is rapidly establishing himself as one of basketball’s best ever centers, as “a great person.”

“He’s a great husband, father and son and brother,” Malone told reporters. “And on the basketball court, he has proven time and time again that he’s the best player in the NBA. He’s our MVP –we love him and we’re thankful that he’s wearing a Nuggets’ uniform.”

Denver struggled from the free throw and 3-point lines but led by as many as seven points in the fourth quarter. But the Heat went on a 13-5 run and led by one point, 89-88, with 1:58 left in the game.

“There’s no regrets on our end. There’s just sometimes where you get beat, you know, and Denver was the better basketball team in this series,” Heat coach Erik Spoelstra said. “I would say that it will probably rank as our hardest, competitive, most active defensive game of the season, and it still fell short.”

The Nuggets, who played in the American Basketball Association for nine seasons beginning in 1967, joined the NBA before the 1976-1977 season. Before this season, the team’s 47th in the NBA, Denver had advanced to the conference finals four times in franchise history (1978, 1985, 2009, 2020), losing to the Los Angeles Lakers on each occasion.

tronauts’ brains prior to and after space flights, scientists observed that those who spent six months or longer in space showed evidence of significant brain ventricular enlargement.

The Denver Nuggets won their first NBA championship on Monday night,

“All the hard work, all the sacrifice, all the dedication, all culminated with us winning a championship,” Malone told ABC. “But I got news for everybody out there: We’re not satisfied with one. We want more. We want more.”

Space Affects Astronauts’ Brains

New studies suggest that long space missions can lead to harmful effects in an astronaut’s brain.

When comparing scans of thirty as-

“The more time people spent in space, the larger their ventricles became,” said Rachel Seider, a professor of applied physiology and kinesiology at the University of Florida, who served as the lead author in this study. “Many astronauts travel to space more than one time, and our study shows it takes about three years between flights for the ventricles to fully recover.”

There were three groups in the study: A group of eight who spent two weeks in space, a group of eighteen who spent six months, and a group of four who spent a year.

The space travelers who spent two weeks on the mission showed little to no ventricular enlargement, while those who spent six months showed significant

enlargement. And when comparing the size of ventricles in the six-month participants and the one-year participants, researchers observed no difference at all, indicating that expansion likely stops after a period of six months.

Cerebrospinal fluid, a fluid that protects, cleans, and supplies the brain with nutrients, is contained within these ventricles. When one stays in space for extended periods of time, these fluids rise, causing the brain to push against the skull. This ultimately leads to the enlargement researchers have been observing.

“We don’t yet know for sure what the long-term consequences of this is on the health and behavioral health of space travelers, so allowing the brain time to recover seems like a good idea,” Seider added, disclaiming that while three years are likely needed for recovery, “astronauts have very specialized skill sets and training and there may be rationale to include them on additional missions before this time.”

New Vaccine for RSV

Respiratory syncytial virus, commonly known as RSV, is an illness that affects

almost every child in the first two years of their life. While generally mild, the virus is responsible for nearly 1 in 50 deaths for children under the age of five, globally.

As of last week, Nirsevimab, a monoclonal antibody developed by AstraZeneca and Sanofi to prevent RSV, had been nearly unanimously endorsed by advisors to the U.S. Food and Drug Administration.

to be safe, with only minor common side effects appearing, such as a rash. As for the drug’s effectiveness, trials showed that the likelihood of hospitalization from RSV-related illness was reduced by about 78%, and chances of getting lower respiratory tract infections caused by the virus that required medical attention went down by about 75%.

The first of its kind, this monoclonal antibody would be administered as a single-dose and would create immediate immunity in the child’s body.

containing classified documents at his Mar-a-Lago resort, and for obstructing justice by purportedly hiding some records from investigators.

In a vote on Thursday, the FDA’s Antimicrobial Drugs Advisory Committee voted that the advantages of the drug likely outweigh the disadvantages, with 21-0 endorsing it for infants, and 19-2 endorsing Nirsevimab for children up to the age of two who are especially susceptible to the virus. With the committee’s advice in mind, the agency will make the final decision as to whether the antibody will be approved.

In clinical trials, Nirsevimab proved

There are alternatives to Nirsevimab. Palivumab, also known as Synagis, for example, is an approved monoclonal antibody meant to prevent RSV; five doses are required. Another alternative is a new vaccine made by Pfizer, which can be given to a pregnant woman in order to protect the infant from RSV for the first six months of his or her life.

Trump Indicted

On the former U.S. President’s social media platform, Donald Trump wrote that he was “summoned to appear at the Federal Courthouse in Miami on Tuesday, at 3 PM,” having been indicted on seven counts for allegedly storing boxes

In response to these federal charges, Trump wrote, “The corrupt Biden Administration has informed my attorneys that I have been indicted, seemingly over the boxes hoax,” with his attorney, Jim Trusty, agreeing that the indictment is “ludicrous.”

Never before has a United States president faced federal prosecution. Many individuals have publicly reacted to this news, including several Republican officials. House Speaker Kevin McCarthy tweeted that it was “a dark day for the United States of America,” and many of McCarthy’s fellow Republicans have voiced similar objections to what many conservatives consider a political witch hunt aimed at banning Trump from

running as president again.

In a video response, Trump said, “I am an innocent man. I did nothing wrong.”

News of this indictment came as a surprise to many, including the U.S. Secret Service and U.S. Marshals, who were not told of the indictment prior to its announcement on Truth Social.

These events come nearly a year after the FBI searched Mar-a-Lago in August of 2022, taking with them thousands of documents, one hundred of which are said to be classified. In the months prior to these charges, many people who worked for Trump testified before a Washington, D.C., grand jury, and most recently, several people have come before a southern Florida grand jury.

Supreme Court Rules For Redistricting

In the court case Merrill v. Milligan, plaintiff Evan Milligan sued the state of Alabama, claiming that the state’s congressional map, which only has one Black majority district out of seven, restricts Black Alabamians’ voting power.

The Supreme Court, on Thursday,

ruled in favor of Black voters, stating that Alabama needs to redraw their congressional map in order to allow for equal, or close to equal, representation of Black people, who make up 26% of Alabamian citizens.

Justice Thomas heavily criticized the ruling, claiming that the decision actually guarantees racial discrimination and that it hijacks the districting process in order “to pursue a goal that has no legitimate claim under our constitutional system: the proportional allocation of political power on the basis of race.”

ty of continued heightened activity, and with foreclosure completions seeing the largest monthly increase this year, we will continue to monitor the potential impacts this may have on the housing market.”

In a surprise move, Chief Justice John Roberts and Justice Brett Kavanaugh, two conservative justices, sided with Justice Sonia Sotomayor, Elena Kagan, and Ketanji Brown Jackson, who comprise the court’s liberal faction, voting in favor of Milligan. This left Clarence Thomas, Samuel Alito, Neil Gorsuch, and Amy Coney Barret in dissent.

The majority’s 5-4 ruling was made with the Voting Rights Act of 1965 in mind, particularly the law’s second section which prohibits the “denial or abridgment of the right of any citizen of the United States to vote on account of race.”

Justice Roberts insisted that he intended only to maintain the status quo with this ruling but acknowledged that there could be genuine issues with the law, asserting that it “may impermissibly elevate race in the allocation of political power within the states” and added that “our opinion today does not diminish or disregard these concerns. It simply holds that a faithful application of our precedents and a fair reading of the record before us do not bear them out here.”

Some protest and others rejoice over the court’s decision. The plaintiff called the ruling a “win for democracy and freedom not just in Alabama but across the United States,” while Steve Marshall, the attorney general of Alabama, insisted in a statement that the “case is not over” and that he intends on defending his state’s current congressional map at a full trial.

More Foreclosures Coming

When ranking all U.S. cities with over 200,000 people, the ones with the highest percentages of foreclosures in May included Elkhart, Indiana, and Cleveland, as well as Palm Bay and Ocala, Florida, all of which saw foreclosure notices in about 1 in every 1,600 housing units.

As for metropolitan areas with more than 1 million people, the following cities had the highest foreclosure rates last month: Jacksonville, Florida (1 in every 1,699), Chicago (1 in every 1,991), Baltimore (1 in every 1,908), and Orlando (1 in every 2,049).

These high rates are likely caused by the ever-increasing cost of living. At the same time, wages have gone down over the past few years, and inflation has risen significantly since the pandemic, only beginning to fall with recent interest rate hikes.

With that being said, unemployment rates are not currently elevated, and as such, experts do not anticipate a foreclosure crisis.

Hawaii Volcano Eruptions

Newly released statistics, which have been published by real estate data group ATTOM, shed light on fast-rising U.S. foreclosures.

The group observed a 4% increase from April to May and a 5% increase from May 2022 to May 2023, accounting for 23,245 properties starting the foreclosure process last month.

Florida, California, and Texas had the most foreclosure starts in May, with 2,901, 2,451, and 2,286 incidents respectively. Illinois and New York also ranked high, with Illinois at 1,358 and New York at 1,287.

“The recent increase in foreclosure filings nationwide indicates a trend that has been observed throughout the year, and what we have expected to occur,”

ATTOM’s CEO, Rob Barber, stated. “This upward trajectory suggests the possibili-

Last week on Wednesday, Hawaii’s Kilauea volcano began erupting, initially prompting U.S. officials to warn of the danger such an eruption may present to locals. However, only a day later, the bursts of lava became less of a threat, allowing thousands to observe from a safe, yet close distance.

On the first day of the eruption, over 10,000 people came to watch, with lava bursts reaching heights of 200 feet in the morning, eventually going down to somewhere between 13 to 30 feet later in the day.

“While an eruption is an exciting experience, keep in mind you are observing a sacred event,” Hawaii Volcanoes National Parks officials said, with the tourism authority urging “mindfulness when planning a visit to the volcano.”

“Don’t just get out your camera and

take photos. Stop and be still and take it in,” urged Cyrus Johnasen, an Hawaiian spokesperson for Hawaii county. “It’s something that you can’t pay for. In that moment, you are one with Hawaii.”

Many watched from two miles, one mile, or even half-a-mile away from the volcano, with the closest place to watch the spectacle being the overlook near Keanakākoi Crater, according to the NPS.

It is unknown how long these eruptions are going to continue, but as long as they do, people “are getting a spectacular show,” said Hawaii Island mayor Mitch Roth. “And it’s happening in a safe place that was built for people to come view it.”

While the lava won’t go outside the Volcanoes National Park and as such presents little danger to locals, there are still other health issues to consider.

“Large amounts of volcanic gas—primarily water vapor (H2O), carbon dioxide (CO2), and sulfur dioxide (SO2)—are continuously released during eruptions of Kīlauea volcano,” the NPS warned on their website, noting that “this hazard can have far-reaching effects down-wind.” Thin pieces of volcanic glass can also pose health concerns, such as skin and eye issues, and exposure to volcanic ash can cause lung problems.

While at this time eruptions at

Kilauea are relatively safe, its eruption in 2018 caused significant destruction and left many with no choice but to evacuate, leaving their homes to be destroyed by the lava.

“I can now announce that with a time of 93 hours and 11 minutes, Hilda Baci is the new holder for the Guinness world Records title of the longest cooking marathon,” an adjudicator said.

The 26-year-old cooked in a makeshift kitchen, starting on Thursday, May 11, and finishing on Monday, May 15, producing almost 100 pots of food.

“When I found out, I cried, prayed and screamed,” Bassey said after learning of her record-breaking feat.

Cooking Like Crazy

“Then I called my mum, and we cried some more. I am so happy. Everything and all the hard work was worth it. I said I wanted to be a record holder and now I am. This is for all my team members and for all the hard work,” she added.

Although Bassey cooked for 100 hours, she was penalized for an error in her scheduled rest breaks, according to the world record committee.

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Effiong Bassey has cornered the market on marathon cooking. The Nigerian chef, known on social media at Hilda Baci, is now the new world record holder for the longest cooking marathon. Bassey’s latest cookathon lasted four days.

“There was a miscalculation when it came to Hilda’s rest breaks, meaning we are unable to award the 100 hours claimed,” the adjudicator said.

The longest cookathon title was previously held by Indian chef Lata Tondon, who cooked for 87 hours and 45 minutes in 2019.

That’s a lot of kugels she could be making.

You’d best leave this record alone.

An Ontario man said a 68-foot-tall poison ivy plant he found growing on his property left him itching for Guinness World Records recognition.

Robert Fedrock of Paris told Guinness World Records he was walking in a wooded area on his property several years ago when he first spotted the large vine growing up a tree.

“It took me a while to figure out what kind of vine it was because the leaves only started about [10 feet] off the ground, and the aerial roots were such a tangled mass that I didn’t recognize it as poison ivy right away,” Fedrock explained.

He had suspected the vine might be poison ivy, but he had to dig out some buckthorn to get a better view. The experience left him with a positive

42 identification, as well as poison ivy rashes on his hands, arms, face and stomach.

“I was hoping to avoid it, but some hazards are inescapable, and the cause was worthy,” he said. “The oil that causes the rash is also in the dead leaves which litter the area. It seeps into the dirt, and the underground roots also contain it and were likely intermingled with the common buckthorn roots I was digging out.”

A friend suggested Fedrock submit the 68-foot vine to Guinness World Records, and the organization confirmed it is the tallest poison ivy plant in the world.

“I thought it was the coolest thing in the world. I am fascinated by the natural world and I’m always looking for the most interesting things in the woods; they make good destinations for my trails, but in this case the trail found the interesting thing,” he said.

We can’t be-leave it.

The Snowiest June

If you think we’re getting a mild spring, consider going to Mount Washington.

The mountain located in New Hampshire is known for its extreme weather conditions, and this month is no exception.

According to the Mount Washington Observatory, this June has been the snowiest June in 91 years of record-keeping, with snow falling on Saturday bringing the total to 8.4 inches – so far.

were locked in unopened, sealed bank bags.

the questions they asked me, for example having the lead sealed bag or having bags from banks we don’t necessarily recognize, knowing they are at least 40 years old or more. I’ve had quite a few collectors tell me that this is something that shouldn’t be sold until we know what’s going on,” Reyes said.

The coins are made of copper and not zinc, which the United States switched to in the 1980s.

Reyes has listed the coins on a resale website, asking for $25,000. One million pennies have a face value of $10,000.

By early Monday, nearly all of the snow had melted.

The observatory is at the summit of the Northeast’s highest mountain, at 6,288 feet (1,916.5 meters).

A Million Pennies for Your Thoughts

A family cleaning out their home in Los Angeles stumbled upon several bags containing quite a find.

John Reyes said that he was cleaning out his father-in-law’s home when he made the discovery. One million pennies

“I’ve actually been contacted by a few coin collectors or people who specialize in this space and just based off some of

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“The value is in the uniqueness,” he said.

Nothing like cold, hard cash.

The University of Central Florida, headquartered in Orlando, is the college with the most undergraduates in the United States, with almost 60,000 students per year.

Around the Community

Yeshiva of Far Rockaway’s 29th Annual Siyum, Where 112 Talmidim Completed Mesechta Kedushin

Photos by Yossi Kohn

Guest speaker Rabbi Shaya Cohen, Rosh Yeshiva of Zichron Aryeh

Rabbi Chaim Shlomo Metz and Rabbi Yechiel Yitzchok Perr, Rosh Yeshiva

Kiddush Hashem in the Halls of Power

Mitchell (Moyshe) Silk, who served in the Trump administration from 2017 to 2021, spoke to Yeshiva Darchei Torah’s mid-

dle school talmidim on Sunday morning about making a kiddush Hashem. Mr. Silk, a Borough Park resident, served most recently as Assistant Secretary for

International Markets and Development at the U.S. Department of the Treasury and is today an official at the World Bank.

Photos by Yoel Hecht

SKA Graduates Class of 2023

The SKA commencement exercises were held on Sunday, June 11, at DRS, where family members joined the graduates, the SKA administration and faculty members to honor this milestone. After stirring introductions from Mrs. Bluma Drebin, Principal, General Studies, and Mrs. Elisheva Kaminetsky, Prinicipal, Religious Studies, Valedictorians Arielle Rosman, Saluta-

torian Atara Razi and Keter Shem Tov Awardee Jordana Brown addressed the audience.

Diplomas and gifts to the girls were distributed and after the ceremony, the guests and graduates headed outside for refreshments and the opportunity to celebrate.

Mazal tov to the Stella K. Abraham High School for Girls Class of 2023!

Shevach STEM Class Students Win at CIJE Innovation Day

On May 23, the eleventh grade Shevach High School STEM class and their instructor Mrs. Paula Berger participated in the CIJE Innovation Day at the American Dream Mall. The STEM students joined over a thousand other students from 47 different schools, bringing together 450 projects to compete in the engineering competition. The engineering competition is a capstone project. The objective of the capstone project is to identify a problem and design and engineer an innovative solution to the problem or improve upon an existing solution. This requires the building of a physical device (the solution to the problem) that includes embedded programming (coding) and electronics.

Two Shevach teams won top awards for their projects. Yael Goldfarb, Devora Lind and Devorah Loiterman won first place overall in Engineering for Personal Care, and Shayna Hoch, Tehila Levant and Yael Zimmerman won third place overall for Environmental Engineering. The Engineering for Personal Care project was a teddy bear that when used can aid in better sleep. The bear had red lights, a fan, a diffuser for lavender scent, and played calming music. The Environmental Engineering project was developed in order to detect lead in pipes. They placed a sensor in the pipes that detected changes in ion concentration and notified the owner of the pipes that there was lead with an alarm and an LCD screen that stated that lead was detected.

In addition to the above, Shevach

students designed and presented the following projects: An alarm to detect if the temperature of the lithium ion batteries is getting too hot and might start a fire, a machine to detect and alert the user of plaque on teeth, a shower mat that changes water pressure when the user is not directly under the water, an adaptation to a car to turn on the blinker when your GPS says to turn, and an alarm to detect leaky pipes, in order to prevent property damage and excessively high water bills.

In the words of Daniella Natanov, “Innovation day was a unique experience, and it taught us a lot about different approaches to science and engineering.” Tehilla Levant shared, “I really liked working with different girls. It helped build teamwork skills and being able to compromise.” Zahava Yusupov relayed that working on her project “was an opportunity for me to learn how to code, create a circuit, and speak in public.” Meira Moskowitz highlighted that “ it was so interesting to see what other groups came up with. The pitch rooms worked very nicely and it wasn’t as stressful as I thought it would be. Everyone was so excited to be there.” Yael Zimmerman added, “We were given all the help we needed. Innovation day was an amazing experience and I loved seeing all the schools come together.” Naama Rambod truly enjoyed being “part of an initiative that is able to create such helpful and unique designs to help society progress.”

Congratulations to all of the participants for their exceptional work!

Names, Not Numbers at HAFTR Middle School

The Names, Not Numbers program at HAFTR Middle School had its finale on June 5. After a year of researching and learning how to conduct an interview, the students and survivors watched as their work was displayed on the “big screen.” This program is unique, as HAFTR Middle School is the only yeshiva to participate in this program in conjunction with public school Lawrence Middle School.

In September, the students who were chosen to participate in the program began taking weekly courses on the Holocaust. In addition to these classes, the students were brought into seminars given by Shoshana Soroka, editor of TJH, who taught them how to prepare and conduct an interview. As the months went on, the students researched their survivors and created a list of questions. In January, the students excitedly met their survivors and had a once-in-a-lifetime experience. Leaving their interviews with knowledge that cannot be taught in a classroom, the students then edited their interviews in preparation for the documentary.

The final movie included segments of the five survivors’ stories and the students’

testimonials. At the final event, students, survivors and their families were given a chance to sit together and catch-up on each other’s lives. After dinner, all of our guests were invited to visit our museum before watching the documentary. There, guests were able to look at the different exhibits including “Courage to Remember,” which was donated to HAFTR by the Simon Wiesenthal Center, “Forever Engraved,” which features sculptures by Tsipora Karp and additional artifacts lent to the school by the Weiner and Wolfson families.

“That night was one of the nicest events I’ve ever been at,” said one parent who witnessed the beauty of the program and saw how the students not only learned about the Holocaust from survivors themselves, but also learned compassion and the importance of listening to others and being appreciative for what they have in life. We would like to give a special thanks to our seven survivors who took the time to speak to our students and tell their stories: Saul Blau, Martin Lifshitz, Sally Muschel, Rina Nudel, and Jakub Rybsztajn.

Rav Tzvi Meir Zilberberg Visits Congregation Aish Kodesh of Woodmere

It was a regular Tuesday in June, but for Congregation Aish Kodesh of Woodmere, it was a weekday yom tov! The shul was zoche to host their Adopt-a-Kollel Rosh Kollel, Rav Tzvi Meir Zilberberg, the famed mashpiah from Eretz Yisroel and Rosh Kollel of Kollel Ohr Hachaim. Rav Zilberberg was warmly greeted by the shul’s rav, Rav Moshe Weinberger, and many of the shul mem-

bers. He gave a riveting drasha in English and swept up the entire assemblage with his enthusiasm for avodas Hashem and chassidus

After the drasha, Rav Tzvi Meir and the Rav burst into spontaneous singing and dancing as the shul members joined them in an enthusiastic rekida. Before he left, many came over to receive his bracha and counsel.

Rav Tzvi Meir Zilberberg addressing his Adopt-a-Kollel, partner Kehillah, Cong. Aish Kodesh of Woodmere

Giving divrei bracha to members of the kehilla

A partial view of the crowd

HAFTR High School Recognizes Student Success

By Stephanie Marcus

HAFTR High School ended the academic year off strong with a Celebration of Excellence/ Student Appreciation Luncheon for students in grades 9 through 11. This event took place on May 30, and celebrated students’ achievements in academics, Torah, foreign language, chesed, the arts, STEM and athletics. The Celebration of Excellence began with welcoming remarks from Ms. Naomi Lippman, principal, who congratulated students on their outstanding accomplishments, and Dr. Josh Wyner, associate principal, who talked about the students’ great potential to make their unique contributions to HAFTR. Students then enjoyed a video of the ceremonial lighting of the candles to represent the pillars on which the National Honor Society stands: Character, Leadership, Scholarship, Service, and Torah. The candles were lit by Stephanie Marcus, Jacob Wolf, Ethan Muchnick, Michal Mari, and Abbi Kammerman. The incoming president and vice president of the Deah Chapter of the National Honor Society, Kaitlin Pollack and Esther Gaon, then recited the National Honor Society pledge. Along with this presentation, the HAFTR faculty created a montage video expressing their thanks for their students’ consistent hard work and dedication throughout the year. They offered unique and heartfelt messages to students, explained valuable lessons that the students have taught them, and

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shared their pride in the achievements of their students. Following the program, students gathered in the beautifully decorated gym for a delicious lunch of sushi, pizza, and Rita’s ices.

During the luncheon, students had the opportunity to learn about exciting new programs and activities for the upcoming 2023-2024 school year. In addition, students were presented with awards for their scholastic achievements in both Limudei Kodesh and General Studies. Students were also included in the Deah Chapter of the National Honor Society, Principals’ Honor Roll, Distinguished Honor Roll, Honor Roll, or Certificates of Merit. Students were also nominated to specific honor societies for achievement in art, chesed, foreign language, hatmadah, speech & debate, and STEM.

HAFTR’s values are reflected in this initiative – that hard work pays off. Our school is aware of each and every student’s drive to succeed and improve in an academic, social, spiritual, and emotional sense. This success is not limited to students with perfect scores but is open to all students who are motivated, hard-working, have a solid work ethic and are willing to push through challenges. The culture of HAFTR is about highlighting the positives of every student and finding areas where each individual can shine. Congratulations to all students on another successful year at HAFTR!

Graduation caps are known as mortarboards because they bear resemblance to the masonry tools of the same name.

One Israel Fund Goes to Washington

One Israel Fund, the premier humanitarian organization providing for the security, safety and humanitarian needs of the residents of Judea and Samaria, paid a visit to our nation’s capital last month. Amidst the backdrop of Yom Yerushalayim, Scott M. Feltman, the organization’s executive vice president, came to Washington to brief numerous members of Congress about the incredible work that the organization is involved in on the ground, day-in and day-out. Among the lawmakers that One Israel Fund’s Feltman met with were Congressman Don Bacon of Nebraska; Congressman Carlos Gimenez of Florida; Congressman Doug Lamborn of Colorado; Congressman Nick Langworthy of New York; Congresswoman Carol Miller of West Virginia; Congressman Max Miller of Ohio; Congresswoman Mariannette Miller-Meeks of Iowa; Congressman Greg Murphy of North Carolina; and Congressman Rudy Yakym III of Indiana.

As chronicled in The Jerusalem Re-

port, the organization was created after the signing of the Oslo Accords in order to provide for the various litany of needs of the residents of those living in Judea and Samaria. In addition to the critical preventive security equipment that One Israel Fund provides, the organization also fills gaps in the areas of medical, education, recreation and community development that exist in these communities. Among its recreational, educational and community projects are playgrounds, cultural centers, day care and senior care centers, programs for special needs and at-risk youth and much more. One Israel Fund impacts, on average, 200 unique projects each year.

The organization is now undergoing a truly transformational project which will alter the general medical landscape in the State of Israel – the Binyamin Medical Center. With a shortage of medical centers in existence, the greater Jerusalem area is in urgent need of an additional state-ofthe-art medical center, and the Binyamin

Medical Center will provide this for the northern communities within Jerusalem as well as the suburban communities to its north. This area will service a quarter-million Jewish residents as well as an equal number in the local Arab population.

Feltman met with more than a dozen different lawmakers in Congress during his thirty-six-hour trip. The reception to the work One Israel Fund impacts, on the part of the lawmakers he met with, was overwhelmingly positive, with many not only committing to supporting the group’s life-saving work but also encouraging Feltman to come back together with members of his lay leadership. The meetings were informative and provided an excellent platform from which Feltman was able to educate and enlighten members of Congress regarding the reality of the situation on-the-ground for those living in Israel’s Biblical Heartland.

Beyond raising tremendous awareness among influential lawmakers on Capitol Hill for One Israel Fund’s activities, the trip served another incredibly important purpose. In every single meeting Feltman had, he was able to inspire an interest on the part of the respective lawmaker to visit, with One Israel Fund, the actual residents within these communities instead of only meeting with the political and military officials they customarily engage with on their trips to Israel. Indeed, among Feltman’s meetings were several lawmakers who had just returned from their trip to Israel with Speaker Kevin McCarthy, including Congressman Max Miller, one of only two Jewish Republican members of Congress. Through all his meetings, Feltman explained the critical importance of lawmakers devoting time during their trips to Israel to meet with the actual mothers and chil-

dren who are living there; along with the civilian first-response team members who devote their free time to protecting the communities in which they live. In this way, these lawmakers can develop a comprehensive understanding of the issues plaguing these communities on a daily basis on the ground.

Indeed, besides for committing to working together with One Israel Fund on facilitating such trips when they visit Israel, the lawmakers expressed that they view it as morally and politically wrong to visit the leadership of the Palestinian Authority in Ramallah and not spend any time in the neighboring Jewish communities.

While Feltman’s meetings with every member of Congress was truly memorable and impactful in myriad ways, it was his meeting with Congressman Don Bacon, who serves of the influential House Armed Services Committee, that was especially meaningful. During their meeting, Congressman Bacon did not merely take a deep interest in One Israel Fund’s various programs while also exhibiting his impressive understanding of the everyday predicament on the ground for Israelis, but he also quoted from Scripture, specifically the book of Zechariah. When Feltman asked him the source of his love and passion for Israel, Congressman Bacon responded that his father taught him and his siblings, from a very young age, that “those who bless the Jewish people, will be blessed themselves,” an adage that he takes very seriously.

