What ar e to w NOW By Emma Reed, Styling you well Night sweats, hot flushes, a bloated stomach, expanding waistline, diminishing confidence and low energy levels are just some of the symptoms we have to deal with during perimenopause and menopause. I’m in the throes of menopause myself and experiencing all of the above symptoms and more. As a personal stylist, I feel pressure to look the part and want to dress well to represent my personal brand. However, lately, my weight has ballooned and I’m two stone heavier and a dress size up from my norm. The impact of this on my wardrobe is that I can only fit into a few items, vastly limiting my outfit options. This is a problem I’ve seen many times over the years working with mid-life menopausal women, struggling with confidence and what to wear. So often their default wardrobe becomes mostly black and oversized items. The thinking behind this go-to style for midlife women is that oversized hides body shape and black blends, rather than standing out. However, what really happens is that oversized styles add volume whilst eliminating shape. Wearing only black can add to a low mood and make us feel unseen.
Sort out your wardrobe One solution I’ve found that helps is separating the clothes you can still wear from those you can’t, to make it easier and quicker to plan your outfits. If you have the space, I suggest putting the ‘can’t wear’ clothes in another wardrobe or box them up and store them, for now. I am optimistic this weight gain isn’t permanent and feel hopeful my boxed up items will see the light of day again once I’ve got ‘control’ of my menopause….
The Flat Lay Method to create outfits
The next step is finding ways to create more outfits with your ‘new’ smaller capsule wardrobe, by mixing them together differently. A fun and effective way to do this is using the flat lay method. Lay the items on the floor arranged as an outfit, including shoes and bags. Take a photo of this look, and mentally label it outfit number one. Now create five more looks using the same base pieces and only changing up the top or bottom half of the outfit, or if it’s a dress, style up new looks using different shoes and accessories. Then move on to the next outfit idea with the same approach.
Accessorising your looks Using shoes and accessories is a great way to mix up looks and add personality to your outfits. If you don’t have many accessories to choose from, create your flat lays using the items you do have and take photos of each outfit you create. Then write a wish list of the accessories you would like to add. This is more costeffective and planet-friendly than buying more clothes. Size is not relevant for accessories except for belts - which makes it a longer-lasting investment should your dress size change
