FAMILY
A S U C C E S S F U L M A R R I A G E I S B A S E D O N M A N Y T H I N G S — love, honor, respect, loyalty. But
like any fluid, living
thing, marriage must be cultivated, nurtured, and tended to; it mustn’t be ignored or left alone to try to flourish. When histories, egos, and personalities unite as one, there is much to learn. Here are a few topics to consider:
Keep communication open and dialogue welcome. Own your feelings and speak your truth but do so in a calm, practical, problem-solving way … use “I feel” and “I heard” as opposed to phrases such as “You always” or “Why can’t you?” This can come off as accusatory simply by the words you choose, so choose wisely.
Transparency is key. Professionalism with work colleagues is paramount, and open communication is critical here as well. Intimate settings are often necessary in business, but let your spouse know if there are one-on-one meetings with colleagues of the opposite sex. Then choose to meet in an open environment such as the office or lunch with a group.
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