In all, the trip was extremely productive, and the plans are already in the works for a follow-up visit by Feltman and his team of lay leaders with the ultimate goal of having a roundtable discussion with various representatives and members of One Israel Fund.

With Congresswoman Mariannette Mary Miller-Meeks

With Congressman Don Bacon

With Congressman Max Miller

With Congressman Greg Murphy

With Congressman Carlos Giminez

Swim Safety with JOWMA

On Thursday, June 8, a vibrant community gathered at Goodnight Moon, the popular children’s clothing boutique in Cedarhurst, to attend a JOWMA community health lecture about swim safety. The event, led by board-certified pediatrician Dr. Alisa Minkin, attracted mothers and caregivers who were motivated to increase their knowledge about staying safe while enjoying water activities this summer.

The lecture covered a wide range of topics related to swim safety. Dr. Minkin stressed the significance of adult supervision at all times when children are in or near water, emphasizing that vigilance is crucial, even when a lifeguard is present. She shared statistics and stories that illustrated the potential dangers and the unfortunate consequences of neglecting these precautions.

Following the presentation, attendees were invited to ask questions. Dr. Minkin provided invaluable tips on selecting appropriate flotation devices, teaching children basic swimming skills, and creating a safe home environment with pool barriers and alarms.

In addition to the informative lecture, the event also featured various engaging activities. A raffle for a $250 Goodnight Moon gift package was held, and the boutique offered delicious iced coffee, iced tea, and muffins. Attendees receive a free swag bag including a universal stroller cup holder and kids’ beach balls.

Frumee Taubenfeld shared, “It was a beautiful morning to get together and learn about swim safety, which is such an important topic ahead of summer!

Dr. Minkin gave a short, informative

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down-to-earth presentation, and we really learned a lot. Thank you JOWMA for bringing this to the Five Towns and looking forward to next week’s event.”

The JOWMA lecture on swim safety at Goodnight Moon was an inspiring example of the importance placed on child well-being within the local community. Goodnight Moon owner and event host Yael Schulman said, “As the owner of Goodnight Moon Layette, a boutique retail baby and children’s clothing store in the heart of Cedarhurst, it is a privilege to host a four-part series with JOWMA, who is providing the Five Towns community with important information related to children’s safety,” Schulman said.

The event brought together parents, caregivers and JOWMA physicians, all dedicated to enhancing the safety of children during water-related activities. The event provided an opportunity for attendees to acquire vital knowledge and practical advice from a renowned expert in pediatric care.

As the community health lecture on swim safety drew to a close, the attendees left with a renewed sense of responsibility towards ensuring the safety of their loved ones. Dr. Alisa Minkin’s expert guidance, combined with the engaging activities, raffles, and giveaways, made this event a resounding success.

JOWMA’s Fun in the Sun series continues next week on Thursday, June 15 at 9am with Dermatologist Dr. Renee Fruchter discussing sun protection. Another raffle for a $250 Goodnight Moon package will be offered together with amazing summer swag!

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Dr. Mimi Knoll, founder and CEO of JOWMA, Frumee Taubenfeld, and Yael Schulman, owner of Goodnight Moon

Dr. Mimi Knoll and Yael Schulman with Dr. Alisa Minkin, pediatrician and podcast host

Scenes from the YKLI Nursery Graduations Last Week

Scenes from the Pre-1-A Siach Yitzchok Chumash Mesiba

Photos by Yehuda Jacobs Photography

Class of 2023 Mazal Tov!

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Yossi Bruck

Aaron Cohen

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Tani Davidowitz

Dovid Davies

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Daniel Goldberg

Zack Hawk

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Yaakov Kirschner

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Yoey Lieberman

Akiva Light

Yitzchak Liviem

Alexander Mandelbaum

Benjamin Mandelbaum

Naftali Manne

Chaim Messinger

Ari Meyer

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Noam Perlman

Daniel Rephael

Moishe Roz

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Yossi Schwartz

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News at YCQ

On Sunday June 4, YCQ proudly participated in the Celebrate Israel Day Parade, showcasing their commitment to Eretz Yisrael and Am Yisrael. With enthusiasm and pride, hundreds of students, teachers, and staff marched together down 5th Avenue. The theme of this year’s Parade was “Israel @ 75: Renewing the Hope,” and the festive atmosphere, colorful floats, and uplifting music created a memorable environment for all.

There were so many different pieces that had to be coordinated to make sure the parade ran as smoothly as it did, and YCQ would like to specifically thank the following people: First and foremost, thank you to Morah Daniela Rafael for coordinating all the details of the busing and the chaperones and permission slips.

Thank you to the teachers who chaperoned buses and our students so care -

fully from the beginning of the day until every child was picked up. Thank you to: Morah Silverstein, Mrs. Ambalu, Mrs Hoffman, Mrs Klein, Rabbi Soffer, Rabbi Steinberg, Rabbi Rovner, Rabbi Nat, Rabbi Howitt, Ms Blackwood, Mrs. Finkel, Mr. Ehrenkranz, Ms. Betesh, Mrs. Faibish, Ms. Ambagtsheer, and Morah Haller.

Thank you to Mrs. Linda Benson and Sara from the art room for designing the banner as well as organizing all of the other props. Thank you to Mr. Jacob Grossman for all the logistical support. Thank you to Rabbi Hamel and Mrs. Teichman for coordinating and designing the t-shirts. Thank you to Rabbi Rohr, Mrs. Lowinger, and Mrs. Cohen, for leading our practices and organizing the school lines to ensure everyone marched in unison.

Thank you Morah Tali for leading the

sixth, seventh, and eighth girls in the excellent and enthusiastic dance presentation. Thank you to Mrs. Jaffe, Mrs. Ambalu, and Mr. Yossi Zimilover for taking great videos and pictures so we can have unique memories of this special day. Thank you to our security team, Mr.Cruz, as well as Maria, Alea and Fabrice for joining us and making sure we were safe. Thank you to Kevin, John and Sergio for helping to transport all the props.

May we be zoche to march next year in the parade leading up to the third Beit Hamikdash in Yerushalayim Habenuya!

The JHS Boys Mishnayot Enrichment Club successfully completed Masechet Bava Metzia and celebrated with a beautiful siyum on Monday, June 5. Each student recited and explained a Mishnah at the siyum for the students and their parents, and succinctly summarized the expansive mesechet.

Led by Rabbi Ophie Nat, the students met every Monday night after school to learn. The students learn b’chavrusa amongst each other and then Rabbi Nat concludes the evening with a shiur. The special club is by invitation only. Students are chosen by Rabbi Landsman and their rebbeim from the previous year, and learn completely l’shmah, without any external incentives.

This year, students completed Mesechet Bava Metzia. The program functions in a 3-year cycle, learning Bava Kama, Bava Metzia, and Bava Batra. Students that join in 6th grade will complete and master the three masechtot by the time they graduate. Looking forward to Bava Batra next year!

Mazal tov to all the participants and thank you to Rabbi Nat!

Safety Kid at YOSS

Last Thrusday, YOSS reintroduced our Safety Kid program thanks to the efforts of our dedicated parents who trained and volunteered to provide a most valuable message. We utilized this established program in the past with great success.

We would like to thank Mrs. Riva Ratner for coordinating the program together with Mrs. Yonina Wind and Mrs. Sori Laufer. They gave their time to work directly with the children of grades 1 through 5 about very important safety information as we head into the summer

months. Some of the topics discussed included understanding how and who to ask for help, creating buddy systems, situational awareness, how to ensure safety in various scenarios, knowing who to reach out to in case of emergency, and the like.

These important topics were delivered in a very sensitive and calming manner. The boys were very receptive to the mes-

sages given over and took it seriously.

This is a wonderful program used across the country, originally developed by the Los Angeles Halachic Advisory Board (HAB) and endorsed my many mosdos and rabbanim throughout the country.

May Hashem continue to give us siyata d’shmaya in keeping our children safe!

Talmidim of Siach Yitzchok visited Yeshiva Darchei Torah last week to see and hear divrei Torah from Harav Dov Landau, shlita. Along the way, some boys also got to give shalom to Rabbi Bender, shlita.

Photos by Naftali Goldgrab

Rabbi Usher Anschel Jungreis with his pre-1A class at Yeshiva Ketana of Queens as they celebrated their chumash seudah

Rabbi Goodman’s sixth grade shiur at YOSS celebrated their Gemara Bechina

Touro Celebrates Achievements of More Than 600 Graduates at 49th Annual Commencement

Touro’s Lander Colleges graduated more than 600 students last Sunday at the 49th Annual Commencement Exercises, held at Alice Tully Hall in Lincoln Center. Families, friends and faculty came out to honor the graduates and celebrate their individual and collective achievements.

“The Torah-rich settings at Touro have provided a superb education that you will use to continue expanding and deepening your knowledge as you move on to graduate work, or enter the workforce,” said Touro University President Dr. Alan Kadish. “Your experiences here have taught you the values of balance and dedication, which until now, have existed within a bubble. In your parents’ homes, you saw tradition and learned Torah values. At your yeshivot and day schools, the values that you learned at home were continually reinforced. And in Touro’s unique programs, these values were shared and expanded. But now, upon graduation, they will be put to the test… I have been in education long enough to know that no one is ever thrilled to hear the word test. But I am also here to tell you fear not – because you’ve done great thus far. And you will continue to succeed.”

Numerous awards were presented for community service as well as high academic achievement in math, accounting, biology, art, education, finance, psychology, political science and more.

Zvi Ryzman, Chairman of the Touro University Board of Directors, received an honorary degree and served as key-

note speaker. A true Renaissance Jew, Ryzman is a respected Talmudic scholar and international teacher of Torah as well as Founder and CEO of American International Industries, one of the largest manufacturers and distributors of beauty products in the world. He served in the Israel Defense Forces, received rabbinic ordination from Rav Yechezkel Sarna of the famed Chevron Yeshiva and earned a degree in political science and economics at Tel Aviv University. For Touro students, he is a role model for integrating a life of Torah study and stellar career achievements.

”No matter the path one takes, our calling is to make a Kiddush Hashem” said Ryzman, “we can show the world that Hashem is found not only in the Beis HaMedrash and Beis HaKnesses, but also in the lobbies of businesses, halls of government and corridors of hospitals. Our timeless Torah provides timely context and framework for every new dilemma posed by modern science and technology. I encourage you to delve deep enough, learn diligently enough and I am sure you

will find it,” said Ryzman. Future is Bright for Touro Grads

The Touro graduates are headed for careers at top firms in computer science and technology, finance, accounting, cybersecurity, marketing, business and more. Many will enter graduate and professional schools in law, medicine, dentistry and psychology where they have acceptance rates of over 95%. Others will pursue health science careers as physical and occupational therapists, physician assistants and pharmacists through Touro’s integrated honors pathway.

In looking to the future ahead, one of the valedictorians, Dovi Teigman of Touro’s Lander College of Arts & Sciences, shared his personal wisdom, “It is only the Torah values we hold dear, such as honesty, humility, and compassion, in combination with the knowledge we have acquired, that truly define us as individuals and shape the impact we will make on the world.”

Chana Rosenbluth, valedictorian at Touro’s Lander College for Women, who is headed to Columbia Law School

this fall, urged her fellow graduates to step up and become leaders, “Wherever you are headed next, take charge of it. If you, like me, are going on to further education, form relationships with your teachers and take an active role in your class culture. And if you are entering the workforce, seek out connections with role models and colleagues, embrace the opportunities that come your way, and continue to develop yourself.... Use the skills that you have gained in college to take active roles in your communities as well. Continue to volunteer, give, educate, and lead.”

Other valedictorians included Daniel Sokel of Touro’s Lander College for Men who is planning for a career as a clinical psychologist; and Aliza Peikes of Touro’s Lander College of Arts & Sciences, a software engineer at Goldman Sachs. For more information, visit touro. edu.

Touro President Dr. Alan Kadish, Touro Chairman and honorary degree recipient Zvi Ryzman, Touro Executive Dean, Dr. Robert Goldschmidt, and Touro EVP Rabbi Moshe Krupka

YOSS Mechina HIKON Trip

Chai Lifeline’s Camp Simcha Without Borders to Support More Than 600 Children Across North America

The YOSS Mechina recently celebrated the final term of HIKON davening program. Since the beginning of the year, the talmidim demonstrated excellence in their daily davening, including coming on time, dressing appropriately, and davening from a siddur.

In celebrationm they boys were treated to a delicious Chinese dinner catered by Hasini Shel Broadway and a trip to Long Island Adventure Park, Long Island’s premier park for outdoor climbing adventures. The boys had a great time navigating through the various courses using “tweezles” and cables. The park is a self-guided course, so the boys were able to go at their own pace, choosing which courses they wanted to attempt.

The evening culminated with a bonfire, roasting marshmallows, and a kumzits led by Rabbi Davidowitz and Rabbi Wolf. We are looking forward to seeing everyone back on HIKON next year.

Hashgacha pratis was the theme of the Bais Yaakov Ateres Miriam eighth grade’s foray into learning about the Holocaust and the exhibit they prepared. Each group based their triboard on a Holocaust-related novel that was read in class, as well as many other poems, stories and personal connections that they found. The girls brought out the hashgacha pratis that was present even in the darkest times and how this message extends to our generation. As one student wrote on her board, “It is our responsibility to carry on our ancestor’s legacies and make sure their sacrifices and loyalty to Hashem are not forgotten.”

In addition to the beautiful and thoughtful tri-boards displayed, the girls pre -

pared a beautiful video with pictures and a song depicting that thanks to Hashem’s help we as a people were able to “rise from the ashes.” The wall in the back of the room was adorned with yellow stars, naming people who perished, the unfortunate casualties of a world gone mad. But as one student so eloquently explained, while 6 million people were murdered and 6 million of their belongings were burned, the Germans couldn’t reach our core, our neshama. This was represented with a visual of crates numbered with items that were lost, with the crate labeled neshama listed with zero casualties, for although their bodies were decimated no one can ever harm the neshama of a Yid.

Three years after its initial launch during the heart of the COVID pandemic, Chai Lifeline, the international children’s health support network, is once again preparing to bring Camp Simcha Without Borders to more than 600 children living with serious illnesses across North America.

Continuing the tradition of providing the “Simcha” experience to communities far and wide, this summer sessions for boys and girls will be taking place spread out over the summer months in Miami, Los Angeles, Baltimore, Chicago, Lakewood, and Deal, NJ.

Campers will be treated to non-stop activities, action, music, and swimming, the opportunity to just be kids and take a break from the medical challenges faced daily. In addition to the camp sessions taking place in each city, each region will be hosting their own community event, with activities, games, concerts and more, giving local families a chance to see the work of Chai Lifeline and learn of opportunities to get involved in support-

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ing the local families who benefit from their services.

“COVID presented us with an unprecedented challenge where many kids weren’t able to travel to our Simcha campus in upstate New York, so we pivoted and brought Simcha to them,” explains Jack Tabbush, Director of Camp Simcha Without Borders. “While we’re blessed that the world has returned to normal, we realize that the need for local community-based programming remained, and we are proud to continue to embrace this concept for the benefit of so many children and families.”

Rabbi Simcha Scholar, CEO of Chai Lifeline, adds, “At Chai Lifeline, we are committed to bringing year-round joy and support to children and families living with serious illnesses—be it in camp or in their own community. We are delighted to offer this exciting and valuable service.”

For more information about Chai Lifeline, please visit www.chailifeline. org.

BYAM 8th Grade Holocaust Exhibit

Camp Simcha Without Borders LA

Portugal and Slovenia have the highest high school graduation rates in the world – 96%. Finland and Japan take second place with 95%.

Jewpernatural

Chabad of the Five towns concluded the 4-week adult education course: Jewpernatural: Signs, Spirits & Superstitions in Jewish Belief. The four lessons were titled Dreams & Direction, Stars & Signs, Jinx & The Evil

Eye, and Para & Normal. We look forward to seeing everyone at the future adult education classes at Chabad. For more information, go to Chabadfivetowns.com/adulted.

YSZ Girls HS Students Gear Up For Finals

Ever heard of the phrase, “Work hard, play hard”? Well, that’s what the student body of Yeshiva Sha’arei Zion High School for Girls did. With the end of the school year right around the corner, students took the opportunity to reflect on their accomplishments and set goals for finals week. You should have seen the atmosphere this past week at the high school. Students studied conscientiously for their exams and enjoyed fun Brain Breaks after each day’s final.

At the beginning of the week, Mrs. Rina Zerykier, menahelet, shared a beautiful thought with her talmidot. The esteemed educator compared the preparation for finals to the preparation for the ultimate final in the World to Come. The Gemara in Shabbat 31b addresses the idea that at the end of their life, each individual will be asked six questions regarding their actions over the span of their lifetime. Interestingly, one of the questions asked is, “Palpeles b’chachmah?” Did you engage in the pursuit of wisdom? Did you strive to differentiate between right and wrong? These thought-provoking quandaries reinforced our core values of cultivating an interest in lifelong learning, a healthy work ethic, and a culture of integrity.

“Learning doesn’t end when finals begin at Shaarei Zion. Instead of learning pesukim and mefarshim, students

HAFTR’s Generation to Generation Event

learn the art of teaching fellow students how to build resilience, and practice selfcare during these intense weeks,” explained Morah Balakhaneh. “And what better way to self-care than with awesome Brain Breaks?”

Last Monday, the girls ended the last full school day of the year with an incredible kumzitz led by the one and only Nechama Eventsur. The girls sat in a circle and sang their hearts out fervently and b’achdut. Later in the week, students enjoyed a painting activity planned by the fabulous G.O. The girls had a chance to relax, take a break from their studying, and enjoy some good old fun.

Tuesday, June 6 marked a memorable day at HAFTR Lower School as parents, grandparents, and even great-grandparents gathered for the annual third grade M’Dor L’Dor: Generation to Generation event. This special occasion served as a bridge between the students and their family roots, fostering a deeper understanding of their heritage and strengthening the bonds between generations.

It began with students learning about a family artifact or heirloom which included objects, photographs and documents. Armed with curiosity and a thirst for knowledge, the young learners conducted interviews research, tracing their ancestral roots and uncovering the stories of their predecessors. Third grade student Daniel Aspis featured a magnificent sterling silver Torah breastplate that his great-great-grandfather, Benjamin Gelber, donated on Simchat Torah, in 1928 to a shul he founded in Luxenberg. The ornament was buried during the war and later retrieved. About his artifact, Daniel said, “It represents my family’s faith and belief in Hashem.”

Under the guidance of Royce Maron, the talented art teacher at HAFTR Lower School, and her assistant, Ms. Naomi Eltherman, the students undertook various

creative projects that showcased their newfound knowledge of their family history. They created a Heritage page that featured a photograph of their artifact, a photo of its current owner, the family name, and a museum label which described the artifact in both Hebrew and English. Another highlight was the creation of personalized family crests representing their unique family identities. These stunning works of art made from metal and ink not only displayed their artistic talents but also symbolized the unity and legacy that each family carries from generation to generation.

Everyone took their seats in the auditorium, eagerly anticipating the musical performance presented by the talented third-grade students. Janet Goldman, the esteemed music teacher, once again exceeded expectations, orchestrating a beautiful and harmonious program that touched the hearts of all in attendance.

Generation to Generation has become a cherished tradition at HAFTR Lower School, providing third-grade students with a unique opportunity to honor their family legacies and strengthen the bonds that tie them to their roots. It is a remarkable event that instills in young minds a sense of belonging and pride in their heritage.

Mrs. Steele, General Studies principal, addressing 5th grade boys at Yeshiva Ketana of Long Island as they prepare to advance to 6th grade after the summer

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Diplomas were originally made of sheepskin.

Eric Gertler Meets with FJCC

The Chairman & CEO of US New and World Report and renowned philanthropist Eric Gertler met with Flatbush leaders last week to learn about the community and its institutions.

Mr. Gertler was brought to the community by his longtime friend Malcolm Hoenlein, Honorary Chairman of the

FJCC, and hosted by FJCC Chairman Josh Mehlman. Community leaders Avi Schick, Bob Moscovitz, Yogi Loshinsky, Rabbi Pinchos Hecht, and Steve Weill joined in a far-ranging discussion about the vibrant Flatbush community, its schools, network of volunteer charitable organizations and challenges.

Pinny Hikind, Jewish liaison to City Comptroller Brad Lander, with Eli Beer, founder of United Hatzalah of Israel, at the annual dinner last week

Famous author Meish Goldish visited Shulamith ECC

DRS Graduation Awardees The Youngest Mesaymim

The kindergarten talmidim of the Harriet Keilson Early Childhood Center at Yeshiva Darchei Torah rejoiced upon completing the Alef-Beis together with the Rosh HaYeshiva, Rav Yaakov Bender, who taught them a new letter each week along with a mitzvah or middah that began with that letter. Alef is for emes; beis is for brachos; gimmel is gemilus chassadim…and Tav is for Torah!

Valedictorian - Moti Schreck

Mordechai Tzvi Schrek is an exceptional student with an insatiable desire to become a Talmid Chacham. Moti’s remarkable intelligence is matched only by his tireless work ethic. Each day, Moti is the first student in the building, poring over your his Gemara with unwavering focus. Despite all the time spent on learning, Moti still managed to earn valedictorian thanks to his dedication to secular subjects. Beyond the academic achievements, he is admired for his sterling character and moral compass. KBY is fortunate to have Moti as a talmid, and we can’t wait to see the impact he will make on the world in the future.

Salutatorian - Raymond Tawil

The adjectives sincere, sensitive, studious, and stellar aptly describe Rachamim Yitzchak Tawil and begin to paint the picture of a young man poised for greatness. As the salutatorian, Raymond’s incredibly refined middot, love of learning, hasmadah, selfless assistance of his classmates, and academic acumen earned him the respect, admiration, and esteem of his rebbeim and teachers and the gratitude and appreciation of his peers. Raymond carried the Sephardic minyan on his broad shoulders, showing by example how a ben Torah synthesizes tefillah, Torah, and chessed. KBY is very fortunate to count Raymond amongst their talmidim next year.

CATCHing the Mental Health Free Fall

By Jessica Tsur

The mental health calamity is exploding in our community. Virtually every family is being affected. This illness in our health does not discriminate against anyone. All segments of the Jewish social strata are affected.

As a worthy individual who struggles with mental health challenges, it has been incredible for me watching the community offer multiple evenings of mental health awareness over the last few months. Presenters, including rabbanim, psychologists and social workers, are all in agreement that the Jewish nation is in the midst of a mental health catastrophe.

In my journey wrestling with intense anxiety and depression, I yearn for more, I demand action, answers and solutions. I cry out to know where to turn, who to call, where to get support , guidance and connection. I don’t want to sit on waiting lists for months at a time. I don’t want organizations directing me

to another resource and another place. That only adds to the hopelessness of this illness.

Five years ago, I spent my 40th birthday in a psychiatric hospital as my depression began to reach dangerous levels. As a mother of five, a teacher, and active productive community member, I worked hard trying to externally communicate that all was under control in my life. Internally, I was fighting a horrific battle that was slowly draining away my drive to keep moving forward effectively. With lots of details in between, horrendous periods of emotional pain, searching for and navigating therapists and methods of funding therapy , Zucker Hillside Hospital was where I crashed. Feeling so alone in my mental health journey and having nowhere to turn was the straw that broke my camel’s back. This hospital was also where I was reborn. It was there that I realized how connecting to others on similar journeys was critical to healing. It was there that my organiza-

tion, CATCH, was brought into being baruch Hashem: Creating a Team of Courage and Hope, AKA CATCH.

Currently in place are in-person clinician facilitated support groups. Two are for women who are battling with anxiety and depression. CATCH groups offer a safe and confidential space for individuals to connect, share, support, and validate one another. IYH future plans include groups servicing spouses of those who struggle, groups for men, groups for young singles, and older singles and widows/widowers.

Over the past few months, I have had the opportunity to connect with an incredible and diverse amount of courageous people that face the shame. They reach out because they are in pain. They need support and care and are pleading to know they aren’t in this fight alone. CATCH is the answer. CATCH is turning this awareness and putting it into fruition, baruch Hashem.

Those suffering with mental health

Shem Tov - Jack Lebor

Don’t let the cool guy persona trick you into neglecting to appreciate the humility and sensitivity of Yechezkel Lebor. Jack is an innate leader, but at the same time is always looking to improve himself. In his unassuming and humble way, Jack has shown tremendous growth throughout high school, as evidenced by being voted Keter Shem Tov by his peers. His commitment and effort to learning, reviewing and mastering Maseches Taanis with the V’Haarev Na program is nothing less than astounding. Netiv Aryeh is truly lucky to be acquiring a true star like Jack next year.

illness also need the same structured support as those struggling with other physical illnesses. Support includes cleaning assistance, meals, childcare, homework help, financial assistance and referrals, just to name a few. Most importantly, they need to know where to turn.

CATCH is the answer and solution!

A CEO of a mental health organization recently asked me how I am able to speak so openly about my mental health struggles. I looked at him straight in the eye and said, “There’s no way I’m going to let shame win.” We, as people, children of Hashem, all battle with something, whether it’s visible to the human eye or not. No one has to go through their mental health journey alone. All of Israel is responsible one for the other!

Please reach out if you or a family member needs assistance or you are interested in joining our team. Info@catchsupport.org, 347-433-4742.

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Valedictorian - Moti Schreck Salutatorian - Raymond Tawil Keter Shem Tov - Jack Lebor

YOSS Exhilarating Graduation Trip

Last week, the Yeshiva of South Shore eighth grade students enjoyed a fabulous trip celebrating their graduation. It was a unique trip that the boys will remember for a very long time. Together with their rebbeim, Rabbis Shonek, Rabbi Rosenwasser and Rabbi Neuman, they traveled up to Monsey and had a private audience with the Tosher Rebbe, Shlit”a. The Rebbe spoke to the group about the uniqueness of every Yid. “You are not a number,” he asserted. “Each and every one of you is beloved and special in the eyes of Hashem.” He explained the importance of davening and “talking” to Hashem. The talmidim felt the Rebbe’s warmth and love.

After his address, each student was able to offer a Shalom Aleichem to the Rebbe and to receive a personal bracha from him. It was a truly uplifting experience.

From therem they continued on to Liberty, New York, where they had an exclusive rental of Liberty Heights Trampoline Park. They especially enjoyed the “lava launch,” glow-in-the-dark trampo -

lines, extreme dodgeball, and the myriad of arcade games.

After a late lunch at Liberty Pizza, the boys headed to the Kartrite Water Park in Monticello for a Splash-tastic time! They enjoyed the Adventure River, the Nor’easter ride, the Flowrider, the Time Warp, Kartrite Island, and even surfed the perfect wave in the Hawaiian Wave Simulator. What a way to conclude a full day of activities.

To cap it all off, halfway home, they stopped in Monsey at Kosher Castle for a late dinner of American and Chinese food, and of course, Thursday night cholent.

In addition to the rebbeim, the boys were chaperoned by Mr. Daniel Winkler, Middle School Principal, and Rabbi Shlomo Drebin, Program Coordinator, who planned and went above and beyond to make sure the boys had the best trip pos-

sible.

This amazing graduation trip will not soon be forgotten. Moreover, the education they received during their eight years at Yeshiva of South Shore, the friendships they’ve made and the relationships they forged with their rebbeim will stay with them as they embark on the next stage of their lives in Mesivta.

Shulamith Honorees and Graduates

Estee Fischman is honored to be named Valedictorian of the Shulamith School for Girls Class of 2023. Estee lives in Woodmere with her parents and four sisters and has attended Shulamith for ten years. She is very excited to continue her Shulamith education and attend Shulamith High School next year. Estee is a diligent, hardworking, inquisitive student with a thirst for knowledge, as well as a compassionate and caring friend.

In addition to being an all-star in all of her honors classes, Estee served as one of the Editors- in- Chief of the yearbook. She also was an integral member of the Torah Bowl team, where she was tasked to learn the entire Sefer Beraishet with Rashi. In addition, Estee was a member of the Shulamith Sharks basketball team which made it to the finals. In her free time, Estee enjoys playing basketball and volleyball, singing, and spending time with her family and friends.

Atara Wieder, a resident of Lawrence and Cedarhurst, is proud to be a member of Shulamith’s 8th Grade Graduating Class of 2023 and honored to have been chosen as Salutatorian. She is the first in her family to graduate from Shulamith

Elementary and is looking forward to continuing her studies in Shulamith High School. Atara entered the school in third grade and was immediately taken in by its warm atmosphere, emphasis on middot, and the superlative education Shulamith is renowned for. Atara developed a love of learning and excelled in both Judaic and General Studies. Atara also cultivated strong friendships which she will cherish forever.

Atara is grateful for the many opportunities that she has been given at Shulamith. She participated on the Torah Bowl team which gave her the opportunity to further her knowledge in Parsha and compete with other schools in the community. She was in all of the honors classes, including the 8th grade Math Regents’ class. Filled with spirit, Atara enjoyed participating in all of the extracurricular activities offered by the school. In addition to school activities, Atara plays tennis in her free time and also enjoys swimming.

Bella Klein is honored to have been named a Keter Shem Tov Awardee of the Shulamith Class of 2023, and to share this award with one of her close friends and fellow classmates Chana Rubin. Bel-

la lives in Woodmere with her family and is the second girl in her family to graduate from Shulamith. She has attended the school for the past six years and is looking forward to attending Shulamith High School next year.

In addition to being an honors student in all of her classes, Bella was a Student Council President this year, planned activities and the graduation trip, and ensured that every girl enjoyed her 8th grade year. Bella has also been on the basketball team for two years. In her free time, Bella enjoys playing basketball, dancing, baking, and spending time with her family and friends. Bella is also a dedicated youth leader at KAY shul on Shabbos and values participating in chessed opportunities around her community, such as packing bags for sick children, sending letters of support to chayalei Tzahal, and raising money for various tzedakah organizations.

Chana Rubin, a resident of Woodmere, is honored to have been named the Keter Shem Tov awardee of the Class of 2023. She gets to share this award with one of her close friends and fellow classmates, Bella Klein. She has been in Shulamith since nursery and looks forward

to attending Shulamith High School next year.

Chana is very appreciative of the education and all the opportunities Shulamith has given her. In seventh grade, she served as Vice President of the Student Council and was on the basketball team. This year, Chana helped plan the 8th grade Shabbaton and was a starter for the Mustangs. Chana was exemplary in her sportsmanship, and her fine middot were readily apparent to students and coaches of other teams. In her free time, Chana likes to play basketball, bike, and spend time with her family and friends.

As an older cousin, Chana frequently helps out her aunts and uncles with her younger cousins. She plays games, does art projects, and keeps her cousins happily occupied in creative ways. Chana is also a devoted granddaughter to her Bubbie who is not well. She visits her Bubbie when she can and draws pictures to beautify her Bubbie’s room. In addition, Chana loves to text as many people as she can before Shabbat and Chagim to wish them well.

Mazal tov to the Shulamith 8th grade Class of 2023

Chana Rubin, Keter Shem Tov

Bella Klein, Keter Shem Tov

Atara Wieder, Salutatorian

Estee Fischman, Valedictorian

At Yeshiva Darchei Torah middle school’s final Thursday mishmar for the year with Rav Yakov Skolnick at Agudas Yisroel of Bayswater.

HALB first graders published an original “Gratitude Book,” inspired by the Gratitude Challenge in the lower school earlier this year

Shulamith Meet the Author Night

Fifty budding young authors of Shulamith School for Girls gathered with their parents and grandparents on Wednesday evening, June 7 for the annual Fifth Grade Meet the Author Night. This was a culminating event for the young authors who began writing their memoirs in December. The students published beautiful scrapbooks that included entries they had written about their lives. The girls learned a great deal about writing and will surely treasure this keepsake for many years to come.

The event also featured Mrs. Dina Rosenfeld, author of the Yossi and Laibel children’s books, who inspired the audience with her journey of becoming an author. She explained the process of writing, editing and working with an illustrator. She reinforced the concept that writing requires correction and editing, and to achieve success, one must be open to constructive criticism and be willing to make revisions.

Thank you to Mrs. Yaffa Schreier and

Mesivta Netzach Hatorah Graduates

Mrs. Amy Small for working with the girls throughout the year, teaching them writing skills, and helping them produce their beautiful scrapbooks. An enjoyable evening was had by all!

Mazal tov to the third graduating class of Mesivta Netzach HaTorah in Woodmere. The Mesivta is proud of the accomplishments of their class of 2023 and wish them continued success as they embark on the next stage

of their life. The Mesivta would also like to recognize the Valedictorian Yehuda Levin and Salutatorian Yosef Friedlander, as well as the Keser Shem Tov Award, presented to Avi Cohen.

Shulamith Third Graders

Their Roots

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The Shulamith third grade showcased their incredible talents under the direction of Mrs. Rina Hirsch while learning about their roots in this year’s performance of Finding Our Roots: A Journey Home.

With songs about our love and connection to Eretz Yisrael, the third grade will always remember: “No matter where we live now, no matter what is in our past, our journey will lead us HOME!”

It’s Not Fair!

How often have we heard our children loudly proclaiming this phrase and we answer, “Life is not always fair, my dears.” However, in Torah Academy for Girls, everything is fair during the month of June in our Elementary School division. We started off with a fourth grade New York State Fair, which will be followed by a third grade Biography Fair and a fifth grade Science Fair, which have the girls eagerly researching their topics, assembling costumes, and preparing tri board displays.

On Wednesday, June 7, the fourth graders set up their fair amidst much

enthusiasm and excitement. The fair covers all aspects of their social studies curriculum this year starting from the early days of the Native Americans and the colonial times, fighting the War of Independence, learning about immigration and the Statue of Liberty, how our government works in Albany, to the major tourist attractions that New York is famous for. The third graders visited the Fair in the afternoon and got a glimpse of what they can look forward to next year. The mothers came early to enjoy a special musical tour of the fair with a song composed by Mrs. Soshie Hirth and sung by the girls, who did an

amazing job. The doors then opened to all parents to come view the beautiful and informative booths.

Thanks to the amazing fourth grade teachers, Mrs. Bodner, Mrs. Pfeifer, Mrs. Hersh, Mrs. Bornstein, Mrs. Berger and Ms. Elias. Special recognition to Ms. Elias who undertakes this fair every year and works many long hours and dedicates the fair in memory of her

father, Avraham Shlomo ben Eliahu, a”h. Of course, behind every successful elementary school event, is Mrs. Jenny Gulkowitz, who used to be a part of this fair as a teacher and who now sheps nachas as the principal of the General Studies division.

Stay tuned for more reviews of the upcoming other two fairs. Because if one is left out, that really wouldn’t be fair.

JSL Championship Game

The JSL Spring Men’s Basketball 2023 championship took place this past Sunday night at LWA, as Built By Nate and Stone Group faced off in a highly anticipated matchup! Stone Group won 52-35, claiming the title.

Although they were without star player Sammy Mandel, Stone Group (with owner Scott Stone in attendance) dominated early on and never looked back. Noah Aaron led the charge with shutdown defense on Built By Nate’s tough, big men and Noah knocked down some clutch shots from behind the arc as well.

Captain Ikey Cohen, who was battling a back injury, played great as well and was named the league MVP after the

game for his incredible play throughout the season. Yosef Rudansky and his long arms recorded multiple blocks for Built By Nate, but they struggled to find the bottom of the basket all game.

After the game, Steve David of Stone Group praised the team’s collective effort, emphasizing the exceptional performances from each player, who all played with unwavering heart and dedication. It was an incredible season, as the competition in the league continues to get more intense with each season! The next season is set to begin August 27. The league can be contacted via email at 5townsjsl@ gmail.com

5TLL Week 10 – Playoffs

The boys were laser-focused, as the 5TLL by FM Home Loans entered the playoffs this past Sunday! There were some incredible athletic displays and intense late game heroics as the teams all vied for a spot in the semifinals next Sunday. It was also JSL raffle day as everyone registered for the JSL Fall Season received raffle tickets for incredible sports memorabilia, including signed jerseys and football helmets.

K/P Baseball & Soccer Highlights

K/P Baseball: Aryeh Wechter hit 2 home runs for Wieder Orthodontics, JJ Weiss made an incredible defensive play in the field for Shana B. Interiors, and Yehuda Knoll had a nice double up the middle for Town Appliance.

K/P Soccer: Maidenbaum had another impressive performance Sunday, scoring 6 goals in their win as they will face a good, tough Wieder Orthodontics team in the championship game next Sunday. Nissi Berman and Reuvan Cooper played great in Wieder’s victory.

1st/2nd Soccer: Wieder Orthodontics won their 2nd 5 game-series of the season, beating Shana B. Interiors in a very close match, 3-2.

Minors (1st-3rd) Baseball Highlights

1st Grade: Menachem Weinstein pulled off an unassisted triple play to get Built By Nate out of a bases loaded jam in the 3rd inning. They would go on to win 6-2 and advance to the Semifinals. Jack Gorbacz flashed the leather, helping Wolf Repair defeat Stone Group 14-12, as they’ll face off against Built By Nate in the semifinals Sunday. Isaac Belsky & Yoni Skolnick bats came alive in the final inning, as they both hit home runs to help Island Roofing upset SBS Energy Improvement and move on to the semifinals.

2nd Grade: Abie Shapiro hit a CLUTCH, 3-run game-tying home run for Nojo Promo in the last inning, who eventually went on to win 8-7 versus Marciano Pediatric Dentistry. Sruli Jacobowitz was Mr. CLUTCH for Westwood Realty. He knocked in the game winning run in the top of the 5th & then sealed the victory with a tremendous snag in the bottom of the 5th to send Westwood to the Semis where they’ll square off against a formidable Nojo Promo squad.

3rd Grade: Aryeh Levine was the obvious GAME MVP, hitting a HR, tri-

ple, and having 4 RBIs to lead Wieder Orthodontics to an 18-14 victory over ARG. Traditions trailed Town Appliance in the last inning and were beginning to rally but gold glove first baseman Dovid Lifshitz made some incredible plays to stop the rally and send Town Appliance through to the next round of the playoffs. Majors (4th & up) Baseball

Highlights

4th Grade: It was a dentist battle, as Wieder Orthodontics and Marciano Pediatric Dentistry faced off in this highly rated 1st round playoff matchup. Wieder Ortho showed off why they finished as the #2 seed, as their offense unleashed for 16 runs in the victory and a spot in the semifinals. Eliyahu Zachter was red hot at the plate for Alpert Financial, going 4-4, including a 3-run DINGER, as Alpert Financial advanced to the semifinal, where they’ll play the #1 seeded CG Flooring. Down 2-1, Tani Benderly smashed a grand slam to right to put CG Flooring up 5-2. CG Flooring went on to win 6-5 in a close game.

5th Grade: Dov Kriesman played an all-around incredible game to help Carving Block defeat Island Roofing 14-4.

6th Grade: Simcha Hersh put on another dominant performance on the mound and at the plate – hitting a 3-run BOMB and limiting Marciano Dentistry to 1 hit, as Stone Group won in their final regular season game.

7th/8th Grade: Moishe Jacobs hit a grand slam to lead Elegant Lawns to their 7th victory in the season and the top spot in the division.

5TLL Game of the Week: Wieder Orthodontics & Posh Home battled it out in the final regular season game in the 7th/8th grade division. Posh was in the lead for most of the game until Shlomo Krasner knocked in a run to tie up the game in the 7th inning and send the game to extra innings. In extras, Shmuel Horowitz came up in the clutch, knocking in the game-winning runs, as Wieder went on to win 11-6.

Netzach Upsets #1 Seed Hillel MYHSAL JV Softball Semi-Finals

The remarkable run for Netzach Hatorah continued this past Monday, as they traveled to Deal, NJ, and took down the previously undefeated and heavily favored #1 seeded Hillel by a score of 2-0. Netzach Star Pitcher Avi Kurtz pitched a game for the ages and drove in the first run of the game with an RBI Triple. The fielding for Netzach, led by Gold-Glove 9th Grade Shortstop Yitzchok Light, was sensational and has been the driving force behind this incredible postseason run.

Netzach will move on to face MAY in the MHSAL JV Softball Championship Game.

When asked for comment, Netzach

Central’s

Coaches Reich and Davidson both inclined to stay focused on the ultimate goal: “Not finished; one more to go.”

The Championship Game will be played this Sunday, June 18 at North Woodmere Park at 1pm.

Class of 2023

On Wednesday, June 7, Central gave a fond farewell to the Class of 2023 with a graduation ceremony at Lamport Auditorium on the campus of Yeshiva University. While every graduation day is a bittersweet milestone for students, families, and faculty, this year’s graduation was particularly meaningful as it coincided with Central’s 75th anniversary. The event was both a celebration and reflection on the Yeshiva University High School for Girls sending 75 classes of students into the world as kinder, more thoughtful people for having been a part of its community. Through the changes and challenges of the past four years, this latest group of graduates bonded and thrived, proving themselves to be resourceful, supportive of one another, and most notably of all, joyful.

The graduation ceremony began with remarks from senior Keter Shem Tov awardee, Anat Ebbin, and a welcome address from Head of School, Ms. Bracha Rutner, who praised the class’s resilience and urged them to remain diligent in

both pursuing their goals and contributing to the larger world. “You may think, how can I, as one person, make a difference?” she said. “Think about yourselves as individuals and all you have been able to accomplish over the past four years. My advice to you, the Class of 2023... don’t be scared to continue to take chances, fail, and try again. And above all, be patient.”

Yeshiva University President Rabbi Dr. Ari Berman was also in attendance to congratulate the class, as was Central’s Associate Principal, Ms. Leah Moskovich, who gave a tribute to the YUHSG Class of 1960, who remain strong supporters and sponsors of the school, and to whom the graduation was dedicated. Also included was a touching address from class valedictorian, Eliana Samuels. Salutatorians Maytal Chelst and Rivka Sullivan were recognized during the award ceremony that followed.

Central looks forward to staying in touch with its newest alumnae. Mazal tov Class of 2023!

Yeshiva Darchei Torah 7th Grade’s Science Fair Shows Knowledge & Ingenuity

Summer Safety at HANC ECC

A Visit to “Big HALB”

Lev Chana kindergarten children visited Big HALB this week to get a tour of the building and to meet their first grade teachers for next year. The current first graders welcomed them and gave them notes and a pencil as a gift.

As the school year draws to a close, the yeladim in HANC’s Early Childhood Center are learning about Summer Safety. The morot have been leading discussions about safety in the pool, wearing helmets while riding bikes and scooters, and always walking with a grown-up when they leave their homes and of course, never go swimming by yourself. The morot have been reading many books about safety and have given the children opportunities to act out and practice safety outdoors.

Ms. Karen Blackburn, from the AAA Safety Program, came to visit the children to further illustrate how they can stay safe in the summer. With the help of a little car named “Otto,” she discussed how important it is to sit in a car seat. She demonstrated what to do if a ball rolls into the street, and together with the children, practiced asking a

grown-up to retrieve the rolling ball. In addition, Ms. Blackburn also introduced several other safety situations and brought her safety puppet that helped explain safety procedures. The yeladim also had opportunities to give their ideas of what they should do in similar circumstances.

At the conclusion of the program, each child was presented with a safety coloring book that they could take home so they can practice safety with their parents. This age-appropriate program gave the children a very clear understanding of what they can do to keep themselves safe as they enjoy their summer activities. As Morah Trudy Rubinstein concluded the program, she expressed to all of the children how important it is to remember everything that they learned in this program to ensure that everyone has a safe summer.

Photos by Yoel Hecht

Yirmiyahu Mark

L-R: Rabbi Avraham Panish, Eli Cohen, Chaim Indig and Yaakov Bauman

HAFTR HS Graduation Ceremony 2023

Celebrating Achievements and Embracing the Future

On June 7, 2023, at Hofstra University, HAFTR High School held its graduation ceremony for the Class of 2023. The excitement was evident as proud families, esteemed faculty, and the graduates themselves gathered to commemorate this significant milestone.

The ceremony commenced with a powerful rendition of both the national anthem and Hatikvah.

Mr. Amir Kornblum, HAFTR President, then greeted the graduates and their families, congratulating the students on wonderful achievements and urging them to dare greatly and follow their dreams.

Rabbi Ira Wallach, the Judaic Studies Coordinator at HAFTR High School, took the stage to deliver an inspiring Dvar Torah. His words resonated deeply

with the graduates, encouraging them to embrace their Jewish values and carry them forward into the world.

Dr. Josh Wyner, HAFTR High School Associate Principal, spoke about the students’ outstanding experience at HAFTR and the powerful impact of their positive actions. Mrs. Naomi Lippman, Principal of HAFTR High School, highlighted the accomplishments and personal growth of the graduates, emphasizing the strong sense of community that had been fostered throughout their time at HAFTR.

The honor of the Salutatorian was bestowed upon Ellie Nathan, an exceptional student and president of the Deah Chapter of the National Honor Society. Ellie’s outstanding scholastic achievements were complemented by her dedication to student life and leadership at HAFTR.

The Valedictorian of the Class of 2023

was Elisabeth Gurtman, vice president of the Deah Chapter of the National Honor Society. Elisabeth’s academic accomplishments, coupled with her active involvement in HAFTR’s extracurricular activities, made her a shining example of dedication and achievement.

Ellie and Elisabeth delivered eloquent and heartfelt speeches that reflected upon their experiences at HAFTR and the collective journey of their class. Their words resonated deeply with their peers,

reminding them of the bonds formed and lessons learned throughout their high school years.

As the ceremony neared its conclusion, each graduate was presented with a diploma, a tangible symbol of their hard work and dedication. Additionally, they received personalized siddurim.

The event closed with all the graduates joyfully tossing their caps into the air, signifying the end of one chapter and the beginning of another.

Mercaz Academy’s Future Authors Learn from Novelist Gordon Korman

Fourth, fifth, and sixth graders at Mercaz Academy in Plainview listened with rapt attention as Gordon Korman, author of popular novels for children and young adults, gave an insightful and entertaining behind-thescenes view of writing fiction and how he creates his works. Relating his personal introduction to writing, Mr. Korman told the students that he wrote (literally – he wrote it by hand in a notebook) his first book when he was 12, which was published when he turned 14. Since then, he has published 100 more, with several others in the pipeline.

The students learned from Mr. Korman that the two most powerful words

for sparking creativity are “What if?” From there, ideas for different scenarios can flow. Research is also an important component of writing fiction. As an example, Mr. Korman described how he researched amnesia for his book Restart, in which the main character loses his memory.

Mr. Korman’s books are well known to our students, even beyond their familiarity with Restart, which is read as part of the fifth grade curriculum. The students nodded with recognition and laughed with joy as Mr. Korman discussed how many of his various titles came to be. And he answered every question asked by the students on a range of

topics: Does he think he will publish 150 books? (That would be very ambitious!) Would he write a holiday book, perhaps about a Father’s Day that goes wrong?

(He’s not a big fan of writing holiday books – he prefers books that are read year-round – but he might, if the idea seems like a good one.) How does he feel when a book is not as successful as he

hoped? (He sometimes gets discouraged, but always comes back to writing.)

Mrs. Francie Goldberg, our librarian, invited an author who certainly enjoys not only writing but also speaking with his audience about his craft. And who knows what these students will write when they turn 12?

Congregation Anshei Chesed of Hewlett held its annual dinner at Beis Tefilllah of Inwood on June 11. Guests of honor were Dr. and Dr. Peter and Laurel Steinherz. Rabbi Simcha Lefkowitz is the chief rabbi of Congregation Anshei Chesed. Michael Blander is the shul president, and Steve Savitsky was M.C.

YOSS Learns about Community

Boys in class 1G at Yeshiva of South Shore just concluded a social studies unit on Community. The class began the unit by talking about places in our community. Students participated in a fun scavenger hunt/guessing game around the community called, “Where in the Community is Class 1G?” Students were asked to take pictures of themselves throughout the community, then write three clues to help their friends guess where they were, until finally the picture revealed the community spot. Students visited local supermarkets, parks, camps and shuls and had a great time describing where in the community they were “hiding.”

The second half of the unit focused on community helpers or people who work

CIJE/STEAM Carnival at Yeshiva of South Shore

in and around our community. We invited local “heroes” to visit us at school and share their experiences in the community. Before the visits, students were introduced to a KWL chart where we talked about things they may already Know, things they Want to know, and things they Learned from the visit. Our visitors included Nurse Mozelle Goldstein, a pediatric oncology nurse, Arick Sebag, a Hewlett firefighter, and Shimon Sebag, an EMT in Hatzalah. Students received the opportunity to ask thoughtful questions and learn from these community helpers.

We concluded the unit with thank you notes to each guest.

HANC Fourth Graders Enjoy iFly

The fourth grade students in HANC’s Elementary School in West Hempstead had an exciting educational experience at iFLY, an indoor skydiving facility in Westchester. Through iFLY’s STEM field trips, students are able to explore the world of science, technology, engineering, and math in a unique and engaging way. The students had an opportunity to float in a vertical tunnel with winds of up to 150 mph, learning about terminal velocity and gravity firsthand. Under the guidance of certified flight instructors, the children underwent comprehensive flight and safety training. Each student had the incredible opportunity to fly in the tunnel with one-on-one supervision, ensuring a safe and thrilling experience. During the course of their visit, the

fourth graders attended an enlightening lecture and engaged in grade-level activities. They made predictions about object behavior and observed how everyday items interacted with powerful forces, including testing the wind tunnel with balls and water. They discovered the mechanics of parachutes and their connection to flying in the wind tunnel. The children also gained a deeper understanding of aerodynamics and flight by experiencing the various forces acting on their bodies.

iFLY’s vertical wind tunnel provided an ideal environment to make STEM education exciting and accessible. By bringing concepts to life, the iFLY field trip made STEM subjects relevant and interesting, equipping students with critical thinking and problem-solving skills.

On Monday, June 12, Yeshiva of South Shore hosted a first-ofits-kind event to showcase the fantastic STEAM activities that the fifth graders created as a culmination of their engineering unit. Students applied the engineering concepts learned in order to build, create, and design various structures and to complete STEAM challenge tasks. The carnival incorporated activities that utilized science, technology, engineering, art and math. Each STEAM Challenge station had materials in order for parents and students to participate in the activities as well! Some activities included the Pringle Ring challenge and Squishy Circuits, plus four more stations that kept the crowd engaged and

involved! Another fabulous addition was the Math Escape Room, where students had to solve math problems in order to get to the “next level” and escape the room! The students applied their mathematic skills along with tons of creativity in order to formulate the room themselves.

In keeping with the carnival theme, popcorn and cotton candy was available for the excited crowd to enjoy.

Yeshiva of South Shore is looking forward to presenting this exciting STEAM day for years to come! Thank you to Mrs. Yaffa Lamm, CIJE Lower School Program Coordinator, for all your help in making this fair possible.

Accompanied by HANC’s Technology and Engineering teachers, Mrs. Aimee Goldenberg and Mr. Jonathan Eisenkraft, and the fourth grade teachers Mrs. Caryn Cohen, Mrs. Jamie Schraga and Mr. Daniel Fine, the enthusiastic fourth graders had an unforgettable STEM session. The iFLY field trip was particularly impactful for the students, opening their eyes to the possibilities within STEM careers.

Mrs. Goldenberg, HANC’s Ed Tech Coordinator, initiated this trip to broaden the children’s horizons. “When I saw the invitation to the iFLY facility, I knew that this would be a perfect trip for our school. The Science, Engineering, Math and Technology components of this experience fit exactly with what they have been learning in school. The added level

of exploration and excitement ignited a passion in the children and showcased the endless potential of these disciplines. It was an experience they will never forget.”

Lev Chana kindergarten graduations have begun! Mazal tov to all our graduates

School Sayings

Commencement speeches were invented largely in the belief that outgoing college students should never be released into the world until they have been properly sedated.

- Garry Trudeau

I have never been jealous. Not even when my dad finished fifth grade a year before I did.

- Jeff Foxworthy

It is indeed ironic that we spend our school days yearning to graduate and our remaining days waxing nostalgic about our school days.

- Isabel Waxman

When you start to think about how grateful you are to be out of school, think about how grateful your teachers are to be away from you!

- Paul Merton

My school days were the happiest days of my life; which should give you some indication of the misery I’ve endured over the past twenty-five years. -

Larry David

Without education we are in a horrible and deadly danger of taking educated people seriously.

- Paul Freund

A professor is someone who talks in someone else’s sleep. -

W.H. Auden

A graduation ceremony is an event where the commencement speaker tells thousands of students dressed in identical caps and gowns that “individuality” is the key to success.

- Robert Orben

Of course there’s a lot of knowledge in universities: the freshmen bring a little in; the seniors don’t take much away, so knowledge sort of accumulates.

- Lawrence Lowell

You Gotta be Kidding Me!

David and Joseph were torn. On the one hand, they were great students, who always got A’s. Organic Chemistry was a tough class, but they studied hard and were well prepared for the final exam, which was to start at 6:00 PM. But then they won tickets to the NBA finals game 7, which was also at 6:00 PM. How could they give us such an opportunity to go to an NBA Finals game?

So they went to the game and missed the exam. But they had a plan.

The following morning, they walked into their professor’s office and said, “Professor, you would never believe what happened. After studying for the exam for three days straight, we decided to take a break and go out to eat. We knew that the exam was at 6:00 PM so we made sure to leave the restaurant at 5:00 PM, which provided ample time for us to get back in time for the exam. But as we were driving, our tire blew out. Our car almost careened out of control, but we were lucky to come to a stop on an embankment. When the police arrived, they told us that we were lucky to be alive. But unfortunately, it took three hours to get our car towed and get the tire fixed. It’s a horrible way to end the year. We can’t believe we missed the exam.”

The kind professor thought this over and then agreed that they could make up the final on the following day. The two guys were elated and relieved; their plan had worked. The next day they arrived at the professor’s office to take the exam. He placed them in separate rooms and handed each of them a test booklet and told them to begin.

They looked at the first problem, which was something simple about free radical formation and was worth 5 points. “Cool” they thought, “this is going to be easy.” They did that problem and then turned the page. They were unprepared, however, for what they saw on the next page.

It said: (95 points) Which tire?

Dearest College Graduates,

On behalf of our entire community of Centerfold readers, we want to congratulate you on this momentous occasion of having to start paying off your astronomical student loans…I mean, on this occasion of graduating college. The world eagerly waits for your insights on Anaxarchus, Democritus, Leucippus and Nausiphanes. It is understandable that you may now feel like an elite member of society, after all, you are no longer in the lowly company of uneducated not-college certified common folks like the following:

Bill Gates (Microsoft)

Steve Jobs (Apple)

Michael Dell (Dell)

Mark Zuckerburg (Facebook)

Barry Diller (William Morris)

Richard Brandson (Virgin Air)

Centerfold Commissioner (You are staring at it)

Mary Kay Ash (Mary Kay Cosmetics)

Andrew Jackson (6th President of the U.S.)

Steven Spielberg (Dream Works)

Anyway, best of luck. You are going to do great, especially with your Office-Max-made diploma. Just make sure to always take yourself seriously, be insulted often, and never take your eyes off your smartphone.

Riddle me This

Bob, who is the best pitcher on his team, points to a target and says that he will throw a ball directly at the target and that at some point while headed in the direction of the target, the ball will suddenly stop and reverse direction and come all the way back to him, and he will then catch it. Obviously, you don’t believe Bob could do that. So you make a $20 bet that he won’t be able to complete the magic trick. Sure enough, he points to a target, throws the ball, and behold, exactly what he said would happen takes place. You hand him the $20.

Sincerely,

The Centerfold Commissioner, (master’s degree from School of Hard Laughs)

How did Bob accomplish this feat?

Bob’s target is the sun. He simply threw the ball up in the air and caught it.

Answer:

Parshas Shlach

By Rabbi Berel Wein

The attitude of Jews towards the Land of Israel has always been a litmus type of test of Jewish commitment and even faith throughout the ages. As we see in this week’s parsha, from the beginning of our national existence, there have always been Jews – leading Jews, well-intentioned Jews, even outwardly pious Jews – who have preferred living somewhere else in the world than living in the Land of Israel. Even when Hitler came to power, Eu-

ropean Jews, in many cases, refused to consider the option of immigration to the Land of Israel. It is not my place to judge others for their behavior in a very dreadful time, especially since I am blessed with the perfect hindsight that they tragically lacked, but it is a strange fact that throughout Jewish history the naysayers regarding the Land of Israel in Jewish society have always abounded.

Jews in the generation of Moses claimed their preference for the land of

Egypt over the Land of Israel. An entire generation of special and gifted Jews was destroyed in the desert of Sinai because of their unwillingness to consider living in the Land of Israel as a viable option for them and their descendants. The challenge of living in the Land of Israel was apparently too great a problem for them to overcome – physically, psychologically and spiritually.

To me, this attitude remains one of the supreme mysteries of all of Jewish

place within our personal and national soul. The fact that the most ultra-assimilated and the most outwardly ultra-pious within the Jewish people are included in our generation’s most vociferous of the anti-Land of Israel groups shows that the problem is both deep and sensitive. The extremes in Jewish society cannot deal with the Land of Israel as a reality and earnestly hope that the issue will somehow disappear completely. There are millions of Jews who prefer living in exile to

history. But mystery or not, it certainly is a fact that has governed Jewish life over the ages.

When Moshe’s own relative refused the offer to go to the Land of Israel, Rashi explains that the two reasons for his behavior had to do with family and making a living. These are very strong reasons that exist today that prevent many Jews from considering immigrating to the Land of Israel. Again, I neither judge nor begrudge anyone in this or any other life-changing matter.

However, I feel that the issue of the Land of Israel, independent of any other causes and motives, strikes at a very deep

living in the Land of Israel. The Jewish people has not absorbed the lessons of the exile, its alienation, assimilation, and its ultimate corruption of Torah values.

Today, many Jews who physically live in the Land of Israel still psychologically and spiritually live in the exile, in a fantasy of the long-destroyed shtetel of Eastern Europe. As foretold to us by our prophets, the ultimate fate of the Jewish people will be determined for us by our attitude to the Land of Israel. Living in the Land of Israel, or at least visiting it regularly, is currently the centerpiece of Jewish life, its faith and its future. Shabbat shalom.

As foretold to us by our prophets, the ultimate fate of the Jewish people will be determined for us by our attitude to the Land of Israel.

Parshas Shlach

We Will Surely Succeed

By Rav Moshe Weinberger

Adapted for publication by Binyomin Wolf

When we last saw our heroes in last week’s parsha, we were left with a feeling of optimism. Moshe said, “We are traveling to the place about which Hashem said, ‘I will give it to you’” (Bamidbar 10:29). We were on the cusp of entering and building Eretz Yisroel. We are therefore heartbroken when we read, in Parshas Shlach, the spies’ report and the people’s reaction to it: “But the nation that dwells in the land is mighty, the cities are great and extremely fortified, and we saw the children of giants there” (ibid. 13:29).

The people broke out into loud complaining against Moshe and against entering Eretz Yisroel, such that no one even had the opportunity to offer a dissenting opinion. They would not even let Yehoshua speak or be heard. First, this was because he was so closely associated with Moshe. He was considered unreliable because he was part of “the establishment.” And second, they would not listen to Yehoshua because they said, “Can the one with his head cut off speak?!” (Sota 35a). In other words, because Yehoshua had no sons who would inherit the land (Rashi) or fight to conquer it, what right did he have to voice an opinion regarding whether the Jewish people could conquer the land?

There was only one person who was even able to cause his voice to be heard amid the cacophony of voices criticizing Moshe and Hashem. That was Calev, who was looked at as one of “the people” rather than a member of the establishment: “And Calev silenced the nation to [hear about] Moshe” (Bamidbar 13:30).

And what was his message? He stood on a bench to make himself heard (Sota 35a) when he called out: “We can surely

ascend and take possession of it, for we can surely succeed in doing it!”

How did Calev succeed in at least making himself heard when no one else could? What made him different? We know that Rashi quotes the explanation that the nation listened to him because he kept the strength of his faith concealed, acting as if he agreed with the other spies. The people quieted down for him because he pretended as if he was about to speak against Moshe. But the Torah also says something else about Calev with which we can further understand how he was able to make himself heard where others could not. The pasuk says that “my servant Calev, because he was possessed of a different spirit…” (ibid. 14:24).

What was this “different spirit”? Calev took a different approach than one would expect. The spies levied many specific and apparently well-founded claims to support their contention that the people could not conquer Eretz Yisroel. They cited the hardiness of those

who dwelled in the land, how well their cities were fortified, the unusual nature of the produce, and the fact that the land seemed to consume its inhabitants. Yet Calev failed to address even one of these seemingly legitimate concerns. He simply cried out, “We can surely ascend and take possession of it, for we can surely succeed in doing it!” He must have sounded like some sort of messianic dreamer to his fellow spies, like an ideologue worthy of being dismissed. Why was his the only message that was heard?

Oftentimes, smaller people get lost in minutia, losing sight of the bigger picture, getting caught in the weeds of the small details. Anyone who has tried to make peace between two long-time friends or a married couple during a fight understands this. If one descends into the details of the multitude of claims each one has against the other, he and they will never emerge. The only way to lead them out is to show them a shining example of the love they used

to share. The only way forward is to jump onto a bench and use that different spirit to completely change people’s perspective.

The majority of people can focus on various details, on certain nuts-andbolts issues. And the Jewish nation relies on such people to get things done – to address day-to-day management of the good things that have been built and to turn visionaries’ plans into reality. But there are rare individuals who can gaze above the details and the obstacles beyond which the realistic people cannot see. The Jewish people would have nothing in this world if it were not for visionaries like Calev.

We would never have yeshivos, game-changing developments, or any truly positive institutions in klal Yisroel if it were not for the people who looked beyond what is to see what must be. The reality is that we need the people who can focus on the small details, but nothing would happen without those precious Jews who throw aside all objections, logistical obstacles, and details and simply insist that it can be done. They, together with the nuts-and-bolts Jews who come on board afterward, work together to bring that vision to a reality.

May we all merit to see the ultimate partnership of the dreamers and the realists in causing the arrival of Moshiach and the ultimate redemption – and with it, the building of the third Beis HaMikdash, soon in our times!

Rav Moshe Weinberger, shlita, is the founding Morah d’Asrah of Congregation Aish Kodesh in Woodmere, NY, and serves as leader of the new mechina Emek HaMelech.

Yearning for Connection The Secret of the Mouth

By Rabbi Shmuel Reichman

Picture the scene: a man is sitting in the kitchen eating dinner when his wife walks into the room, her face blank and emotionless. Her husband looks up, observes the situation, and kindly asks, “How was your day?”

In a flat monotone, she replies, “Great.” “Amazing, so glad to hear!” he says enthusiastically, and happily goes back to enjoying his dinner.

While this exact scenario might not have played out in your life, we can all think of numerous situations where people misunderstood us, where there was a complete miscommunication, or where we wished someone could see past the words, past the surface, and feel what we were truly feeling inside. Genuine connection is rare, beautiful, and often elusive.

The Mikdash and Korbanos

The Mishkan accompanied the Jewish People throughout their travels in the midbar and was replaced by the Beis

Hamikdash (Holy Temple) once they entered Eretz Yisrael. A central feature of the Mishkan and Beis Hamikdash was the korbanos. These sacrifices were offered daily, in addition to special ones that were offered on Shabbos and holidays, and were the focal point of much of the Jewish People’s religious observance.

The Second Beis Hamikdash was destroyed almost two thousand years ago, marking the end of korbanos and religious life as we knew it. We pray daily for the rebuilding of the Beis Hamikdash and a restoration of our close relationship with Hashem. Interestingly though, the Midrash explains that in the times of Mashiach, there will no longer be a need for korbanos. (Vayikra Rabbah 9:7. The Midrash does state one exception, namely, that we will still bring the Korban Todah. However, it appears problematic to suggset that “all” the other korbanos will be eliminated, as we daven for the restoration of “temidim k’sidram u’mussafim ke’hil-

chasam.” One solution to this contradiction is that there will be several stages of Mashiach, and this Midrash is referring to one of these stages, likely a later stage. Another explanation is that this Midrash means that there will be no more sin offerings, because people will not sin in the times of Mashiach, as there will no longer be a yetzer hara. See Sukkah 52a.)

This leaves us to wonder: Why were korbanos originally so fundamental, and what will have changed that will render them unnecessary?

Many of us living in the modern world struggle to relate to these archaic concepts of the Mikdash and korbanos, thinking of them as ancient and irrelevant. It can be easy to dismiss this segment of the Torah as the esoteric intermission placed between the more exciting parts of the Torah, but perhaps there is more beneath the surface that can be uncovered. Let us delve into the topics of the Beis Hamikdash and korbanos in order to better un-

derstand the depth and beauty of these concepts.

The Mouth and Its Three Functions

Chazal explain that the Beis Hamikdash functions as the “mouth” of the world. In order to understand this cryptic comparison, we must analyze the nature of the mouth. On the most basic level, the mouth has three functions:

1. First, the mouth is the organ we use to eat and drink, which nourishes our bodies.

2. Second, the mouth is the organ we use in order to speak and communicate with others.

3. The third function, however, is the strangest of all. Across all continents, ethnicities, and cultures, the universal expression of love is kissing. We are all used to this concept, but if you were an alien from outer space visiting Planet Earth, and you were asked what the ideal form

of affection would be, you might suggest rubbing cheeks or something of the sort. Kissing is simply strange, unsanitary, and illogical!

Fundamentally, though, we must ask a more significant question. While the three functions of the mouth seem to be three completely separate activities, the Maharal explains that whenever an organ performs multiple functions, those functions are all deeply related. If this is true, then how are the three functions of the mouth — eating, speaking, and kissing — connected?

The answer is that all three of these functions are mechanisms of connection. Eating, speaking, and kissing all serve to connect two disparate parts together.

Eating: Connecting Body and Soul

What happens when you don’t eat? You become faint. What happens if you continue without food? You will pass out. And if you still don’t eat, your soul will leave your body and you will die. Eating maintains the connection between your soul and your body; it is what keeps you alive.

There is a paradoxical relationship between the body and soul.

• Your soul, which is your “self,” your consciousness, your inner being, is transcendent, spiritual, and infinite. You can’t see, touch, or smell your mind or consciousness. You will never see someone else’s inner world.

• Your body, however, is finite, limited, and physical. Your soul will never die, but your body ages, withers, and will eventually fall apart.

If the soul and body are diametrically opposed, how do they manage to stay connected? One would expect them to repel each other like two opposite sides of a magnet.

This is the deep secret of food. There needs to be something to keep your soul attached to your body, some kind of “glue.” Eating food generates the energy that keeps your neshama connected to your body. No organism’s soul can remain in its body unless it eats.

This is the depth behind the phrase, “U’mafli laasos — Who performs wonders,” that we recite in Asher Yatzar (the blessing we recite after using the bathroom). What “wonder” are we referring to? Many commentators (such as the Beis Yosef) suggest that it is the wondrous paradox that our soul, infinitely transcendent, remains connected to our bodies, a physical, finite vessel. We mention this specifically after using the bathroom be -

cause we have just filtered out the unneeded parts of what we ate or drank, the very means of forging the connection between body and soul.

We therefore thank Hashem specifically at this juncture in time.

We can now understand an aspect of kashrus, Jewish dietary laws. Eating is an incredibly holy act; it connects your neshama to your body, the spiritual to the physical. It follows that we must eat foods that are spiritually pure!

This sheds light on the concept of fasting as well, especially on the day of Yom Kippur. On Yom Kippur, the Day of

attempt to squeeze our infinite and transcendent thoughts into a finite box and casing.

We can now understand the nature of speaking. We are separate beings, each living in our own subjective world — our own inner universe. We will never be able to experience life through anyone else’s perspective, only through our own inner consciousness. This results in several difficulties. If I am trapped in my own inner world, how can I connect with other people? How can I know what’s going on inside their heads? How can I share my inner life with them? How can I overcome

er’s mind before they began speaking. The difficult job of the listener is to use the words that were spoken to get as close as possible to their intended meaning. For example, you yourself may use the word “wonderful” to refer to something very different from the person speaking. You mustn’t project yourself onto the words you hear; you must attempt to negate your ego, empathize, put yourself in their head, and try to understand what they actually meant to say.

Kissing: Connecting Two People Together

We can now understand why kissing as well is done specifically with the mouth. The mouth is the organ of connection. Kissing reflects the way two people connect when they wish to show each other affection and love. It is only reasonable that kissing, the expression of connection, should be performed by the mouth, the organ of connection.

To summarize:

• Eating connects the physical body to the angelic soul.

• Speaking connects people’s inner worlds together.

Atonement, we attempt to be malachim that transcend the physical world. We therefore fast, allowing our soul to somewhat transcend our body, enabling us to experience one day of living in an angelic state.

Speaking: Act of Connection

In order to understand speech, we must first understand the nature of words themselves. Before we speak or even formulate concrete thoughts and words in our head, we begin with abstract thought that transcends words completely. In the process of speaking, you take this abstract thought and concretize it, bringing it down into the world of reality. Speech is the process of encasing your infinite thoughts within limited shells — finite words — that carry the meaning of your inner world and project them outwards for others to experience.

This understanding is fascinatingly expressed in the Hebrew words that are used for the word “word” itself. Davar means a “word,” but it also means a “thing,” because a word is nothing other than limiting your abstract thought into one particular thing. Milah means a word, but it also means to cut, to incise, because a word is cutting down your abstract and limitless thought into something finite and real. Teivah means a word, but it also means a box, because a word is our

the infinite barrier between myself and everyone else?

This is the gift of speech. Speech allows us to connect with other people and to overcome the barrier between us. You start with your inner thoughts and experience. You then take a deep breath and use your throat to project your words outwards. You then use your tongue, teeth, and lips to form the specific words that will encase your thoughts as you give them concrete form. In essence, you then throw your words out into the world around you in the form of vibrations. If another person is nearby, their ears can pick up these vibrations and translate them into sound. Those sounds form words, and those words, sentences. If they speak your language, those words will take on meaning as well. They must then keep track of all the different words and sentences, hold on to them, and bring them back from memory as they work to recreate a complete picture of everything you said. Amazingly, this person can now experience your inner world inside their own mind. They now contain a piece of you within themselves. The barrier between your worlds has been diminished.

Of course, the most difficult task for the listener is to get past the words to understand what the speaker truly means to say. Words are only casings; the true content is what was originally in the speak-

Kissing connects two physical bodies together, reflecting a deeper, internal form of connection and oneness.

In our next article, we will delve deeper into this fascinating topic and explain how all three of the mouth’s functions apply to the Mishkan and the Beis Hamikdash.

Rabbi Shmuel Reichman is the author of the bestselling book, “The Journey to Your Ultimate Self,” which serves as an inspiring gateway into deeper Jewish thought. He is an educator and speaker who has lectured internationally on topics of Torah thought, Jewish medical ethics, psychology, and leadership. He is also the founder and CEO of Self-Mastery Academy, the transformative online self-development course based on the principles of high-performance psychology and Torah.

After obtaining his BA from Yeshiva University, he received Semicha from Yeshiva University’s RIETS, a master’s degree in education from Azrieli Graduate School, and a master’s degree in Jewish Thought from Bernard Revel Graduate School. He then spent a year studying at Harvard as an Ivy Plus Scholar. He currently lives in Chicago with his wife and son where he is pursuing a PhD at the University of Chicago.

To invite Rabbi Reichman to speak in your community or to enjoy more of his deep and inspiring content, visit his website: ShmuelReichman.com.

Speech is the process of encasing your infinite thoughts within limited shells — finite words — that carry the meaning of your inner world and project them outwards for others to experience.

No Monkeying Around

By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow

Arav once complained to the Divrei Yoel, the Satmar Rebbe, zt”l, about an affront to his honor: a child dressed up as a monkey had delivered his mishloach manos. The Satmar Rebbe remarked that the rav was lucky that his mishloach manos wasn’t delivered by an actual monkey, because that would be halachically acceptable.

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The Mishnah in Gittin 22b says that anyone is qualified to write a get, including a cheiresh, shoteh, or kattan – people who are normally not considered competent. According to one explanation, the Mishnah is to be taken at face value, and there is no requirement that the individual who writes a get be of sound mind. As long as the text and style of the get are halachically acceptable, the action of writing it is of no consequence. Tosfos pose an additional problem: How can someone lacking sufficient cognitive ability serve as the husband’s agent to write a get? Tosfos conclude simply that there is no halachah that a person writing a get must be an agent of the husband.

The Chasam Sofer elaborates on this point. When the Torah requires a person to perform an action, it may be possible for him to appoint an agent to perform

it on his behalf and it becomes as if he did it himself. But when there is no requirement that the person do the action himself, he can ask anyone to do it, even an unqualified individual. Tosfos are saying that when it comes to writing a get, the husband can appoint anyone – even a monkey, theoretically – to write the get for him. This is because the Torah does

rabbanan never mandated the use of an actual shaliach. The Chasam Sofer writes further that one can send his mishloach manos with a monkey. This is in line with his earlier explanation that a real shaliach is not needed in this case.

In fact, the Eishel Avraham writes that the whole concept of using a shaliach is to make it easier to fulfill the mitzvah.

liver a present is a sign of respect, and perhaps the rabbis mandated that the mitzvah of mishloach manos can be performed only by the use of an agent. Apparently, most poskim have ruled that one need not be concerned with this opinion. However, Rav Shlomo Zalman, zt”l, was careful to use a shaliach at least once on Purim to fulfill the mitzvah of mishloach manos.

not mandate that the husband himself or his authorized agent write the get.

However, there are other considerations at play. Further, there are those who disagree with the conclusion of Tosfos. So as a matter of practical halacha, one cannot use a monkey to write his get

Returning to the subject of mishloach manos, Shu’t Yaaleh Yehudah writes that one can send his mishloach manos with a minor. Even though typically we require a shaliach to be an adult, in this case, the

Typically, when it comes to mitzvos, we apply the general rule – one should fulfill the mitzvah himself rather than appoint an agent. When it comes to mishloach manos, however, this concept does not apply, and one can freely use a shaliach to send mishloach manos.

The Mishnah Berurah, however, quotes the opinion of the Binyan Tzion that perhaps one must fulfill the mitzvah of mishloach manos specifically through a shaliach. Typically, having an agent de -

One last point. The Ksav Sofer writes that the person receiving the mishloach manos must know who sent it. If someone sends a package without identifying who it is from, no goodwill will be generated between the giver and the receiver. Along this line, at least one local rav is known to carefully inspect every package of mishloach manos that he receives. What goodwill is generated by having everyone deposit their packages on a table if the recipient never even finds out who sent him mishloach manos?

Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow is a rebbe at Yeshiva Ateres Shimon in Far Rockaway. In addition, Rabbi Sebrow leads a daf yomi chaburah at Eitz Chayim of Dogwood Park in West Hempstead, NY. He can be contacted at ASebrow@ gmail.com.

As a matter of practical halacha, one cannot use a monkey to write his get.

Clutching Our Dreams

By Gedaliah Borvick

“Hope and optimism, the ability to adapt and transform ourselves, and the commitment to sustain our dreams are the real keys to survival…but throughout it all, we must also have a Jewish homeland to keep us safe.” These are the values, penned by daughter Danna, that buoyed David Azrieli during the Holocaust and became a focal point of his legendary career in which he became one of the wealthiest and most philanthropic people in the world.

Who was David Azrieli?

David Azrieli was born in 1922 in Makow, Poland. Immediately after the Nazis bombarded the capital Warsaw in September 1939, Azrieli fled the country on a three-year journey to Mandatory Palestine. Every step of Azrieli’s voyage from Poland, through war-torn Russia and finally to the Holy Land, was fraught with danger.

Azrieli’s adventurous spirit throughout his perilous journey helped him appreciate fortuitous circumstances and seize opportunities to connect with people, which saved his life on multiple occasions. In addition, Azrieli’s commitment to Is-

rael as a haven for the Jews imbued him with meaning and purpose – especially when he was struggling as one of the few Jewish soldiers in the overtly antisemitic Polish Anders Army – and sustained him throughout the long trek home.

After finally arriving in Mandatory Palestine, Azrieli studied at the Technion in Haifa and then worked as a teacher before serving as an IDF officer in Israel’s 1948 War of Independence. He then traveled the world to reconnect with relatives who had been spared death, spending time in South Africa, England and the United States, before finally settling down in Montreal, Canada. There, he completed his college degree, met his wife Stephanie and raised a family, and launched a wildly successful career in real estate development and management, which elevated him to the upper strata of wealth and social standing.

In the early 1980s, after having spent over two decades designing and building architecturally creative buildings in Canada and the United States, David Azrieli decided to apply his innovative development expertise to build up his beloved Israel. Az-

rieli revolutionized Israel’s retail industry when he built the first enclosed shopping center in 1985, which he coined a “canion” by combining the Hebrew words “shopping” and “parking.” Jerusalem’s Malcha Mall is but one of his company’s famous shopping centers across the country.

Azrieli’s crowning architectural achievement is his iconic Azrieli Center’s Square, Triangular, and Round towers that define Tel Aviv’s skyline. Over the past four decades, the Azrieli Group has grown dramatically and is one of Israel’s largest and most respected real estate companies.

The values of hope and optimism helped David Azrieli survive during the long, dark period of the Holocaust. These selfsame principles informed his philanthropic focus, as he endowed countless initiatives related to education and empowerment, including Tel Aviv University’s Azrieli School of Architecture; Yeshiva University’s Azrieli Graduate School of Jewish Education and Administration; and a Chair in Architecture and Town Planning at the Technion, to name just a few. In addition, Azrieli established programs

supporting hospitals and research institutes, education to fight addiction, teacher training, vocational training, women’s empowerment, and assistance to Holocaust survivors.

Azrieli’s lessons of hope and the importance of having a Jewish homeland are particularly poignant today, when so many emotionally adrift and ethically rudderless people question our over 3,000 year connection to Eretz Yisrael. David Azrieli was known as a tough businessman with a large heart. May we learn from him to toughen up and stand proud of our principles and values.

This article is based primarily on David Azrieli’s remarkable biography “One Step Ahead,” written by David’s daughter Danna Azrieli.

Gedaliah Borvick is the founder of My Israel Home (www.myisraelhome.com), a real estate agency focused on helping people from abroad buy and sell homes in Israel. To sign up for his monthly market updates, contact him at gborvick@gmail.com.

(R to L) David Azrieli, Tip O’Neill and Gedaliah Borvick at YU’s 1986 Chanukah Dinner (courtesy)

Mazal Tov! Class of 2023

Mazal tov to Ari Halpern, JD on graduating from Fordham Law. Good luck on the Bar Exam and your new job!

Dear Mindy, We are so proud of you! You are our super-star.  With much love, Tatty, Mommy, Rivkah, Aviva, Nachshon and Keren

Shayna Hailey Kass, wishing you an amazing year in Israel. Congrats on your HAFTR graduation and always making us proud!

Mazal tov Avi Isaacs on your graduation! We’re so proud of you. Love, Totty, Mommy, Chava and Yehuda

Mazal tov Akiva on your graduation from YDT!   We love you and are so proud of you! Will miss you next year!  Love, Mommy and Daddy

Mazal tov to Esther Halpern Kiffel, MD on completing her Psychiatry Residency and looking forward to her Psychiatry practice in the Monsey area!

Mazal tov to Chaya Elka Kunstler on her 8th grade graduation from Shulamith.

We love you very much!

We think you’re the best!

Love, Savta and Sabba

Jessica Hannah, mazal tov on a fruitful year as you graduate HAFTR Middle School and enter HAFTR High. We are so proud of you.

Elyanna, We have always been so proud of you. You’ve worked so hard throughout the years and have been so diligent about getting it all done. And now your work has paid off! Mazal tov! We’ll miss you in sem next year!

Love, Abba, Imma, Rena, Yochi, and Cheryl

Mazel tov Molly on your TAG graduation!

We are so proud of you!

Love you!

Love, Mommy and Daddy

Mazal tov, Esti Brazil, upon your graduation from TMM! We are so proud of your tremendous middos and successful achievements! Thank you for all the nachas.

Mazal tov to Sorah Brecher of BBY 8th grade on a very special graduation! We love you and are super proud of your tremendous achievements!

Lots of love, Grandpa & Babbie

Mazal tov Gitty Osina on graduating eighth grade! Can’t wait to see what the next four years are like!

Love, Mommy and Tatty

Mazal tov Azaryah Kessler for graduating kindergarten at HALB Lev Chana! We are sooo proud of you! Love Grandma, Bubby, Zeidy, Momma, Pappa Wolf and entire family

Congratulations Baily Bluth. We can’t believe you’re such a big girl!

Elchanan, We are so proud of you! You are by far the cutest graduate of nursery!

May you always bring us so much nachas!

Love, Mommy and Daddy

To Our Dear Jonathan, You are the epitome of strength in character, mind, body, and soul. You have grown and excelled in every aspect of your life. With much love and nachas, Mommy, Papa, Jake & Joey (The Fuchs family)

High school was

2 great

2 be

4 gotten!

Mazal tov, Shira T! You made it and did it with a smile. We are so proud of you!

Shira, you’ll love this one: Here’s a great tip for those who live in a purple house: if all the lights go off, check the fuchsia box.

Love, your Five Towns cousins

Congratulations to our 3 grandchildren who are graduating this year. Chava Kayla Gross from BBY 12th Grade. Shayna Bluma Gross from TAG 8th Grade. Naftali Schwartz from Yeshiva Darchei Torah 12th Grade.

-Bubby and Zaydie

Mazal tov to our favorite son/ brother, Azriel Bluth!

May you continue to grow up to be a huge talmid chacham!

Love, Mommy, Daddy, Rina, Adina, Tehila and Baily

Mazal tov to Fruma Zlatopolsky, Faigy Rakowsky, Ariella Klotz, Shani Reinhart, Arielle Brier, Devora Weber, and Esther Lamm on their graduation from the Touro Health Sciences Physician Assistant Program.

Know Your Strengths

TJH Speaks with Yael Wedeck and Rivka Ariel of Work At It

By SuSan Schwamm

Yael, Rivka, you founded Work At It a few years ago. Can you give us a bit of background?

Yael: Sure! We primarily try to help teenagers and young adults who have been derailed from the traditional school system, because of ADHD, trauma or learning issues. They’re either out of school completely or are high school kids and post-high school kids who, for whatever reason, haven’t been able to get to the next step in their lives. What we try to do is help them figure out, “Who am I? What are my strengths? What am I good at, and how do I take that forward?” We want to help them with a short-term plan and a long-term plan for the future and work with them practically to make that happen.

When did you launch Work At It?

Yael: We launched in 2018 when the OU Impact Accelerator started. The OU put out a call for social ventures that were addressing a significant unmet need in the Orthodox community and their aim was to help by

providing some seed funding and education about nonprofit management. We applied and we won the grant to help us launch.

Five years ago. That’s substantial. How did you two join together to form Work At It?

Yael: We actually knew each other personally for many years. I work as a psychotherapist, and Rivka has a background in marketing strategy for the pharmaceutical industry. We had often discussed this particular issue of kids being out of school, having nowhere to go, nothing to do, and feeling devalued because they didn’t fit into the system. We recognized that there are so many kids in our community who are so talented in so many different ways that just don’t happen to lend themselves to success in a social or academic situation, but there’s so much that they can do. We wanted to help those individuals.

Rivka: Yael had this idea of creating a practical program to help at-risk youth by giving them a reason to get up each morning. While there are many drop-in centers and programs that help at-risk kids, there was nothing that exclusively worked on practical plans for their future, whether that includes work, school or vocational training. For a while, we lamented that this wasn’t being done, and then it became “if no one is doing it, maybe we need to.”

How do you get clients?

Rivka: We are now the go-to organization for teens who find themselves out of school. Before we launched, we went to all the organizations that work with at-risk youth and told them of our idea and asked them whether they were doing this. The answers we got were no – no organization was exclusively focused on this area. Once we launched, Amudim, MASK, Ohel and others began sending us clients in addition to therapists and rabbis. By now, many of our clients come from other clients, people refer their friends.

When you deal with struggling youth, is it on a one-on-one basis? Can you walk us through your process?

Rivka: Yes, when we deal with struggling youth, it’s one-on-one intense sessions. We have a very holistic, team-based approach. We look at the whole person. Each professional who meets with the teen looks at the teen from a different angle. We then meet often as a team to discuss each case so we can combine all the information we have gathered and develop a sound plan.

First, we do an intake. We find out what’s going on and why they reached out to us. Next, they meet with Yael, who is our social worker and career consultant. At that meeting, they have the option of taking various aptitude tests. Yael has spent several years building up her inventory of tests and training on new ones. If clients want help with a job, they work with our job coach They then move on to work with our resume coach/job search strategy coach. Those that do not have a high school diploma meet with our educational advocate. He

Rivka Ariel

Yael Wedeck

works with them to get their diplomas or equivalency. His work with them may include alternative schooling ideas, internships that count towards school, and other high-school or college-level suggestions. He has done amazing work with kids out of school who were literally in bed all day for months or even years. By working closely with them and uncovering their interests, he has gotten them off their devices and into internships or alternative schooling where they are learning new skills and working towards produc tive goals.

Some kids that come to us only come for one or two sessions. They want to know what their strengths are, and then they could go out there and find their own jobs. But if they want help finding a job, they meet with me for job coaching. We discuss job etiquette and do mock interview practice. I work with a tool that we created that helps crystallize in their minds what their strengths are and then how to be comfortable communicating their strengths in an interview and in their lives.

We also help with job matching and support. We try to find community jobs for them, encouraging employers to be open to working with kids that may have different trajectories than what they’re used to and to troubleshoot if any issues arise. We help these kids line up and prepare for interviews at these jobs, too.

Clients can meet as many times and for as many hours as they need with each of our different professionals. We have clients that have met with some of our staff for two hours and others for over 200 hours, depending on the need. They are moving along at their own pace and need their own space, with our support, to move forward.

It sounds very gratifying to be able to offer direction to someone who is floundering and not sure of what their next step will be.

Rivka: It really is amazing. Everybody comes to a different place, and each person makes a lot of progress in his or her own way. And it is beautiful to see that.

We had one kid who was isolated for months and suicidal after being asked to leave school who, baruch Hashem, is now finishing up college. We have others who were in unhealthy living situations and were able to move along due to their newfound financial independence. Others languished in bed all day and are now getting up each day to go to a job.

Aside from working with struggling youth, you also go into mainstream high schools and help those teens realize and gain insight into their personality and their strengths.

Yael: Yes, we do. When we started our program,

approached by parents who told us that even children who went through school successfully often have no idea what they might be good at and struggle with launching their futures.

Rivka: We realized that there is a significant opportunity to catch these kids earl y on and help people feel good about themselves and their unique skills. The schools have amazing curricula, but often there isn’t time to build in lessons that specifically teach students self-awareness and self-confidence.

Working with teen educators and mental health professionals, we designed a highly interactive and fun workshop that helps teens recognize their strengths and understand how others perceive them. The workshop really helps them start saying to themselves, “Well, I can bring this to the table.” And sometimes they realize that something that they may have thought was a negative is actually a positive. In one workshop, one kid said that he was always called the class clown and he saw it as a

cally wanted us to design and implement workshops for Long Island schools. By now, we’ve worked with several hundred students in our workshops.

We recently added a workshop on “Being a Light Unto the Nations.” We realize that there’s, unfortunately, a lot of antisemitism in America right now and being able to interact with non-Jews and handle various situations is very important. As students graduate high school and move into higher education and the professional world, they may find themselves in the position of being the unofficial spokesperson for all Orthodox Jews, whether they want to be or not. We wanted to give students exposure to Orthodox people who have achieved success in the corporate world so they can hear from them how they handle common issues that may arise in business settings, related to being Orthodox Jews. This workshop has been extremely well received both by the administration and the students.

We have done our Strength Discovery workshop in many schools already.

When you’re speaking to the high schoolers, how do you help them to bring out that awareness of their talents or certain character traits that they have?

Yael: There are so many different ways. Some people are more able to verbalize when you ask them, “What do you think you’re good at?” or “What do you do well?” or “What do you love to do?” Other kids have no clue. We designed a fun game where they get to identify their own characteristics and those of their friends’ and then they check in with each other: “Do you agree with that? Do you think I’m like that?” They end up having a whole conversation about it, and it gets them thinking and talking about it in a small group.

What are certain traits that you’ve been seeing, and which careers do you suggest for people to try out with those traits?

negative trait. But the moderator told him that in corporate America, when people are working 15-hour days, sometimes they need someone there who can lighten the mood and be the “class clown” at times. And the boy said, “Wow, no one ever told me that that trait could be a good thing.”

It’s eye-opening because school is a little bit different than work, and some of the traits that don’t work in school could work amazingly well in a work setting. If the kids really learn who they are, they get more comfortable talking about what their traits are, which is what’s needed when they go out into the world.

How many students have you worked with in this way?

Rivka: We got a grant from the Community Chest of South Shore, and they specifi-

Yael: We don’t suggest career tracks in the workshops, because the sessions are short – only 45 minutes or an hour or two. The workshop is really about saying, “Wow, I never realized I was good at this.” But they’re not long enough to say, “I should enter this field or this is the career for me.”

For ca - reer decisions, it’s really a longer process of discovery. Identifying what your characteristics are, thinking about what you do well, and about what you actually love to do and what work environment makes you comfortable. There are so many elements that need to come together to form an individual’s future career path. Most people want a simple answer and don’t want to work hard to get it. Teens often say, “Well, you just tell me what I should do.” But it’s almost like saying, “You tell me who I should marry. Just give me a guy.” Right? It’s really so personal to every individ-

At a recent workshop in HAFTR

We believe that there’s a place for everyone in the community, both among regular kids who can’t figure themselves out and among kids who have a lot that they’re fighting against.

ual, and it’s about understanding yourself.

With some kids, one has to be very hands-on and quick with them when it comes to career decisions. Other kids want to really do a deep dive and enjoy the self-discovery process.

Can you describe the process you use In the workshops for high school students? How do you help them see that they have so much to share with the world?

Rivka: We break them into small groups, and we put friends together, so there’s a comfort level as they know quite a bit about each other. We have various tools and worksheets that the students work on in their small groups, with our coaching. Because we have a high staff-to-student ratio, we can really work with each small group to get the most out of the program.

Yael: It ’s so important to get feedback from other people, who can say, “I think you really are great at that.” And then the kid will say, “Really? Why?” And they’ll say, “Well, you know what? Remember that time you did this and that and that really made me feel good?” Sometimes, they’re telling each other that they’re good listeners or they’re caring or they’re very organized or they’re poised – any number of things that they have seen over the course of their time together in school. They use each other to help themselves figure out where they shine.

Rivka: They may feel that they have a certain trait, but how do others know it’s true? We work with them to come up with concrete examples that show how or where they displayed that trait. That helps crystallize it for them. Toward the end of the workshop, we bring groups up to the front of the room and they take turns talking about their strengths. We ask them, “How does it feel when you tell someone that she’s a caring person or poised or giving?” And the kids actually say to us, “That felt so good. I would either hire this person or I would want to be friends with her. It sounded like she’s an amazing person.” It’s good for them to hear that –that talking about their traits didn’t sound boastful, it sounded professional.

Have you ever gotten feedback from any of those teachers in the room who’ve come to you after the workshop and said, “You know what? I really loved your workshop and I’d like to incorporate some of what you’re doing in my classroom throughout the year?”

Rivka: We definitely did hear it. Sometimes teachers call in their peers, not to help out, but rather to be part of this wonderful experience. At one school in the Five Towns, the teachers came over to us and said, “How can we book you to run this for our teachers and guidance staff? We want it in our school for our teachers because it would make us stronger teachers and would be great for everybody.”

In the sessions, you use attributes that the teens can choose from. What are some of the attributes on the list?

Yael: It’s a whole “game” that we organize for the kids to do and there are probably around 55 attributes

that we have. Some examples would be creative, funny, idealistic, sen sitive, affable, honest, thought ful, calm, diligent…and the list goes on.

Rivka: Some of the attributes are nuanced. And the beauty of that is when they come up with a concrete example of that attribute, I think they really start to understand that nuances are what make up different personalities. One thing we tell them is, “When you are all coming out of the same school and you’re wearing a uniform or have a dress code and everybody looks the same, you need to remember that you’re not the same. Everybody has unique character traits that make up who they are and gives them the ability to contribute to this world in their own unique way.”

That’s the point of the workshop – to recognize that

next year our educational advocate run some of the strength discovery workshops in the boys’ schools.

I can imagine that when you speak to boys and girls, it’s a different type of workshop with a different type of self-awareness and different types of character traits that are highlighted.

Yael: The boys’ workshops are run slightly differently than the girls’ ones, but they all get to essentially the same idea of what are your strengths.

When we were designing the workshops, we were told by some people, “You can’t do as much one-on-one talk with the boys’ sessions. It has to be faster. They don’t have patience for all this analysis and conversation.” But I feel like it really depends on the individual. Some do have more patience, and some don’t. But we did try to keep it more fast-paced with the boys based on that advice. When it comes to attributes, though, what they value, it’s pretty similar between the boys and girls.

What is your vision for the future of Work At It?

we’re different and have different things to offer this world and to learn what makes us unique and how to showcase it.

In how many schools in the Five Towns have you presented so far?

Rivka: So far, we’ve presented seven workshops at two different schools in the Five Towns.

A lot of times, these workshops are geared toward girls’ schools. Are there workshops that are made for the boys’ schools as well?

Rivka: There are other workshops that are run by our other staff members. We have an excellent, hands-on resume and job search strategy workshop, where the students come out with the beginnings or sometimes even the end of a very tight resume. This is run by our resume coach who is a male.

In addition, we run sessions where we bring in experts in a specific field to talk about how they achieved success and the vulnerability that comes at each step. We anticipate that

Rivka: We’re a not-for-profit. We do this because there’s a huge need in the community. The problem of struggling youth and kids that have fallen out of the system is tremendous and it’s tragic. We see it across different socioeconomic levels, different religious levels – it really affects the whole community. I’m sure everybody knows someone, either a relative or a neighbor, who has a child or friend who is struggling. What we’re doing is trying to change that trajectory one kid at a time, through a lot of intense work.

Yael: Our goal is really to be a place that lifts people up and helps them believe in themselves when so many places in the community did not believe in them, or for whatever reason, they were not able to function well within the structures that exist. We believe that there’s a place for everyone in the community, both among regular kids who can’t figure themselves out and among kids who have a lot that they’re fighting against. We want to try and find some place in some way where everybody can shine and be a superstar – and believe that they can succeed. I’d like to bring more of that sort of thinking to our community – that even if you’re out of the box and even if you don’t do exactly what everybody else does, there’s a place for you. There are people who are there and who believe in you.

Rivka: We have a fantastic product and are ready to scale up. With appropriate funding, we would be able to serve many more kids and increase the support we can provide to the kids we are currently seeing. We are hopeful that community members will see the value of our mission and what we do and will help support our initiatives.

Work At It workshop

Everybody has unique character traits that make up who they are and gives them the ability to contribute to this world in their own unique way.

By Mindi Werblowsky, LCSW

Dear Teen Talk,

I love summer vacation, and I look forward to it all year. But one thing that I really do not enjoy about the summer is that I always seem to be fighting with my parents, even more than during the year.

I do not go to sleepaway camp anymore, so I am home in the summer and I usually work in a day camp, which is over by 4:30 PM. And then I want to relax and hang out with my friends and enjoy myself. I work very hard during the year, and I think I deserve my summers to do what I want. But my parents are always upset that I do not have more of a structure and they want to know exactly where I am all the time and have a strict curfew. I think I should get to stay out later since I am off from school and I always make it to work on time.

Teen Talk, a new column in TJH, is geared towards the teens in our community. Answered by a rotating roster of teachers, rebbeim, clinicians, and peers (!), teens will be hearing answers to many questions they had percolating in their minds and wished they had the answers for.

This all causes a lot of tension and fighting every summer, and I would love advice on how I can prevent this from happening again this year.

Thank you, A Stuck Teen

Dear “Stuck Teen,”

Thank you so much for writing in. I think this is such an important topic and one that so many kids can relate to. Because the school year is more structured, the school day ends later, and there are homework and tests to study for, there is much less free time and therefore, less opportunity for parents and teens to argue about these things.

I think the most important thing to focus on here is that you and your parents are both right and you both have very valid points. You absolutely deserve your summer to relax and be with your friends, and you should have that. Summer vacation is crucial for every child, and it is imperative for your own social and emotional health that you have this time off to decompress from the year. There are chessed organizations that raise money to send kids to camp because summers are so important for a child’s develop -

ment. But it is still important for parents to know where their children are, and it’s never good for anyone, child or adult, to have too much free time with absolutely nothing to do.

I think that a lot of the arguing can be avoided with some pre-summer preparation and better communication between you and your parents. I would suggest sitting down with your parents

pizza shops, etc. and your parents can let you know ahead of time what places they do not allow you to visit with your friends (i.e. the boardwalk/ beach after dark, etc.)

2. You and your parents should discuss what a reasonable curfew should be during the summer. Although there is no school, you do have to be at work at a certain time so I would suggest

before summer vacation officially starts and discussing the following:

1. The very real and important need you have to relax and be with your friends in an unstructured environment. Along with this you can discuss together which are appropriate venues to be at with your friends, i.e. each other’s homes,

that you settle on one curfew for the week and one curfew for weekends.

3. If you and your friends are unexpectedly switching venues or you are going to be home later than expected, you should call your parents ahead of time and let them know. As a basis safety rule, your parents should have a general

You and your parents are both right and you both have very valid points.

idea of where you are and who you are spending time with.

4. You should clarify with your parents what chores/household responsibilities are expected of you during the summer and when during the week you will make sure to take care of those responsibilities.

5. You can possibly agree on a set number of evenings per week that you are going to be out of the house with your friends vs. a number of evenings that your parents would like you to be home at night. For example, maybe your parents will agree for you to go out after work on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday but would like you home on Thursdays to help prepare for Shabbos.

6. Any other topic along these lines that you feel are often sources of contention can definitely be brought up. In any relationship, having

open communication is the absolute best way to ensure that no unnecessary fighting takes place.

If you feel that you have an overall positive relationship with your parents, I would suggest discussing these items all together and reaching compromises together that you can all be happy with. I am sure if you tell your parents that you would like to minimize any fighting with them, they will be thrilled to work with you on this.

If you think that you and your parents are unable to have this conversation alone, you can always meet with someone and ask them to help all of you come up with an appropriate summer plan. This is something that we can always help you with at Madraigos as well. Wishing you a great and enjoyable summer vacation!

Sincerely,

Mindi Werblowsky, LCSW

Mindi Werblowsky, LCSW, is the clinical director of Madraigos.

What Would You Do If…

Moderated by Jennifer Mann, LCSW of The Navidaters

Dear Navidaters,

We were very impressed when we heard about Dovid*, an amazing yeshiva guy from what was supposed to be a great family. When he said yes to our daughter 2½ months ago, we barely looked into it because their reputation does proceed them and my son knows the boy. Looking back, this was a mistake. Our Chani is now wrapped up in a very difficult situation. She likes Dovid as a person but doesn’t want to marry him. Whenever we try ending it, the parents call us to try to do damage control. They want this shidduch to work and are going to all odds to make it happen. At this point, she has been open with Dovid and tells him how she feels, but then lines get blurred in between when things keep on going and she keeps trying based on his parents and the shadchan who’s insisting.

How can we unravel from this mess?

The Rebbetzin

Rebbetzin Faigie Horowitz, M.S.

You are the parents. You are right to take responsibility for ending the mess and stopping the pressure on Chani.

It would be a good idea to have a conversation with your daughter so that there is healthy growth from this experience. It might be easiest to ask her a series of questions to be clear about ending this smartly without further enmeshment.

Is Dovid a good marriage partner? Do you think continuing to date someone you know you are not marrying is a good idea? Do you think you are doing him a favor by continuing to date him? To whom do you owe most – yourself or the young man? Is this a place for chessed? Do you want to be subjected

to further pressure by him? His parents? The shadchan? Do you agree to end it yourself immediately even if it’s uncomfortable, or do you want us to help you cut the cord? Will you stick to this decision? Do you think it is smart to block the relevant phone numbers on your phone?

Your daughter will probably want your help because she realizes she responded to pressure. Call Dovid’s parents and carefully say your piece since the shadchan is not communicating honestly that it’s over. Be careful and prepare a script. Stick to it. Keep repeating it even if you sound like a broken record. Be gracious and don’t stay on the phone long. Just speak about the bottom line and keep the conversation short. Then call the shadchan and briefly say what you did. End of story.

Obviously, you are going to avoid suggestions made by that shadchan going forward. Learn from this experi-

ence. It is good that you and your husband recognize and take responsibility for not having done enough research beforehand. That is healthy and honest. Translate this into firm action and move on with wisdom and gratitude to the One Above.

The Shadchan

Michelle Mond

Thank you for your extremely important email. I am hearing that Chani has no interest in marrying Dovid, but she keeps going out as the other side keeps pushing it further. She likes him as a person but feels he’s not for her. I believe this situation highlights how vulnerable our singles are. On the one hand, they want to get married and be rid of their single status. On the other hand, they want to actually meet someone who is marriage material. What happens when a not so confident, more naive single is pushed further and further into a relationship? And what happens when this single has parents who are also unsure? Lines get crossed, boundaries get blurred, and eventually they feel that they are at the point of no return. Perhaps they confuse the excitement for being out of the shidduch parsha for excitement about marriage to the person. These are all very real feelings some singles have. Maybe they can’t verbalize it, but it is subconsciously very much there.

Your daughter seems to be an example of this cognitive dissonance. The reason you’ve let it flounder for so long is because it is truly very hard to say no to the prospect of being out of the parsha. The level of good it will feel to be out of the parsha? Well, it will feel that amount “bad” if you get wrapped up with a person you know deep down is wrong. Prolonging this is not good for anyone.

Now, how do you deal with the pressure cooker on the other side? You must just cut the cord with one snip. I know, it can be very hard to be assertive. Chani should end it with Dovid directly, so that he knows it’s over and there is no alternative. When the family calls you after, have a line that you stick to and repeat it

until you’re blue in the face. Say it levelheadedly and confidently. You and your daughter will grow from this experience, I assure you.

Much hatzlacha!

The Single

Tzipora Grodko

Dear Concerned parents,

It sounds like there aren’t any boundaries in place. No means no. If your daughter wants to end things, she should. Nobody can interfere with her choice unless she gives it away. If it’s too difficult for her to terminate the relationship in-person (because of getting swayed or feeling like her judgement is clouded), then I would recommend doing it over the phone.

You, your daughter, and your husband don’t need to justify your decision to other parties in order for it to be “good enough.” Just decide and commit. It’s much simpler to terminate a relationship earlier rather than later.

The Zaidy

Dr. Jeffrey Galler

Ihave two thoughts to share with you.

First: Beware Helicopter Parents and Snowplow Parents.

Most people are familiar with the term “Helicopter Parents,” who constantly hover over their children, insert themselves into their every activity, and micromanage every aspect of their children’s lives.

Besides being extremely annoying, these parents can actually be harmful to a child’s well-being. For example, highly competent teachers often find it difficult

Snowplow parents will not allow minor obstacles, like “I do not want to marry him,” stand in their way.

to do what they do best when parents are constantly interfering and questioning everything that they’re attempting to accomplish. And, these children never learn how to successfully deal with real life situations.

Now, there is a term for a new phenomenon, called “Snowplow Parents.” These parents constantly attempt to push obstacles out of their children’s paths. Anything that stands in the way of what they feel is best for their child must be bulldozed out of the way.

It sounds like Dovid’s snowplow parents believe that they have discovered a gem in your Chani and that their son is entitled to this gem.

Snowplow parents will not allow minor obstacles, like “I do not want to marry

him,” stand in their way.

So, this dilemma leads to:

Second: How to end it definitively.

The following advice does not just apply to shidduchim. There are many situations in life where we make a decision, and the other party, or parties, simply won’t take “no” for an answer.

For your every explanation, they have rebuttals. Every argument that you advance generates counterarguments. They will never accept your reasons, and you’ll be stuck in an endless stream of back-andforth conversations.

Here’s how to end it: Compose a simple, clear, irrefutable, declarative sentence, and then, no matter what the other persons say or ask, simply repeat that sen- tence.

Pulling It All Together

The Navidaters

Dating and Relationship Coaches and Therapists

Thank you for writing into the panel. It is clear that David’s parents have a specific agenda. They want Chani for their son. It is also clear that they don’t take “no” for an answer. What is unclear to me is whether or not you and Chani are clear in your boundary and agenda – that Chani is not interested in marrying Dovid, period. What is your understanding around Chani going back to Dovid and “trying”? If this is going to end, Chani is going to have to firmly say “no” and follow through. Going back to Dovid may be sending him a mixed signal.

Ultimately, it is not OK for Dovid and his parents to be pushing this hard and … why would anyone want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with him?

Chani seems to be acting “un - sure” of her decision, and until she stops going back, it seems as though Dovid is likely to continue pursuing her.

I recommend that Chani speak to a professional to help her create and keep clear and kind boundaries. And as for you, her parents, stay distantly polite and keep repeating the same mantra. “This isn’t going to work.” “There is nothing we can do.” “It’s up to the kids.” You don’t have to pick up the phone every time it rings. Offer your daughter professional help because she is the one who has to end this, officially.

Sincerely, Jennifer

Jennifer Mann, LCSW is a licensed psychotherapist and certified trauma healing life coach, as well as a dating and relationship coach working with individuals, couples, and families in private practice at 123 Maple Avenue in Cedarhurst, NY. To set up a consultation or to ask questions, please call 718-908-0512. Visit www.thenavidaters.com for more information. If you would like to submit a dating or relationship question to the panel anonymously, please email JenniferMannLCSW@ gmail.com. You can follow The Navidaters on FB and Instagram for dating and relationship advice.

For example, you may wish to say, “My daughter thinks that Dovid is a wonderful young man, but she does not feel that this is the right shidduch for her.”

And then, when they ask why, or why not, or what doesn’t she like about him, or what can he do differently, or can she give it some more time, resist the temptation to politely explain yourself.

Simply repeat, “My daughter thinks that Dovid is a wonderful young man but does not feel that this is the right shidduch for her.”

And then, when they enlist shadchanim, or local rabbis, or your neighbor’s sister-in-law to call you and try to change your mind, do not feel pressured to give your reasons and get stuck in an endless round of futile conversations.

Simply repeat, “My daughter thinks that Dovid is a wonderful young man but does not feel that this is the right shidduch for her.”

Eventually, they will give up and leave you alone.

(Now, if only I could convince those guys who keep calling me that I really mean “no” and do not want to buy an extended warranty on my car, or solar panels on my roof, or a lifetime guaranteed annuity…)

Perhaps they confuse the excitement for being out of the shidduch parsha for excitement about marriage to the person.

School of Thought

By Etti Siegel

Q:Dear Etti, I am dreading the end of school. It’s not what you think. I am excited to have my kids at home. I am looking forward to the less stressful summer schedule. But I dread the avalanche of stuff about to rain on my house! What am I supposed to do with all the papers and projects and notebooks and workbooks? Some of my kids want to throw everything away, but some like to keep everything. And I mean everything! What are the teachers thinking when they send all this home? Help!

-Buried in Projects and Paper

A:Dear Buried in Projects and Paper, Rebbeim and teachers work hard to impart knowledge and would love to share what they have taught all year. Students work hard to master material and do their work well and should be proud of their accomplishments. Parents pay tuition and should be happy to see what their children have learned. So what is wrong with this picture?

It is too much at one time! My advice is for teachers to send home material throughout the year and not send home everything at the end of the school year. Parents have trouble appreciating everything when it all comes home in one big “clear out your desk” moment. Children are not motivated to share because they are overwhelmed at the sheer amount of it all.

But what should you do if it is coming home in one big bag?

This is a dilemma many parents have. Parents want to honor their children’s work but also do not want to keep the many, many items that come home.

Having polled different parents who have the same struggles, here are ideas parents have shared:

• Put everything in a crate. Find time to “ooh” and “ahh” over everything. Choose a few special items and hang them on a bulletin board in the child’s room or in the playroom. Keep changing the displays.

• Buy a big plastic box with a cover. Name and date every item and put them in the box. This becomes a fun rainy-day activity; they get to look though the box and reminisce.

• Fill a bulletin board or closet door with items. When full, take a picture and print the collage. No need to keep the items anymore. The kids begin the new bulletin board or closet door collage. The children might choose to save an item or two that means a lot to them, and those items go in a large plastic storage box.

• Send the projects and sheets to grandparents, aunts, and uncles. They will then call the children up and compliment them, and you have no more guilt about throwing their things away!

• Make a yearbook with one of the photo book companies. Every child gets a yearbook of memories of the year, and the projects themselves can then be thrown away.

• Get clean, unused pizza boxes from your local pizzeria. Every child gets one box each year. The children can label the box, and then choose artifacts to keep, to remember the year best. Over time, you will have thin, labeled, contained, easy-to-store boxes for each of them to look through at their leisure.

• Have a long ribbon hanging in your children’s room or playroom to display the best artifacts of the week, month, or year. Keep them hanging with clothespins. Slowly replace them with new items and discard most of the old, keeping really special ones, or taking pictures of the child holding the really special pieces

before discarding. Another mom told me IKEA sells a wire with clips attached for this purpose.

Older grades have less artifacts to cherish, but those special notebooks or meaningful essays should have a place to go.

When the children are all grown, they get to take their box to their homes and share their childhood memories with their children.

Even children who struggled in school should be commended for their diligence and hard work. They stayed in a difficult place and worked there for 10 months! That is praiseworthy!

As an aside, I feel strongly that children should not be ripping their workbooks to shreds. A child spent a whole year filling in information into that notebook/ workbook, and we should respect that. Even if a workbook comes home and is ready for the recycling bin, perhaps placing it in a receptacle nicely shows respect for learning. Shredding is a fun activity and should be encouraged to promote healthy muscles but should be done with circulars and other non-learning items. There is a subliminal message of school negativity we impart when we allow the ripping and shredding with glee to occur. We want to be mindful of what values we are inculcating as our children grow. Some children will shred their workbooks on the way out of school. It is so disrespectful to their teachers and the institution of learning, even if the teacher allows it. Tell your children that you would like to see all the workbooks they used. Show that you care!

I wish you a fun time with each child as you admire all the work they can show you, and I hope the advice taken from other parents is helpful.

Enjoy your nachas, -Etti

Mrs. Etti Siegel holds an MS in Teaching and Learning/Educational Leadership and brings sound teaching advice to her audiences culled from her over 35 years of teaching and administrative experience. She is an Adjunct at the College of Mount Saint Vincent/Sara Shenirer. She is a coach and educational consultant for Catapult Learning, is a sought-after mentor and workshop presenter around the country, and a popular presenter for Sayan (a teacher-mentoring program), Hidden Sparks, and the Consortium of Jewish Day Schools. She is a frequent contributor to Hamechanech Magazine and The Journal for Jewish Day School leaders. She will be answering your education-based questions and writing articles weekly for The Jewish Home. Mrs. Siegel can be reached at ettisiegel@gmail.com.

Those special notebooks or meaningful essays should have a place to go.

Parenting Pearls

Summer is Here and It’s Time to Prepare For Camp

By Rabbi Dr. Dovid Fox

When the city gets hot and humid and yeshiva has wound to a halt for the summer, many young people and children look forward to the camp experience. We are blessed with exceptional summer camps with an atmosphere emphasizing the wholesome religious values and ideals which many families aim for at home, and when the program includes fun activities, socializing and learning experiences, camp can be a fine adjunct to supporting our children’s growth and development.

Each summer season, the Chai Lifeline offices and crisis line are busy responding to questions coming from parents as well as camp staff and directors. This article is a sketch of some of those concerns, as a proactive model for addressing your child’s needs should they arise.

Anxiety or “Homesick” Campers

not well or is not available. That can be remedied through staying in touch at an appropriate level and frequency.

2. Designate a familiar older friend, relative or staff member who will be your child’s go-to in case of need.

3. Express your love and encouragement prior to departure for camp while also being clear that you are excited that they will have an away-from-home fun time. Avoid giving the child mixed messages that might imply that you are not ready for them to be away.

4. Emphasize the value of treating others with respect, including teachers, camp rabbis and other adults who deserve courtesy and obedience from campers just as do their rebbeim and teachers in the city. Camp is a place for continuing our behavioral and personal standards, not for acting out and reckless misconduct. Clarify this with your camper.

Maturity: How

do

I

know if my child will do well away from home?

1. Explore this with your child in advance. Does he or she feel capable of living in a bunk with others and adhering to a rigorous camp schedule? Does your child socialize well and form friendships easily?

2. Outline with your child their responsibilities, their expectations, and yours, of being at camp, and help them determine if they are ready for some degree of independence. This includes pep talks about physical hygiene, responsible eating, risk avoidance, and protecting their possessions.

3. Discuss with your child the circumstances under which they might miss home or family and how they will address those feelings from far away.

1 . Explore with your child any worries or fears which they might share.

2. Determine if it is prudent to acquaint camp staff with any concerns which might surface at camp.

3. If your child or your family has experienced recent stresses or crisis situations, might this be affecting your child and should this be discussed in advance with camp staff?

4. Discuss with your child prior situations when they have been away from home and family and identify what has made these experiences positive during those times.

Safety at Camp

1. Discuss with your child the importance of boundaries, respecting other’s personal boundaries, and avoiding situations which might feel uncomfortable.

2. Many Jewish camps have undergone training of staff so that the safety and welfare of all campers will be monitored and adhered to responsibly. Reassure your child that they can contact you if they have any questions and can approach a responsible adult if they are uneasy.

3. Review with your child the family’s values and standards and ensure that they will at all times conduct themselves with others according to the same standards of modesty and honesty that is modeled at home.

Communication

1. When camps have the facilities to allow occasional phone calls to check in with parents i.e., before Shabbos, accommodate your child’s wish for contact and reassurance that all is well. At times, a child’s anxiety away from home is a result of worry that the family is

5. A word about bullying and about learning to accept new children whom one might not yet know should be communicated in advance.

The typical camp schedule is quite structured, including set wake up times, bedtimes, mealtimes, activities and outings, prayers, and educational programs. Adhering to the camp schedule can be very grounding and stabilizing for a child. Go over the program with your camper in advance and help them look forward to the experience.

Wishing you and them a summer of happiness, free of mishap and full of enjoyment within a Torah atmosphere.

Rabbi Dr. Dovid Fox is the director of Chai Lifeline Crisis Services.

Parenting Pearls

Tech Talk

By Sara Rayvych, MSEd

Despite the title, I will not be reviewing for you the latest phone or gaming device. It’s possible my last gaming experience may have been on the original Nintendo.

I recently received a series of text messages from another adult. I think it’s sufficient to say the messages were both aggressive and nasty. My husband tried to help me be dan l’kaf z’chus why someone would send such angry messages and I appreciated his help reframing her actions. I make it a point to not use examples or stories of people that will be able to identify themselves (or others), but I’m not that worried in this case. Besides the fact that she doesn’t actually read my articles, I truly don’t think she realized how hurtful and combative her words were.

I’ve been truly bothered by how someone who presumably tries to be thoughtful in speech could create such a threatening message and then press the “send” button. These are the actions of an adult who wasn’t raised with a cell phone in one hand and an email account in the other. Kal v’chomer, how carefully we must educate our children who are not yet mature in in-person interactions yet are already communicating with tech. Sadly, for many youngsters, electronics may be their main form of interaction with peers.

I’d like to preface this discussion by mentioning it’s my humble opinion that, despite the convenience and ease of electronic modes of communication, children and teens should not rely on them for communication. Our youth are still learning the basics of communication and how to navigate interpersonal relationships. They require in-person interactions to gain these crucial skills. Along with words, tone and body language are just two of the means we use to communicate with others – neither is learned through text or email. This is in addition to the reality that messaging encourages poor spelling, grammar and word usage (as the teacher in me laments).

Despite the potential downsides of communicating with technology, the world

at large is increasingly using these methods, and this, too, must be included in our chinuch. It’s routine to get information from healthcare providers, business colleagues and even shul updates electronically. As parents, we have the opportunity to educate our children in appropriate electronic communication usage when they’re young so they will be respectful and appropriate when they’re older.

Real Talk

Kids can usually talk to other children in-person or over the phone. When we had a question about homework, we picked up the archaic corded phone and dialed. If we wanted to arrange a playdate, we either did so when we saw our desired playmate or we gave them a ring.

There are many ways to speak to another person that don’t require text or email and, preferably, children should still avail themselves of these options. It’s easy to use technology, and there’s a time and place for it. But, we should still ensure our children are building real communication skills by enjoying real time with real people as much as possible.

The Power of the Edit

When I was in elementary school, I generally didn’t look over my written work (please don’t tell my teachers). I figured it was enough that I bothered to write the essay in the first place, I certainly didn’t want to trouble myself to read it again. Currently, I’m a “few” years older and enjoy writing articles for TJH readers each week. One crucial lesson I learned through this column is the importance of editing. Yes, TJH has a fabulous editing team, and there’s someone to catch my mistakes. But I like to submit a well written piece, and I don’t think any editing team wants to fix terrible or incoherent work.

When we send emails and text messages, we don’t have an editing team backing our work. Nobody is there to correct our spelling, grammar, or incorrect word usage or ensure we sound coherent. More importantly, there’s no one to double check

that we are speaking with derech eretz or that our true intent is coming across clearly and appropriately.

It’s a chessed to our children and all the individuals they will communicate with to make sure they know to read and reread any message before it’s sent. It’s an excellent idea to have someone else read the message before hitting the send button to give another look and make sure the intent is properly conveyed. The need for a second set of eyes is even more important when it comes to emotionally heavy topics.

It’s risky to send an important text or email when you’re sick, angry or in pain (physically or emotionally). While it’s completely appropriate to text your doctor for an appointment or a good friend to pick up something at the store, it would be a terrible idea to choose that time to discuss a thorny problem you had with someone’s child during carpool. Kids, too, need to be careful what they write when feeling uncomfortable or emotional.

Acronyms are very popular when communicating electronically. LOL, IYKWIM and TTYL are now common words, so common that my spellcheck recognized them. As clear as these many alphabet soup mini words may sound to some, they can be incomprehensible to others. Children need to be mindful that many people – especially adults – are unfamiliar with these phrases and may feel embarrassed to ask. It could also be deemed disrespectful to use when writing to a rebbi, morah or other authority figure.

Kids should not text or write words they wouldn’t say out loud. This applies both to things that are hurtful and to that which would be called “nivel peh” (dis-

gusting speech or curse words). Typing does not kasher it. Additionally, many acronyms contain a letter denoting a curse word; that, too, should not be written.

An Eye That Sees

We’re aware that Hashem constantly sees and hears what we do, but we can easily forget that the written word can be read again and again. Words said verbally can be very painful but words that are written don’t get erased and can cause pain repeatedly each time they are read.

While it’s hard for children and teens to recognize the future implications of their current actions, it’s imperative they understand that what they send now can come back to haunt them years later. There have been numerous cases of careers being ruined from old messages and social media posts. Words written years ago have been used to deny students admission to their school of choice as well as assist law enforcement during investigations. Thinking now before sending can prevent many problems later on.

Being a mensch is a full-time job and doesn’t end when technology begins. Teaching children appropriate communication skills provides lifelong benefits. May we and our children merit to use our words to heal and improve the lives of others.

Sara Rayvych, MSEd, has her master’s in general and special education. She has been homeschooling for over 10 years in Far Rockaway. She can be contacted at Rayvych Homeschool@gmail.com.

A Comprehensive Guide to Diet and Management

By Aliza Beer MS, RD, CDN

Small Intestinal Bacterial Overgrowth (SIBO) is a digestive disorder characterized by an abnormal increase in the population of bacteria in the small intestine. This condition can lead to various uncomfortable symptoms, such as bloating, abdominal pain, diarrhea, and malabsorption of nutrients. However, with proper management and an appropriate diet, individuals with SIBO can alleviate their symptoms and improve their overall health.

What is SIBO? The small intestine typically has a relatively low concentration of bacteria. However, in SIBO, an overgrowth of bacteria occurs in the small intestine, disturbing the normal digestive processes. This overgrowth can happen due to various factors, including impaired motility of the small intestine, anatomical abnormalities, or changes in the gut’s natural defense mechanisms. Certain medical conditions that may trigger or be associated with SIBO are hypothyroidism, cirrhosis of the liver, diabetes, celiac disease, Crohn’s dis-

ease, and IBS (irritable bowel syndrome). Risk factors that increase your risk of SIBO include old age, female gender, alcohol use, previous bowel surgery, and certain medications such as antibiotics.

The overgrowth of bacteria in the small intestine can interfere with the proper digestion and absorption of nutrients, leading to uncomfortable symptoms. The bacteria can ferment carbohydrates, producing excess gas and leading to bloating, abdominal pain, and altered bowel movements.

The primary goal of the SIBO diet is to reduce the intake of fermentable carbohydrates, which provide fuel for the overgrown bacteria. By limiting these carbohydrates, you can help reduce symptoms and create an environment less favorable for bacterial overgrowth.

Here are some key dietary recommendations

• Low FODMAP Diet

Certain foods can aggravate symp -

toms in individuals with SIBO. These may include high-FODMAP foods (e.g., onions, garlic, wheat), legumes, some fruits (e.g., apples, pears), and sweeteners like sorbitol and mannitol. It is essential to identify trigger foods and avoid them. Following a low fermentable carbohydrate diet, such as the Low FODMAP (fermentable oligosaccharides, disaccharides, monosaccharides, and polyols) diet, is often recommended for individuals with SIBO. This diet restricts specific carbohydrates that are prone to fermentation, such as lactose, fructose, certain fibers, and sugar alcohols. It focuses on reducing the intake of fermentable carbohydrates that can exacerbate symptoms. The Low FODMAP diet consists of three phases:

1. Elimination Phase : During this phase, high-FODMAP foods are restricted for a specific period, usually 2-6 weeks. Common high-FODMAP foods include onions, garlic, wheat, rye, certain fruits (e.g., apples, pears), certain

vegetables (e.g., cauliflower, asparagus), and legumes. However, it’s important to note that the diet should be followed under the guidance of a registered dietitian or healthcare professional to ensure nutritional adequacy.

2. Reintroduction Phase: After the elimination phase, individual FODMAP groups are gradually reintroduced one at a time, while closely monitoring symptoms. This helps identify specific FODMAPs that trigger symptoms in each person, allowing for a more personalized diet plan.

3. Maintenance Phase : In this phase, a personalized and less restrictive diet is developed based on the individual’s tolerance for specific FODMAP groups. This phase aims to achieve longterm symptom management while maintaining a balanced and varied diet.

Examples of Beneficial Foods/Meals: While the Low FODMAP diet restricts certain high-FODMAP foods, there are still plenty of delicious and nutritious

options available. Here are some examples of beneficial foods/meals for individuals with SIBO:

1. Proteins: Lean meats, poultry, fish, eggs, tofu, tempeh.

2. Grains: Gluten-free options like rice, quinoa, oats (if tolerated), and gluten-free bread and pasta.

3. Vegetables: Low-FODMAP options such as spinach, lettuce, zucchini, carrots, bell peppers, and green beans.

4. Fruits: Low-FODMAP fruits like strawberries, blueberries, oranges, grapes, and kiwi.

5. Dairy Alternatives: Lactose-free milk, almond milk, coconut milk, lactose-free yogurt.

6. Snacks: Rice cakes, gluten-free pretzels, low-FODMAP nuts (e.g., almonds), lactose-free cheese.

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Eat Small, Frequent Meals

Consuming smaller, more frequent meals instead of large meals can help ease the burden on the digestive system. Smaller meals promote better digestion and reduce the likelihood of triggering uncomfortable symptoms.

• Medication Therapy

In addition to dietary modifications, medication therapy may be used in conjunction with the Low FODMAP diet for

SIBO management. The most common medications prescribed include:

1. Antibiotics: Rifaximin is an antibiotic commonly used to treat SIBO. It targets the overgrown bacteria in the small intestine, reducing their numbers and alleviating symptoms.

2. Herbal Therapy: Herbal therapy

help restore a healthy balance in the gut microbiota. While the use of probiotics in SIBO is still debated, some strains, such as Lactobacillus and Bifidobacterium, may be beneficial. Prebiotics, on the other hand, are fibers that promote the growth of beneficial bacteria. In SIBO, the use of prebiotics should be

suspect you have SIBO, it is crucial to consult a physician to receive an accurate diagnosis and develop a personalized treatment plan that suits your needs. The Low FODMAP diet, along with medication therapy and herbal options, can be effective in managing SIBO symptoms. Working with a registered dietitian or healthcare professional specializing in gut health is crucial to tailor the diet to individual needs, ensure nutritional adequacy, and monitor progress. Each person with SIBO may have different triggers and tolerances. Working with a registered dietitian can help create an individualized plan appropriate for your specific needs and symptoms. SIBO management requires a comprehensive approach, addressing both diet and any necessary medications or herbal therapies for optimal results.

is an alternative approach that some individuals explore for SIBO management. Herbal antimicrobials may be used to help reduce bacterial overgrowth in the small intestine. Common herbal options include oregano oil, berberine, garlic extract, neem, and wormwood.

3. Probiotics and Prebiotics: Probiotics are beneficial bacteria that can

approached cautiously and under the guidance of a healthcare professional.

SIBO is a complex digestive disorder characterized by an overgrowth of bacteria in the small intestine. By adopting a carefully planned diet and lifestyle modifications, individuals with SIBO can effectively manage their symptoms and improve their quality of life. If you

Aliza Beer is a registered dietitian with a master’s degree in nutrition. She has a private practice in Cedarhurst, NY. Patients’ success has been featured on the Dr. Oz show. Aliza can be reached at alizabeer@gmail. com, and you can follow her on Instagram at @alizabeer

The overgrowth of bacteria in the small intestine can interfere with the proper digestion and absorption of nutrients, leading to uncomfortable symptoms.

The Legacy of Those Who Teach

By Mrs. Barbara Deutsch

On my husband Bob’s last day of school forever he wrote me this text as he was leaving. “Handed in my keys, ID badge, and parking tag, and finished cleaning out my locker. Also put my pocket Mincha/Maariv into sheimus.”

And so, after more than two years of reflection and COVID fallout, Bob bade a fond farewell to a bifurcated career in education.

When we were dating, Bob was the brooding writer who would one day accept an Academy Award for being a scriptwriter or at the very least a Pulitzer for his novel and hold the number one slot on The New York Times Bestseller list. All of these accolades worked for both of us.

We got married and he planned to go to a special writer’s program at San Francisco State College. Life was now going to be one big adventure. No more draft dodger yeshiva and the limitations of time not well served.

My mom used to often say, “A mensch tracht un got lacht; man plans and G-d laughs.”

Well, the joke certainly was on us since the student riots of the ‘60s in San Francisco shut down the schools and forestalled any plans of going to California.

Plan B, a scramble in late August, was to go to a newly created and innovative

combined Writing and English program that would lead into a PhD and a job as a college professor; we were on our way. We would live in the Village and Bob would go to NYU, and I would continue at Hunter, majoring in education.

That all worked as planned until first Hunter and then Brooklyn College’s positions were eliminated and Bob wound up ABD (all but dissertation) and with no position. And we never got to live in the Village because with no one making any money and both of us still in school, what were we thinking?

Then came the three children – best thing ever – and the 20 drought years in which Bob worked in the family business and I worked in yeshiva, middle and high school, education.

Bob refused to work anywhere but in higher education, and I did not even try convincing him.

Hashem does work mysteriously, and we often do not see His hand or understand His plan.

To keep his mind engaged, Bob started to work, after the store closed, in Adult Education. The federal government subsidized chassidim who enrolled to learn English by incentivizing them with free health insurance. Bob loved it and came

home with so many wonderful stories.

Bob also picked up a teaching period, before the store opened, at Flatbush Yeshivah in Brooklyn. So when the store closed, now with an understanding of how rewarding it could be to work with malleable willing teenagers (not!), he accepted a position at Ramaz and for the past 22 years has worked at DRS.

Watching from the sidelines his connection, understanding and compassion for his beloved students, I often regret those years lost to educating students while he was wasting his precious time selling jewelry. Yet, I think that that’s what made him appreciate his role as a teacher. And he is a great one!

One day, a while ago, we were walking on Central Ave when loud screaming and honking caught our attention. The car stopped and out poured a bunch of boys yelling, “Mr. Deutsch, Mr. Deutsch.” Two of the boys picked him up off the street, and the whole group carrying Bob sang and danced, holding him aloft.

Another time, on our way home from shul, we bumped into a young man dressed in a black suit, white shirt, tzitzis out, hat and carrying a large precarious pile of assorted holy books. “Mr. Deutsch, what have you been reading?”

Bob and his former student stood for over a half hour sharing thoughts on books they had both been enjoying.

Those images and so many more are forever burned into my memory.

Since his retirement announcement, Bob has received many platitudes and compliments including “my favorite teacher,” “best teacher,” “he cares about me,” “I love him.” One student even baked him a cake.

At a school tribute, a boy he didn’t even teach praised his accomplishments and listed his middot. Our grandson Elly, the only one he actually taught in DRS, told me, “Grandpa was my claim to fame.”

Despite counting the days to the very last day, Bob is melancholy and reflective. Though he came late to the education party, he will forever be in the hearts and minds of the students he has taught, known and loved.

That is the legacy of those who teach.

Barbara Deutsch is currently the associate principal at HANC 609 and a longtime reflective educator, parent, grandparent, and new great-grandparent. Even after all these years, she still loves what she does and looks forward to working with kids every single day.

Bob, center, with Rabbi Dovid Friedman and Rabbi Yisroel Kaminetsky

Let the Music Play On

By Miriam Liebermann, MSW

Music has always been an integral part of my life. I grew up with classical music. Sunday morning was opera time. I recall dusting the grooves in the dining room furniture – that was my designated job Sunday mornings – with La Traviata in the background. We had two relatively large pieces of furniture in either corner of our dining room. That was our stereo system. As a little girl, I truly believed that there were little people inside those boxes who created music for us. How far we’ve come since then!

My mother’s lullabies still echo in my heart and mind. I sang them to my children, and now, I sing them to the next generation. My father’s Shabbos zemiros were the highlight of my week. He sang with such gusto and feeling. I do the same.

I took 2-3 years of piano lessons as a young girl. Mrs. Bing, my teacher, actually quit on me. “This is a waste of money. Miriam’s not practicing. No reason to continue lessons.”

Mrs. Bing must have given me a good foundation during those few years. I continued playing on my own and never ever stopped. Thank you, Mrs. Bing!

Living on the West Side those years was a blessing. With so many young people opting to live in the city, I was able to connect with several musicians who had studied music seriously in their earlier lives, and so I dueted with violinists, cellists, flautists and pianists. We would perform at charity functions and thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. What a joy!

usually Abie Rotenberg’s songs. I’d play piano, we handed out song sheets, and sang away. Those were the days!

Moving to the Five Towns several years ago, I knew that I had to find new musical outlets. It’s a gift from Above that must be shared with others. I contacted the JCC in Cedarhurst. Thankfully, my dear cousin, Miriam Adler, and I

create the opportunity. And here is the opportunity to acknowledge and offer copious thanks to Debby Eizikowitz who has been providing a fabulous venue for years here in Lawrence.

Do you remember how we would sing our hearts out during our camp years? So many women have almost forgotten how to sing. It’s as if they’ve lost their voices. They are so timid and uncomfortable when it comes to singing in a group. Can we help them find their voices again? Do you sing in the shower? That’s a great place to practice! Yes, we can find those voices again! And we must!

Over the years, we would host music recitals in our home. We would invite both married and single individuals. Rather than call it a singles’ function, we referred to it as a musical recital, more comfortable all around. I recruited professionals to play. We would raise funds for a deserving charity – no shortage of those. Our children would perform,

have been leading monthly singalongs. Singing the classic Hebrew and Israeli songs along with Broadway show tunes, a grand time is had by all. Singing releases stress. Singing with others adds the social aspect that we all need so desperately.

As religious women, we don’t often have the opportunity to sing. We must

I just reconnected with a lovely woman who actually performed in my home many years ago. We’ll be getting together next week to duet together. I just went through my piles of music and am counting down the days till we get together. Thank YOU for the music! Hodu l’Hashem ki tov!

Keep singing!

As a little girl, I truly believed that there were little people inside those boxes who created music for us.

Fd for Thought Taquito

By Nati Burnside

Eli Dancour and his brother found themselves in a situation that many kosher restaurant patrons are familiar with – they were eating tacos that nobody would confuse with authentic Mexican cuisine. But unlike the rest of us, Dancour decided to do something about it.

“I’ve always been intrigued by Mexican cuisine,” said Dancour, the owner and chef at Taquito. “We’re surrounded by so much authentic Mexican cuisine that isn’t kosher… Why not open a place that is?”

After much research, Dancour opened Taquito.

Essentially the only authentic kosher Mexican food on the East Coast, Taquito isn’t much to look at. And that’s assuming you can find it in the first place. It’s a modest, two-story building with a rear entrance only accessible from a walkway to a parking lot. Let’s just say nobody is discovering this hidden gem without a treasure map.

But if you find your way through the door to the exposed brick interior, you’re in for a real treat. In fact, there’s so much greatness on the menu that I hope you’ll forgive me as I try to narrow down my suggestions.

When I was invited to Taquito, the first thing I tasted was the Nachos. Taquito has the advantage of being just two blocks from a tortilleria, and they make the most of it. Their chips are made fresh daily and then fried on site for unmatched texture. They are then topped with their Short Rib Chili, guacamole, and mango salsa. You’ll also get salsa roja and salsa verde on the side to add some heat if you’d like. The combination of both flavors and textures makes this item a must.

Though the nachos are filling, you really shouldn’t move on from the appetizers without ordering the Chicharrón Pollo. While classic chicharrón is made by frying pork rinds, Dancour decided to substitute the main ingredient with chicken. In order to replace the inherent

crunchiness, Taquito uses skin-on chunks of boneless chicken thigh. The texture is truly remarkable and has rightfully become one of their best sellers.

You can’t walk into Taquito and not order one, so my suggestion is the Potato Chorizo Taquito. This trio of rolled tortillas is stuffed with spicy sausage and potato for a bite that you don’t want to miss. But it’s the whole plate that’s the attraction. The taquitos come sandwiched between refried black bean paste on the bottom and a sunny-side up egg on top. Add on some pickled red onions, pico de gallo, and chipotle mayo, and you’ve got yourself a dish that will please both your taste buds and your eyes.

If you are going to Taquito to get something you can’t get anywhere else, the Short Rib Birria Tacos should be at the top of your list. Unlike the short rib tacos you might find at any number of kosher restaurants, birria tacos are very different. The birria filling is a stew made from meat, peppers, onions, and spices. But what really sets these tacos apart is that the taco is fried (prior to being filled) using the fat from the top of the stew. This kind of technique provides a real depth of flavor and unique texture compared to a standard taco.

If you’re looking for something that’s really filling (or you just want leftovers for another day), I might suggest the Mole Short Rib. Served on a bed of Spanish rice with a mound of pickled red onions, this dish is made with the sauce so ubiquitous that its name (mole) actually means “sauce” in Spanish. Certainly different from your standard Jewish recipe, Taquito’s mole is made of a blend of chilis, chocolate, cinnamon, and fruit. It’s a flavor profile that is almost never found on the fleishig side of the street, but tasting it might have you reconsidering whether that should change.

Taquito hopes to soon be open for lunch (they also plan to open outdoor seating), but there’s no plan at all for them

to be open for breakfast. With that being the case, you’ll just have to order their unbelievable Breakfast Burrito whenever you happen to walk in. Wrapped expertly with the egg surrounding the other ingredients, this burrito is filled with a chorizo hash, avocado, refried bean paste, and chipotle mayo. It might be a little spicy for some, but everything comes together nicely for a very filling burrito that will somehow have you totally satisfied but still wanting more.

While there are plenty of other items that warrant mention, you should know that you can order custom burritos or

burrito bowls. The choices for what goes in them is up to you and includes most of the main features of the menu itself, so feel free to invent your own combos as you wish.

As the options for kosher food continue to expand, let’s hope we get more restaurants like Taquito. Dancour made his decisions carefully, and it is paying off. Whether it’s not including fake cheese (he’s never been a fan) or deciding what drinks to carry (Mexican seltzers are available), Taquito is his vision of authentic kosher Mexican.

Go check out the view.

In The K tchen

Moscato Grape Juice Frosè

By Naomi Nachman

We can’t actually call this a recipe but rather a hack. You will absolutely love this! It only requires two simple ingredients and a blender.

This is the perfect summer fun drink for everyone in the family to enjoy. The recipe calls for the brand new grape juice by Tuscanini Foods using Moscato grapes rather than Concord grapes that are typically used in grape juice. You can enjoy it the grape juice straight up served chilled, or try it in this Moscato Frose.

Ingredients

◦ 1 package of frozen strawberries partially defrosted

◦ 1 bottle Moscato grape juice by Tuscanini Foods

Preparation

Blend the strawberries and grapes juice together in a Vitamix or strong blender. Enjoy immediately after blending.

Rose Sangria

This recipe is great for the adults at your party. Recipe from my cookbook Perfect Flavors.

Ingredients

◦ 1 (750 ml) bottle rose wine ◦ ½ orange, cut into wedges

◦ 1 green apple, diced ◦ 1 cup diced pineapple

◦ 6 sliced strawberries ◦ ¼ cup triple sec

Preparation

1. Combine all ingredients in a large pitcher.

2. Refrigerate overnight, allowing flavors to combine and develop.

3. Serve chilled.

featured in cookbooks, magazines as well as other media covering topics related to cuisine preparation and personal chefs. To obtain additional recipes, join The Aussie Gourmet on Facebook or visit Naomi’s blog. Naomi can be reached through her website, www.theaussiegourmet.com or at (516) 295-9669.

Naomi Nachman, the owner of The Aussie Gourmet, caters weekly and Shabbat/ Yom Tov meals for families and individuals within The Five Towns and neighboring communities, with a specialty in Pesach catering. Naomi is a contributing editor to this paper and also produces and hosts her own weekly radio show on the Nachum Segal Network stream called “A Table for Two with Naomi Nachman.” Naomi gives cooking presentations for organizations and private groups throughout the New York/New Jersey Metropolitan area. In addition, Naomi has been a guest host on the QVC TV network and has been

Optimizing Your Ad Spend Mind Y ur Business

This column features business insights from a recent “Mind Your Business with Yitzchok Saftlas” radio show. The weekly “Mind Your Business” show –broadcasting since 2015 – features interviews with Fortune 500 executives, business leaders and marketing gurus. Prominent guests include John Sculley, former CEO of Apple and Pepsi; Dick Schulze, founder and Chairman Emeritus of Best Buy; and Beth Comstock, former Vice Chair of GE; among over 400+ senior-level executives and business celebrities. Yitzchok Saftlas, president of Bottom Line Marketing Group, hosts the weekly “Mind Your Business” show, which airs at 10pm every Sunday night on 710 WOR and throughout America on the iHeartRadio Network.

On a previous 710 WOR “Mind Your Business” broadcast, Yitzchok Saftlas (YS) spoke with guest Beryl Trachtenberg (BT), founder and CEO of Elite Media Trax Inc.

YS: What is the difference between Google Ads and SEO (Search Engine Optimization)?

BT: At a basic level, Google Ads are those paid ads that show on the top of your search results, while SEO is the organic rankings. But a lot of people sort of blur the definition of the two. They both fall under the umbrella of Search Engine Marketing, where you’re basically marketing in order to get your listing to the top of the search engine results. Now, Google obviously offers precedence to Google Ads in the top three to five spaces of the results page. And if it’s a product search, there will actually be images shown as well. So, Google Ads gets you to the very top of the page, whereas SEO will get you the organic listing, which falls

right under that. SEO is really about telling Google that you are the best result for what people are searching for, which then gets you indexed in Google’s big filing cabinet, saying that this person matches that actual search term.

What advice would you give someone who’s getting started in digital marketing, specifically with Google Ads?

There really is no better lead you can get on the Internet than Google Ads when it comes to the search department.

It’s like you’re walking down the street, then somebody comes up to you and says, “Hey, I’m looking for the service that you provide,” you shake hands, and take it from there. It’s people expressing intent in real time. And you can connect with them and talk to them. Your ad should speak to the search term that they’re searching about, and then the landing page experience should bring them that same comfortability, where they feel like this company knows what I’m talking about, they know what I need. And then,

you lead them into the phone call, the form submission, or the online sale, where you’ll actually turn it into a profitable lead for yourself.

Does digital marketing make sense for someone running a B2B (Business To Business) campaign?

With B2B, the strategy is obviously different than with a B2C (Business To Consumer) campaign. With B2C, you’re focusing on product-related searches. There is very high intent and very high conversion rates. When you’re advertising for B2B, you’re focusing more on information. People need to know things, need to get informed, and Google is the go-to for search. They have a 90% market share. Obviously, there are other means on the internet where people can learn information, but when it comes to the main source for anyone learning about anything, people come to Google. And then, they research information about different companies, areas, and industries. That’s where B2B companies can connect with

them and place themselves as the thought leaders and innovators in that industry.

What’s the advantage of a business going to an agency, as opposed to trying to run Google Ads by themselves?

I get that question all the time. The first thing I do for clients, which is a very simple account optimization technique, but sadly, one that’s often overlooked, is I jump into their search term reports. This is where you can actually select keywords that people search to generate your ad, click on it, and come to your website. So, when you jump into a search term report, which is offered in the Google Ads platform, you can actually see the real search terms. So, for example, I had a very large law firm reach out to me and they asked, “Why do we need you? We’re doing a great job. We’re spending and we’re getting leads.” I said, “Great, let me take a look at your account and I’ll tell you if there’s anything I can do for you.” Again, the first thing I do is go into the search term reports. And I asked them,

“I see your advertising for attorney and legal related keywords. Do you offer these services?” They said, “No, we only offer other services.” So, I told them, “Well, half of your ad spend for the past six months has been going to services you don’t even provide.” Half of their ad spend was many thousands of dollars. These are the kinds of things that are very often overlooked.

Can you tell us a little more about what role keywords play in digital marketing?

Keywords are the actual pipeline. People overlook it. They think, “Let’s just select keywords and get started.” But keywords are the pipeline that brings water into your account. If your pipeline is not clean, and it’s not properly set up, you’re going to have wasted ad spend. There’s no question about it. Now, if you’re only spending a couple hundred dollars a month, then okay, what’s the big deal? 25% of that goes to waste. But when you’re spending tens of thousands of dollars a month on leads (and many companies live on leads from Google Ads), then you end up spending a lot of money on wasted keywords.

How can someone test the waters with Google Ads if they’re concerned about the expense?

It’s a big problem that comes with Google Ads. There are a lot of companies and people who are interested in advertising on Google, but they see it as a very large expense. Between the actual ad spend, hiring an agency, account setup fees, and management fees, you’re looking at tens of thousands of dollars before you can even really see if it works or not. What I tell people who don’t have that type of budget is that there are three main things that they need to learn about in order to test the waters and see if it’s for them. Number one is understanding keyword selection, the match types, how keywords match, etc. Number two is to also understand that there are your search term reports and your keywords. So, let’s say I’m advertising Nike sneakers, and I advertise for “Nike sneakers” as a phrase match. That can include any other words before or after the keyword. It will be “black Nike sneakers,” or “Nike sneakers for men.” So, what you want to do is, as you go along based on your keyword selection, look at your search term reports. Also make sure you’re hitting the right keywords and build on nega -

tive keywords from the negative keyword lists from your search term report. Number three is to understand that your ads matter. People think they should just throw their ad out there, take Google’s suggestions, and hope for the best. But really think about your ad. Think about what the person is searching. Think about the intent behind the search. And then, write an ad that captivates and leads a person to want to click on your ad and come to your website.

What should someone know if they’re considering running a digital marketing campaign with Bing?

I guess you could call Bing Google’s very little brother. It’s not completely

know about Facebook advertising?

Facebook is a whole different world of advertising. Google is about intent. It’s about real time, people are saying, “I want this, and I want it now,” and you can talk to them. Facebook is more about saying, “I have a message to deliver. I’m going to create an audience, and I’m going to use that audience to deliver my message. I am guessing that people who fall into a certain category of interests and affinities would be best suited for what I have to offer.” So, when it comes to Facebook, it’s audience related marketing. And it’s also what they call “disruptive marketing.” It’s not what I’m interested in right now. I’m on Facebook, I’m going through my feed, I’m messaging, I’m contacting, I’m watching, whatever

terms of a digital marketing campaign?

Remarketing, in most cases, is an integral part of any campaign you run. People don’t buy on the first click just like people don’t convert on the first introduction. If you shake somebody’s hand at a networking event, you’re not necessarily going to be doing business with them. You need to talk to them again. So, if a person comes to your website and then they leave, you need to continue the conversation. Remarketing gives you that capability where you can follow that person. It’s like if you ever looked up a pair of shoes on the Internet, and then they followed you around for the rest of your life, this is the ability to do that. When it’s annoying, it’s annoying. But when it works, it actually works very well. And people appreciate it when you can reconnect with them.

How does email marketing integrate with Google Ads?

forgotten about, and it still does play a part in most PPC (Pay Per Click) strategies. Bing’s platform is actually officially called Microsoft Ads, and they actually have a tool that will sync with your Google Ads account. So, if you’re running a campaign on Google Ads, you can connect that to your Microsoft Ads account, and you can just run those campaigns directly on Bing. Now, when you do that, you obviously want to make sure that all the data is imported properly, because sometimes there are kinks in the process. But Bing understands that they need to cater to and have a connection with Google Ads. You can’t import Microsoft Ads to Google Ads, because Google knows that’s not for them.

One aspect I will mention that Bing does have a slight advantage in is if you have a Microsoft powered computer. They are constantly pushing the Microsoft Edge browser on you, which pushes you into using Bing as your search engine. You get a lot of B2B traffic on Edge. So, you want to be on Microsoft Ads as well, because there is a larger market share when it comes to B2B campaigns.

Similarly, what does one need to

I’m doing, and you’re trying to tell me something. When it comes to Google, I’m interested in what you have to offer right now. Google is about relevance and intent, as opposed to Facebook, which just has that audience but you can actually deliver your message when you target the right person.

Is there a way of similarly disrupting someone’s feed with your message through Google Ads?

100%. Google actually made a switch a couple years ago, where they changed the name of their platform from “Google AdWords” to “Google Ads,” because everybody just associated Google advertising with Search Engine Marketing. But Google has a much larger network of media where you can advertise. Their entire display network covers millions of websites and apps. And most importantly, it covers YouTube, where most people go when they want to learn information visually. And that’s where Google has the opportunity for you to advertise your message to people as they’re learning.

What does “remarketing” mean, in

If you’re running Google Ads campaigns, and you want to make sure every single click works for you, you need to be sure that you have an excellent email marketing strategy in place. Especially in E-commerce, where people are just bombarded with ads and no shopper is just purchasing the first thing they see. They’re going to research and price check. No one’s buying on the first click. You need to get their email. Make sure that you have a strategy in place so that you have a very high conversion rate on your email form submission pop-up. Once you gather someone’s email, the marketing is free. And you can also have their profile in whatever email subscription tool you’re using and remarket to them with abandoned cart emails or browse abandonment emails.

Google is about relevance and intent, as opposed to Facebook, which just has that audience but you can actually deliver your message when you target the right person.

Notable Quotes

“Say What?!”

We’ve turned now where the censoriousness comes from the progressives. The only real way to deal with it is to not be scared, to not apologize when you’ve done nothing wrong, to not be scared of the mob and to stand your ground, stand by your convictions.

– Winston Marshall talking to Fox News about why he doesn’t regret standing up to liberals, even though it cost him his job as the lead guitar player for Mumford and Sons

If even half of it is true, he is toast. I mean, it’s a very detailed indictment, and it’s very, very damning.

– William Barr, former attorney general under Trump, talking about the indictment of his former boss, on Fox News

I was privileged to have worked with President Trump and his team in setting and implementing his Middle East policies and I am very proud of our historic achievements. I believe that it is in America’s best interests to strongly support Israel. No president has more strongly supported Israel than President Donald J. Trump, and I endorse him for President of the United States.

- Former U.S. Ambassador to Israel David Friedman tweeting his endorsement of Trump

9:45 AM at NWS Binghamton. Sun is no longer visible, everything’s orange, the parking lot lights have come on, and we’re stuck at 50°F.

- Tweet last Wednesday by the National Weather Service Binghamton, NY

New York and New Jersey are starting to look like the Tupperware after you put spaghetti with tomato sauce in it.

— Tweet by Growing Up Italian

What kind of message does this send – to everybody, to all victims of hate crime? Not just Jewish people but anyone who is a victim of a hate crime. … We’ll give you a slap on the wrist – it’s okay!

- Joseph Borgen, who was attacked by a mob because he was Jewish, at the sentencing this week of Waseem Awawdeh, who received 18 months in jail for the attack

Virtually everyone is saying that the Indictment is about Election Interference & should not have been brought, except Bill Barr, a “disgruntled former employee” & lazy Attorney General who was weak & totally ineffective. He doesn’t mean what he’s saying, it’s just MISINFORMATION. Barr’s doing it because he hates “TRUMP” for firing him. He was deathly afraid of the Radical Left when they said they would Impeach him. He knows the Indictment is Bull…. Turn off Fox News when that “Gutless Pig” is on!

- Trump, in response

Let’s make sure to recruit some male chauvinists for the next women’s rights initiative – and invite some butchers to National Vegetarian Day

- Professor Gil Troy commenting to JNS News Service about the Biden administration recently consulting with the Jew-hating Council of American-Islamic Relations about how to combat antisemitism

If we were to ask Kamala Harris what bothers her about the reform, she wouldn’t be able to name a single clause.

- Israel’s Foreign Minister Eli Cohen responding to Vice President Kamala Harris who spoke at an event at the Israeli embassy and spoke out against judicial reform

While his case will ultimately rise or fall on its merits, it is indisputable that Trump is being treated far more harshly than either Biden or Clinton were under very similar circumstances.

All three kept classified documents where and when they shouldn’t have.

Only one is being prosecuted.

All three ran for president, but only one had his campaign spied on by the FBI, an action later found to be unwarranted.

And only one was the victim of nonstop FBI leaks to the media alleging collusion with a foreign power that helped undermine his presidency, even though many of the leaks were found to be misinformation.

Does it matter that the one person subjected to these extreme measures by the government and media is a Republican, while the other two are Democrats?

Only a fool or a liar would deny the obvious.

- Michael Goodwin, NY Post

We must increase the protests and move into civil disobedience.

- Ehud Barak, former Israeli prime minister and leader of the anti-judicial reform movement, rallying the crowd at a rally last weekend

When [Ehud Barak] met 30 times with a pedophile in a place where dozens of minors were harmed, he thought he was not being seen. Now he openly calls for civil war, a coup d’état and violence. Human waste like him should have been behind bars a long time ago.

- Likud MK Nissim Vaturi, in

response

Breaking news... I have struggled with my weight for 20 years. What I haven’t struggled with is my character. I’ll put that up against Donald Trump’s any day. If that’s the best he’s got, then he’s lost his fastball.

- Chris Christie, responding to Trump making fun of his weight

The economy has changed radically. The problem with saying everybody has to work in the office is you won’t be able to hire the best talent. When we went out for financial services, people in our operating company, the best talent, told us, if I have to come into an office and sit in a cubicle and drive for 45 minutes each day into a war-torn city like San Francisco, which we were trying to hire in, I’m not doing it. I don’t want to get shot on my way to work. I mean, this is another problem. Safety in large cities like Chicago, San Francisco, you know, some parts of New York City, L.A. these days, nobody wants to work in these places. They’re war zones. So, they want to work where they get their jobs done.

- “Shark Tank” star Kevin O’Leary responding to those that are calling for remote work to end

The Rest of the World Doesn’t See China the Same Way We Do

By Fareed Zakaria

If you want a glimpse into the future, come to Berlin and walk down Kurfürstendamm, the bustling avenue often described as the city’s Champs-Élysées. At one of the most prominent corners sits a new car showroom unlike any I have ever seen: sleek, elegant, multistoried, with a cafe, design center, showrooms and more. As you enter, you see what looks like a Bugatti or a Ferrari, except more stylish. It’s an EP9, a top-of-the-line racecar that has been sold to a handful of customers for about $3 million each. The company behind it is Nio, one of China’s new carmakers, which is going to take the world by storm.

Ten years ago, China exported a relatively small number of cars. Today, it is the world’s leading exporter of automobiles, handily ousting Japan from that position. It is especially strong in electric vehicles Two of every three EVs made in the world are made in China. As we think about China’s weaknesses these days (and it has several), it is worth remembering China’s formidable strengths and the degree to which it is intertwined into the global economy. Nio’s cars are designed in Munich. It has research and development centers in San Jose and Oxford, England, as well as in Beijing and Shanghai. It assembles vehicles in Hefei, China.

Europe is an interesting place to think about China. I traveled to three European countries this week (Germany, Italy and Britain), and everywhere, the conversation turned to Washington’s policies toward China. Most of the political figures I spoke with were apprehensive. They were strongly behind the Biden administration’s policies toward Russia and credited President Biden with uniting the West and infusing it with strategic

clarity and purpose. They were far more worried about policy toward China and more generally about Biden’s new international economic policies, as outlined recently by national security adviser Jake Sullivan.

Former British prime minister Gordon Brown explained the European dilemma. “Europe needs an industrial policy, but it cannot afford to mimic the [Biden] administration’s protectionism,” he told me. “For Europe, trade is vital; its prosperity is dependent on trade with the rest of the world, including China, in a way that America’s is not. [Unlike America, Europe] imports energy and is not self-sufficient. Despite the surface agreement across the Atlantic, this could become a growing divide.”

He acknowledged that the Biden administration has made moves to expand trade ties, but he expressed concern that all of them are bilateral or regional efforts that might undercut global trade. They come, he said, “at the expense of

any real discussion of what a modern multilateralist order would look like.”

Helle Thorning-Schmidt, former prime minister of Denmark, concurred. “Europe cannot divorce itself from China,” she explained. “That would be the end of globalization. That is why we want to de-risk, not decouple.”

“De-risking ,” a term famously used by European Commission President Ursula von der Leyen, is the hottest buzzword in diplomacy these days. Even the Biden administration now says it also wants to de-risk rather than decouple. But many I spoke with in Europe said they worry that this is just a rhetorical change and that U.S. policies — and Chinese responses — will keeping moving the ratchet up.

When people in Washington hear these views, they often tend to dismiss Europe as too passive and pacifist, assuming that on China, the United States will have to build a new coalition with key Asian states such as India, Japan

and Vietnam. But even with these Asian countries, there will be limits. China is a close second to the United States as India’s top trade partner, and New Delhi is well aware that its future growth depends on maintaining a healthy economic relationship with the Middle Kingdom.

Kishore Mahbubani, the former Singaporean diplomat and author of “ The Asian 21st Century,” pointed out that discussions in the West often forget that the world’s growth is mostly coming from Asia . He used his own region as an example. In 2000, Japan’s economy was about eight times larger than Southeast Asia’s. In about three years, the Association of Southeast Asian Nations is projected to be the same size economically as Japan. The largest trade relationship in the world is between China and ASEAN — almost 1 $ trillion. And ASEAN countries cannot grow without open and vibrant trade, especially with China.

America’s strategic genius has always been to offer the world not a Pax Americana — designed simply to secure U.S. power and weaken its competitors — but rather a global system that was open, free and fair. “We all need a well-functioning and expanding global trading system and multilateral institutions that work,” Brown noted.

Mahbubani recalled that President Bill Clinton often described the need for stronger global institutions by explaining that they would indeed constrain America but also constrain the new rising powers in the world.

“We desperately need more of that enlightened self-interest from Washington these days,” Mahbubani said.

Pence Put America First When It Counted

By Marc A. Thiessen

If I could snap my fingers and magically make someone president, Mike Pence is the person I would put behind the Resolute Desk. He is one of the most decent and honorable men in U.S. politics. I never doubted that he would do the right thing on Jan. 6, 2021 – and I have no doubts that he would always do the right thing as commander in chief.

The question is: Can he survive his association with Donald Trump?

By that I don’t mean his four years of loyal service in the Trump-Pence administration, where he shares credit for all its many conservative achievements. Rather, I mean can Pence survive Trump’s disloyalty to him? In Trump’s dumpster fire of a CNN town hall last month, the former president continued his attacks on Pence, claiming that, as vice president, Pence could have overturned the “rigged” 2020 election. “He should have put the votes back to the state legislatures,” Trump declared. “It was a horrible thing for our country…. We would have had a different outcome.”

That is a lie. As Pence told me late last year in an interview for my podcast: “I did not possess the authority to unilaterally reject or return electoral votes that had been certified by all 50 states in the country. No vice president in American history had ever asserted that authority.” He added, “We did our duty that day” and “turned a day of tragedy into a triumph for freedom.”

Unfortunately, a significant number of Republican primary voters believe Trump’s lie, which has driven up Pence’s disapproval among Republicans. Fifty-seven percent of Republicans said they would not consider voting for him, a recent CBS News poll found. Many seem to think Pence betrayed Trump when actually it is Trump who betrayed Pence – and, even more important, betrayed his oath to the Constitution.

In announcing his candidacy on

Wednesday, Pence said that betrayal is disqualifying. “Anyone that puts themselves over the Constitution should never be president of the United States, and anyone who asks someone else to put

demand the same from those who would send them into battle?”

Pence’s super PAC puts things even more bluntly. “A president begging him to ignore the Constitution. A mob shout-

left repeatedly trampling on our Constitution, threatening to pack the court to dismantle the God-given rights that are enshrined there,” Pence said on Wednesday. “We must stand on the Constitution to protect the G-d-given right to life. We must stand on the Constitution to protect the right to keep and bear arms. We must stand for the Constitution to protect the right to live, to work, to worship according to the dictates of our faith and conscience.”

Pence blends fidelity to the Constitution with a sunny, Reaganite optimism. Indeed, when he swore his oath to uphold the Constitution as vice president, his hand was on the Reagan family Bible. As Pence likes to say, “I’m a conservative, but I’m not in a bad mood about it.” He is betting that that message – and his evangelical faith – will sell in Iowa. It’s a long shot: Both Trump and Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis hold double-digit leads in the Hawkeye State. But if Pence can pull out an upset in Iowa, then anything is possible.

When faced with a choice between his country and his own ambitions, Pence, unlike Trump, actually did put America first. “The American people must know the leaders in the Republican Party will keep our oath to support and defend the Constitution even when it’s not in our political interest to do so,” he said.

them over the Constitution should never be president of the United States again,” Pence declared. On Jan. 6, he continued, “President Trump … demanded I choose between him and our Constitution. Now, voters will be faced with the same choice.”

That is a bold challenge to Republican primary voters. Pence is effectively saying: If you choose Trump as your nominee, you are doing the opposite of what I did on Jan. 6 – you are picking Trump over the Constitution. “How can we ask our men and women in uniform,” he asked, “to support and defend the Constitution and not

ing for him to die. And an anxious nation watching for one man to do what’s right,” the narrator of a riveting new ad says over images of rioters storming the Capitol. “A weak man appeases a mob. A man of courage and character stands up to them. That day, one man failed the test of leadership – while another stood tall.” This is brutal – and effective.

Pence is making defense of the Constitution the core of not just his critique of Trump but also his attack on President Biden and the Democrats. “We’ve had enough of the Democrats and the radical

Will upholding his oath cost him his shot at a higher office in which he would capably serve? “That’s all in the hands of Republican primary voters,” he told me. “And I have great confidence that they’ll choose wisely in 2024.”

This much is certain: With his courage on Jan. 6, Mike Pence saved our democracy. He would make an outstanding president. He has nothing to lose by throwing his hat in the ring, because whatever happens in 2024, his place in American history is secure.

Many seem to think Pence betrayed Trump when actually it is Trump who betrayed Pence.

“Sportswashing” Atrocities, From Hitler To the Saudis

By Rafael Medoff

The Saudis’ takeover of the Professional Golfers’ Association of America (PGA) is just the latest in a series of attempts by dictators to use sports to divert attention from human rights abuses.

It’s been less than five years since Saudi government agents tortured and strangled dissident journalist Jamal Khashoggi in the Saudi consulate in Istanbul and dismembered his body with a bone-saw.

As part of a concerted effort to distract the international community from the Khashoggi murder—and Riyadh’s many other ongoing human rights violations— the Saudis have been using their wealth to buy their way into the sports world. They lured tennis stars to a tournament last year by offering an unprecedented $1 million to the winner, and they convinced Brazilian soccer star Ronaldo to play for a Saudi team by paying him $75 million annually, making him the highest-paid athlete in the world.

Now the Saudis have turned their attention to golf. Two years ago, PGA commissioner Jay Monahan denounced the Saudis’ creation of their own golf league, the LIV, as an unfair attempt “to buy the game of golf.” He alluded to Saudi Arabia’s connections to the 9/11 attacks, asserting that golfers who remained in the PGA would never have to be embarrassed about their association, while those who jumped to the LIV would find themselves “apologizing” for doing so.

Last week, however, the prospect of massive Saudi funding persuaded the PGA to become part of the Saudi league, and Monahan is saying the merger is “historic” and the Saudis are “visionaries.” For the Saudis, it’s a major victory in their campaign to whitewash their appalling human rights record by securing a respected place on the world stage.

The phenomenon now called “sportswashing” debuted nearly a century ago, at the 1936 Olympics in Berlin. Adolf Hitler exploited the games to dazzle the international community and distract from

his persecution of Germany’s Jews.

The Roosevelt administration had ample warning that the Nazis intended to use the games for propaganda purposes. The U.S. ambassador in Berlin, William Dodd, reported to Washington that the Nazis intended to use the Olympics “to rehabilitate and enhance the reputation of the ‘New Germany.’”

Foreigners will “have only the usual tourist contacts” and were likely to come away doubting the veracity of “the Jewish persecution which they have previously read [about] in their home papers,” Dodd predicted. The Hitler government had hired two thousand translators and was training them in the art of “parrying embarrassing questions and insinuating praise of Nationalism Socialism in their small talk,” the ambassador warned.

The Nazis were also careful to remove Der Sturmer and other antisemitic literature from the newsstands in Berlin shortly before foreign visitors began arriving in the summer of 1936. “Jews Not Wanted” signs that had been posted along major thoroughfares were taken down. Physical assaults on Jews were kept to a minimum

during the games.

Visiting journalists were duly impressed. The Los Angeles Times hailed the Hitler regime as “worthy hosts” who “put on a magnificent show.” The Berlin correspondent of the New York Times hailed Hitler for “a good job well done—almost without flaw” and predicted that the games would lead “to the undoubted improvement of world relations and general amiability.” What actually happened, of course, was exactly the opposite: the failure to confront Hitler paved the way for him to plunge the world into a Nazi bloodbath.

In the 1970s, Philippine dictator Ferdinand Marcos likewise used sports to counter the bad press he had been receiving because of his human rights abuses. He paid heavyweight boxers Muhammad Ali and Joe Frazier $4.5 million and $2.5 million, respectively, to fight in what became known as the “Thrilla in Manila.” The “whole purpose of the fight,” Sports Illustrated noted, was “to show that Manila was no longer an outlaw city, that foreign investment was secure, that martial rule, for all its connotations, was a cleansing instrument: Martial Law with a smile.”

The dictator certainly got his money’s worth. In the days leading up to the fight, Ali declared that Marcos was “a great man,” “humble,” “peaceful” and “loving,” who “will lead his people always with the best decisions… President Marcos knows how to solve the problems here better than we could.”

The apartheid regime in South Africa tried a similar strategy in the 1980s, spending lavishly to host international tennis events and boxing matches. The regime offered tennis stars John McEnroe and Bjorn Borg to play each other for what the Washington Post called the “gargantuan” sum of $1 million to the winner and $600,000 to the loser; Borg agreed, but McEnroe refused.

Many top boxers, including Muhammed Ali and Sugar Ray Leonard, refused to fight in South Africa. But other prominent fighters of that era, such as Greg Page and Mike Weaver, decided the money was more important than the cause. And famed boxing promoter Don King, one of the earliest supporters of the “Artists and Athletes Against Apartheid” group, jumped in with the apartheid regime when the price was right.

From Berlin to Riyadh, dictators can always find athletes who are prepared to turn a blind eye to atrocities if offered enough money. But the ultimate power rests with the fans: if they refuse to patronize events sponsored by murderous regimes and ostracize athletes who collaborate with them, it will become impossible for those regimes to continue exploiting sports for their unsavory purposes.

Dr. Medoff is founding director of The David S. Wyman Institute for Holocaust Studies and author of more than 20 books about Jewish history and the Holocaust. His latest is America and the Holocaust: A Documentary History, published by the Jewish Publication Society & University of Nebraska Press.

The 1936 Olympics were held in Nazi Germany

Israeli Medal Recipients

By Avi Heiligman

Medals and citations are awarded by militaries worldwide for exemplary actions both on and off the battlefield. Every country has its own criteria, and those awarded are often given other benefits such as monetary awards in addition to a medal. Israel has several awards; here are stories of a few of the well-deserving recipients.

Chaim Neveh was born in Budapest, Hungary, in 1933 and was being sent to Auschwitz when his mother pushed him to escape. He survived the rest of the war and made his way to Eretz Yisrael which was under the British Mandate. At the age of 20, in 1953, Neveh joined the IDF and two years later graduated from flight school. During the 1956 Sinai Campaign, he flew a P-51 Mustang and later transitioned to flying helicopters. Helicopters were a fairly new invention, and Israel was keen on acquiring the aircraft and training pilots to fly them operationally. Neveh became the operations officer with the 124 Squadron, which was the first Israeli helicopter squadron. The unit flew the Sikorsky S-58 that was mainly used for transport.

Under Neveh, the squadron was active during several operations and soon was fully coordinating training and missions with other units like the paratroopers. In 1966, Neveh was selected to command Squadron 114. It was called the Night Carrier Squadron and flew the more versatile Aérospatiale SA 321 Super Frelon heavy transport helicopter. During the Six Day War, Neveh led the squadron in operations to and from the front lines. These operations included

evacuation of wounded soldiers, transport of troops, and supplying those on the front lines. A year later, he flew on a dam-busting operation against Egypt and flew paratroopers to Beirut during a raid at the airport. For his actions and contributions in establishing the IAF’s helicopter units, Neveh was awarded the Medal of Distinguished Service.

The Israeli Medal of Courage was established in 1970 and is awarded for acts of gallantry during combat. Some recipients were given the medal retroactively, as was the case with Yishai Zimmerman for his actions during a raid against Egyptian positions in 1955. Zimmerman had joined the IDF in 1952 and was first assigned to a battalion in the Armored Corps. He then volunteered to join the ranks of Unit 101 which was formed in response to attacks coming from across the southern Israeli border. The unit was short-lived, and soon Zimmerman volunteered and accepted a position as an officer for the paratroopers.

Operation Volcano took place on the night of November 2, 1955. The Israeli victory was marred by six IDF soldiers that were killed in the raid. Zimmerman commanded a sub-unit sent to take over an Egyptian outpost but soon ran into stiff enemy resistance. The position was an Egyptian command post and included a mortar section. The raid soon ground to a halt as most of the officers and men were wounded and out of action. Zimmerman then became a one-man squad and assaulted the enemy’s position until the resistance was eliminated and the post was destroyed.

The next year, Zimmerman participated in the Sinai Campaign and later joined a paratrooper patrol unit. During the Six Day War, he was shot in the hand during an exercise with paratroopers during the Battle for Jerusalem. He was active during the 1973 Yom Kippur War as an officer in an anti-tank patrol unit that was sent to defeat the Egyptian troops near the Suez Canal.

Well after most soldiers retired from duty in the military, Zimmerman continued to serve. He was employed as a Merkava tank driver to transport the vehicles during campaigns as recently as Operation Protective Edge in 2014. He served with famous IDF personnel including Ariel Sharon and Meir Har-Zion and continued to serve in the IDF Reserves well into his 80s.

The Israeli equivalent of the Navy SEALs is the Shayetet 13 - Flotilla 13. Gadi Kroll was of the most decorated sailors to serve in the unit and received two medals. He joined the IDF in 1961 and went through rigorous training to become a naval special operator. During the Six Day War, Kroll was sent on a covert mission to a Syrian port, but the mission was aborted as the commander deemed it too risky. He commanded a squad during the Green Island in 1969 that was a part of the War of Attrition. Kroll threw a grenade against a gun position, and soon it was eliminated. Several other positions were taken out by Kroll, including a radar section that was a key part of the operation. He then helped the Israelis withdraw from the island by taking out several more enemy soldiers. For his actions during the raid, Kroll received the Medal

of Distinguished Service.

Kroll was awarded the Medal of Courage for actions during the Yom Kippur War. Egyptian Kumar missile ships were present in the Red Sea and blocking the Israelis from undertaking raids in the area. Teams from Shayetet 13 were sent out in rubber boats to take out the Kumars, but the Israelis had to turn around before engaging the enemy. Kroll and Dan Uziali were then sent out as a dive team to try and reach the targets. Another dive team failed to reach the boats, but Kroll and Uziali managed to penetrate the harbor despite grenades being thrown into the water. They tried placing magnetic mines on the belly of the boat but the mines didn’t stick. They then made their way to the propellers and stuck the mines on, which caused significant damage to the boat when the mines later exploded. For his actions during the seven-hour mission Kroll was awarded the Medal of Courage. Kroll was involved in several other operations and in 1977 became deputy commander of the flotilla.

The IDF historically hasn’t awarded as many medals as other countries have like the U.S., but when they do, it is clearly well deserved. The recipients’ stories may not always make headline news, making them Forgotten Heroes.

Avi Heiligman is a weekly contributor to The Jewish Home. He welcomes your comments and suggestions for future columns and can be reached at aviheiligman@gmail.com.

Israel's Medal of Distinguished Service

A Shayetet Flotilla 13

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Magnificent renovated 4 bedroom 3 bathroom in SD#15, new roof, windows, plumbing + electric, gas cooking, new marble bathrooms, marble kitchen with stainless steel appliances, LED lighting, security cameras and speakers throughout the home, custom closets, outdoor patio, 1 car garage, near all. OPEN HOUSE Sunday, June 18 • 12:00-2:00PM 331 PENINSULA BLVD. Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

CEDARHURST

Beautiful, Well-Maintained Colonial In The Heart Of Cedarhurst. 4 Bedroom, 2.5 Baths. Brand New Roof. Eat-In-Kitchen, Formal Living Room & Dining Room. Hardwood Floors Throughout. Low Taxes. Close To All Shopping, Transportation and many Houses of Worship. Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-2988457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

DON’T GET STUCK WITH A TWO STORY HOUSE YA KNOW, IT’S ONE STORY BEFORE YOU BUY IT BUT A SECOND STORY AFTER YOU OWN IT! Call Dov Herman

For An Accurate Unbiased Home Inspection Infrared - Termite Inspection Full Report All Included NYC 718-INSPECT Long Island 516-INSPECT www.nyinspect.com

BAYSWATER OPENHOUSE:

This Sunday from 10-3pm 1510 EGMONT PLACE

Beautiful 2 family house for sale by owner on beautiful block in Bayswater

First floor includes: 3 bedrooms, 1 kitchen, and 1 bathroom, living room and dining room

Second Floor Rental apartment includes: 3 bedrooms, 1 kitchen with washer dryer hookup, 1 bathroom, living room and dining room

Basement includes:

1 bedroom, kitchenette, laundry room, beautiful large den plus large Utility room with lots of closet space, On Cul-de-sac next to park, views of the bay, large backyard, Great rental income or can be remodeled to large 1 family New to market- motivated seller Or text 917-538-1164 for an appointment

WOODMERE

Welcome to this stunning residence situated on a tranquil residential street in Lawrence SD#15. This spacious and flawlessly maintained home boasts 4 to 5 bedrooms. Bright, airy living room with vaulted ceilings, skylights and wet bar. Central air conditioning, elegant quartz countertops, eat-in kitchen, formal dining room, main floor den with fireplace, master bedroom with bathroom snd dressing room, Jacuzzi tub, three other bedrooms and two full bathrooms. Inground sprinklers, lush landscaping, alarm system. Spacious playroom. Two-car garage. Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516298-8457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

WOODMERE

New to the market. 3 bedroom 2 full bathrooms with a full basement. Ranch home in the heart of Woodmere, SD#15, on a lot sized 90x118, gas heat, garage. Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

HOUSES FOR SALE HOUSES FOR SALE FOR RENT IN ISRAEL

CAN’T AFFORD YOUR PROPERTY TAXES? MORTGAGE?

Must sell for any reason? Call for FREE Consultation. Call now 212-470-3856 Cash buyers available!

WEST HEMPSTEAD

Introducing a stunning new construction home. Nestled in a picturesque neighborhood. Large windows, open-concept layout that merges the various living spaces. The expansive living room is bathed in natural light, thanks to the windows that offer great views of the surrounding area. Gourmet kitchen with top-of-the-line stainless steel appliances, sleek cabinetry, expansive center island with a breakfast bar. Ample counter space and a welldesigned layout. Wonderful dining area providing. Large glass doors, spacious patio. Luxurious master suite with a spacious bedroom, a lavish ensuite bathroom and a large walk-in closet. Additional bedrooms. High-end finishes, premium flooring, and custom details throughout. Call for pricing Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

WOODMERE

Spectacular 5 bedroom, 5 bath

renovated home in SD#14 with in-ground pool & pool house, lot size 111 x 107. Formal living room & dining room, magnificent kitchen with SS appliances, tremendous den with fireplace and 4 skylights, vaulted ceiling, LED lighting, master suite, new CAC, new roof. Outside totally redone with Stone and Stucco. Backyard with new pavers, park-like property, sandbox, great home for entertaining. Close to all.

Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457 mlipner@ bhhslaffey.com

WOODMERE

New to Market! Newly Renovated Balcony Split Located In The Heart of Woodmere! Spacious Layout

Featuring 6 Bedrooms & 3 Full Baths. This Stunning Home Has Everything

You Want. This Gorgeous Open Floor Plan, Offers New Roof, New Electric, New Plumbing, Gas Home. Don’t Miss This Opportunity For A Gracious, Airy, Open Layout. Close to All. A Must See!!! Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457

mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

HOUSES FOR SALE

NEW & LUXURIOUS

WOODMERE

OWNER

CEDARHURST HOUSE FOR SALE BY

In the heart of Cedarhurst

(Close to Woodmere , Lirr & Cedarhurst Park)

EIK Kosher Kitchen/ Dr/Lr/Family Room/ Playroom/ 4 Bedrooms, 3 Full Baths/ Basement: 2 Bedrooms, 1 Full Bath, Kitchenette, Separate Entrance

Asking $1.3m Whatsapp Text Only: 845-213-0002

No Brokers

LAWRENCE

New to the market Generously sized 1 bedroom 1.5 bathroom coop in an elevator building, with a 24 hour doorman, underground parking, double terrace, central air conditioning, washer/dryer and storage on the floor, eat-in-kitchen, living room and dining room, no steps into the building or to the apartment, minutes from shopping, park, transportation, and houses of worship. $479,000 Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International

516-298-8457

mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

WOODMERE

New to the market. 4 bedroom, center hall, colonial in SD#15, plus a full finished basement, 2 car garage. Gas, heat, central a/c, kitchen with stainless stell appliances. Granite countertops, formal living room and dining room, main floor den with fireplace, hardwood floors and so much more. OPEN HOUSE JUNE 11 • 12:00-2:00PM 749 ADDISON STREET

Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International

516-298-8457

mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

3 apartments all in one building on separate floors (every apartment 2BR

7BEDS) Jerusalem between Jaffa St. / Ha-nevi’im Street. Can accommodate 14 - 21 guests  - Sukkot Sept 26October 10 we can do all year round to get photos contact WhatsApp Avi @ +972504999910 www.StayInJerusalem.com

PLEASE no agents!!!!!

YERUSHALAIM SUMMER RENTAL: Amazing  location! Across the street from OsherAd supermarket/RavShefa Mall Just two blocks from Malchei Yisroel- Stunning and clean fully furnished apt. Just Two floors up, 3 beds, 2 Bathrooms, Large couch, spacious porch with table and chairs + hammock, Washer & dryer in Apt. fresh linen and towels included. Free high speed WiFi router in (and exclusive to) the apt! All for a great price-Weisssarahm@gmail.com 216-223-8853

Well maintained 1 Bedroom apartment. Elevator Building. Pet Friendly, SD#14, Corner Unit, Bright + Sunny, Hardwood Floors, Eat-in Kitchen, Full Bathroom, 3 Closets, 2 Ceiling Fans, 1 A/C Unit, Full Time Super on Premises. Minutes from the Railroad, Shopping, Houses of Worship, and Laundry Room on Premises. Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-$175K

HEWLETT

Totally renovated 1 and 2 Bedroom, Apartments with washer/dryer, kitchen with quartz countertops, stainless steel appliances. Recessed lighting, hardwood floors, storage in basement. Close to RR, shopping, and houses of worship. Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457

mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

Classifieds

APT./COOP/CONDO SALE

LAWRENCE

New to the market Jr. 4 apartment in an elevator building with a terrace and underground parking, laundry on premises. Kitchen with granite countertops, 2 sinks, ss appliances, spacious step down living room with high ceilings, guest room/ office, spacious primary bedroom with 3 closets, full bathroom with full vanity, medicine cabinet, toilet and lighting, custom blinds, near the railroad, shopping and houses of worship.$289K Mark Lipner Associate

Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

LAWRENCE

One Bedroom Renovated Apartment

In Prime Lawrence. Efficiency Kitchen, Renovated Bathroom. Sunken LR, Dining Room, Close to All, Transportation, Shopping, Worship. $275k Mark Lipner Associate

Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457 mlipner@ bhhslaffey.com

APT./COOP/CONDO SALE APT./COOP/CONDO SALE APT./COOP/CONDO SALE

LAWRENCE

Spacious 2BR, 2 Full Bath Apt with an enclosed terrace in the heart of Lawrence. Well maintained & manicured building. New hardwood floors, updated Eat-in Kitchen with gas stove. warming draw, dishwasher & microwave. New windows on the enclosed terrace & one of the bedrooms. 3 New A/C Units & New Refrigerator. Close to shopping, transportation, library, schools, and houses of worship. $339K 284 CENTRAL AVE B-5 Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-2988457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

HEWLETT

3 bedroom 2 bath co-op with central air conditioning, terrace, washer dryer, hardwood floors, recessed lighting, magnificent kitchens, ss appliances, l/r, d/r, close to the railroad, shopping, and houses of worship. $319k

1201 EAST BROADWAY H-23

Mark Lipner Associate Broker

Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

CEDARHURST

Rental Just listed 3 bedroom, 2 full bathroom apartment with spacious rooms, central air conditioning, underground parking, washer/dryer, hardwood floors, recessed lighting, kitchen with refrigerator , microwave, stove and dishwasher, minutes from shopping, transportation restaurants and houses of worship. Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-2988457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

LAWRENCE

Spacious 2BR, 2 Full Bath Apt with an enclosed terrace in the heart of Lawrence. Well maintained & manicured building. New hardwood floors, updated Eat-in Kitchen with gas stove. warming draw, dishwasher & microwave. New windows on the enclosed terrace & one of the bedrooms. 3 New A/C Units & New Refrigerator. Close to shopping, transportation, library, schools, and houses of worship. $339K Mark Lipner

Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

LAWRENCE JUST LISTED

This amazing two-bedroom two full bathroom condo Features a luxurious lifestyle in the beautiful city of Lawrence. What more could you ask for? The building has a 24-hour doorman and elevator access, with a social room, library, washer/dryer inside the unit, and terrace. Plus, the added benefit of having a live-in super to ensure maximum safety and security! And don’t forget about your new kitchen complete with a gas stove, refrigerator, microwave, and even two dishwashers! The living room and dining room are spacious and have recessed lighting installed throughout. Both bedrooms feature lots of closet space for storage. To top it off, there’s even garage parking available to make your life just that much easier! Don’t miss out on this incredible opportunity. Please call for a private showing Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-2988457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

APT./COOP/CONDO SALE

WOODMERE

Totally renovated bright and sunny 1 bedroom corner unit apartment with a washer/dryer. Features quartz countertops, ss appliances, recessed lighting, bathroom with chrome fixtures, close to the railroads, shopping and houses of worship.

Call for details Mark Lipner Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457 mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

CEDARHURST

1, 2 and 3 bedroom apartments, totally renovated private entrance , central air conditioning, hardwood floors, washer/dryer, garage parking, dishwasher, recessed lighting, private playground, close to railroad, park, shopping and houses of worship.

Call for more details

Mark Lipner Associate Broker

Berkshire Hathaway Laffey International 516-298-8457  mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

HELP WANTED APT./COOP/CONDO SALE

HEWLETT

Spacious and Sundrenched 1st Floor 2 Bedroom, 2 Full Bath Unit In The Incredibly Maintained Garden Town. Updated kitchen with Granite Countertops and Gleaming Hardwood

Floors Throughout With A Private Washer/Dryer. Best Views from Every Window And The Large Terrace

Facing The Beautifully Landscaped Courtyard. Indoor Parking Available As Well And An I Adjacent Municipal Lot. Convenient To The LIRR, Shops & Restaurants. Maintenance includes all your taxes, heat and water. No more shoveling or gardening for you reduced to $185k Mark Lipner

Associate Broker Berkshire Hathaway

Laffey International 516-298-8457

mlipner@bhhslaffey.com

JOIN OUR TEAM!

ABA company located in the 5 Towns looking to fill multiple full-time administrative positions

Knowledge of Central Reach a plus, but will train the right candidate Great work environment

Call 516-670-5374 or Email your resume to:

Careers@supportivecareaba.com

BOOKKEEPER

Excellent growth potential, Frum environment, Excellent salary & benefits. Email resume to: resumetfs1@gmail.com

HELP WANTED

DELIVERY PERSON NEEDED to deliver Newspaper every Thursday morning to locations in Brooklyn. Must have Minivan or SUV and availability to work consistently every week! Please e-mail gabe@fivetownsjewishhome.com or call (917) 299-8082

REBBEIM

TEACHERS & ASSISTANTS

CAHAL is hiring Special Ed Rebbeim, Teachers and Assistant Teachers for 2023-24 school year. AM or PM, FT or PT. E-mail resume to shira@cahal.org or call 516-295-3666 for information.

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HELP WANTED

MDS REGIONAL NURSE

5 Towns area Nursing Home management office seeking a Regional/Corporate level MDS Nurse to work in our office. Must be an RN. Regional experience preferred. 2-3 years MDS experience with good computer skills required. Position is Full Time but Part Time can be considered. Great Shomer Shabbos environment with some remote options as well. Email: officejob2019@gmail.com

A YESHIVA IN QUEENS

is looking for an experienced part/ full time secretary, 2-year-old morah, kindergarten morah, kindergarten morah assistant and Pre-1A English teacher for the 2022-2023 school year. Nice and timely pay. Please email resume to mshelt613@gmail.com or call/text 718-971-9799.

HELP WANTED

DEVELOPMENT ASSISTANT

A multi-tasker needed for general office work. The ideal candidate is someone who is detail-oriented, responsible, and can take ownership. Looking for someone who is eager to learn, and expand his/her skill set while possessing the ability to work independently and as part of a team. Experience with Excel required. Five Towns location. In-office position only, not remote. Please send resume to 5tpart.timecareer@gmail.com

IMMEDIATE OPENING

ELA teaching position for Gr. 5. Mon.-Thurs., afternoon hours. Far Rockaway/5T area. Competitive salary, warm supportive environment. Teachersearch11@gmail.com

HELP WANTED

SEEKING ELA TEACHER

Immediate opening. ELA teaching position for Gr. 5. Mon.-Thurs., afternoon hours. Far Rockaway/5T area. Competitive salary, warm, supportive environment. All teaching materials provided. Teachersearch11@gmail.com.

SHEVACH HIGH SCHOOL

in Queens seeks Executive Assistant with extensive experience to work directly with the Principal.  Applicants should have excellent communication skills, both written and verbal, and proficiency in Microsoft Office (Word, Outlook, Excel), Google Docs, among others. Please submit resume to rwittenstein@shevachhs.org

5 TOWNS BOYS YESHIVA

Seeking Elem Gen Ed Teachers

Excellent working environment and pay. Only lic/exp need apply. Email resume to yeshivalooking@gmail.com

MISC.

SHEVACH HIGH SCHOOL

in Queens is seeking dynamic teachers for the 2023-2024 school year in the General Studies department in English, Maths, and Sciences, some positions will require Masters’ degrees (positions are all in the afternoon). There are a limited number of openings in the Limudei Kodesh department. Salary commensurate with experience. Resumes welcome. Please send resumes to rwittenstein@shevachhs.org

GIRLS’ HIGH SCHOOL IN QUEENS seeks a full time, experienced clinician (school psychologist, LCSW, LMHC, etc.) to work in conjunction with current school psychologist. Salary commensurate with experience. Please send resumes to rwittenstein@shevachhs.org

HELP WANTED

NECHAMA IS A HIGH FUNCTIONING

24 Year Old Female that lives in Far Rockaway near Dinsmore Ave, who has experience working with children, is looking for a frum young mother, who lives in Far Rockaway area to provide Com Hab and/or Respite Services for her, in order for this individual to learn how to manage a household i.e., learning cooking skills, organizational skills etc… This individual is available from 4:30 pm to 6:30 pm Monday through Thursday, including Sundays. Please email to jobs@hcsny.org

MOTEK SPA

Growing business is seeking to hire a hairstylist immediately.  Candidate should know how to work with updos, highlights, haircuts, hair treatments, etc…

*Must have a cosmetology license* Please contact us at (347)-206-2487  187-20 Union Tpke Queens, NY 11366

HELP WANTED HELP WANTED HELP WANTED

ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT

for a local school looking to hire a capable person whose job responsibilities include data entry, database management, assisting the administrator in his daily tasks.   Candidates must be detailoriented, organized, and have the ability to multi-task.  Prefer full-time but would consider part-time for the right individual. Proficiency in Microsoft Office required. Enjoyable working environment, personal, sick, vacation days offered, Yom Tovim and certain legal holidays off. Salary commensurate with experience. Please email resume to admin@ shoryoshuv.org

SECURITY CENTER PROJECT MANAGER

Frum nonprofit seeks highly organized individual with strong communication skills to manage multiple projects by interfacing with organizations and state agencies. Must take initiative, work well independently and on a team, and think creatively with a problemsolver mentality. F/T position in Lower Manhattan. Email resumes to RybsteinR@ou.org.

SECURITY CENTER GRANT WRITER

Frum nonprofit seeks strong writer with excellent communication and analytical skills to develop security grant applications for yeshivas, shuls, and camps. Must be detail oriented and demonstrate understanding of government contracting requirements to meet tight deadlines. F/T position in Lower Manhattan. Email resumes to RybsteinR@ou.org.

8TH GRADE MATH & SCIENCE TEACHERS

at Yeshiva Darchei Torah Middle School is seeking to hire teachers. We offer an excellent working environment and salary; MondayThursday, 2:30-5:30 PM.  Interviews are being held now.  Candidates should have prior teaching experience.  Please send resume to mhorowitz@darchei.org

MISC.

SHMIRAS HALASHON

Text 516-303-3868 with a time slot of your choice to be careful on lashon hara. Be a part of the 1,000 people for klal yisroel!

Dealing with bureaucracy is rarely easy and never fun. Back in the 1980s, future NBA Hall of Famer Karl Malone earned the nickname “the Mailman” because he delivered Today, that would be a cruel joke. But nobody in government is as hard to deal with as the IRS. Erin Collins, the National Taxpayer Advocate, reports that for all of 2021, the IRS logged 272 million incoming phone calls, with just 11% of them reaching the bullseye of a living, breathing human being.

Last year, Washington passed an “Inflation Reduction Act” that included $80 billion in new spending for the chronically underfunded IRS. The desperately needed funding didn’t play well with a group of anti-tax politicians who are accustomed to using the IRS as a punching bag. One senator took to Twitter to shriek that the act would “double the number of IRS agents – practically giving every American a personalized tax auditor.” Another tweeted threats of “a shadow army of 87,000 new IRS agents to hunt you down and take your money!” Across the Capitol in the House, a third asserted a “new army of 87,000 IRS agents will be coming for you – with 710,000 new audits for Americans who earn less than $75K.”

What’s Tax Got to Do With It?

By Allan Rolnick, CPA

As is usually the case with Twitter’s outrage du jour, the truth is somewhat less dramatic. Last May, the Treasury estimated that an extra $80 billion would help the Service hire 86,582 new full-time equivalents by the end of 2031. Now, if those hires were going on top

tually appropriate those dollars – usually one of those predictably desperate 11th-hour bids to avoid a government shutdown. As we said here in August, “We can be sure that future congresses and presidents will want their own say on IRS spending.”

repurpose $20 billion of the additional 2030 and 2031 appropriations for “other non-defense priorities.”

The bottom line here is that opponents of IRS funding got themselves a symbolic scalp. However, the Biden administration says it won’t torpedo nearterm plans to boost audits and compliance. As for the “out years” 2030 and 2031, the earth could get hit by a comet before those cuts ever materialize. (Some people are actually rooting for it.)

of the 80,411 already working for the Service at the end of 2021, that would be something! But 50,000 of those current employees are expected to retire in the next five years. So most of the new spending will go towards keeping current staffing stable.

But wait . . . there’s more. Last August, when the IRA passed, we pointed out there was no guarantee the IRS would even get the money. The Act authorized it. But it’s up to future Congresses to ac -

Less than ten months later, that day has come. Last week, in a predictably desperate 11th-hour bid to avoid a government shutdown, Washington passed the “Fiscal Responsibility Act” suspending the federal debt limit through January 2025. That act claws back $1.4 billion of this year’s new funding. (IRS officials can cut it from anywhere in their budget except the $8 billion allocated to taxpayer service and systems modernization.) It also includes a “handshake agreement” to

Here’s the moral of this week’s story. Uncle Sam needs money to operate. Reasonable people can certainly disagree on how much he needs and where he should find it. But once legislators make those decisions, somebody has to go out and actually collect it for him. And saddling taxpayers with our current creaky IRS infrastructure adds insult to injury and wastes even more money in the process. (Also, if you ever get trapped in that sticky red tape yourself, you’ll be glad you’ve got us on your side!)

Allan J Rolnick is a CPA who has been in practice for over 30 years in Queens, NY. He welcomes your comments and can be reached at 718-896-8715 or at allanjrcpa@aol.com.

Across the Capitol in the House, a third asserted a “new army of 87,000 IRS agents will be coming for you – with 710,000 new audits for Americans who earn less than $75K.”